Well, QD, that sucks bud. Just take it and mvoe fwd. You've obviously got a possy of people who care for you on here and these kind of incedences should allow you to focus on that and move on without the drama.

In respect to defacs and those of you who bicker about problems with them. Please do not issue blanket statements for law enforcement entities. If you had an encounter with them it's because they had a complaint. And they must oblige and investigate EVERY complaint. They don't know you as an individual so they must follow a routine which scroutnizes parties who may or may not be doing something wrong. Understand that day in and day out these people work to protect children and deal with uglyness that you and I would turn the channel to if we saw it in a movie. QD put it nicely by understanding his caseworker's cause and mentioned how they summed everything up and got out of his hair. I for one welcome anyone to scutnize my lifestyle if it will turn around and save a child.