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06-29-2009, 12:37 PM
Mike Lowrey

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Originally Posted by Sammich

i dont know how his thread was provoking, but because it was provoking in YOUR eyes and obviously Mike's eyes, it was ban worthy?

Plus, if that is provoking, you would have to delete about half the threads in the WL. :lmfao:
06-29-2009, 12:40 PM
Sammich

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Originally Posted by Mike Lowrey

Plus, if that is provoking, you would have to delete about half the threads in the WL. :lmfao:

no to mention the post i posted this morning in a thread that was made about her getting her tat

i said something along the lines of, relating to bri, 'whose the chunky chick, id smash'

i mean it was kidding, but in some eyes that could be a provoking statement as well
06-29-2009, 12:41 PM
The Ren

Im not talking about that specific thread... but other threads and comments..
06-29-2009, 12:42 PM
Mike Lowrey

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Originally Posted by The Ren

Im not talking about that specific thread... but other threads and comments..

Oh, OK.
06-29-2009, 12:45 PM
Miranda

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Originally Posted by The Ren

It wouldnt have been ok with any girl on here if it was unprevoked.. The way some of you guys (not you personally) treat the woman on here is disgusting..

I'm going to venture a guess and assume you meant the womEn, as in... in general.

I totally agree. Honestly, as sad as it is, some of the worst offenders have posted in this thread. You guys seem to think that a woman's sex-life is grounds for bashing.. it's pathetic. Us active WL chicks put up with a great deal of bullshit from you guys who say these things. Honestly, we're even guilty of saying some things ourselves..

I'd like to think the events of last weekend were a giant wakeup call to a couple people.... I know they were a wakeup call for me. I won't sit by and be ok with any amount of this bullshit.

When guys bash each other, they talk shit... they don't post pics (and certainly not newdz)..

Honestly, there are three people whose opinions of me (in terms of whether or not I'm a slut) matter... that's my mom, my dad, and my man. The rest of you, I could care less. You wanna call me a slut? Fine... but you're the ones who are pathetic.

The thing is, not all girls are going to share my attitude.. and we really owe those who don't a little more respect and consideration.

This place is a business... and the business model should include embracing men and women as equals... and keeping personal shit off the forums when it will obviously do more harm than substantive good.

And Sammich, I disagree with your all or nothing statement. I think that people who actually possess moral compasses are more than capable of recognizing where the line is... the problem here is that too many people look at their screen names as shields from real world consequences and think that they'll be applauded for being badasses.

It's time to stop applauding people for being mean. If we were all sitting around in a room together and the bashing in question was going on, would you feel uncomfortable? If so (which most people should have felt), then it's certainly not appropriate for IA.
06-29-2009, 12:47 PM
The Ren

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Originally Posted by Miranda

It's time to stop applauding people for being mean. If we were all sitting around in a room together and the bashing in question was going on, would you feel uncomfortable? If so (which most people should have felt), then it's certainly not appropriate for IA.

QFT!
06-29-2009, 12:51 PM
Sammich

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miranda

It's time to stop applauding people for being mean. If we were all sitting around in a room together and the bashing in question was going on, would you feel uncomfortable? If so (which most people should have felt), then it's certainly not appropriate for IA.

this is a basis for saying what i said. alot of people on ia would not tolerate alot of this shit that goes on in here IRL. i know for me personally, the racial shit, whether its calling white or black people out of their name seriously bothers me and always has. i just make sure when im on here i try to stick to myself as far as that's concerned. things are allowed on here that, as you said, would not normally be tolerated IRL. so i say all or nothing to totally show IA's stand on what goes on in here, whether it goes from cursing all the way to bashing members.
06-29-2009, 12:52 PM
Mike Lowrey

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miranda

This place is a business... and the business model should include embracing men and women as equals... and keeping personal shit off the forums when it will obviously do more harm than substantive good.

Agreed.

Personal stuff should be left out of the WL. If you post it, someone will comment on it. There are other forums on IA where it is more serious. The WL is designated as a place for ramdom BS. I mean, look at the description of the WL:

100% useless, BS, rants, callouts, etc.

If you have pics to post and are worried about the comments, post them in the pics section. It is designed as a more serious section.
06-29-2009, 12:53 PM
Miranda

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Originally Posted by Sammich

this is a basis for saying what i said. alot of people on ia would not tolerate alot of this shit that goes on in here IRL. i know for me personally, the racial shit, whether its calling white or black people out of their name seriously bothers me and always has. i just make sure when im on here i try to stick to myself as far as that's concerned. things are allowed on here that, as you said, would not normally be tolerated IRL. so i say all or nothing to totally show IA's stand on what goes on in here, whether it goes from cursing all the way to bashing members.

Well you and I have already established that we agree that the racial comments, joking or otherwise, are completely inappropriate.
06-29-2009, 01:10 PM
Z0_o6

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Originally Posted by Mike Lowrey

If you have pics to post and are worried about the comments, post them in the pics section. It is designed as a more serious section.

The only thing about that, is even if it is posted on another section, or in some cases a whole 'nother SITE people will search it out and bring it to the WL for the bullshit.
06-29-2009, 01:12 PM
The Ren

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Originally Posted by Miranda

Well you and I have already established that we agree that the racial comments, joking or otherwise, are completely inappropriate.

Truth..
06-29-2009, 01:14 PM
Mike Lowrey

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Originally Posted by hondabuilder

The only thing about that, is even if it is posted on another section, or in some cases a whole 'nother SITE people will search it out and bring it to the WL for the bullshit.

Well, in those cases, I would not post it at all.
06-29-2009, 01:58 PM
Vteckidd

motherfuckers

I can go restore the thread. That thread was deleted because of the nature of whatwas going on the forums. Then you decided to challenge me and make threads bitchng about OUR decision to take down any threads having to do with Bri. That was why you were banned and it was for 1 measely day to let people know we were serious about keeping the Bri stuff off the boards

The simple answer of why is because we say so. Again here we go with the endless questions and scenarios.

I don't answer to you. It always comes to this. Can you not act like a fucking adult or act like a civilized human being? Are you people incapable of it?

Dude all you hadto do was shut the fuck up when I deleted the thread but you chose to be an attention whore and keep it going

I'm on my iPhone or I would write more. You can bitch all you want I don't care anymore
06-29-2009, 02:03 PM
Jason..

WL is serious business!!!
06-29-2009, 02:07 PM
teh bri

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Originally Posted by Mike Lowrey

What is wrong with that title and that pic? Please tell me.

Rich, She didn't say anything about the title. She was talking about men in general. :goodjob:
06-29-2009, 02:17 PM
stillaneon

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Originally Posted by Miranda

I'm going to venture a guess and assume you meant the womEn, as in... in general.

I totally agree. Honestly, as sad as it is, some of the worst offenders have posted in this thread. You guys seem to think that a woman's sex-life is grounds for bashing.. it's pathetic. Us active WL chicks put up with a great deal of bullshit from you guys who say these things. Honestly, we're even guilty of saying some things ourselves..

I'd like to think the events of last weekend were a giant wakeup call to a couple people.... I know they were a wakeup call for me. I won't sit by and be ok with any amount of this bullshit.

When guys bash each other, they talk shit... they don't post pics (and certainly not newdz)..

Honestly, there are three people whose opinions of me (in terms of whether or not I'm a slut) matter... that's my mom, my dad, and my man. The rest of you, I could care less. You wanna call me a slut? Fine... but you're the ones who are pathetic.

The thing is, not all girls are going to share my attitude.. and we really owe those who don't a little more respect and consideration.

This place is a business... and the business model should include embracing men and women as equals... and keeping personal shit off the forums when it will obviously do more harm than substantive good.

And Sammich, I disagree with your all or nothing statement. I think that people who actually possess moral compasses are more than capable of recognizing where the line is... the problem here is that too many people look at their screen names as shields from real world consequences and think that they'll be applauded for being badasses.

It's time to stop applauding people for being mean. If we were all sitting around in a room together and the bashing in question was going on, would you feel uncomfortable? If so (which most people should have felt), then it's certainly not appropriate for IA.

And that just it.

Someone knows the person you are talking about. There is no one on this site that hasn't at least met someone else on this site.

It has nothing to do with serious business, but it has to do with business. This site is free for everyone because of sponsors. Sponsors that don't need drama (they are here to advertise) and wont want to pay for a site that isn't maintained. Maintainence comes from the mods and admins who are in turn Nazis because we don't allow people to post up personal shit.
06-29-2009, 02:19 PM
Mike Lowrey

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vteckidd

motherfuckers

I can go restore the thread. That thread was deleted because of the nature of whatwas going on the forums. Then you decided to challenge me and make threads bitchng about OUR decision to take down any threads having to do with Bri. That was why you were banned and it was for 1 measely day to let people know we were serious about keeping the Bri stuff off the boards

The simple answer of why is because we say so. Again here we go with the endless questions and scenarios.

If you are going to "protect" someone, it should apply to all. Not single out one person to give special treatment.

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Originally Posted by Vteckidd

I don't answer to you. It always comes to this. Can you not act like a fucking adult or act like a civilized human being? Are you people incapable of it?

:lmfao: :lmfao: @ you saying this. :lmfao: :lmfao:

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Originally Posted by Vteckidd

Dude all you hadto do was shut the fuck up when I deleted the thread but you chose to be an attention whore and keep it going

I'm on my iPhone or I would write more. You can bitch all you want I don't care anymore

Don't care about the attention. If you want to quote the rules in one case, then ignore them in another.....that is the problem. Be consistant, than there are no questions.

Don't care about a 1 day ban. I franky thought it was funny.

LOL @ mods
06-29-2009, 02:20 PM
stillaneon

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sammich

this is a basis for saying what i said. alot of people on ia would not tolerate alot of this shit that goes on in here IRL. i know for me personally, the racial shit, whether its calling white or black people out of their name seriously bothers me and always has. i just make sure when im on here i try to stick to myself as far as that's concerned. things are allowed on here that, as you said, would not normally be tolerated IRL. so i say all or nothing to totally show IA's stand on what goes on in here, whether it goes from cursing all the way to bashing members.

The WL is given about as much leighway as possible. No racism, no personal info and no nudity or sponsor bashing.

Anything else pretty much goes in here. Why do we have to draw a line.

You are 18 or older, if you can't figure out how to stay on the mature side of the fence, then stop all together.

And Sammich, this isn't directed at you. just fyi
06-29-2009, 02:21 PM
03RCode

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Originally Posted by AnthonyF

Oh gawd no! run for your lives! lol

-Ant.

:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:
06-29-2009, 02:22 PM
stillaneon

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Originally Posted by Mike Lowrey

If you are going to "protect" someone, it should apply to all. Not single out one person to give special treatment.

I'll protect your name Rich if anyone ever comes out saying something about your personal life. ok?
06-29-2009, 02:25 PM
Mike Lowrey

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Originally Posted by stillaneon

I'll protect your name Rich if anyone ever comes out saying something about your personal life. ok?

:lmfao: Thank you. Hug? :lmfao:

That is why I just keep my personal shit off here. No need to post it for the world.
06-29-2009, 02:26 PM
stillaneon

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Originally Posted by Mike Lowrey

:lmfao: Thank you. Hug? :lmfao:

That is why I just keep my personal shit off here. No need to post it for the world.

Exactly. Some people just need a little more help than others.

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