Cut buddies???

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 07:15 PM

Fuck buddies whatever u wanna call it...

Do u have them and will anything ever come of it??--->Yes I mean get serious w/ that person

I am guilty...Only one at a time though, dont like having revolving relationships...

**collins** · 07-07-2006, 07:18 PM

my lady and i started off that way, but now she and i are VERY happy months later! so it can happen

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 07:20 PM

Originally Posted by collins

my lady and i started off that way, but now she and i are VERY happy months later! so it can happen

I am going to start counting how many times a day you post shit like this about you and her, Mr. "I don't want my life on IA."

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 07:27 PM

Originally Posted by collins

my lady and i started off that way, but now she and i are VERY happy months later! so it can happen

Ok but this is one person right?? How many did u have before her?? Like is a chick selling herself short if she is just having sex with a guy cuz she likes him as more than a dick that she fucks?????

Dammit am I wasting my time?????

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:10 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Ok but this is one person right?? How many did u have before her?? Like is a chick selling herself short if she is just having sex with a guy cuz she likes him as more than a dick that she fucks?????

Dammit am I wasting my time?????

If you like him more than the DICK. Then YOU are breaking the ROE (rules of engagement) from the "fuck buddy" status. Your feelings are gonna end up getting hurt and you're gonna end up posting on here what a WHORE he is when you find out that he is not likely going to commit. You have set the tone for the relationship (sex). True it can be overcome, but the odds are against you... especially after you and I have sex... it's gonna TOTALLY fuck yalls shit up. There are VERY few women who can play that game and come out on top... and the ones that CAN, we men can SENSE it and those are the women that we stay away from. A woman that thinks like a man is the most DANGEROUS woman on the planet.

PS: WOMEN give sex for emotion, and men give emotion for sex. REMEMBER THAT!!!! WORKS EVERYTIME unless she is just a hoe, and what man is gonna SERIOUSLY marry a hoe?

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

If you like him more than the DICK. Then YOU are breaking the ROE (rules of engagement) from the "fuck buddy" status. Your feelings are gonna end up getting hurt and you're gonna end up posting on here what a WHORE he is when you find out that he is not likely going to commit. You have set the tone for the relationship (sex). True it can be overcome, but the odds are against you... especially after you and I have sex... it's gonna TOTALLY fuck yalls shit up. There are VERY few women who can play that game and come out on top... and the ones that CAN, we men can SENSE it and those are the women that we stay away from. A woman that thinks like a man is the most DANGEROUS woman on the planet.

PS: WOMEN give sex for emotion, and men give emotion for sex. REMEMBER THAT!!!! WORKS EVERYTIME unless she is just a hoe, and what man is gonna SERIOUSLY marry a hoe?

What if rules were never set...It just happened..Wasnt supposed to...It was one of those things where the time was right and u gave in to carnal instinct? But that shit was so good that it kinda happens a lot after??? Is that like unspoken "fuck buddies?" Even though before u just enjoyed being around that person...

I have to disagree with u in one aspect I think that there are females that are not hoes that just like to fuck...I am one of them..I do not go around fucking anything with a dick...Not even close...But I do enjoy sex and can have it with particular people without feeling the least bit of emotional attachment..

I do agree that if it is said in the beginning that all it is is sex then u can't/shouldn't break that...And if by chance find urself catching feelings then u need to let that shit go...

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:34 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

What if rules were never set...It just happened..Wasnt supposed to...It was one of those things where the time was right and u gave in to carnal instinct? But that shit was so good that it kinda happens a lot after??? Is that like unspoken "fuck buddies?" Even though before u just enjoyed being around that person...

I have to disagree with u in one aspect I think that there are females that are not hoes that just like to fuck...I am one of them..I do not go around fucking anything with a dick...Not even close...But I do enjoy sex and can have it with particular people without feeling the least bit of emotional attachment..

I do agree that if it is said in the beginning that all it is is sex then u can't/shouldn't break that...And if by chance find urself catching feelings then u need to let that shit go...

You are making excuses to like this guy, or trying to make excuses to pretend that yall have more than just bomb sex. HIS opinion on the sex matters too ya know... to HIM you might just be "okay". I have had enuff sex for every1 on IA. So "bomb" is relative. Will he spend time w/ you now that you are fucking him? You bet. If you turn off the sex will he still spend the same amount of time KNOWING that he is not getting any ass? Doubt it. 1 way to find out.

Yes there are women out there who can fuck you 1 or 2 times and not get emotional. In that case you are fuckin w/ the wrong guys... I spring the ladies after the 1st time. Not tryna leg-hump, just keeping it real. Also, that same woman who repeatedly sexes a particular guy WILL develop feelings for him unless fucking is her JOB (i.e - escort or prostitute).

DO NOT FORGET WHAT I TOLD YOU: Women give sex for emotion, and men give emotion for sex.

^^ Try to pretend that my rule is not true for any length of time, and you will find yourself creating threads like this one. WOOPS! Too late, you already did!!

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 07:18 PM

I used to before I got married. Now I'm divorced, so it is obvious I should have skipped the married step altogether. Two of them started off as "Hands on" friendships and became something more. The others...well....

**SLow_POke** · 07-07-2006, 07:21 PM

whoa!! been a minute . since high school actually .

memorieeeeeeeeeeeeeeees
::sighs::

they can get to . . carried away

-Ernie

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by BTLFED

I used to before I got married. Now I'm divorced, so it is obvious I should have skipped the married step altogether. Two of them started off as "Hands on" friendships and became something more. The others...well....

Hahaha, I have to ask is the ex-wife one of the fuck buddies???

Oh and do u look down on a girl if all she wants is sex??? Like if she has sex and then just leaves??? I hate the life changing convos people want to have after...Well except for one person

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 08:25 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Hahaha, I have to ask is the ex-wife one of the fuck buddies???

Oh and do u look down on a girl if all she wants is sex??? Like if she has sex and then just leaves??? I hate the life changing convos people want to have after...Well except for one person

Nope. Were together off and on for 6 years before we got married (we only broke up twice in that time and seemed to end up back together). As much of a bitch as she is, unfortunately for me I still love the girl to death. I am trying to conquer that fault, though.

As far as the other question, that depends on the girl. If she is doing that to an uber amount of men at the same time, then yes. I'm clean now, and wouldn't want to end up "burning" after.

**Dirty Octopus™** · 07-07-2006, 07:23 PM

shouldnt this be in the Relationships/Sex Forum?

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 07:25 PM

Originally Posted by Knonimous

shouldnt this be in the Relationships/Sex Forum?

Whoreslounge...I am not asking about relationships..It is a general question..if this should be in there then they would spend hella time moving shit there..besides more exposure here..I want honest opinions.

**Dirty Octopus™** · 07-07-2006, 07:36 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Whoreslounge...I am not asking about relationships..It is a general question..if this should be in there then they would spend hella time moving shit there..besides more exposure here..I want honest opinions.

Your asking about sex. No?

cant you get "honest opinions" in the proper forum as well?

no big deal though, i just figured since it was pretaining to a subject thats usually over there, that this should be there. i could be wrong.
but then again i guess "Whoreslounge" would be the proper forum after all.

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 07:38 PM

Originally Posted by Knonimous

Your asking about sex. No?

cant you get "honest opinions" in the proper forum as well?

no big deal though, i just figured since it was pretaining to a subject thats usually over there, that this should be there. i could be wrong.
but then again i guess "Whoreslounge" would be the proper forum after all.

chill plz

**collins** · 07-07-2006, 07:31 PM

i really didnt make a habit of it, but i took a chance with her, and it turned out good! i think i've only had 2 fuck buddies total, so its not like i was a swinger or anything.

and chris, its different when i say that my girl and i are happy, and someone else starts throwing bullshit around like i'm using so and so... chill out man.

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 08:20 PM

Originally Posted by collins

and chris, its different when i say that my girl and i are happy, and someone else starts throwing bullshit around like i'm using so and so... chill out man.

Oh, sorry, I forgot my prozac.

Aparently she is awesome at sucking dick too, according to a different thread. That isn't personal? I mean, shit, I have had "relations" with more than one female on here over the years, and nobody knows who they are. Hell, one of them gave me the best head I had EVER had, but I am not posting that shit around the board.

I'm just saying maybe you should practice what you preach.

**The Golden Child** · 07-07-2006, 08:10 PM

i use to have some FTF's but not anymore cause i live here ..

**collins** · 07-07-2006, 08:21 PM

chris, i'm not going to get into it with you, because, as always, you act like a child. have fun with your comments.

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by collins

chris, i'm not going to get into it with you, because, as always, you act like a child. have fun with your comments.

So facts are "acting like a child," huh? That's funny. You are saying one thing and doing another. If you want to make every fucking thing you post about you and her, whatever, but don't send me a PM asking me to delete a post I made "because you don't want your personal life on IA" like you did before. And I even deleted it for you, too. Guess that was a mistake.

**collins** · 07-07-2006, 08:36 PM

Originally Posted by BTLFED

So facts are "acting like a child," huh? That's funny. You are saying one thing and doing another. If you want to make every fucking thing you post about you and her, whatever, but don't send me a PM asking me to delete a post I made "because you don't want your personal life on IA" like you did before. And I even deleted it for you, too. Guess that was a mistake.

and by "acting like a child" i mean not letting shit go that doesnt even concern you.

if i make a comment, i make a comment. big deal. again, have fun with your antics.

**collins** · 07-07-2006, 08:35 PM

i'm not worried about it... i just find it funny that you people obcess yourselves over my personal life, whether i say it or not. tis kinda flattering actually...

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:19 PM

Originally Posted by collins

i'm not worried about it... i just find it funny that you people obcess yourselves over my personal life, whether i say it or not. tis kinda flattering actually...

Look man. You're happy w/ thik-chik. WHOOPTY-FUCKIN-DOO! We are ALL happy for you, in fact I prefer thicker women and the 1 time I saw her I was intrigued.

What you are FAILING to realize is that you (she does the same thing by the way) do NOT have to shove it down our throats b/c in the grand scheme of things, you are as a couple is still "new" so to speak. GIVE IT A FUKIN MINUTE WILL YA?

Damn!!! Until the one that you MARRY, boyfriends/girlfriends come and go. And sometimes even husbands/wives do. SLOW THE FUCK DOWN and enjoy it, and keep it off the boards... WE GET IT, YALL LIKE EACH OTHER... A LOT!

LOL. You're kool as hell, and while BTFLED is a "strange" one to guage, I side w/ him on this 1. No1 is hating, but SHUT THE FUCK UP talking about each other all the time. LOL. When/if you all break up it's just gonna make it THAT much funnier since we can't start a thread about fucking cheese-grits w/out one of you saying "

Aaaaaah, me and my baby had grits one morning... I love him SOOOO much!!!!

". But if you SHUT UP --> if you do not work out every1 will say "oh well, shit happens" and 4get about it, and you will not have made such a spectacle of yourselves.

Now... **ahem** Back to me and some1 being fuck buddies.

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 10:06 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

Look man. You're happy w/ thik-chik. WHOOPTY-FUCKIN-DOO! We are ALL happy for you, in fact I prefer thicker women and the 1 time I saw her I was intrigued.

What you are FAILING to realize is that you (she does the same thing by the way) do NOT have to shove it down our throats b/c in the grand scheme of things, you are as a couple is still "new" so to speak. GIVE IT A FUKIN MINUTE WILL YA?

Damn!!! Until the one that you MARRY, boyfriends/girlfriends come and go. And sometimes even husbands/wives do. SLOW THE FUCK DOWN and enjoy it, and keep it off the boards... WE GET IT, YALL LIKE EACH OTHER... A LOT!

LOL. You're kool as hell, and while BTFLED is a "strange" one to guage, I side w/ him on this 1. No1 is hating, but SHUT THE FUCK UP talking about each other all the time. LOL. When/if you all break up it's just gonna make it THAT much funnier since we can't start a thread about fucking cheese-grits w/out one of you saying "

Aaaaaah, me and my baby had grits one morning... I love him SOOOO much!!!!

". But if you SHUT UP --> if you do not work out every1 will say "oh well, shit happens" and 4get about it, and you will not have made such a spectacle of yourselves.

Now... **ahem** Back to me and some1 being fuck buddies.

EXFUCKINGACTLY. I couldn't have (and didn't) say it better myself LOL

Reps to you, my friend.

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 10:15 PM

Originally Posted by BTLFED

EXFUCKINGACTLY. I couldn't have (and didn't) say it better myself LOL

Reps to you, my friend.

Word.

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 10:44 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

Word.

Where's mine back damnit?!

**green91** · 07-07-2006, 08:49 PM

chris maybe you should read some blogs in myspace. ive found plenty of incriminating evidence involving you.. i think a few of the blogs are blocked to the public due to their age tho

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:05 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Fuck buddies whatever u wanna call it...

Do u have them and will anything ever come of it??--->Yes I mean get serious w/ that person

I am guilty...Only one at a time though, dont like having revolving relationships...

Yes. We can be cut buddies. I accept.

/thread

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 09:16 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

Yes. We can be cut buddies. I accept.

/thread

Hmm..Tempting...List ur weirdest place that u have fucked and we'll see...lol

Back to topic though..Do u really care about respect when ur just fucking???

Like does the thought "hmm, I am not gonna respect her after this," ever cross ur mind?

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Hmm..Tempting...List ur weirdest place that u have fucked and we'll see...lol

Back to topic though..Do u really care about respect when ur just fucking???

Like does the thought "hmm, I am not gonna respect her after this," ever cross ur mind?

Yes and No. It depends on just how much of a connection OUTSIDE of the bedroom we have. If it's NOTHING, hell you can call me b/c your car cut off on 400 and I will make an excuse not to help. If there is a connection OUTSIDE of the bedroom then MAYBE. TELL HIM (me) HOW YOU FEEL AND TELL HIM TO BE HONEST! If he REALLY likes you, he will say so. If he DOESN'T really like you, he will lie and say he does. Got it? It's just that simple.

CLUE: He doesn't like you or you would not have felt the need to start this thread.

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 09:38 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

Yes and No. It depends on just how much of a connection OUTSIDE of the bedroom we have. If it's NOTHING, hell you can call me b/c your car cut off on 400 and I will make an excuse not to help. If there is a connection OUTSIDE of the bedroom then MAYBE. TELL HIM (me) HOW YOU FEEL AND TELL HIM TO BE HONEST! If he REALLY likes you, he will say so. If he DOESN'T really like you, he will lie and say he does. Got it? It's just that simple.

CLUE: He doesn't like you or you would not have felt the need to start this thread.

Nah I am good...No sex lately...I just wanted opinions...This shit happened to me though..Sucked balls...

My situation:

Cool as hell--->liked him+liked me---->Fucked---->Fucked----->fell harder for him/ stopped talking to me----->hated each other, like bad....=We get along now but no sex...We had to stop fucking in order to be able to enjoy each others company again..I still wonder what would have happened had I not fucked him but eh...

So if the girl is the one that just wants sex the guy gets leery??? :confused:

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:50 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

... So if the girl is the one that just wants sex the guy gets leery??? :confused:

No. We men are just not ready for what we think we want. If we are JUST fuck-buddies, the perfect woman will fuck and suck me off, lick me clean, and then be dressed and out of the door before we fall asleep. That's what we THINK we want. I prayed for YEARS for this... fell asleep hundreds of times w/ some broad snuggling up and spooming me all night thinking to myself "PLEASE go away, your purpose has been fulfilled... JUST LEAVE!!!"

But lo and behold, the 1st time this happened it FUCKED ME UP!! I popped, she popped twice... kissed me on the 4head... said "thank you" and was out my front door before I could say "you're welcome". While I had prayed for this type of woman for YEARS, it fucked me up when I got her. While I SHOULD have been counting sheep and thanking the Cum Gods for sending my Queen, I was sitting indian style in the middle of my damn bed naked w/ ankle sox on wondering "what the hell did I do wrong?" FUCKED ME UP FOR DAYS! I immediately began to "chase" her... and believe me, I was KING PIMP back then... I chased NO ONE! She shook me b/c she changed the rules from what I was used to. **this was also the only woman I NEVER cheated on, but that's a diff story that I will tell later. I didn't figure out WHY I never cheated on her until later**

While this "I can careless, you're just a dick that I wanna fuck" attitude will work for the average guy, and will work to get YOU the leverage you need in a fuck-buddy relationship, some1 like ME/ALEX will see it coming from a mile away. I have things to counter it. So "know your target" before you try to go and use this shit, if he is like me you will end up IN LOVE and it will backfire BIGTIME.

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 09:19 PM

ah nm..u were typing when I was...lol

**RandomGuy** · 07-07-2006, 09:23 PM

who do u guys think would win in a fight? Collins or Baby J

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by RaИdomGuy

who do u guys think would win in a fight? Collins or Baby J

Hmmm... I'd bet Collins' next paycheck on Baby J... but he and I have no reason to fight... so moot point.

**RandomGuy** · 07-07-2006, 09:32 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

Hmmm... I'd bet Collins' next paycheck on Baby J... be he and I have no reason to fight... so moot point.

OH HELLLL NAW you gonna take that collins?!?!? He clearly called you out. He said he's gonna beat your ass.

**collins** · 07-07-2006, 09:43 PM

LOL nobody's beating anyone's ass here....

but j, see, you've got valid points. i see what you're sayin, and i respect your approach. and honestly, chris isnt the only one i'm referring to. some people seem to strive on every thing i say. sometimes they twist it, sometimes they dont. its just kinda funny. but hey, i give. s'all gravy. oh and btw, wasnt meanin to "shove it down ya throat"

**RandomGuy** · 07-07-2006, 09:45 PM

you know all thay gay shit i post all the time? i'm really coming out of the closet...

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 09:53 PM

Originally Posted by collins

LOL nobody's beating anyone's ass here....

but j, see, you've got valid points. i see what you're sayin, and i respect your approach. and honestly, chris isnt the only one i'm referring to. some people seem to strive on every thing i say. sometimes they twist it, sometimes they dont. its just kinda funny. but hey, i give. s'all gravy. oh and btw, wasnt meanin to "shove it down ya throat"

I know Bro. We're good, which is why I put some smiley's and LOL's in there so you could get my tone. This is a kool spot, but you of all people know how nasty it can get. Both of yall are on here, that's kool. Just turn down the jets and keep it off the boards b/c there are LOTS of haters here. There are couples that had EVERYTHING going for them... but IA destroyed it. That's real. I'd hate to see that happen to yall. Good luck w/ her too.

**collins** · 07-07-2006, 09:54 PM

tis tru, sir.... i feel ya.

and preesch

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