Yea, but I seriously want kids. Also, I've no doubts that my future wife would be able to go out and have a good paying job. I simply wouldn't want her to. Let me work and provide for the family. Let her stay home and take care of the family, keep everything nice, and be there to warmly welcome the kids and me home.Originally Posted by admin
what is the point of having a wife at home if you don't have kids?i don't know i think its pointless for either to stay at home; shit my wife will make enough so i don't have to work but why sit on your ass when 2 people can work and provide even more to the relationship.
I think it plays the most significant role in it actually.
My parents have both always worked to provide for our family. It was rare to see the entirely family together except for maybe an hour before bed at night and on the weekends. I can't stand that. The family is too seperated in my opinion. Even now, I could go home and see my father bring himself in from work to an empty house. Nobody there to welcome him home. No "Hi dear, how was your day?" or "Welcome home". Dinner was prepared in the early morning before mom went to work so now it has to be microwaved. It doesn't have that...warmth or love I guess, that a fresh hot meal would give you. After he eats, he watches TV or reads a book for hours until I come home late at night and mom shortly after. Mom is tired from work so she eats and goes to sleep while dad seems to be waiting for her, just to be waiting for her. He then goes to sleep, often without saying more than a few words to each other. I've seen it time and time again and I can't f*cking stand it. Maybe t's just my family tho...
Sorry about the personal rant. I think I'm just trying to justify myself now.
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