some mistakes in life that you wish you could take back

[dLux636]

list some mistakes in your life that you made that you wish you could take back. remember: your actions make who you are, iam talking about mistakes that have no positives to them.

ill start. i was dating this girl who was a total control freak, i actually have just gotten out of a relationship with her, but my point is she was a control freak. my good friend was sent away to iraq in october till august. he wanted to hang out one last time before he had to leave, i could not because i was working 50 hours a week and my g/f at the time would go nuts everytime i would try to do something with one of my friends. she would just get mad and say "your not making any time for me". so i ended up not being able to do something with him one last time before his deployment to iraq. i have not heard anything from him for a while now, i cant get a hold of his parents. right now iam just hoping that everything is alright. this is something i can never take back and i can never forgive myself for.

[Ran]

1) Running from the police and wrecking my first car, almost killing myself and two of my friends.

Lesson Learned: Don't run from the police.

2) Going to my girlfriends house, then getting seduced by her sister and cheating of her while she wasn't there.

Lesson Learned: Don't cheat.

3) ALMOST doing something I'd regret with a girl that wasn't of legal age.

Lesson Learned: Forbidden fruit is forbidden.


Actually, I don't really regret the last one since I stopped before anything happened. Had I actually done it, then I would have probably hated myself for all time. Real talk.

[Frög]

choosing UGA over GA tech..
lesson learned: easy way out isnt easy..

not using a condom with this one chick one time when i was drunk..
lesson learned: not worth it..

slacking off freshman year..
lesson learned: slacking off now only gives you more work later..

so much waisted money with my ex..
lesson learned: b!tches ain't sh!t but hoes and tricks..

being smarter than this one cop who ended up owning me..
lesson learned: yes sir, sorry sir..

driving drunk..
lesson learned: not worth it..

[EJ25RUN]

buying a honda

[james]

clicking on this thread.

[Killer]

Barely getting by in high school when i had the potential to be an all A student. (basically slacking on work/skipping class type of stuff) i could've had college freaking paid for.... but slacking and paying way too much attn to "other things" (ex girlfriend) screwed me over on that...

and not going to college when all the other was fresh on my mind... now i'm 22 i've got a decent paying job and all but i still wish i had gone... cause now i can't really afford it nor do i have the time.

[EJ25RUN]

Barely getting by in high school when i had the potential to be an all A student. (basically slacking on work/skipping class type of stuff) i could've had college freaking paid for.... but slacking and paying way too much attn to "other things" (ex girlfriend) screwed me over on that...

and not going to college when all the other was fresh on my mind... now i'm 22 i've got a decent paying job and all but i still wish i had gone... cause now i can't really afford it nor do i have the time.

im still saving the cash so i can get back into a full time class schedule

[Blitanicle99]

In all our seriousness, nothing. I do not think people should have regrets, because at one time, it was what they wanted. Second guessing yourself later after the result is just poor judgement. You would not have made that decision if you did not think it was appropriate at the time or situation.
Live life like everyday is your last.

[redpanda]

choosing a pos camry over a 5spd 4th gen accord..

[JDMrequired]

1)

2) Going to my girlfriends house, then getting seduced by her sister and cheating of her while she wasn't there.

Lesson Learned: Don't cheat.

what a pimp regret

[japan4racing]

not being a drug dealer......i could be rich right now if i had just started dealing cocain instead of wasting time with school and starting my career

[Firefightin_tC]

Should've went to Valdosta State to play football instead of West Georgia...

...sumbeach...

[LQQKITZME]

I have alot...

[ChnkyLao]

i stole some batteries, but as caugh by an employee following me around posing as a customer.

guy had me arrested. i sat in jail and bail cost $1000,

all this because i thought i save $5 stealing batteries,

[santacruz77]

being born living this life in the closet and being banned from heaven.......


i kid i kid lmao

[Master Shake]

Barely getting by in high school when i had the potential to be an all A student. (basically slacking on work/skipping class type of stuff) i could've had college freaking paid for.... but slacking and paying way too much attn to "other things" (ex girlfriend) screwed me over on that...

and not going to college when all the other was fresh on my mind... now i'm 22 i've got a decent paying job and all but i still wish i had gone... cause now i can't really afford it nor do i have the time.

word. i some how got hope and now have an intership. have you checked out any colleges and see about a student loan? maybe some online classes or something. just enough to pay for what you abosolutely need.

it would be nice to changes some things in my life....but i am who i am.

[MistaCee]

Barely getting by in high school when i had the potential to be an all A student. (basically slacking on work/skipping class type of stuff) i could've had college freaking paid for.... but slacking and paying way too much attn to "other things" (ex girlfriend) screwed me over on that...

and not going to college when all the other was fresh on my mind... now i'm 22 i've got a decent paying job and all but i still wish i had gone... cause now i can't really afford it nor do i have the time.

I'm graduating this year and in the same situation

[Pickleteg]

Sleeping with my best friends girl while he was passed out. They are now married and he knows now. We were all hammered beyond belief. All is good now between the three of us now but I still hate myself for it.

[jimmya109]

I'm graduating this year and in the same situation

x2

[SouthSide Tay]

i regret NOT merking my baby's momma when i had the chance! would have made my life so much easier

[AnthonyF]

nice writeup frog.


1)getting jealous with a girl i was datin for 3 years when she was doing NOTHING wrong, but being 4 hours away makes ur mind wander.
-lost my high school sweetheart and greatest girl ive met

2)my last g/f a control freak, never let me spend time with my friends, was a liar and just a straight up BìTCH!
-NEVER EVER let a girl run your life...EVER! unless she pays for everything.


My ONLY 2 regrets in life. I really wish i hung onto her.


Frog she actually goes to UGA now. lol

[pali_meister]

****... all of the girlfriends, drinking and driving, getting arrested a bunch of times, getting hooked on OCs, and buying a civic instead of a 240 for my first car.

[khaxnguyen]

if only i was a bit more observant of the "real life" other than doing what was fun..... i'm underinformed.... by alot...

[AnthonyF]

^lolol @ ur rep comment.

[autumnk5]

i realized that everything that was a regret, made a difference sometime in my life.

1. meeting my exboyfriend who introduced me to drugs.
--- even though this was one bad mistake, i'm glad it happened. who introduced me to my next boyfriend.

2. meeting another exboyfriend.
--- who cheated on me, which made me want to cheat, and made me lose my virginity.

3. meeting an exbestfriend.
--- even though she was a whore, she got me to hang with her boyfriend, who is on here. and he went to car things. which introduced me to many people.

sooo i basically regret meeting alot of people. but i now realize that it was great that it happened, because i wouldn't have met all the good people i know now.

[AnthonyF]

^if that is true i feel for ya. You shouldnt be influenced by others. Gotta be stronger than them

[Kevykev]

I really regret clicking on the link to the infamous video 2girls1cup.

only regret in life.

[JITB]

i regret not playin sports only because my dad wanted me to, like my brothers..lol, because i was really good...could have went far!
i regret not goin to college right after HS
i regret selling my SvT... *cries*

[khaxnguyen]

i realized that everything that was a regret, made a difference sometime in my life.
......................
sooo i basically regret meeting alot of people. but i now realize that it was great that it happened, because i wouldn't have met all the good people i know now.

daamn girl. u should use alll that to learn from it. wow! but if i wasnt introduced to drugs before, i might be crazy over it now. and smoking, glad i quitted! Learning and experience things should be something you should look forward to. but GL from here on out.

[Reaper]

1. Showing off in my car when I was inexperienced and immature
-12k worth of damage to car/all graduation money spent on insurance deductible($1500)

2. Breaking up w/the love of my life over another girl.
-Didn't speak for a year but now things are on track to get back together(yay)

3. Choosing "temporary" friends over life long friends
-Caused a lot of drama,has taken a long time to get back to normal..still not the same..

Overall I try not to live in regret, life is too short to worry about the past..

[Frög]

nice writeup frog.


1)getting jealous with a girl i was datin for 3 years when she was doing NOTHING wrong, but being 4 hours away makes ur mind wander.
-lost my high school sweetheart and greatest girl ive met

2)my last g/f a control freak, never let me spend time with my friends, was a liar and just a straight up BìTCH!
-NEVER EVER let a girl run your life...EVER! unless she pays for everything.


My ONLY 2 regrets in life. I really wish i hung onto her.


Frog she actually goes to UGA now. lol

sweet, ya i had the same ****, i was 3 1/2 hours away of my ex, and sh!t went all wrong once we had that distance.. long distance relationships FTL..

[Reaper]

sweet, ya i had the same ****, i was 3 1/2 hours away of my ex, and sh!t went all wrong once we had that distance.. long distance relationships FTL..

amen to that, I went to valdosta and my ex went to uga...I was up there every weekend..unfortunately, after not coming up for two weeks..things started to get bad, I go up to surprise her...I walk in her apartment with her ****ing some other dude..since then..I'm REAL sketchy as to who I date..

[khaxnguyen]

^^ WOW! that suxxx yo.. i'd hate it if my girl cheated on me.... +2 for u and for thread starter

[Frög]

amen to that, I went to valdosta and my ex went to uga...I was up there every weekend..unfortunately, after not coming up for two weeks..things started to get bad, I go up to surprise her...I walk in her apartment with her ****ing some other dude..since then..I'm REAL sketchy as to who I date..

i couldn't imagine.. wow that must of sucked real bad.. what a ****!!

[AnthonyF]

sweet, ya i had the same ****, i was 3 1/2 hours away of my ex, and sh!t went all wrong once we had that distance.. long distance relationships FTL..

it was more mentality and me thinking of what she is doing but i would just be making sh*t up in my head....i basically ruined it. damn it...o'wells. I miss u froggy

[AnthonyF]

amen to that, I went to valdosta and my ex went to uga...I was up there every weekend..unfortunately, after not coming up for two weeks..things started to get bad, I go up to surprise her...I walk in her apartment with her ****ing some other dude..since then..I'm REAL sketchy as to who I date..

i think i remember you telling me this....reading it just really hits deep for me and others who have actually felt this kinda pain

[Frög]

it was more mentality and me thinking of what she is doing but i would just be making sh*t up in my head....i basically ruined it. damn it...o'wells. I miss u froggy

that was probably some of the reason on my side.. i miss ya too, ill see ya this weekend ight?

[GuessWho]

Wish i would of put a rubber on that one nite...

[ahmonrah]

i have no regrets, i understand that in this life, everything that happens to you, good or bad is your fault.

"either by your actions or INACTION, what happens to you in life is YOUR FAULT. what we should strive to actively work on in life is MINIMIZING YOUR MISTAKES..."

that's a little something i came to realize after the last "badstreak"(see, poor decisions) i went through years ago....then life flashed before me, all my choices and the consequences of them i seen and i wrote the statement above down and it all made sense.

in this life people, the one thing we have more control over, yet blame people for, and misuse.... is FREE WILL.

every choice has a consequence, from what to wear to what to do, and there is a good and bad consequence of everything.

you just have to weigh everything out. man up to what you choose and anticipate the consequence, which puts you back at a choice.

the cycle never ends.

[Quattro Kid]

choking some kid out in high school trying to show off to some other kids, when really it just made them think i'm crazy

not really pushing my parents for me to go to bama where I could be having the time of my life
(but now I'm gonna room with my best friend at either bama or uga and my g/f is still here )

but other than that all the stupid **** i've done just let to me having really good stories to tell lol