Lemme ask you a couple questions:
First, why do you want the car to be in SM? Is this a daily driven fun car that you want to take out to autocross every once in a while, or are you trying to get serious about solo2?
Second, how competitive do you want to be? Civics are kicking major ass in STS (a street tires, limited mods class). It would take a pretty big chunk of change to get the car really competitive in SM. Not undoable, but expensive.
Finally, how much experience do you have? Trey's absolutely right when he says fix up the driver before fixing up the car. The best drivers can stomp the hell out of most others even when in far less prepped cars. Even if you are a seasoned veteran, I would really suggest spending a few hundred and going to a couple Evolution schools (
http://www.autocross.com). Speaking from personal experience, those schools are monumental. I have Sam Strano (my Phase 1 instructor) partially to thank for my transition from a mediocre driver to a Nationals contender. They're worth every cent.
So far as suspension goes, I would say it totally depends on the level of involvement in autocross you're going for. I wouldn't turn a daily driver into an uncomfortable comuter just to go to a local event every third month. But, if you seriously want to get into it, a good set of coilovers is a handy thing to have. Go to the Honda Tech motorsports/road race forums for info on the best suspension setups. There are some serious race kaa drivers there from grassroots to pro, so you will find some good info.
Hope this helps:
~ Miranda (ex autocrosser)