Alright my plan is to go in and be apologetic and very respectful.

One last question though- If I go and they offer to reduce the ticket if I take defensive driving, how does it work? Will I accept the offer, pay the fine, go to class, then drop by in a week or two and show them the certificate. Or do they give me another date on which I will need to show up with the certificate? Not a huge deal but I would like to know before I go to court.

Thanks for everyones help/advice