man.. the girl I'm dating.. she DOES NOT want to get married..

reason: she says that she saw the divorce her mom/dad went through and the pain/hurt her family/her went through that she said she'd never do it... plus she puts it as a "piece of paper" and that we can have common law and say we're together and yadda yadda..

it took me off guard at the time.. I'd never heard of a woman saying she didn't want to get married, but she wants to have kids.. and then we saw some wedding dresses at the mall and she was like OMG!!?!?!? and I'm like