im sorry to hear about your ex but to me its ok to drink... im only 20 even though, but when theres a football game on or something you get your buddies around the tv then pop open a beer or something and just sit and chat... for some reason it makes for a better time than just sitting around and doing nothing. now im not talking about getting drunk or anything, im just talking about a social drink... but when you go heavy drinking... i am strongly aganist drunk driving... its like ou hear every week about a drunk driver and some innocient (sp) person getting hurt. me personally, i will never drink and drive. id rather sleep in my car if i had too on the side of the road where i was than to drive 10 minutes home drunk. just my