did I hurt your feelings or something .. cause you jumped on me with all 4 of your posts until this moment. Post hore ..Quote:
Originally Posted by Brett
anyways, as I said above, I think that life should go forwards and not backwards. I can't justify screwing up myself for the rest of my lifetime (2/3 remaining hopefully) for the remaining 1/4 of my parents life, thought they already had their "good" years ..
however, I'd do it for my kids or grand kids
I guess the GF wins then
also, if I'm in a need for a kidney, and if my kids offer to give one to me, I wont accept it
YES UR GF DOES WIN AND 1 MORE THING.
WHAT IS SHE DOING WITH U ANYWAYS
SEEMS TO ME U HAVE NO FEELING'S WHATS SO EVER FOR UR PARENTS.
THATS SAD.
AND DOESNT MATTER IF THEY ALREADY HAD THEIR 'GOOD' YEARS.
I WOULD STILL HATE IT MORE THAN EVER TO SEE 1 OF THEM GO.
I WOULD MAKE SURE THEY LIVE AS MUCH AS THEY CAN. BCUZ ONCE THEY GO. THEY WILL NEVER EVER COME BACK. TRUST ME.
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Originally Posted by miro_gt
IF YOU HAD ONE KIDNEY AND IF I WAS UR KID. I'D TAKE UR LAST ONE OUT AND FEED IT TO A DOG. U DONT DESERVE THE LAST ONE U HAVE EITHER.
There is no point in me posting here anymore. This dude is too damn ignorant to try to argue with.
micro_gt you have to be the sorriest son of a ***** sucking precious air on this planet I have ever seen post up on this earth. You can live with one kidney without ****ing yourself up too bad but to be able to sit there and watch a parent die knowing that you can do something to save them and not feel the slightest bit of sorrow takes one hell of a ****ed up person. personally i hope your girl kicks you in the balls so hard it makes you sterile. Then she won't want to be with you anymore and can come hang out with me and my girl cause 2 chicks is better than one
if your parents need one and you arent even willing to even think about giving one thats stupid. i dont know where you were raised, but a parents life is not devoted to raising/supporting their kids, their kids are their kids all there life, no matter how old they or their kids are. parents are supposed to support there kids through childhood until they grow up, and can support them through elderly-hood. i take it your still in the childhood stage.Quote:
Originally Posted by miro_gt
and on top of that, ide die for my parents or family before i sit and watch them die from something i could stop. if one of them needs a heart you will find me dead in a freezer full of ice waiting outside the hospital for a heart transplant, i dont give a damn for being here. probably couldnt actually do that but its better to feel that you would then to feel like oh well, i cant help them cause their my parents and only they can help me.
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Originally Posted by Hulud
Life can go forward douche bag, for your parent and who ever their donor is (cause it's won't be you f*cking a$$hat of a man). If you would have cared enough about your parent, which you don't obviously (bet your dad wishes he gave your mom a facial that night now), you might want to do some research before you ever open your f*cking mouth again. If you donate the kidney that is left becomes more efficient (I know that's a big word for you), enabling you to lead a normal life... With just one. Tell you what, why don't you just go downtown, buy a stolen gun and put a cap in both your folks now. Save them the heartache of knowing what a piece of sh*t they raised, and you can get their sh*t quicker (cause that's what it's all about). It's a win-win for you and them.Quote:
Originally Posted by miro_gt
P.S. the only time your girl will win is the day she decides to leave you..... And I call bullsh*t, you wouldn't do it for anyone d*ck. Besides your grandkids will be bigger b*tches than you, they won't want your shriveled up kidney.
gl when u need a kidney...ur kids wont give ya one and neither will we.
Ok. Flame if you want but I want to explain how I justify feeling that he's right (to a large degree). Lemme start by pointing out that my dad had kidney trouble and refused a donation from either me or my half-sister who are the only two living perfect matches we could find. He said he'd rather die than take it from us. That's not why he died though. He actually died of unrelated (or possibly remotely related, but not directly) heart issues, probably a stroke. My grandmother on my mom's side died of brain cancer just two years back, the year after my dad died. My only three living relatives who give a **** about me at all are my mom and my grandfather who I would kill for if they asked me to.
But I wanna point something my mom told me out after my dad died. What if my kids needed a kidney and I had given it to my dad? What then? My dad would probably still have died of the stroke. I would still only have one kidney from this point on, and I would have had no way to do anything for my children when the time arose, if it ever did. I never understood that my dad saw things that way. He died with me being upset and thinking I could have helped him. But instead he helped me, and my kids, and maybe my grandkids, who knows. I love my dad. I would have done it. He didn't want me to. Why? Because he knew that there were a hundred other things that could go wrong. I was an adult, so was my half sister. He felt he had done his best and that if he had to go, then he had to go. So he took that chance and stayed with us as long as he could, doing everything he could to help me and my mom be ready for when he did go. And when he did go he had done a damn good job of that. I miss him every day, and every day I thank him for sacrificing himself for my future, which is his future too now. So don't think that everyone who agrees with Miro is a total ass. Because some people just learned different ways. Some people have had different experiences. I'm not saying I agree with Miro, and living with what happened is the hardest thing in my life some days. I just keep thinking maybe the kidney transplant would have helped other things. But it's just not the case. He died so that I, my kids, my grandkids, his grandkids and great grandkids, could have that oppurtunity if they needed it.
So say what you will but sometimes...sometimes things aren't as simple as they seem for everyone.
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Originally Posted by miro_gt
Dude wtf man... it's not like you're going to be 'screwing' up your life. You have two kidneys. People live normal and healthy lives with just one. Don't be so selfish. I would do it for my parents, my kids.. heck even my best friend.
You'd rather have them just die than help them? Maybe YOU should end life.. then they can have BOTH your kidneys.... jeez....
^^^ Difference is, you offered... He refused, that's a real man. Your father had the choice and decided to do what he felt was best for his family. Kudo's. What if your dad asked and you said... No. My family and I went throught the same questions you discussed. What if my kids do need a kidney? There are options, donor list, each other (providing you have more than one kid) and their mother. In my world family is everything. Your father has my respect, as do you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaiser
No need too, you're not a dumbass. +1 for your post, sounded like your dad was a great man and father.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaiser
ok just wondering and this is prob a stupid question but could you have your kidney back when they died????
probably, dont see why not? if they can transplant it once why not twice.
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Originally Posted by redrumracer
That gives me a buisness idea. Rent-a-kidney!!!!! Doner gets paid for everyday their kidney is used by someone else!!!!
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Originally Posted by Echonova
what its already an exact match for me.
This idea is golden. I smell the next Google, or maybe even Microsoft.Quote:
Originally Posted by Echonova
Here, steal my company name: Echo's Rent-An-Organ.
I'd give a kidney to a complete stranger if it would save their life.
yes as far as everyone in my family goes... but if my real mother needed a kidney.. or a pint of blood to live.. dat ***** could die.. straight up cuz
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Originally Posted by Dracc
Yeah we were talking about the "parents" who raised you, no matter who they really are.
yes i would
lol what kind of person even asks
mofo i'd give 'em both
if they need a third i'd kidnap a cambodian midget and extract it myself.
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Originally Posted by miro_gt
you are seriously a waste of sperm. if your parents needed it then, you're just simply goin to say no? that shows how much you fu*kin care.
your story is different and you are right for offering it. your dad is a good father and i am sorry to hear he passed away. even though he died at least u know u tryed your best and offer it to him. on the other hand, this fu*ktard is just going to let them die right there. even though he got the choice to try and save them, he fu*kin refuses. and also i repped everyone who give theirs up for the parents and isnt a bit*hQuote:
Originally Posted by Kaiser
I don't even know what to say to this except, Tell your girl to come get with a real man. You are a child and don't deserve her.Quote:
Originally Posted by miro_gt
I voted yes because I'm sure they would do the same for me. Obviously though only if I was a match...
i would in a heartbeat without even thinking about it
If you were my son, I would disown you.
I would, but knowing my parents, they'd probably deny it. Its the least i could do since they supported my ass for 16 years.
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Originally Posted by Hulud
ur one heartless prick, have fun dying alone! :yay:
If my parents were mean, beat me, whatever, I'd say no.
But my parents were great to me so I said yes. I'd give them both kidneys if they needed it. **** it, I'd die for them, why not.
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Originally Posted by BlkCD5
JUUULLLLIIOOOOO
WE HAVE A UNDERAGEEEEE HEREEE..
:police:
ALRIGHT YOU PIECE OF **** HERE'S ANOTHER THING. MY GRANDMOTHER THAT AS BASICALLY RAISED OUR WHOLE FAMILY EVERYONE FROM AUNTS TO COUSINS TO GRAND KIDS TOE RET GRAND KIDS HAS BEEN TRYING TO FIND A KINDEY FOR THE PAST 3 YEARS. AND TODAY SHE FINALLY GOT A CALL FORM SOMEONE THAT MATCHED EVERYTHING PERFECT TO GIVE HER A KIDNEY AND GUESS WHAT THE DOCTOR TOLD HER SHE COULDN'T BECAUSE HER BODY WAS TO WEAK FROM ALL THE STRESS OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS FROM DYLISIS(SP?). BUT SHE IS ONE BRAVE WOMEN BECAUSE SHE JUST SMILED AND SAID THATS OK SOME TIMES THATS LIFE. :(
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Originally Posted by §treet_§peed
DAMMN SORRY TO HEAR THAT MAN.
SO SHE CANT GET A KIDNEY TRANSPLANT AT ALL BCUZ OF THE STRESS
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Originally Posted by BiH1320
X2 MY FRIEND.
YEAH BUT ITS OK SHE IS OK AND AT PIECE WITH IT. I KNOW IT HURTS HER BUT SHE UNDERSTANDS. SHE IS 80 BTW. BUT YEAH MAN I TOLD THE DOCTOR BACK WHEN WE FIRST FOUND OUT THAT IF MINE MATCHED TO GO AHEAD AND HACK IT OUT THAT DAY