This is a serious question for those who are married or in a serious relationship...

So I know a couple who is married with 2 kids, one day the father comes home and tells his wife he is not in love with her anymore and he just can't be with her (summer 06). They at first try to work through their problems, but its just not there to fix. When your not in love your just not in love, and its not right to be together for the kids. It does come to light that the father is not longer in love with his wife but in love with another woman (a neighbor). He is now looked upon as a cheater; he has broken up his marriage for this woman. The wife consults in many friends/family including her in-laws that are appalled at their son's actions. She even consults her husbands best friend on what to do she wants to make it work. In Dec he decides to leave the home and go live else where until the divorce is finale and so he can get on with his new life. They call it quits.

Last week it was brought to our attention that this story has a slight twist... a few years back we find out the wife had an affair with someone in her company and the husband stayed with her after it ended. We were taken back by the idea but ok it was in the past. Well that wasn't it... the wife has been messing around with her husband's best friend for quite sometime (he is a neighbor as well), also 2nd man from her work, a younger man has entered the picture recently also since the husband left, and to top it all off she is bringing these men home while their children are asleep. One night one of the gentlemen had to hide as the 5 yr old walked into the bed room.

Here is my thing... the entire time me and many others have been duped by this person and her lies. Making her husband out to be this cheater who went outside of his marriage playing to everyone's hearts, but yet she herself is guilty of far worse. I mean to me at least the husband had enough guts to call it quits, she on the other hand not only has been cheating on him for years with multiple men w/o his knowledge but to top it all off tried to get him to stay with her so they could have their picture perfect family while she is off screwing these other men he doesn't know about (including screwing his best friend).

What would you do knowing such information? I'm not one to try to get into others business specially like this, but I think for the children's sake he needs to know she is bringing multiple men home while his children are asleep in the next room. Personally I think they both have some serious issues and she is royally messed up.... and that neighbor hood sounds like a swingers party; everyone is sleeping around! Would you want to know such info if you were the husband? And if you knew this info would you tell him?