Rant / Just gotta let it out................
OK alot of people know me and those that know me well know that I am a great father!
So I just had my 1 year anniversary of my Divorce and I DON'T Hate my ex. Don't get me wrong I was hurt at the things that were said and done in our Marriage. With have a great relationship because we have a child together we are civil get along ect ect.
My son comes first!! Always has when it is my weekend I devote my time in that weekend to him and only him! Ask Alex ask anyone else I don't go out I don't do SHIT unless it is with him..........
So My Ex calls and says we have to talk........... OK thats fine so I go last night to her house and we sit down and talk and I can't say I was completely blindsided but this is what was said.
"I'm getting re-married to this guy I grew up with" Ok great.... "Well he is in the army and we are going to live in Baltimore......................................... ........ WTF?!!
Why me?! WTF did I do? I'm not DEAD Beat dad, I pay my child support, Spending all the time I could with my son and BAM now this........... I'm at a loss for words and don't know what in the fuck to do! WTF Why me?
I don't hate her but I'm very hurt and angry............
Who has been through this and how do you get through it? How should visitations work? I don't guess I have much of a choice in this matter..............
Sorry had to get that off my chest
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