The topic of "swingers" is an interesting one. What are everyone's opinions on the subject? If you were in a relationship, would you even think about swinging?
Discuss.
Swingers
The topic of "swingers" is an interesting one. What are everyone's opinions on the subject? If you were in a relationship, would you even think about swinging?
Discuss.
Originally Posted by redGT
Well this poster hangs in my living room:
As for the actual topic, I tend to be a jealous boyfriend when I actually care about a girl, so I'm going to go with no, I wouldn't be alright with it.
On the other hand if it was some girl that I didn't really care all that much about...yeah...I might be alright with it.
me and my g/f have talked about it but idk if that would be the same as just going to another couples house and having sex with them or what i mean no swaping just sex as in a group thang lol
Interesting. Jaime and I have talked about it a few times. She is bisexual and is interested in bringing another woman into the bedroom (a hotel room that is) for a one time thing.
Absolutely not. And I know I'm speaking for Kyle too.
LMAO!!! Keep thinking that.
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
My wife and I have been active swingers for some time. My wife might as well be a lesbian though, she say's my **** is the only one she can stomach hahahahahaha. We have swapped with other couples though. If you have any questions just ask.
89 EE Wagon
Ok, I will...
You don't know me or him so no comment was needed.
Kthanksbye
shes telling you that you are small
Resize sig area!
Ok, I will...
You don't know me or him so no comment was needed.
Kthanksbye
Because you don't bless us with your much needed ( read sarcasm) opinion on s h i t or people you know nothing of......
Anyway, I have done the threesome thing and even a foursome, all girls, and everytime it was not with a gf...I don't think it's the best thing for a relationship unless there is trust and also rules to go along with the "swinging". Frankly, I don't feel like it can ever just be a one time thing, so make sure you guys have many talks about the issue before you actually do it and set some boundaries.
and before I forget, Baby J I tried to rep you for the comment that prompted the idiocy that I quoted but:
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to BABY J again.
i'd rep you if i could but i'm repped out for the day
btw no i wouldnt i'm a jealous arse husband
And I bet you drive an over compensation car...like say a cobra little boy.
89 EE Wagon
Dude, shut the hell up. Do you follow me and Killer around just to hate? Seems like it... Then you Rep me out of nowhere the other day. Do you hate me or not? Which is it?Because you don't bless us with your much needed ( read sarcasm) opinion on s h i t or people you know nothing of......
Anyway, I have done the threesome thing and even a foursome, all girls, and everytime it was not with a gf...I don't think it's the best thing for a relationship unless there is trust and also rules to go along with the "swinging". Frankly, I don't feel like it can ever just be a one time thing, so make sure you guys have many talks about the issue before you actually do it and set some boundaries.
and before I forget, Baby J I tried to rep you for the comment that prompted the idiocy that I quoted but:
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to BABY J again.
I know Baby J was saying that cuz "kyle is a guy and all guys would want that" etc... For all I know he was just messin with me. Regardless, it's not a serious issue. Now run along... Good grief
whoa.... people are flipping out...
and for the record... i'm out on swinging....
nor am i ok with bringing in an extra player into the bedroom...
now, i have stated in the past it would be different if i was a single guy and two random chicks (without the stds) wanted to hook up...
but i'm in a relationship with a person for a reason. i care about them and only them.. and to see them with someone else to or to be with someone else myself would just be un natural to me...
PMS=
And this guy has been a **** one to many times... Just cuz you are racist.
WTF
This is the best that you could come up with? Really? This pathetic dribble disguised as an insulting post?Dude, shut the hell up. Do you follow me and Killer around just to hate? Seems like it... Then you Rep me out of nowhere the other day. Do you hate me or not? Which is it?
I know Baby J was saying that cuz "kyle is a guy and all guys would want that" etc... For all I know he was just messin with me. Regardless, it's not a serious issue. Now run along... Good grief
Can't really say that I'm all that surprised, to be quite honest.
You're not intelligent. Not even a little. Nor clever. Nor do you add anything remotely resembling substance to this forum. You're filler. That's it. Waste of bandwith. You're like that bad commercial that you keep hearing on the radio, day after day, and you just wish it would stop playing. Forever.
You complain that I pos rep you. OK. That really makes sense.
You speak for Killer like you're his mouth piece. I'm sure he can speak for himself. Or maybe he can't, with an overbearing and controlling woman like yourself, it wouldn't surprise me.
You should seriously consider logging off now, and spare yourself more ridicule.
Then why rep me?
And what the fuk did I do to you? Their are plenty of people who get on IA just to bs around. This is the WHORESLOUNGE buddy! I'm not trying to battle you in conversations. I just don't understand why you follow me around.
Delusional much?......
Since you've made the claim that I follow you around, please show me evidence.
and why would I do that ? Seriously?
Just about every time that I read one of your spine tingling posts, I feel dumber for doing so. Honestly.
LOL @ QD wannabe.
LOL@ Brain Dead Barbie....
Why don't you go read a book or something?
You got the Barbie part right.
But nice try
i would say a def no for me only would lead to me not trusting the girl later on down the road.
Back on topic.
SO the majority of people who have commented are against it. For those who ARE or would be interested in swinging, what would some ground rules be in YOUR relationship?
Me and my wife have been for 4-5 years. You really have to be secure in what you have. It can take your relationship to new heights or it can bring it down in flames.
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What type of rules do you two have?
no sir
I will be honest, I am all for bringing in another woman in the bedroom with Brett, and I have also told him to go out and have a "one nighter"... I have enough trust in him to know it wont happen more than once... we also have rules set for when that one nighter happens...
as for a swingers club, its so funny, so many people have asked both him and I on seperate occasions if we were already swingers, we just laugh and say no... they are shocked to say the least...
I would love to go to a swingers club though, I think it would be hot!
There is a club right off of Fulton Industrial called, "Trapeze". Ive seen the parking lot, lots of money there.
Man i would never even think about it.i am way to jealous and my fiance is 2 so hell to the no i wouldn't.and on top of that man why get married if u still want to fu** other hoe's?
^^ You do not belong in a relationship if u are jealous. Doesn't mean that you should swing - but jealousy is not part of the relationship recipe.
"I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."
*grabs popcorn* Sex, drama, and jealousy... SIGN ME UP!
Fuck stance. Stance is for kids in skinny jeans with Justin Beiber haircuts. You don't need stance when you got swagger.
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