MY girl and i currently arent using birth control. Very ignorant of us i know. But we are both concerned something might happen. SO before a mistake happens, what is a good birth control? THe pill makes her gain weight. She doesnt want anything thats gonna mess her period up or any serious side effects. She's afraid of needles but willing to get the shot if its safe. She doesnt like condoms and neither do I. I only use them when i'm not monogamous. I am practicing monagamy but we need a good contraceptive. I dont want a vasectomy because I plan on having children and the same goes for a hysterectomy for her.

So what do we do??