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    Default I feel I need to get this out...

    LOL...
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    Quote Originally Posted by CHRISNITTOLO View Post
    Well.. I have a huge problem... I am 18 with a 1 year old, and a dead beat baby momma that is old enough for anything(24). She just skipped out on us a couple nights ago. No calls and no answers. So what am I supposed to do? DFCS is giving me custody when legitimation goes through court(I am excited). And I do have a car, job, and housing. But a Baby!? And I say she is a dead beat because she is 24, no job, no steady housing, and another 4 year old she never makes effort to see. All she does is lie, cheat, and drink...

    So.. What should I do??
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    fuck er (not in the literal sense) you can only do what you can, just make sure she pays her child support or call the cops on her ass. Youre taking responsibility for your actions, make sure she does the same.

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    LOL...
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    Quote Originally Posted by CHRISNITTOLO View Post
    I really think she would rather go to jail.... Seriously...
    then put her in jail, i bet she changes her mind after a little time in jail...

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    whats her number?

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    cute baby man.

    but damn brah, seems like you made some bad choices.

    bad choices that basically changed the route of your life.

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    lolol I don't want her...just needs pics to know who to stay away from haha!
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    get custody......

    go back home to your parents.....

    take the obama baby daddy college fund my fucking taxes are paying for....

    and get a degree.....


    then pay me back for my taxes to your dumb ass.....

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    1-move back home with your mom and let her help you with the baby ( you're 18 and have no clue what to do with a baby )

    2-Put that piece of shit bitch on child support

    3-go back to school and learn something that will pay you enough to raise that kid right.

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    First: Quit being a whiny bitch on IA, asking IA for real advice is like sending your nudes to every girl on the site and expecting they keep their mouths shut. AKA stupid.

    Second: Turn internet connection off to save money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simontibbett View Post
    Second: Turn internet connection off to save money.

    What if he's on the internet at the library, while he researches resources for aid in his situation?
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    Quote Originally Posted by bdydrpdmazda View Post
    then put her in jail, i bet she changes her mind after a little time in jail...
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    Hey man --- what do u do for work... just outta curiosity and what is your living situaion (u and the kid, w/ the parents, etc).
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    Lol...
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    Lol...
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    If she was such a hoe like you are saying.. The 1st I would do is a DNA..

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHRISNITTOLO View Post
    Hey... I'm payin' for that shit too...
    lol use it man get some education and be a good parent

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    Lol...
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    wow good luck...

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    Read this, then go file charges for

    VI. CRIMINAL ABANDONMENT

    If the mother or father of a child, which is either legitimate or born out of wedlock, abandons the child who is in a dependent condition, the abandoning parent commits the crime of child abandonment. When the abandoning parent does not furnish sufficient food, clothing, or shelter for the needs of the child, the child shall be considered to be in a dependent condition. O.C.G.A. 19-10-1.

    Child abandonment shall be punishable as a misdemeanor, unless the abandoning parent leaves the state while the abandoned child is in a dependent condition. In that event, the abandoning parent shall be guilty of a felony, punishable by imprisonment of not less than one nor more than three years.



    Child abandonment in Georgia; what does it mean? The criminal side, "Criminal Non-Support (Abandonment Warrant) Child abandonment is a misdemeanor offense in Georgia with a penalty of a $1,000 fine or up to 12 months in prison, when a parent has failed to provide sufficient food clothing, or shelter for the needs of the child for 30 days. (O.C.G.A sec. 19-10-1)."



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    Just please try to make the most conscience decisions for the child and never do anything just to get back at the mom. Forget her. Sounds like she would only bring heartache/drama to the childs life and not love. Good luck with everything.
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    Lol...
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    I was the only one taking care of her anyway, I still am...
    Go file charges then man, make her grow up!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by B18c1Turboed View Post
    Read this, then go file charges for

    VI. CRIMINAL ABANDONMENT

    If the mother or father of a child, which is either legitimate or born out of wedlock, abandons the child who is in a dependent condition, the abandoning parent commits the crime of child abandonment. When the abandoning parent does not furnish sufficient food, clothing, or shelter for the needs of the child, the child shall be considered to be in a dependent condition. O.C.G.A. 19-10-1.

    Child abandonment shall be punishable as a misdemeanor, unless the abandoning parent leaves the state while the abandoned child is in a dependent condition. In that event, the abandoning parent shall be guilty of a felony, punishable by imprisonment of not less than one nor more than three years.



    Child abandonment in Georgia; what does it mean? The criminal side, "Criminal Non-Support (Abandonment Warrant) Child abandonment is a misdemeanor offense in Georgia with a penalty of a $1,000 fine or up to 12 months in prison, when a parent has failed to provide sufficient food clothing, or shelter for the needs of the child for 30 days. (O.C.G.A sec. 19-10-1)."



    Read the complete code here
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    If the child was in the care of the father is it still abandonment?

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    Quote Originally Posted by speedminded View Post
    If the child was in the care of the father is it still abandonment?

    Yes, because from what i take, they where not married. So he would have to legitimize that he is the father.


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    and to think i thought you were gonna be the irresponsible one. kudos to you, and fuck her. thats one hell of an atrocious woman
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    Thank you...
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    Quote Originally Posted by B18c1Turboed View Post
    Yes, because from what i take, they where not married. So he would have to legitimize that he is the father.
    If his name is on the birth certificate, then it is already legitimized. Later, QD.
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    Lol...
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    It hasn't been 30 days, either. I see this female going through the court and having her rights removed. She'll then be free of any responsibilities to the child and won't reap the (legal) woes of doing so.

    The OP, I hope you're a better dude in real life than you portray on IA because if not, I feel for the child.

    The only kudos I can give you right now is your word and intentions with this child. I have a feeling that this child will be majority raised by a grandparent.

    We;ll see, I guess. Later, QD.
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    At 18 you have almost no chance to raise the kid right. Adoption is your friend. Do it while the kid is still young enough to not be negatively affected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHRISNITTOLO View Post
    Well.. I have a huge problem... I am 18 with a 1 year old, and a dead beat baby momma that is old enough for anything(24). She just skipped out on us a couple nights ago. No calls and no answers. So what am I supposed to do? DFCS is giving me custody when legitimation goes through court(I am excited). And I do have a car, job, and housing. But a Baby!? And I say she is a dead beat because she is 24, no job, no steady housing, and another 4 year old she never makes effort to see. All she does is lie, cheat, and drink...

    So.. What should I do??
    are you dating my ex? lol

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    Lol...
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    Quote Originally Posted by BanginJimmy View Post
    At 18 you have almost no chance to raise the kid right. Adoption is your friend. Do it while the kid is still young enough to not be negatively affected.
    FUCK YOU. my aunt had her first child at 15, and all her kids make 6 figures plus. Age has nothing to do with it. its a maturity thing an obviously this guy is more mature than most 18yr olds. hes manning up tot take care of his kid.

    a child needs their biological parents more than anything. i can tell you dont have kids. Even if he did put her up for adoption, 13yrs later she is gonna be trying to find her mom and dad to ask "why". my cousin found out he was adopted in his 20s and sure enough went looking for his biological parents.


    Keep your child, the tramp doesnt deserve her and she deserves at least one good parent. Foster care and the state care is super bullshit!!!!! they dont give a fuck about those kids and most wind up being molested. heritage high school is full of girls that are left in state care. all of them were sluts and some had had sex witht the director of the group home.

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    Lol...
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    Wow to the OP.

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