..................................to buy gifts for yourself?

such as special occassions such as holidays/birthdays?

I just had this issue with the woman and she claims that this is a "selfish" thing to do and only "selfless" people buy gifts for themselves..

my thing is, when you get older, hell, at any age, you want to treat yourself to something you want and during the specific holiday you buy it..

for instance, for my birthday this year, I picked up an MDA..

for xmas I'm buying myself a WII..

is this weird? b/c I know people do this shit and buy things for themselves..

and holidays, meaning, XMAS/BDAYs