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Certain Circumstances
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Would that be planned or unplanned?????Originally Posted by BABY J
Damn!! Now I wanna marry you too! Me you and ADMIN can get married! And then we can have some kids. LMAO!!!! + 98BAJILLION for you too!
Besides, Paul doesn't want any because he's afraid I'd baptise him and teach him about the Bible......
not at allI know you didn't expect anything less, did you?????
Val for President
if we got married we'd be muslim and you'd walk 2 steps behind me jaimeWould that be planned or unplanned?????
Besides, Paul doesn't want any because he's afraid I'd baptise him and teach him about the Bible......
don't make wayne brady choke a bitch!
LOL
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
Actually, that would probably be true because IF I was married to you.....I wouldn't want you anywhere near anything BEHIND me......if we got married we'd be muslim and you'd walk 2 steps behind me jaime
how'd and where did i bring marriage into it? :confused: and in no way did i say that if someone is immature they will have sex before marriage, that has nothing to do with it. i was simply stating, from where u said that those that are immature ought not to be having sex, that the chances are good that if they're immature and can't handle the consequences that sex brings, they're also probably immature to the point where they won't consider even consider that anyway.
I'd want an abortion under these circumstances...
-I was really ugly.
-I found out my kid was going to come out with palsy, down syndrome, or austism.
heres a quote of yours from post #30
thats where you brought marriage into it
thats where i misunderstood whatn you typedand in no way did i say that if someone is immature they will have sex before marriage, that has nothing to do with it.
consider getting pregnant?i was simply stating, from where u said that those that are immature ought not to be having sex, that the chances are good that if they're immature and can't handle the consequences that sex brings, they're also probably immature to the point where they won't consider even consider that anyway.
Val for President
i stand corrected, although i think i meant to just put something in there to demonstrate that they're too young to have sex AND think of the consequences.
yes
thats my point if they are too immature to understand that you can get pregnant they should not be having sex, they should go to sex ed
Val for President
dammit dude, ur not understanding me. if they are too immature to understand the consequences, CHANCES ARE, they're also too immature to care about being abstinent.
its about fucking time you stopped beating around the bish and actually said what you meant
but ok then they should just be removed from the gene pool and save us all money
Val for President
He said that... LONG time ago. Yall are just missing each other.
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
yea i guessed that
Val for President
could not agree more
paul, if it comes to the point where i'm ready for kids, and if i cant have one, then you're damn right i'm looking into adoption. man you're missing what i'm saying... i'm pro choice.... but what many people forget is that jst because they're pro choice doesnt mean they're pro abortion. i agree that certain circumstances it is understandable, ie rape. after that, i said "absolutly not" when i guess i should've been more specific.... i'm not telling you what to do, i'm merely saying that i ABSOLUTLY do NOT support it. do what you do, as you have your own opinions about it (as do i). sure, you can tell me what to do, but that doesnt mean i'm going to do it, and that would be my CHOICE.
lol this thread was intended for peoples opinions.. not to point out where you thing im wrong.. so thank you wayner and baby j..
i bet none of you have had to give a child up for adoption.. and i havent either.. i have never been pregnant.. and i would keep the child if i became preggo.. however if you are a crack head that gets pregnant please tell me how in the heck you would be able to care for a child? why not go to an agency that INTERVIEWS potential parents and actually goes to the home and observes the lifestyle of the applicants.. yall we are not stuck in 1970's where any bob, joe or nancy can adopt a child.. its a process.. months and months go into seeking the perfect family for each child (in most cases) yea who knows.. something could happen and it not be a good family.. but IMO if i were addicted to any form of drugs.. or what have you and i delievered a child knowing i couldnt care for it i would want it to go to a good home.. where it was almost guarenteed a warm place to sleep and at least 3 meals a day..
i hate knowing there are children stuck in foster homes.. that kills me.. no child should ever have to be put through that.. but if you know damn good and well that you can not provide for that child the best way you can.. then please for the love of god.. give them a chance at a better life..
that isn't prochoice... CHOICE is the key word... womens right to choose... if your saying your only ok w/ abortions for rape victims only then obviously there isn't much of a choice is there you've already made up your mind only rape victims should have it... get my drift.
and again as i stated earlier those who are impending their thoughts on others don't have the balls to back up their words... i just asked you if you would adopt... you can adopt right this second there are children floating from home to home... yet i don't see you doing anything about it. so you want to voice an opinion w/o action. that my friend that is a weak foot to stand on.
Pointing out that I THINK that you are wrong IS my opinion.
See. You are an example of some1 who LOVES what things look like ON PAPER, but have a problem seeing REALITY in America!!!! THE SYSTEM IS BROKE!!!! ARE YOU LISTENING??? Would you like me to post the odds for a kid who is NOT an infant getting adopted? Do you want to see the NUMBERS of adoptees that have to be removed from the SAME homes of the people that shined in the interview? Don't YOU wear "your good shoes" when YOU interview for a job?? And when you get home you kick 'em off and never see then again until you NEED them right?
PLEASE tell me how foster home to foster home is a better life. I am simply one of those people who uses my BRAIN and WILL make those tough decisions. If I knew my dog ( I don't have a dog) was gonna get hit by a car and die tomorrow at noon, I'd "take him for a ride" w/ me and the shotgun today. That's just me. I would bear that cross of burden before letting my dog have to "live" w/ what may happen tomorrow under the wheel of some beer truck.
Who is to say that said drug addiction is gonna produce a kid w/ underdeveloped brain or no motor functions? I can go on. In your example what have you done NOW??
Some of them have the best life ever. But most do not. What you are not understanding that "providing the best you can" makes YOU feel good. EVERY project mom in Compton feels self-assured knowing that they are doing "the best they can." But what u are not realizing is, that when kids are brought into the world under these pretenses that "the best you can" may not cut it FOR THE KID.
It's like people who make excuses about shit. An excuse ONLY WORKS FOR THE PERSON WHO IS GIVING IT! IT DOES NOT HELP THE OTHER PERSON!!! "Well Baby J, sorry your car won't be ready as promised... we are understaffed." That guy drives HIS car home to his wife and kids and feels good about his day, expecting me to "understand" his excuse... where I may be WALKING to work and no means to get my kid to the daycare.
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
here is what i still don't understand you want to voice your opinions of pro life on others to follow yet you turn your back on children rotting in orphanagesi don't get how you can point a finger like your out to save their world yet look the other way.
many people who make these statements have never had to face the downsides of having a child. its easy to say hey just put your life at risk for a life you don't want... that would be playing russian roulette w/ your life. having to deal w/ giving up a child and/or meeting a child you gave up is just as hard. i can't see where people can try to decide for others whats best for them w/o walking a day in there shoes.
i will never abort or give my child up for adoption.. so you can just stop right there.. its my f'ing opinion.. you choose to see things differently.. thats life.. just b/c you are writing 8 paragraphs doesnt mean my feelings will change..
to me i dont see murder as being "the right thing to do"
you have sex.. unprotected.. you get pregnant with a human being.. growing inside you.. you are KILLING a person.. i dont care if it cant hear, talk, smell or feel anything.. its murder in my eyes
its funny how this is all men saying this.. you have not idea what its like to have a tiny little person growing inside you.. depending on you and your body for survival..
so yea thats all.. i have voiced my opinion.. stop trying to point out what i say.. its my opinion.. my choice
if i knew i could support a child right now.. i would.. i would love to adopt an know that i have helped save a person.. but i cant.. im not in a place to do so.. so why would i bring someone into my life and not be able to provide the upmost care to it?
dont' get all pissy b/c people have a difference of opinion than you... thats what makes a discussion. so you would rather see women dead babies in dumpsters and women dying in shady motels b/c proper healthcare shouldn't be provided to them if they want abortions?
exactly so how can you force someone to do the same?
Last edited by 4dmin; 07-18-2006 at 02:00 PM.
I'm guessing this is to me... I can careless about changing your opinion. That's not my job. LOL. But this is a DEBATE, expect to be "debateded".
And you do? You've never been prego! LOL. Furthermore, you are not seeing as many women post b/c there are LOTS of women on here who had had abortion(s) and want to put it behind them. They are more worried about what people like YOU will say to them than admitting to themselves that they made what they felt was the best decision. And that's no knowck on you, I am all about letting people do what they want. The problem is, people do things w/out knowing what the hell they are doing, or WHY.You're still kool peeps... we just happen to disagree... no harm done sweetie.
That's good. Way to stick to your guns. Do this for me. Go home, write up the list of every guys you have been with. Imagine getting prego THE FIRST TIME by each one, and then tell me what you think you would have done in each instance "knowing what you knew THEN, not what you know now."
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
i practice safe sex.. i dont want babies.. yet!
only safe sex is no sex!
oooo 10,000 posts.. lol
guys im not getting pissy.. im a fiesty girl.. i type what i feel.. im not hating on anyone.. but i dont want to feel like im being ganged up on.. thats not fair.. every post i've made has been torn apart.. ah well..
that is the truth!!only safe sex is no sex!
Nice copout!
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
And with a booty like yours, this FORUM should be the least of your worries as far as getting ganged up on.... LOL. :idb: Hell I even admire the fact that you are sticking to your guns.
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
i have been lucky enough not to get pregnant.. i am thankful of that.. i do know girls who have been preggo and made the decision not to keep that child.. as much as i hated the fact she was doing it i was still supportive of her.. she makes her own decisions.. i know numerous girls who are young.. and kept the baby.. and before they were preggo they had soooo many problems.. like drugs.. money and all that stuff.. they found out they were expecting and COMPLETELY did a 180 with their life..
i was engaged about three years ago.. had a baby scare.. then found out he was cheating.. so we broke up and i cant tell you how many pregnancy tests i took.. i would have kept the child.. it was my responsibility even though i was only 21..
but everyone feels differently.. thats the beauty of diversity!!
Wanna have another pregnancy scare? Let's do dinner! LOL
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Just kidding. I think.
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
lol shoooo i gotta man!! hahahhaha
I know. I was just messing with you silly.
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
kelly i didn't post to prove u or anyone else wrong, was just simply stating my beliefs in contrary to urs and others' beliefs, if u took offense, my apologies as none was intended.
as far as what u had to say, sure it makes some sort of sense. but being that u or i aren't crackheads, how do we know what a crackhead WOULD do vs what they should do (which is what u outlined). crackheads have been known to do just about anything to get THEMSELVES a fix. in their mind, feeding the addiction is #1, anything else is just whatever. what makes u think a crackhead would first off, take care of themselves during pregnancy to where they could even give birth to a healthy enough of a child to live, and secondly, go through the trouble of finding help to be able to give up their child for adoption? what u stated just doesn't seem logical as to what a drug addict would do...
waynerrrrrrr!! it was just an example..
best goddamn analogy i've heard about anything in a while, mad props, would +1 again but i already did
and therein lies part of the dilemma, what if u were practicing safe sex and then had an "accident"? is that any more reason for an abortion to be ok in ur eyes?
no.. murder is not ever ok to me
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