^^^ That hurt my eyes. Later, QD.
^^^ That hurt my eyes. Later, QD.
Wrong.Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
Ran,
We all have to be honest at this point. If you were 18 years old I would find your situation cute and shrug it off to life. Do you really want to be 25 or 35 asking these same questions? I'd hate to see you throw your life away. I've seen it happen to a lot of smart people.
That's my point. You're not really living it now are ya? Talkin ain't livin.
Again, don't take anything personally. Reality can be a slap in the face.
**NOTE - I ended a long-term relationship to accomplish my goals. Years later we still talk several times a week, and laugh about the fun we had.
Last edited by C22H19N3O4; 10-11-2007 at 10:54 AM.
Hmmm. Ok. Later, QD.
"It hurts, but I want you to go."
Those are her words. So it looks like we've come to a mutual understanding. She knows that I love her and I know that she loves me. She just doesn't want to feel responsible for keeping me from doing something I dream about.
Time to start buckling down again I guess.
Ran,
Everything happens for a reason. you need to become happy with yourself before you can be happy with your self and your SO. You may need to take time to yourself and find out what it is that makes you happy. Once you find what it is that makes you happy then everything else will fall into place. Life is to precious to waste going to work, coming home for a couple of hours, then going to bed. You need to go out experience what life has to offer. Like the guys said if she loves you then she will understand and eventually it will work out to where that person is your best friend. Don't think that it is selfish because you want to be happy with yourself. Everyone needs to be happy with themselves before they can be happy with themselves and a SO.
UR GETTIN ON MY XTRA NERVE!!!
you could just slit your wrists
"I remember the first time I had sex I kept the receipt."
that's just wrong
UR GETTIN ON MY XTRA NERVE!!!
I could, but that wouldn't get me very far. lol
Update
Well, after a lot of discussion and crying, we reached our ends. We signed a termination of lease on our apartment and we're to be moved out by January 9th. Luckily, I was only hit with a $250 termination fee. Come that time, she has arranged to live at her friends house for a while. I, refusing to go back home, have arranged to live at my friend's mom's house for $300 a month. At the bare miminum, this will allow me to take $850 a month off the credit card. If I can sell the Yaris, that's about another $4-500 a month.
It hurts like hell to put my girlfriend through this but, after all is said and done, I do feel much better that we came to ends and that I'm finally getting back on track. Expect to see a lot of my furniture and stuff for sale soon.
Thanks to everyone who gave me some support.
Last edited by Ran; 11-12-2007 at 08:34 AM.
I hate to see this happen man. Good luck with everything though. If you need anything just give me a shout. (Not saying that just to say it either)
good luck... i hope everything works out for you
RIP Kaleb Mashburn
"Blue" Listen
Composer: Yoko Kano
Preformed by: The Seatbelts
Vocals by: Mai Yamane
Never seen a blue sky
Yeah I can feel it reaching out
And moving closer
There's something about blue
Asked myself what it's all for
You know the funny thing about it
I couldn't answer
No I couldn't answer
Things have turned a deeper shade of blue
And images that might be real
May be illusion
Keep flashing off and on
Free
Wanna be free
Gonna be free
And move among the stars
You know they really aren't so far
Feels so free
Gotta know free
Please
Don't wake me from the dream
It's really everything it seemed
I'm so free
No black and white in the blue
Everything is clearer now
Life is just a dream you know
That's never ending
I'm ascending
lol, I just had lunch with my father and got the, "You're f*cking stupid, but do what you want" deal. Can't say I disagree with the "stupid" comment, but oh well.
Are you crying right now man?lol
Nah. My father's lived his life working his @ss off so I expected him to see my plans as something that isn't reality. Yeah, it hurt to hear him say it, but I was ready for it.Are you crying right now man?
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