Abortion

[BABY J]

lol this thread was intended for peoples opinions.. not to point out where you thing im wrong.. so thank you wayner and baby j..

Pointing out that I THINK that you are wrong IS my opinion.

...why not go to an agency that INTERVIEWS potential parents and actually goes to the home and observes the lifestyle of the applicants.. yall we are not stuck in 1970's where any bob, joe or nancy can adopt a child.. its a process.. months and months go into seeking the perfect family for each child (in most cases) yea who knows.. something could happen and it not be a good family..

See. You are an example of some1 who LOVES what things look like ON PAPER, but have a problem seeing REALITY in America!!!! THE SYSTEM IS BROKE!!!! ARE YOU LISTENING??? Would you like me to post the odds for a kid who is NOT an infant getting adopted? Do you want to see the NUMBERS of adoptees that have to be removed from the SAME homes of the people that shined in the interview? Don't YOU wear "your good shoes" when YOU interview for a job?? And when you get home you kick 'em off and never see then again until you NEED them right?

PLEASE tell me how foster home to foster home is a better life. I am simply one of those people who uses my BRAIN and WILL make those tough decisions. If I knew my dog ( I don't have a dog) was gonna get hit by a car and die tomorrow at noon, I'd "take him for a ride" w/ me and the shotgun today. That's just me. I would bear that cross of burden before letting my dog have to "live" w/ what may happen tomorrow under the wheel of some beer truck.

but IMO if i were addicted to any form of drugs.. or what have you and i delievered a child knowing i couldnt care for it i would want it to go to a good home.. where it was almost guarenteed a warm place to sleep and at least 3 meals a day..

Who is to say that said drug addiction is gonna produce a kid w/ underdeveloped brain or no motor functions? I can go on. In your example what have you done NOW??

i hate knowing there are children stuck in foster homes.. that kills me.. no child should ever have to be put through that.. but if you know damn good and well that you can not provide for that child the best way you can.. then please for the love of god.. give them a chance at a better life..

Some of them have the best life ever. But most do not. What you are not understanding that "providing the best you can" makes YOU feel good. EVERY project mom in Compton feels self-assured knowing that they are doing "the best they can." But what u are not realizing is, that when kids are brought into the world under these pretenses that "the best you can" may not cut it FOR THE KID.

It's like people who make excuses about shit. An excuse ONLY WORKS FOR THE PERSON WHO IS GIVING IT! IT DOES NOT HELP THE OTHER PERSON!!! "Well Baby J, sorry your car won't be ready as promised... we are understaffed." That guy drives HIS car home to his wife and kids and feels good about his day, expecting me to "understand" his excuse... where I may be WALKING to work and no means to get my kid to the daycare.

[ShooterMcGavin]

It's like people who make excuses about shit. An excuse ONLY WORKS FOR THE PERSON WHO IS GIVING IT! IT DOES NOT HELP THE OTHER PERSON!!! "Well Baby J, sorry your car won't be ready as promised... we are understaffed." That guy drives HIS car home to his wife and kids and feels good about his day, expecting me to "understand" his excuse... where I may be WALKING to work and no means to get my kid to the daycare.

best goddamn analogy i've heard about anything in a while, mad props, would +1 again but i already did