Ive always been taught and braught up that if my girlfriend was to get prego then you man up and take responsbility for it. And ive always wanted kids myself. Well i found out last year that i was a father and my son was almost 4 when i found out. Yes hes mine. theres a long story behind it but i understood her reasoning.But Trust me. knowing that your going to be or am a father sends so many emotions threw you its not even funny. but i wouldnt trade my child for the world. Theres only one way in this world id truly believe in abortions and that is if it risks the life of the woman that is pregnet. but other then that i expect a man to man up to what hes created either that or tell her to put it in another hole!