grasshopper needs some help

[Quattro Kid]

ok, so here's the deal, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months now and I feel like we're f%cking married, I used to spend ALL my time with her and rarely saw any of my friends (some are members on this site), I've now found a balance between spending time with bond my friends and my girlfriend. But was I was originally getting at was, I'm pretty good at picking up girls and hooking up with them and all that $hit. But me and my g/f rarely ever do "anything" anymore, hence me feeling like I'm married, and it's not like she's prude or anything b/c we did when we first started going out, everytime there's an opportunity for us to have some "alone time", it never ckufing works out so, I was wondering if there was anything that I could do for us to starts doing "stuff" again, any ways to set it up where we get alone time or where she wants to engage in "stuff"


discuss/ advice needed lol

edit: new info she lives with her parents still back in my hometown which is about 20 min away, and I live in a dorm downtown, but I come home on Thursdays after my last class, and leave back to downtown on late sunday night

new edit: i love the girl to so i can't just break up w/ her over it, and I'm in really good terms with her family and really close with them, everything's perfect besides what i talked about above

[s13slider®]

get her drunk

[tko]

Birthday:
October 1, 1988


If you're feeling like that at 19, move on.

[Quattro Kid]

ya i know, but to be honest (although it sounds gay) i really do love her though, so I can't just break up w/ her, and I'm not an asshole, so I can't just be like I wanna break up if we don't start doing stuff again...

[redrumracer]

just tell her

[On_Her_Face]

hah ben u already know my advice

[HeLLo iM iZzY]

TELL HER!

Its best to let her know how you feel and not keep it inside yourself. If you keep it inside, it's gonna eat you up more.

[Quattro Kid]

ya i know imma do that next weekend, I've kinda talked about it before but she was all like "well that's not what a relationships about though", so I guess I'm coming at her the wrong way

ya i know birry, but you know how i feel too lol

[iEvo]

get her drunk

STFU dude......ben i was in the same situation. the best thing to do is spend less time together. it really helps

[iEvo]

why does everyone on here have to be an asshole about it???? it is what it is, if he loves her then he probably does. Ben is a good guy, so the retarted advice u guys r givin him is goin to go in 1 eye and out the other

[quickdodge®]

If you love her like you say you do, you wouldn't let this interfere with your relationship. Later, QD.

[quickdodge®]

why does everyone on here have to be an asshole about it????

Honestly, if he would have posted this in the correct section, it wouldn't get slammed on like this. Posting something like this in the WL is asking for smart ass replies. Later, QD.

[TheProfiteer]

This happens alot when people are together for a while.

You want to get over this, what you are going to have to do is reprogram your self to the same mentality you had when you first met her.

And thats do everything in your power to impress her and make her happy.



Edit, its actualy the same situation with me and my GF.

[On_Her_Face]

ben.. what did she get u for ur b-day? just wondering

[tko]

ben.. what did she get u for ur b-day? just wondering

If he says "nothing" he's an idiot if he still loves her. That alone shows how much she cares about you.

[On_Her_Face]

na she gets him nice ****.. got him a sidekick3 for graduation..

[Magnus213]

I definitely got that feeling with my old girlfriend, I would suggest simply talking to her about it. You could also do something especially romantic to spark feelings, it's not difficult to take her out to / make a nice dinner. Best-kept romantic secret: Costco roses. I think it's like $13-14 for two dozen really nice roses. Can't go wrong.

If you're really happy with her, don't let it make things weird. Communication is key, even though the subject's a bit awkward.

[On_Her_Face]

ya TRY THE SHOCKER.. hah ok seriousness now.. ya take her some where nice (not on spring break with us or i will bail)

[Quattro Kid]

as to what QD said, i wasn't sure where to post it, so...

as to what LS2 kid said, she got me the new Ipod Nano, it's badass and she got me the 8 gb version, not the 4gb, oh and her parents got me Gladiator on DVD and an Affliction shirt, ill wear it on thursday

and far as what Black IX said, yea that kinda does help, i've noticed that w/ me living downtown now, it was hard at first cause we were used to seeing each other everyday, but like starting this weekend we didn't fight at all

and as far as what Magnus213 said, I do alot of really nice things for her, and i'm always doing stuff for her, but thanks for that advice though, ill deff. hit up costco next time

and as far as what theprofiteer said, i understand what you mean, and ill probly start doing a little of that


pluses for everyone who gave actually usefull advice, thank you for bringin the knowledge

edit: birry, why would i take her on SB w/ us? besides she's got school... dummy lol

[Blitanicle99]

Hmm... Try the quoting feature, its quite nice.
But seriously, tell her. The worst answer your gonna get is a no. Best answer is your gonna find out she is a freak and wants it more than you do and you know your hitting it then. So **** it. Your in college, she aint apparently. Yeah you love her, but do you honestly think your gonna marry that girl? Chances are very slim to none. Either start hitting it or honestly man find yourself new ass. Because honest to god its a legitamint reason. If you think about it, women are definately hornier than men, thus they want the **** worse than you wanna hit that *****. And if your in a relationship where you arent getting any, arent you almost went after in the first place? That fine ass? And then you realized you were emotionaly attached? I dont know about any of yall but thats how it usualy works out. If I dont hit it before I really start a relationship I wont do it. Why date a girl who doesnt enjoy the same level of sex as you do?
Seriously tho, bringing it up will help alot. And most girls like gettin it but wont talk about it. In every girl there is a freak, you just gotta hit the right buttons.

Oh and... I just burned so that little essay on how to get laid is kinda jumbled.

[coolcat]

get her drunk

X2 on that one.

[81911SC]

Have you made any "moves"? Have the moves been rejected? If so, slap her and try again. Seriously though, if your not making any moves chances are she won't. If you are just ask whats her deal.

[coolcat]

Just walk up behind her, bend her over, and dryf*ck the sh*t out of her, if she gets mad, break up with her.

[KPowerEP3]

as to what QD said, i wasn't sure where to post it, so...

as to what LS2 kid said, she got me the new Ipod Nano, it's badass and she got me the 8 gb version, not the 4gb, oh and her parents got me Gladiator on DVD and an Affliction shirt, ill wear it on thursday

and far as what Black IX said, yea that kinda does help, i've noticed that w/ me living downtown now, it was hard at first cause we were used to seeing each other everyday, but like starting this weekend we didn't fight at all

and as far as what Magnus213 said, I do alot of really nice things for her, and i'm always doing stuff for her, but thanks for that advice though, ill deff. hit up costco next time

and as far as what theprofiteer said, i understand what you mean, and ill probly start doing a little of that


pluses for everyone who gave actually usefull advice, thank you for bringin the knowledge

edit: birry, why would i take her on SB w/ us? besides she's got school... dummy lol

Profiteers advice is the best I've heard yet. I was in your same situation not too long ago with a girl I've been with for 2 years now. It takes some work, but instead of having that "same ol same ol" mentality, you almost have to FORCE yourself to feel excited about just being able to see her, than after a little bit, it will start to be that way naturally again. At least, that's how it worked for me. Good luck.

[TheProfiteer]

Just walk up behind her, bend her over, and dryf*ck the sh*t out of her, if she gets mad, break up with her.

lol, in essance this really isnt bad advice.

I mean if he said it a little more politely then it would be usefull

Just done day, completely unexpected, bend her over and take it to town

oh I promise she'll go absolutely nuts about it.

[Jecht]

Well if you want more alone time, just plan ahead instead of waiting until the last minute and then realizing that you have other things you need to do. If you truly love her though, this shouldn't matter.

[quickdodge®]

lol, in essance this really isnt bad advice.

I mean if he said it a little more politely then it would be usefull

Just done day, completely unexpected, bend her over and take it to town

oh I promise she'll go absolutely nuts about it.

If he loves the girl, that's 100% bad advice. Of course a lot of you people have no idea what a real relationship is all about. Later, QD.

[Kelly]

So **** it. Your in college, she aint apparently. Yeah you love her, but do you honestly think your gonna marry that girl? Chances are very slim to none. Either start hitting it or honestly man find yourself new ass. Because honest to god its a legitamint reason. If you think about it, women are definately hornier than men, thus they want the **** worse than you wanna hit that *****. And if your in a relationship where you arent getting any, arent you almost went after in the first place? That fine ass? And then you realized you were emotionaly attached? I dont know about any of yall but thats how it usualy works out. If I dont hit it before I really start a relationship I wont do it. Why date a girl who doesnt enjoy the same level of sex as you do?

That is the worst thing I've ever heard...

Romance is the key. If kyle is sweet to me all day long he will be rewarded.
If he's been a jerk, it's outta the question (well usually anways).

Remember "Men are like microwaves, Women are like ovens..."

[Quattro Kid]

thank you all for the advice, i know some of yall were just being smart asses but for the other's, thank you

and to everyone that said it shouldn't matter if i really love her then yes you're right, but i'm a 19 year old male, that's a f*ckin horndog, so yea i want to see how i can change things, thats all....

[SloWRX]

[Quattro Kid]

well Fume, you can suck my dyck

[Maniaç]

Ben, do what you think is best. You're 19, old enough to know what to do in the situation.

[Crazy Asian]

Just her tell this

Theres plenty of fish in the sea.

[Hundo®]

lose weight. make yourself more appealing, and then act like you dont want her, and then move on. if this ***** has "lost it" after 8 months you 2 are ****ed.

[Quattro Kid]

what the ****, kayfunk i've met you in real life, i was a wrestler in high school, i'm not fat whatsoever, and girls DO find me attractive, so you're advice sucks

but as to what Alex said, ya i know, you're right, but i've never really had a serious relationship before so i didn't know exactly what to do
never don't this before = advice
advice = good
lol

[Hundo®]

what the ****, kayfunk i've met you in real life, i was a wrestler in high school, i'm not fat whatsoever, and girls DO find me attractive, so you're advice sucks

but as to what Alex said, ya i know, you're right, but i've never really had a serious relationship before so i didn't know exactly what to do
never don't this before = advice
advice = good
lol

lmao i know im just being an ass, but on the honest side, if your relationship is like this fater 8 months, you need to move on.


more than likely she's bored of the same thing.. like most people get.. the next step is she starts cheating on you.

[S II K]

ben we had this convo last thursday. i know how this works man just try not to spend alot of time with her and or call her alot. be a little different with her. she will then come to her sences and be like shet i might be doing something wrong. like when you come back to town dont ruch to her if she calls just be like oh im hanginout with will or billy or etc.


with me the whole being a d*ck thing works. im actually going through the same thing with ashley right now except she feels like you feel and i know how to make her wanna fcuk everytime we hangout. im jsut an asshole but to a certain degree, you have to be a nice also but not too repetative.


balance it out man if its ment to be everything will work out fine if not then some girl will come along that will ride you in bed like sea biscuit and you're feelings will change towards her. talk to her about this and if she doesnt change then id say dip out.

[Hundo®]

ben we had this convo last thursday. i know how this **** works man just try not to spend alot of time with her and or call her alot. be a little different with her. she will then come to her sences and be like **** i might be doing something wrong. like when you come back to town dont ruch to her if she calls just be like oh im hanginout with will or billy or etc.


with me the whole being a **** thing works. im actually going through the same thing with ashley right now except she feels like you feel and i know how to make her wanna fcuk everytime we hangout. im jsut an asshole but to a certain degree, you have to be a nice also but not too repetative.


balance it out man if its ment to be everything will work out fine if not then some girl will come along that will ride you in bed like sea biscuit and you're feelings will change towards her. talk to her about this and if she doesnt change then id say dip out.

+1

treating girls ilke trash ftw.


you were at sonic last thurs?

[S II K]

+1

treating girls ilke trash ftw.


you were at sonic last thurs?

yeah man i drive the silver audi with black wheels.
i talked to you about....ha idk but yeah we talked.

[Hundo®]

yeah man i drive the silver audi with black wheels.
i talked to you about....ha idk but yeah we talked.

hm.. you wore a hat? short? like 5-5 5-6? or maybe i just underestimate your height because im taller.