I don't think anyone would come in and say "I'd puss out" but I do think some that say they would step up would run away from the responsibility. Its a lot tougher then some think, if you really value your social life then there are serious sacrifices to be made.

You're talking about possibly $80 a week for diapers and formula.. astronomical daycare costs, and no shortage of sleepless nights. I've been there and my son is 6 years old now, like Leisa said people have to know the consequences of their actions. If I could do it all over again I wouldn't change a thing.