So what do YOU consider cheating?

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 03:49 AM

So this is something that got brought up after the other night with the girl Im talking to right now and one of her friends. What do you consider cheating if you are in a relationship with someone else?

Just curious to see what others think.

**HeLLo iM iZzY** · 03-10-2009, 08:07 AM

Hmmm, giving a kiss on the cheek to someone she knows, cool, but to some random guy, definitely a no-no. Kissing anyone on the mouth, definitely a no-no. Holding hands with someone other than me, having sex with someone other than me.

I think that's about it.

**oneSLOWex** · 03-10-2009, 08:14 AM

Originally Posted by HeLLo iM iZzY

Hmmm, giving a kiss on the cheek to someone she knows, cool, but to some random guy, definitely a no-no. Kissing anyone on the mouth, definitely a no-no. Holding hands with someone other than me, having sex with someone other than me.

I think that's about it.

I would say you pretty much covered it.

**£G2♣** · 03-10-2009, 08:19 AM

doing any thing with another guy other then me

**K20Z1** · 03-10-2009, 08:55 AM

takin my $$ without telling me

**BobbyFresco** · 03-10-2009, 08:58 AM

Having any kind of physical or mental interactions with someone else.

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 03-10-2009, 09:05 AM

Honestly, I know I will be critiqued for this... but I would be more inclined to forgive sexual/physical encounter more so than emotional. I think that one hurts the most. When nothing has happened yet, but he spends more time talking to the other female... Ugh. I consider it cheating when you desire someone, and not just a fleeting desire but one that you think of often and is attainable.

**Sammich** · 03-10-2009, 09:08 AM

its either if you talking to the other sex on the regular, or doing the other sex...either on the regular or not...either way...i'll fuk em up and kick the wife out...no questions asked...or maybe so *while in beating* 'didnt i tell you that i was gona kick your ass if you cheated on me'

**AirMax95** · 03-10-2009, 09:33 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Honestly, I know I will be critiqued for this... but I would be more inclined to forgive sexual/physical encounter more so than emotional. I think that one hurts the most. When nothing has happened yet, but he spends more time talking to the other female... Ugh. I consider it cheating when you desire someone, and not just a fleeting desire but one that you think of often and is attainable.

That is some real shit right there. Time wasters should kick boulders.

I see it as this: A desire, mental or physical, of another person while engaged in a committed relationship with someone else. Included, but not limited to: Intercourse (any), kissing, holding hands, touchy feely, gazing into eyes, phone sex, interwebz loving, etc.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Honestly, I know I will be critiqued for this... but I would be more inclined to forgive sexual/physical encounter more so than emotional. I think that one hurts the most. When nothing has happened yet, but he spends more time talking to the other female... Ugh. I consider it cheating when you desire someone, and not just a fleeting desire but one that you think of often and is attainable.

Originally Posted by AirMax95

That is some real shit right there. Time wasters should kick boulders.

I see it as this: A desire, mental or physical, of another person while engaged in a committed relationship with someone else. Included, but not limited to: Intercourse (any), kissing, holding hands, touchy feely, gazing into eyes, phone sex, interwebz loving, etc.

I have to agree with both of you. Yall said it perfect. I cant stand cheaters. The emotional attachment to someone else is what hurts the most.

**LizBiz** · 03-10-2009, 10:34 AM

Originally Posted by AirMax95

I see it as this: A desire, mental or physical, of another person while engaged in a committed relationship with someone else. Included, but not limited to: Intercourse (any), kissing, holding hands, touchy feely, gazing into eyes, phone sex, interwebz loving, etc.

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Honestly, I know I will be critiqued for this... but I would be more inclined to forgive sexual/physical encounter more so than emotional. I think that one hurts the most. When nothing has happened yet, but he spends more time talking to the other female... Ugh. I consider it cheating when you desire someone, and not just a fleeting desire but one that you think of often and is attainable.

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Don't even need to say mine, ya'll said it for me.

**IMPORTchic** · 03-10-2009, 12:20 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Honestly, I know I will be critiqued for this... but I would be more inclined to forgive sexual/physical encounter more so than emotional. I think that one hurts the most. When nothing has happened yet, but he spends more time talking to the other female... Ugh. I consider it cheating when you desire someone, and not just a fleeting desire but one that you think of often and is attainable.

Originally Posted by AirMax95

That is some real shit right there. Time wasters should kick boulders.

I see it as this: A desire, mental or physical, of another person while engaged in a committed relationship with someone else. Included, but not limited to: Intercourse (any), kissing, holding hands, touchy feely, gazing into eyes, phone sex, interwebz loving, etc.

Both of ya'll are right!! Emotional is WAYYY worse than physical....

I would KILL a dude if he cheated on me though and I had involved myself for soooo long and was in love and attached. THat is just wrong. If you are not happy enough with someone in the first place to even contemplate cheating then you just need to break up with them before hand. I have been in a situation once in my life where I was just casually dating someone and could not quit thinking about another person....SO....I left the person I was dating for the person that I obviously was falling in love with!

No since in living a lie.....if you want to hoe around, just do it, but on someoen elses time or better yet your OWN!

**lcortes32** · 03-10-2009, 12:22 PM

Originally Posted by IMPORTchic

Both of ya'll are right!! Emotional is WAYYY worse than physical....

I would KILL a dude if he cheated on me though and I had involved myself for soooo long and was in love and attached. THat is just wrong. If you are not happy enough with someone in the first place to even contemplate cheating then you just need to break up with them before hand. I have been in a situation once in my life where I was just casually dating someone and could not quit thinking about another person....SO....I left the person I was dating for the person that I obviously was falling in love with!

No since in living a lie.....if you want to hoe around, just do it, but on someoen elses time or better yet your OWN!

Wow Nice I Agree..!!

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by IMPORTchic

Both of ya'll are right!! Emotional is WAYYY worse than physical....

I would KILL a dude if he cheated on me though and I had involved myself for soooo long and was in love and attached. THat is just wrong. If you are not happy enough with someone in the first place to even contemplate cheating then you just need to break up with them before hand. I have been in a situation once in my life where I was just casually dating someone and could not quit thinking about another person....SO....I left the person I was dating for the person that I obviously was falling in love with!

No since in living a lie.....if you want to hoe around, just do it, but on someoen elses time or better yet your OWN!

agreed

**Catnip** · 03-10-2009, 12:37 PM

Originally Posted by IMPORTchic

Both of ya'll are right!! Emotional is WAYYY worse than physical....

I would KILL a dude if he cheated on me though and I had involved myself for soooo long and was in love and attached. THat is just wrong. If you are not happy enough with someone in the first place to even contemplate cheating then you just need to break up with them before hand. I have been in a situation once in my life where I was just casually dating someone and could not quit thinking about another person....SO....I left the person I was dating for the person that I obviously was falling in love with!

No since in living a lie.....if you want to hoe around, just do it, but on someoen elses time or better yet your OWN!

+1

No use in starting something if you're gonna hurt that person by cheating.

**ksniperfox** · 03-10-2009, 10:42 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Honestly, I know I will be critiqued for this... but I would be more inclined to forgive sexual/physical encounter more so than emotional. I think that one hurts the most. When nothing has happened yet, but he spends more time talking to the other female... Ugh. I consider it cheating when you desire someone, and not just a fleeting desire but one that you think of often and is attainable.

i agree 100%.

mistakes can happen. people get drunk and horny. its the emotional factor that hurts the most.

**AirMax95** · 03-10-2009, 10:44 AM

Originally Posted by ksniperfox

i agree 100%.

mistakes can happen. people get drunk and horny. its the emotional factor that hurts the most.

Why do those two follow each other?

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 09:59 AM

Wait, Xrunner I thought you had a pregnant girlfriend you were staying with?

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 12:58 PM

Originally Posted by SlowsterCivy

Wait, Xrunner I thought you had a pregnant girlfriend you were staying with?

Well she cheated on me and her ass got kicked to the curb. I doubt if the baby is mine. This thread has nothing to do with her or that situation though.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 01:13 PM

Originally Posted by X-Runner

Well she cheated on me and her ass got kicked to the curb. I doubt if the baby is mine. This thread has nothing to do with her or that situation though.

Don't blame you. I'd kick anyone to the cub that cheated as well. You might want to find out when the baby gets here if it is yours though to make sure. Even if she's the type to sleep around.

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by SlowsterCivy

Don't blame you. I'd kick anyone to the cub that cheated as well. You might want to find out when the baby gets here if it is yours though to make sure. Even if she's the type to sleep around.

I will and if the babys mine then great, Ill take care of my baby. It all went down the day before valentines day and then she called on valentines day crying saying she loved me and wanted to spend the day with me. I said "well I don't want to spend it with you" and hung up.

**Maniacc** · 03-10-2009, 10:19 AM

If you have to ask what's considered 'cheating' then you're a fucking delusional moron.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 10:23 AM

He wasn't asking what cheating was....... He asked what everyone else considered cheating.

**Maniacc** · 03-10-2009, 10:24 AM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

He wasn't asking what cheating was....... He asked what everyone else's version of cheating was.

I don't give a fuck.

Did I ask for a goddamn explaination?

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 10:25 AM

well sho shit in your cereal today?

**Sammich** · 03-10-2009, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

well sho shit in your cereal today?

I PLEAD THE FIF..HE SHOULDA GAVE ME WENDY'S NUMBER...

**HeLLo iM iZzY** · 03-10-2009, 10:28 AM

Originally Posted by Sammich

I PLEAD THE FIF..HE SHOULDA GAVE ME WENDY'S NUMBER...

Do you have to fuck every thread up?

**Sammich** · 03-10-2009, 10:30 AM

Originally Posted by HeLLo iM iZzY

Do you have to fuck every thread up?

do you have to borrow my balls?
i have contributed, and will contribute more to the main subject of this thread so go kill the bug on your screen nephtali

wendy is his beautiful nosed sister

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 10:28 AM

LOL whos wendy?

**Maniacc** · 03-10-2009, 10:29 AM

I haven't gotten any pussy in a week - probably that's why... luckly that'll end TONIGHT though! :p

But my definition of cheating is; kissing another dude that is NOT me or getting physically involved with some random fuck. Of course, I've never experienced someone cheating on me but I'm sure it's gotta suck.

**The Ninja** · 03-10-2009, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by Maniacurabus06

I haven't gotten any pussy in a week - probably that's why... luckly that'll end TONIGHT though! :p

But my definition of cheating is; kissing another dude that is NOT me or getting physically involved with some random fuck. Of course, I've never experienced someone cheating on me but I'm sure it's gotta suck.

Thats because you fuck with bitches that are good at it.

**HeLLo iM iZzY** · 03-10-2009, 10:31 AM

You're annoying as shit.

STFU.

**Sammich** · 03-10-2009, 10:32 AM

Originally Posted by HeLLo iM iZzY

You're annoying as shit.

STFU.

so is the bug on your screen, its obviously not me now taking this thread off topic, great job...izzy

**Maniacc** · 03-10-2009, 10:33 AM

Both of you fuckers stfu.

**HeLLo iM iZzY** · 03-10-2009, 10:34 AM

Originally Posted by Maniacurabus06

Both of you fuckers stfu.

FUCK YOU.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 10:38 AM

His sister huh?

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 10:55 AM

I dunno. LOL when i get drunk i go get my gf and take her to teh room lol

**lcortes32** · 03-10-2009, 12:02 PM

Its Only Cheating if you get Caught.!!

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 12:04 PM

Everyone is bright enought to know what cheating is and what cheating isn't. ( I would hope)

**lcortes32** · 03-10-2009, 12:07 PM

Originally Posted by SlowsterCivy

Everyone is bright enought to know what cheating is and what cheating isn't. ( I would hope)

True True but like i said its alll good till someone gets Caught

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