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    Default Did your parents "beat" you?

    Judging by the posts I see I doubt it. But simple question.. simple answer, its a subject of debate amongst friends.

    I've wooped my son twice, my dad might have wooped me the same amount of times. He passed down the notion that the fear will translate to discipline.. and once there is discipline beatings aren't needed. Worked for him.. works for me. (my mom and oldest sister did get me a few times)

    I see these little badasses in Wal Mart acting up and to me.. its the result of the lack of a good ass beating. Just my opinion, whats yours?

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    yeah. my mom beat the shit out of me. i never had a dad to, so she played both roles.

    im gonna beat my children too. most white people are too scared to beat their children or something, i dont know what it is about them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ed
    most white people are too scared to beat their children or something, i dont know what it is about them.
    Not true in my family. I grew up with my Mom and my grandparents. When I got it, I got it x3. Literally. They all took a turn. They would even give the principal permission when he would call them at work from school (elementary). I don't see a thing wrong with spanking as a form of discipline. Later, QD.
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    Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
    Not true in my family. I grew up with my Mom and my grandparents. When I got it, I got it x3. Literally. They all took a turn. They would even give the principal permission when he would call them at work from school (elementary). I don't see a thing wrong with spanking as a form of discipline. Later, QD.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ed
    yeah. my mom beat the shit out of me. i never had a dad to, so she played both roles.

    im gonna beat my children too. most white people are too scared to beat their children or something, i dont know what it is about them.
    agreed!

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    I never got beaten.


    I got my ASS WHOOPED!!!


    List of weapons:
    -hand
    -belt
    -switches (I used to have to pick out 3 and my mom braided those bitches together)
    -flipflops
    -towels
    etc...

    My mom used to whooped my ass to each damn word of a sentence. I used to get my ass whooped for the shit I did for the last whooping, and the shit I was going to do in the future

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    I beat my parents.

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    lol..........i was never beaten

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    yep. by mother and father. dunno if thats why i turned out the way i did (pretty well behaved and respectful) or not, but i got hit when bad. then at like 11-12 i jsut got grounded, ect.
    And miles to go before I sleep,
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    Quote Originally Posted by HypnoToad
    lol..........i was never beaten
    my point exactly. white folks never beat their children

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ed
    my point exactly. white folks never beat their children
    they never had a reason too.........but id let my wife do it,not me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HypnoToad
    they never had a reason too.........but id let my wife do it,not me.
    lol , i'd let your wife me too ,lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by HypnoToad
    they never had a reason too.........but id let my wife do it,not me.
    dont get me wrong i didnt say you were bad or anything. just used you as an example since you are white and never got beaten.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ed
    dont get me wrong i didnt say you were bad or anything. just used you as an example since you are white and never got beaten.

    mulletman
    lol,u caught me........i think being white is also why i listen to metal and drive a camaro.

    its my skin's fault.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ed
    my point exactly. white folks never beat their children
    bullshit.

    my dad beat me w/the belt, and my mom.... well.... she'd beat me with whatever she could find.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ed
    my point exactly. white folks never beat their children
    Thats not true my grandpa use to give it to me hard when i was fukin up

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    i totally agree with you , America has become sissyfied! my mom used to beat me with a belt when i was growin up , i learned a lot of respect for my elders due to my whippins

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    I got beat by my mom, pops wasn't around. There were times he was though, and I had happened to act up the same time so yea he probably beat me a couple times. 1-2 times ain't shit.

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    My parents wouldn't hesitate to beat me when I deserved it, and it kept me in line most of the time (of course a child will act up, regardless).

    I totally plan on punishing my child the same way.
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    My parents didn't beat me and I don't plan on beating my children.

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    In all seriousness though, I got punished. My kids will to. I'm tired of looking at all these pussy ass kids who get everything they want from their parents. If I have a whiny little bastard of a child I'm going to beat some manliness into him.

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    I guess my parents never "beat" me lol, but I was spanked as a child, and I will have absolutely problem spanking my daughter.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Princess12
    I will have absolutely problem spanking my daughter.
    Is that a YES or a NO?

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    MongolPup was a spoiled brat.

    LOL

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    "spank" sounds like pussy shit.

    Tell a kid you're going to spank them.

    Now tell the same kid you're going to beat them.

    Which is more effective?

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    a switch was taken to my ass a few times when i was a kid


    i blame me being respectfull and mature IRL to that

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    You know.. my mom beating me didnt have the same effect of my dad doing it. I was scared shitless of my dad, with my mom a beating just meant I need to find another way of accomplishing whatever I was doing.
    Last edited by tony; 01-02-2009 at 08:45 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tony
    You know.. my mom beating me didnt have the same effect of my dad doing it. I was scared shitless of my dad, with my mom a beating just meant I need to find another was of accomplishing whatever I was doing.
    Haha this is pretty much how I remember my childhood being.

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    Awesome thread Tony


    god knows growing up in the islands i got a beating with whatever was nearby at the time....broom...belt....usually buckle end...pot....shoe....rolled up newspaper.......very extensive list

    sometimes i would get called in casually like nothing was wrong & once i was in the shower (JAWS THEME MUSIC) i would be attacked

    guess thats why im so hardcore gangster now

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nitro

    sometimes i would get called in casually like nothing was wrong & once i was in the shower (JAWS THEME MUSIC) i would be attacked
    Dang thoes ones while you were wet are the worst ones!!!!! I feel your pain.
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    my mom made me go outside and let me pick my own switches and if it was too small she would go out pick one about 3x the size. i also got "whoopins" with belts too. i think i turned out o.k.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr.G35
    i think i turned out o.k.
    Same here. Later, QD.
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    yeah I've been set straight by my parents a bunch of times when I was little.. I definitely think it worked, and I think through that I've gained respect.


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    I was "beat" even though i think thats too strong a term. I would get a nice 'whack" on my butt when i was younger if i got out of line.

    But anything past 10 years old in my mind i dont remember anything.

    There was one time when i was 16 (i was a complete asshole and extremely dissrespectfull) i mouthed off something nasty to my mother. All i remember is my Dad running around a corner , grabbing me by my shirt and pinning me up against a wall saying "what did you say"

    lol

    THat was the last time i was nasty to my mother. From then on it was respect.
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    This is an excellent thread topic. I'm not in the mood but I'll eventually write a serious/long response. I can see both sides of it, but a lack of discipline comes from more then just not being physically punished. There are so many ways to accomplish the same thing.

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    1) Mike, what did you say to your mom?

    2) Ed, Portuguese is weak sauce.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MongolPup
    1) Mike, what did you say to your mom?

    2) Ed, Portuguese is weak sauce.
    At least i wasnt a brat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ed
    At least i wasnt a brat.

    Whitey
    I'll get your whole goddamn family deported asshat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MongolPup
    1) Mike, what did you say to your mom?

    2) Ed, Portuguese is weak sauce.
    IIRC she told me to take the trash out and i said "make me" as i walked off.
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    o snap

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