whipped or not whipped?

[autumnk5]

i've seen so many threads of guys saying they are whipped by their girlfriend, wife, etc. and then there are guys like show her who wears the pants.

oh come the **** on, everyone knows that over half the guys on here are whipped. so admit it. who's whipped and who's not whipped?

and what's sad, if you are whipped, you probably like it.

[Revmaynard]

I'm not, but my good friend is, even my girlfriend calls him out on it.:lmfao:

[TheGodfather]

Fuck no.

The man wears the pants and the man tells her whats up, unless he lacks nuts and a spine.

My bitch knows whats up.

If you ask her who wears the pants, she answers he does without thinking.

[The12lber]

Fuck no.

The man wears the pants and the man tells her whats up, unless he lacks nuts and a spine.

Is that you telling off your girlfriend on her webcam?

[tony]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

[Firefightin_tC]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

x2 :goodjob:

[On_Her_Face]

i've seen so many threads of guys saying they are whipped by their girlfriend, wife, etc. and then there are guys like show her who wears the pants.

oh come the **** on, everyone knows that over half the guys on here are whipped. so admit it. who's whipped and who's not whipped?

and what's sad, if you are whipped, you probably like it.

nobody cares about you.

[Jimmy B]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

X3

isnt there an age limit on this site?

[Turbo04]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

x4 this man is 100% correct.

[3.5altman]

im whipped

[Nismo]

x4 this man is 100% correct.

x5

[mushroom_toy]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

qft

[_Christian_]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.
I have to disagree. Many men are completely owned by their wives. Even though you may feel to grown to use the term "whipped", it makes the term no less valid. There is a mutual respect that doesn't exist in say "highschool", but one will always wear the pants. PERIOD

[AnthonyF]

i dont have a g/f so I am not whipped. if I am with a girl I am typically not "whipped" either.

[tony]

I have to disagree. Many men are completely owned by their wives. Even though you may feel to grown to use the term "whipped", it makes the term no less valid. There is a mutual respect that doesn't exist in say "highschool", but one will always wear the pants. PERIOD

YOU may think he is whipped by your standards but he may be happy in his situation. Not every marriage is the same, some people grew up with a void in their life and on some level their spouse may fill that void.

The woman who may appear to have her husband run her life may be fulfilling the void of the lack of a father figure in her life, and it gives her a sense of security.. if she has a man who wants her to be her own woman she is not happy.

Same goes for a man, some men feel a need to have a woman who has more direction or assertiveness than he, does this make him less of a man? No, because if they are both happy in love then you cannot criticize them for finding what makes THEM happy.

In every relationship there is "Balance" not "who wears the pants," The whole idea that the man must run every aspect of the relationship is chauvinist and says nothing to me but insecurity.

[BobbyFresco]

YOU may think he is whipped by your standards but he may be happy in his situation. Not every marriage is the same, some people grew up with a void in their life and on some level their spouse may fill that void.

The woman who may appear to have her husband run her life may be fulfilling the void of the lack of a father figure in her life, and it gives her a sense of security.. if she has a man who wants her to be her own woman she is not happy.

Same goes for a man, some men feel a need to have a woman who has more direction or assertiveness than he, does this make him less of a man? No, because if they are both happy in love then you cannot criticize them for finding what makes THEM happy.

In every relationship there is "Balance" not "who wears the pants," The whole idea that the man must run every aspect of the relationship is chauvinist and says nothing to me but insecurity.



Sorry that not everyone is as enlightened as you are.

I guess families were doing it all wrong during the time in society where:
1. The man was the head of the household 2.The female counterpart stayed home and raised the offspring 3. Said offspring was accounted for at all times and weren't off killing or car jacking or robbing anyone. 4. Divorces weren't a common thing. People had morals and values.

Seriously, wtf were they thinking?:rolleyes:

[1000cckiller]

Not whipped, I don't know how half of ya'll can't lay the law down.

[1000cckiller]

YOU may think he is whipped by your standards but he may be happy in his situation. Not every marriage is the same, some people grew up with a void in their life and on some level their spouse may fill that void.

The woman who may appear to have her husband run her life may be fulfilling the void of the lack of a father figure in her life, and it gives her a sense of security.. if she has a man who wants her to be her own woman she is not happy.

Same goes for a man, some men feel a need to have a woman who has more direction or assertiveness than he, does this make him less of a man? No, because if they are both happy in love then you cannot criticize them for finding what makes THEM happy.

In every relationship there is "Balance" not "who wears the pants," The whole idea that the man must run every aspect of the relationship is chauvinist and says nothing to me but insecurity.Exactly why half of you noob loves gets your ass kicked by your spouse.

[BobbyFresco]

Not whipped, I don't know how half of ya'll can't lay the law down.


LOL..It's not even really about laying the law down....

Most women whether they admit it or not, want a man that can take charge.
Most women want to be checked and put in their place from time to time.
Most women will openly admit that they can't and will not respect a man that they can run over continually.
Most women want to feel secure and that their mate can protect them.


I've had this dicussion several times with a bunch of different girls and the reaction is always the same....

[1000cckiller]

LOL..It's not even really about laying the law down....

Most women whether they admit it or not, want a man that can take charge.
Most women want to be checked and put in their place from time to time.
Most women will openly admit that they can't and will not respect a man that they can run over continually.
Most women want to feel secure and that their mate can protect them.

I've had this dicussion several times with a bunch of different girls and the reaction is always the same....That is a man laying down the law, which I do and my girl is a cop.

[BobbyFresco]

That is a man laying down the law, which I do and my girl is a cop.


You know were on the same page on this homie...:D

All that sensitive blah blah bs all the damn time will bore the fuk
out a chick and she'll go out and find that dude that will do what a mfer isn't doing while he's too busy runnng baths for her and rubbing her feet and all that
jazz.....

[1000cckiller]

[QUOTE=StuntallDay]You know were on the same page on this homie...:D

All that sensitive blah blah bs all the damn time will bore the fuk
out a chick and she'll go out and find that dude that will do what a mfer isn't doing while he's too busy runnng baths for her and rubbing her feet and all that
jazz.....[QUOTE]That is the truth, but so many of these fools do that **** everyday.

[Leisa]

This thread makes me laugh... :D

[Jaimecbr900]

While I agree that during every situation one or the other must take charge and "handle it", there is no absolute answer to the age old puzzle of just who wears the pants if you get down to brass tax.

Like Tony said, some people are perfectly happy with being "whipped" while some others would rather hit their balls with a rubber hammer than to ACT "whipped". Men have to be men and women have to be women, no doubt about that in my book, but you also can't treat REAL women like they're animals either. Hate to tell yall, but even submissive women will stick it to you, in the back if they have to but they will IF you treat them like dog crap all the time.

Another thing to remember is that some of you, especially the younger ones, have the wrong idea of what "whipped" really is. Opening a door for your lady, being nice to her, and consulting her on some decisions is NOT being "whipped". Some of you think that anytime you act nice you are acting "whipped", but that's not the case at all. So you can beat on your chest all you want, but the truth is that if you treat your women/girls the way some of you ACT like you do, it's no wonder why you spend more time with Rosy and her 4 sisters than you do with a real woman. ;)

[Leisa]

While I agree that during every situation one or the other must take charge and "handle it", there is no absolute answer to the age old puzzle of just who wears the pants if you get down to brass tax.

Like Tony said, some people are perfectly happy with being "whipped" while some others would rather hit their balls with a rubber hammer than to ACT "whipped". Men have to be men and women have to be women, no doubt about that in my book, but you also can't treat REAL women like they're animals either. Hate to tell yall, but even submissive women will stick it to you, in the back if they have to but they will IF you treat them like dog crap all the time.

Another thing to remember is that some of you, especially the younger ones, have the wrong idea of what "whipped" really is. Opening a door for your lady, being nice to her, and consulting her on some decisions is NOT being "whipped". Some of you think that anytime you act nice you are acting "whipped", but that's not the case at all. So you can beat on your chest all you want, but the truth is that if you treat your women/girls the way some of you ACT like you do, it's no wonder why you spend more time with Rosy and her 4 sisters than you do with a real woman. ;)



Good One Jaime! :)

[Sammich]

I'M MARRIED..I CAN BE WHIPPED IF I CHOOSE TO BE...its pretty nice when roll playing is involved lol

[Tracy]

How ridiculous.

[Jaimecbr900]

How ridiculous.

Don't be frontn'.....we all know you and Leisa love to get treated like dirt and reminded that females are the lesser species.....don't front now......we know.....;) :rolleyes: :D

[Tracy]

Don't be frontn'.....we all know you and Leisa love to get treated like dirt and reminded that females are the lesser species.....don't front now......we know.....;) :rolleyes: :D :lmfao: :lmfao: You know I wouldn't put up with that for a second :D

I have to say that, for the most part, my man treats me like a queen. He is not dominant or outspoken and I do not consider him a wimp. I, on the other hand, am. It makes for a nice balance and just goes to show there is a perfect match for everyone out there. He has his ways of showing me how much of a man he is. He doesn't treat me like it's my job to take care of him, although I do. We have a partnership and we each play a role in our relationship. I think the manliest thing he does is admit his is "whipped". That shows that he is confident and secure in his love for me. That being said, I admit to my girls I am "whipped" when they holler it because I still run to the phone when Dan calls even after 7 years :)

[Leisa]

Don't be frontn'.....we all know you and Leisa love to get treated like dirt and reminded that females are the lesser species.....don't front now......we know.....;) :rolleyes: :D


shhhh... that was supposed to be OUR secret... ;)

[osiriskidd]

whipped is such a black/white term.

it's an equilibrium.
i'll admit that i give my gf a lot of leway and will give her many of the things she wants. but she'll still do something if i ask her to and definitely won't disrespect me in any way.

[Spectic Tank]

i've seen so many threads of guys saying they are whipped by their girlfriend, wife, etc. and then there are guys like show her who wears the pants.

oh come the **** on, everyone knows that over half the guys on here are whipped. so admit it. who's whipped and who's not whipped?

and what's sad, if you are whipped, you probably like it.

Why haven't you O.D.'d yet?

[Sammich]

leisa has been whipped by me before too...

[autumnk5]

Why haven't you O.D.'d yet?

hey dumba.ss did you not get the memo? i had it in the blog that i stopped on new year's.

[Spectic Tank]

hey dumba.ss did you no get the memo? i had in on the blog that i stopped on new year's.

I'm not a grammar nazi, but...

BEFORE YOU CALL SOMEONE A DUMBA.SS LEARN HOW TO ****ING TYPE!!!

[autumnk5]

uhhhh you are still a dumba.ss i wrote it like that because i didn't want it to get censored. and i was just in a hurry to type. anyone could tell you that i usually use good grammar.

[SPOOLIN]

i refused to be whipped before i got married, and i'm not whipped after being married. Whipped is a fact, not an immature folklore. We don't keep each other from doing anything extracurricular and i don't have to worry about her cheating on me. We are both whipped into each others ways. Thank You. I don't understand these marriages that my friends have where they are constantly for real bickering and ****.

[Frög]

not whipped.. i run this shi!t, and if they aren't happy, they can leave..

[ahmonrah]

While I agree that during every situation one or the other must take charge and "handle it", there is no absolute answer to the age old puzzle of just who wears the pants if you get down to brass tax.

Like Tony said, some people are perfectly happy with being "whipped" while some others would rather hit their balls with a rubber hammer than to ACT "whipped". Men have to be men and women have to be women, no doubt about that in my book, but you also can't treat REAL women like they're animals either. Hate to tell yall, but even submissive women will stick it to you, in the back if they have to but they will IF you treat them like dog crap all the time.

Another thing to remember is that some of you, especially the younger ones, have the wrong idea of what "whipped" really is. Opening a door for your lady, being nice to her, and consulting her on some decisions is NOT being "whipped". Some of you think that anytime you act nice you are acting "whipped", but that's not the case at all. So you can beat on your chest all you want, but the truth is that if you treat your women/girls the way some of you ACT like you do, it's no wonder why you spend more time with Rosy and her 4 sisters than you do with a real woman. ;) this is too much to put into my sig......

but having mutual respect for eachother in a relationship is key. i respect my woman for what she brings to the US factor, and she respects me in the same way, given we sometimes bump heads over certain things and i vent about them to friends, we still work together for our common interests.

[Jaimecbr900]

this is too much to put into my sig......

but having mutual respect for eachother in a relationship is key. i respect my woman for what she brings to the US factor, and she respects me in the same way, given we sometimes bump heads over certain things and i vent about them to friends, we still work together for our common interests.

A lot of people don't get that. They want to act like "Me, Tarzan...you, Jane..." all the time and then wonder why they are perpetually single or paired up with a Harlet. :rolleyes:

Listen, everyone that knows me KNOWS that I'm definetly a really firm believer in men are men and women are women. Not a metrosexual hair on my body, but that doesn't mean that you have to be a caveman and drag your woman by her hair back in the cave all the time. There will be instances from time to time where you have to have your pants in the right place and put your foot down like a man, no doubt. But far too often, especially when we're younger, men think that this testosterone display has to be done every day when in reality far too often we're just playing for the cameras.

When you get older and settle down with someone, you realize that not everything is WWIII and therefore doesn't require you to fire off your nuclear tantrums. This realization goes a long way in avoiding those stupid fights that start from something simple and then morphs into WWIII. Trust me, there are only a handful of situations where true WWIII tactics need to be put in place. What happens is that most of us get worked up and blow that preverbial mountain out of a mole hill and spin a regular disagreement into a break-up only to protect our pride or for the simple and idiotic satisfaction of being "right".

My grandpa once told me, "Never ask a man without a pole nor bait about fishing.";) So look at folks that have successful long term relationships, be it with significant other and/or friends, as beacons to learn from. Hollywood and wannabes are not the best teachers. ;)

[Leisa]

A lot of people don't get that. They want to act like "Me, Tarzan...you, Jane..." all the time and then wonder why they are perpetually single or paired up with a Harlet. :rolleyes:

Listen, everyone that knows me KNOWS that I'm definetly a really firm believer in men are men and women are women. Not a metrosexual hair on my body, but that doesn't mean that you have to be a caveman and drag your woman by her hair back in the cave all the time. There will be instances from time to time where you have to have your pants in the right place and put your foot down like a man, no doubt. But far too often, especially when we're younger, men think that this testosterone display has to be done every day when in reality far too often we're just playing for the cameras.

When you get older and settle down with someone, you realize that not everything is WWIII and therefore doesn't require you to fire off your nuclear tantrums. This realization goes a long way in avoiding those stupid fights that start from something simple and then morphs into WWIII. Trust me, there are only a handful of situations where true WWIII tactics need to be put in place. What happens is that most of us get worked up and blow that preverbial mountain out of a mole hill and spin a regular disagreement into a break-up only to protect our pride or for the simple and idiotic satisfaction of being "right".

My grandpa once told me, "Never ask a man without a pole nor bait about fishing.";) So look at folks that have successful long term relationships, be it with significant other and/or friends, as beacons to learn from. Hollywood and wannabes are not the best teachers. ;)


Jaime you are so smart;... you are my hero ;)

[Master Shake]

i refused to be whipped before i got married, and i'm not whipped after being married. Whipped is a fact, not an immature folklore. We don't keep each other from doing anything extracurricular and i don't have to worry about her cheating on me. We are both whipped into each others ways. Thank You. I don't understand these marriages that my friends have where they are constantly for real bickering and ****.exactly.
i do what i want to, but i take her feelings on things and what she would think into consideration before i go off and do something. in the same sense, she does the same for me. i care about my girlfriend, and i know she cares about me. i'll let her do what she wants and she lets me do what i want.
whipped is a stupid term. i think i quit saying when i got in high school.

[sleeperteg]

I see its tough be a man these days ?

[Ronsam2006]

This thread makes me laugh... :D
This thread makes me yawn...

[chinitoxamor]

im not whip, im the type of guy who pretends to be mad at my girlfriend, play slap her, walk away and let her come back to me. lol

[imbosile]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.


Exactly.

[chinitoxamor]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

so does this mean autumnk5 is still in high school? :lmfao:


anyways mutual respect does it all, kinda like me saying i have my foot so far up her ass that i dont give a damn if she thinks im whip when im the one who pays the bill and she does all the moaning. anyways thank you and goodbye

[imbosile]

Sorry that not everyone is as enlightened as you are.

I guess families were doing it all wrong during the time in society where:
1. The man was the head of the household 2.The female counterpart stayed home and raised the offspring 3. Said offspring was accounted for at all times and weren't off killing or car jacking or robbing anyone. 4. Divorces weren't a common thing. People had morals and values.

Seriously, wtf were they thinking?:rolleyes:


You my friend are a dumbass. I think what has happened is that women are actually sort of standing up for themselves now and realize they deserve to do whatever they want to with their life. Not how you are describing, where women are expected to stay at home, raise the kids, and not have a career.

I'd much rather have things the way they are today.