ok 2 year back i get a speeding ticket,i went to china for summer school and when i came back like 3 months later they have send a bench warrants for me,should i turn myself in or what,i have to go to china to see my grandmom because she's like 90 or something...should i get a lawer..oh yea i was like 19 and going 90 mph in a 65mph zone cause one of my boyz get hit by a truck and pass away at the hospital when the damn cop was writing the ticket to me,