Any social situation can be compared to highscool. Really it's all on your to decide what you want to get yourself involved in and to pick and choose who you want to be around. Nobody has a gun to you head forcing you to be on this forum or to hang out with anyone from it. Find some other outlets to expend energy and escape boredom. Hell, there are 90 other things i can be doing right now but i'm totally content with just sitting here doing nothing.