How do you other guys break up with a girl without feeling awful about it?
I feel like I'm a horrible person.
usually when people break up there is a reason.. Just tell her and get it over with
Originally Posted by coolcat
If the ***** doesn't respect you via, cheating and other annoyances, why feel horrible about it?
i have only felt bad once.... and that was for about 5 minutes. if i break up with someone it is for a reason.
Well, when I wanted to break up with my last girlfriend, I just kinda ignored her and did all the stuff I wanted to until she broke up with me. Instead of packing all of the asshole-ness into an uncomfortable situation, I spread it out over a couple weeks.
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It depends on the situation. In any relationship where you have real feelings; deep feelings for the other person, it's going to be hard to break up. No matter the circumstance. But you can't let that cloud your judgment. Would you rather hurt now, for a little bit, or have a longer relationship and wonder if it will happen again and, if it does, have more time invested only to have it shot down? It'll hurt worse then. Trust me. You want to do the right thing for yourself early on to make it easier for you to move on. Later, QD.
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Well she told me she didn't believe in love, and I that just killed me. I had to tell her I couldn't be with her because I didn't want it to be one sided and I'm not sure if I had stayed that she would ever feel that way.
I'm getting over it, but it still hurts. I'm going to shut up now before I become the next person to be laughed on IA (again).
stop being a sissy about it. tell her you f***ed her mom and get over it.
I believe the same thing. I think people get together on circumstances. Wether it be common interests, personality, money, penis size, whatever. But Love in the Poetic sense I don't believe in. For example it doesn't matter if some guy living in a trailer is perfect for a girl who looks like Carmen Electra. They are just not going to get together. If true love exhisted maybe so. But Love doesn't exist. All Love consists of is "Lust, Happiness, and Fear". Which is Lust(Desire to have sex with someone), Happiness(Cool Chemicals released in your brian making you feel good when you see their facial features) and finally Fear(Being in long term commitments such as marriage and afriad to break out on your own again from fear of either being alone or suffering financial penalties through a divorce. Or commitment to children that you and your other have had)
The real question should be other than her saying "I don't believe in Love" do you guys click together? Do you enjoy your relationship? Is she always happy to see you and are you always happy to see her?
If so then I see no reason to break up with her. Despite her believing that Love doesn't exist.
But for me if a girl breaks up with me I don't care why. As far as I'm concerned it's non of my business. It's theirs. I don't need an explanation. I'm sure they have their reasons and nothing they can tell me is going to make me feel better or worse or cause me to change. So why deal with it.
But then again I'm an emotionally closed off curmudgeon narcissist who is extremeley damage beyound repair and whenever I look at people(wether male or female) I see nothing but Evil in them.
now it all makes sense
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man. u have to be the coolest person i know.
I thought you had to be cool to be emo or whatever it's called.
Don't worry about it.
It'll pass, eventually. Even though I already know what happened.
i dont know how he is being emo.. or how he needs to man up.. ya he said he loved her when she didn't believe in love.. ya he says it hurts, and he feels horrible.. but he did this voluntarily, its not like he got screwed and is mourning about it.. he maned up and did what had to be done, even though its hard..
after breakups, depression and loneliness follow.. its a fact, not emo.. dealing with it is what separates a man from being a man or being emo.. He seems to be on the right route, he did the first step in what he had to do..
you broke up for a reason, good job.. trust me single life is better anyway!!
btw im kind of feeling the same way.. my ex wants to get back w/ me but i wont take her.. im not sad, not hurt, but just..... whats the word.. wait, this is kind of emo.. Fvck that.. Fvck that b!tch, dont feel bad for breaking up with her.. sh!t weren't going well, so you dipped out.. end of story..
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The easiest way, is just to cheat on her. That way she'll break up with you, you tell future girls that your ex dumped you to go back to her ex boyfriend. Girls then feel sorry for you and you get laid.
Or she doesn't find out, and you get laid.
It is win win.
^^ didn't he already break up w/ her?
Well then he ****ed up his chances of getting laid ever again.
just go beat off to hentai with ran you will magically feel better
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lol i was thinking the same thing.. just back off and stop tacking that relationship seriously, and just put in your head that its all about sex and having a good time, not love..
I lol'd at that too. I'm over all of this already.
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