In need of advice

[quickdodge®]

Questions raised as follows:
Am I in the wrong for running yellow? (did not turn red)

Technically, you ARE supposed to slow down for Caution lights. Even if you don't think you have time, you still need to.

Is she in the wrong wrong for failure to yeild?

If she was out in the intersection when the light changed, she needs to make any effort to get out of the intersection.

Can I get away with a lesser fine/points?

From what I remember, you may not. Accidents are usually pretty strict on end results.

Should I go to court?

For an accident, you have to.

Should I just pay and forget about it?

Maybe. That's up to you. Getting a lawyer that may not get you out of it will only cause you to just pay more money(lawyer fees).

Now keep researching because I may not be right on some of that stuff. But to my knowledge from the past, it is. But things may have changed. Later, QD.