I recently moved out of my parents because of religious differences. ever since I've been gone they have been the most pessimistic people. I love them to death but what the hell? HOw are you supposed to build someone up if you are constantly telling them"you wont make it out there". you wont be able to eat, you wont pay your bills, you cant survive, you need to come back. I have been doing decent for most that moved out with literally nothing but clothes and a car. My friends have had my back through all of it. The same friends they said dont care about me and will turn their backs on me. Hmm wrong again mom and dad!!! i lost my cell phone yesterday and the first thing my dad said was "you cant win". WTF? No dang that sucks, or its alright jsut get another one, or do you need help getting another one, or want to borrow my phone? They chastise me and put me down and make me feel like crap. but i have been the happiest since i've been out of the house. I am starting to think my bouts with depression stemmed from them. i've gotten worried at times about scraping up pennies to make it, but never really depressed. i am happy as all hell. But i come back here and its depressing.
i just got a new job and they had nothing good to say. No congratualtions. WHy do u want to work way out there? ts not enough money, thats too far, do u want to do that, i dont like that job. Not once did they say i am happy you got some income coming in. Or maybe things will be better you;ve got steady money. They shit on everything i want to do in my life.