GUYS - If someone sleeps with your significant other...

[ahmonrah]

i'll put it to you like i told my girl, with straight face and clear conscience.....
me and my girl were sitting on the couch one night, a few years ago, watching tv, and out the blue she asks " what would you do if you came home and found me in the bed with some man?"

surprising myself, in milliseconds i thought out and eliminated all scenarios but this one:
my reply?
"well, honestly? if I walked in and seen you in the bed with another man, without a word, i'd grab the ky out the drawer, figuring you've juggled 2 men at the same time, and SEE IF YOU CAN HANDLE 2 MEN AT THE SAME TIME...." telling the dude " 'keep doin what you doin bruh'...and jump in your azz.....then i'd get a hotel room with YOUR debit card, with some extra money for my troubles"
the look on her face was borderline horror at my response.

but i explained to TASUKI_CIVIC and BTEC that the only way to garner the true effect of what she's done would be lost IF I
A: cried and got all emotional
or
B:whooped his azz, 'cause he's a man like me, and beating an opportunist, which is what men are when it comes to sex, would make her somewhat happy later on, knowing that she got an emotional rise outta me. and why make him suffer for takin an option that most men won't pass up?

in closing, the next dude she got with she'd remember pain if she ever thinks about cheating on him too.

[Tasuki_Civic]

Why does it seem that all your negative comments about guys (which consists of all your comment about guys) have to include all guys. So the ones you've ****ed with were ****. Doesn't mean they all are. I can't stand it when people want to classify an entire group based on the one or two people they encounter. Doesn't make sense. It goes hand in hand with a white person that gets mugged by a black person so that means all black people are muggers or criminals. Just one guy is a **** up and not mature enough for a real relationship doesn't mean they all are. Later, QD.

take a chill pill homie.....
dont take it personal QD because i missed one word. (some guys.... you like that??) i know not all guys are like that. not all women are sluts

i will correct myself "some" men.

in many conversations i have with women or men im usually on the men's side of things. so believe me its not about the type of guys that ive dated or anything like that. i just worded it wrong.forgive me. you happy now?


and from what i see in some of your post when it comes to "IA females"

"IA Females" are sluts, they aren't ****, they are this they are that.

all of us are not like that. so take your advice and correct yourself in every aspect of explanation.

[Tasuki_Civic]

Why does it seem that all your negative comments about guys (which consists of all your comment about guys) have to include all guys.

Im a ****in woman!! what do you expect? Im not always gonna be on the men's side. there are alot of things guys do that are stupid! period!!

It doesnt matter if she has him wrapped around her pinky VERBALLY and can get him to do whatever she wants or its the PU$$Y.

Women are just as bad as men. I will always and forever say that and honeslty i think we are worse because we get away with alot things that men dont know about, because we know how to hide the ****.

the way SOME of these guys on IA talk about their relationship problems. its like wtf?! your str8 pusy!! if only that person would go back and read wtf they posted and maybe they would see how stupid they are. "Some" men who think they are smart about their **** ......there is always a women who is 5x smarter.

I may talk bad about some mens habits or things that they do.....but i dont lie about them or make it like woman dont do the same or worse. And i would be quick to tell a betch shes stupid for whatever reason "that she ****ed up on. ( and i be dayumd if i say after every male comment that women do it too, its asking for too much)

we all make mistakes and i aint perfect and neither are you. so **** it !!!! between men and women....we are more clever and i will always say it that way. thats why i may come off as if some men aint ****. no matter what color or status.

[quickdodge®]

take a chill pill homie.....

I am "chill." I just asked a question.

and from what i see in some of your post when it comes to "IA females"

"IA Females" are sluts, they aren't ****, they are this they are that.

Then you've read wrong. I wouldn't say that all IA woman are ****ed up because I know for a **** that all of them aren't.

so take your advice and correct yourself in every aspect of explanation.

I don't dish out advice that I wouldn't currently follow myself. Later, QD.

[quickdodge®]

i aint perfect and neither are you.

Later, QD.

[ueyedgr8tness]

thats what is so ****ed up with guys these days. Any man that has a back up plan (meaning another female) you aint **** to began with and you cant be trusted.

realize your problem....dont be in a relationship with someone if you cant trust them. a lot of guys may mistaken their girl being with someone else (someone lied) and then you run off and cheat. and break up with her. when the whole time she aint do nothing.

Damn chick u just went over board the backup plan was just for kick's,but at the same time yea if a girl ****s me over of course i got plenty of female's that have been my awhile that i would go be with not really a backup it's just called feeling the gap *other wise meaning closing that lonely spot that i got along time ago when i got cheated on*

[ueyedgr8tness]

Bottom line is women cheat guy's cheat but men feel worse when they do it believe me,and all my girl drama is done with i am getting married next yr so i could care less about other female's but if me and my (L) broke up today of course i would be kickin it with another girl tonight just cause it takes my mind of shi*

[Tasuki_Civic]

Damn chick u just went over board the backup plan was just for kick's,but at the same time yea if a girl ****s me over of course i got plenty of female's that have been my awhile that i would go be with not really a backup it's just called feeling the gap *other wise meaning closing that lonely spot that i got along time ago when i got cheated on*

yea thats understandable. when some people say back up that usually means that person was a so called "friend" that has been wanting you anyway and they were just waiting for your significant other to screw up.

but of course fill the gap.

[Tasuki_Civic]

Later, QD.

boo

[quickdodge®]

boo

What? You know I'm right. Later, QD.

[Tasuki_Civic]

What? You know I'm right. Later, QD.

bout what? you aint say nuffin. if you say so... that you NEVER missed saying the word "some, most" or any alternative word that defines a portion of a group of people.

[ahmonrah]

SLED!!! wtf you doin?

[BTEC]

Not sure what i would do, depends on how it all wnt down or how i felt at the time of finding out. Alot of yawl talking bout kicking dudes ass, im sure he didnt rape her and she had to participate in the act as well so y not kick her ass too?

Id kick dudes ass if he was a friends or have been trying to get at my girl for a minute just for the fact that he disrespected me on a continuous basis.

as for the girl, i dnt know. prollly a str8 right to the gina or something to make "it" useless to ne other dude that may visit what was once mine.

I might just leave and take a long ride listening to some Nas planning my new life. Who knows?

[ueyedgr8tness]

those fu**in tits in suki avator making me dizzy

[Schugg]

and the other guy knows that your girl is married to you or has been with you for over 3 years....( im saying 3 years, because there is a difference when your in love with someone and not - I figure if your with someone for 3 years you are probably in love with by then..i hope)

What would you do?

Would you go out and beat that guys ass and leave your girl?

Would you drop your girl and just call it a day and find more a$$?

What would you do?

I was thinking about this deeply cause me and my wife have haters which we know of that are always talking ****...

I have been married to my wife for 8 years now, we know everything about each other..

I was thinking to myself...would it really be worth it if I find out she had slept with someone and they knew she was married. Would it be worth it for me to go beat his ass, or just to let it ride and drop your lady, or let your lady know and be like thats straight - I got something on you? What if you find out years later?

Everything is cool in my relationship just to let EVERYONE know. Just so I dont start getting a 100 phone calls from everyone asking if everything is cool...LOL..

Let me know what you all think..

since most normal guys dont hit girls, find a big tough ass ***** and get her ass beat. and like the other guy said, cant blame the guy, but if he knows he needs a ass beating too, then find a fag to bend him over and stick it up his ass while he is knocked out. or stay with her cheat on her ass, get video pictures, better if its in your guys room, then when you feel like not putting up with her ****, get a divorce, then give her the videos.

[ueyedgr8tness]

since most normal guys dont hit girls, find a big tough ass ***** and get her ass beat. and like the other guy said, cant blame the guy, but if he knows he needs a ass beating too, then find a fag to bend him over and stick it up his ass while he is knocked out. or stay with her cheat on her ass, get video pictures, better if its in your guys room, then when you feel like not putting up with her ****, get a divorce, then give her the videos.

LIke i alway's tell ppl my dad told me to never hit a women but he didnt say i couldn't stomp the shi* out of them

[1000cckiller]

Double homicide. It's the only option.

I tend to agree.

[Glides]

in many conversations i have with women or men im usually on the men's side of things.

Im a ****in woman!! what do you expect? Im not always gonna be on the men's side. there are alot of things guys do that are stupid! period!!

Are you a head case? Not only did you sort of contradict yourself there but you did it in 2 posts, in reply to the same thread.

That right there fellas is case in point how crazy and irrational SOME women can get. She read the first line in the post, replied to it, then read the rest of QDs post and replied to it.

All I read out of it was "Cuckoo, cuckoo, I go crazy"

I tend to watch how a person acts, rather than the advice they give. And that right there screams PSYCHO.

[Glides]

bout what? you aint say nuffin.

Do you know the nuffin man, who lives on drury lane? I do, see.

[Kevykev]

Muffins and ocean spray!

[Glides]

Muffins and ocean spray!

I agree. My significant other used to love Muffins and Ocean Spray...then I caught her with some V8 vegetable juice. I just couldn't contain myself. I took it from her, pulled the cap off and poured it out into a storm drain. Then...I...broke the bottle.

I never saw her again.

[Kevykev]

I agree. My significant other used to love Muffins and Ocean Spray...then I caught her with some V8 vegetable juice. I just couldn't contain myself. I took it from her, pulled the cap off and poured it out into a storm drain. Then...I...broke the bottle.

I never saw her again.

wowsers!

[JuStCrUzIn]

If you did the same thing she did then you're just lowering yourself to her level... but yeah i bet it would make you feel a hell of a lot better hahaha

first time reading threw this.

[JuStCrUzIn]

I agree. My significant other used to love Muffins and Ocean Spray...then I caught her with some V8 vegetable juice. I just couldn't contain myself. I took it from her, pulled the cap off and poured it out into a storm drain. Then...I...broke the bottle.

I never saw her again.

even better

[JuStCrUzIn]

those fu**in tits in suki avator making me dizzy

lmao thats funny to.

[speedminded]

I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.

There is no way it will or even should work, if you or anyone else thinks so then your standards and morals are below trailer trash.

Backing your significant others vehicle into a shopping cart is a mistake, forgetting about the bread in the oven is a mistake...conversing with someone outside your relationship, enticing them, going out with them, then having a physical relationship with them IS NOT a mistake. Going out with someone while your significant other is out of town or at work IS NOT a mistake that can be fixed, there is no refund or return for cheating or adultery...you can't take it back. It's the lowest form of disrespect to your significant other and/or family, period.

With that said, i've done some really dumb things. I've had a relationship with a married women before: her tubes were tied and they despised each other....what more could someone at a young age want from a mid to late 20's hottie begging to come over every night? She was a squirter too, I think the arms of every couch were ruined during that year...oh well. Do i regret it? No. Will I knowingly do it again? No. I have more respect for all parties involved and I would hope i'm treated the same.

[Glides]

She was a squirter too, .

That's all I got out of your post and that made it full of win.

[UpSideDownDesi]

been there more than once....if shiit like that ever happened to you then just drop everything there and walk away. Beating the guy up won't undo anything...sure it's gonna feel nice, but he isn''t worth the time anymore. If a guy isn't worth my spit...he sure isn't worth my fist either. People only mean something to me till they show their respect and show they care. It takes a lot to build a friendship/relationship and it only takes 1 stupid mistake to break it. Don't ever sweat over a girl....biitches they come and go. Like Simon said.....it's all about respect. Don't ever give anyone a second chance...if they did it once...they will do it again. Excuses come like a freight train containers...one after another....count, say "damn", laugh and walk away.
Build a strong foundation from the bricks others have thrown at you.

[UpSideDownDesi]

I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.

LOL LOL LOL you kiddin me....she fuccks around, when she has a hubby, just to come back home and have the guy baby talk to her, "baby tell me...what is the problem...i am sure we can talk it out." U telling me if your guy screwed around with your friend....you would welcome him home and talk it out? I wouldn't even talk to her at that point....heck i'd change the locks on the door before she comes home and leave a not on the door "Me>You".

[Tasuki_Civic]

Are you a head case? Not only did you sort of contradict yourself there but you did it in 2 posts, in reply to the same thread.

That right there fellas is case in point how crazy and irrational SOME women can get. She read the first line in the post, replied to it, then read the rest of QDs post and replied to it.

All I read out of it was "Cuckoo, cuckoo, I go crazy"

I tend to watch how a person acts, rather than the advice they give. And that right there screams PSYCHO.

so basically what your saying is....i am only allowed to be on one genders side.

i back women up because i am one and a lot of women get hurt because some guys do what they do and dont care.. but on the turn around there a good amount of women who disrespect men, trick them into doing things etc. and i feel bad for what some men have to go through. so i also see it from their point of view.

i dont see any harm. like i said before i see alot of things from a man's point of view and understand it and i have to support them as well. not all men are treated the way they want to be treated. so i cant just say **** all men they aint **** blah blah blah....

i already know the women's point...thats obvious. and they go through just as many problems as men do.

both do wrong both do right. its not just a one sided story. no contradiction.

[Tasuki_Civic]

those fu**in tits in suki avator making me dizzy

you know you like my titays :boobies:

[ahmonrah]

^ the prollem is....she shake 'em too fast, i havent been able to catch one in mah mouf for months.....thinkin 'bout goin to an athletic training facility to work on my eye/mouf coordination

[ahmonrah]

I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.

WHAT!!!>>??
Work it out??

~guy comes home after 14 hour work day~


~dude: "WTF YOU TRAMP!!!" ~
~girl: slides lips off of random KOK-N-BAWLZ "gurgle..umph OH! OH! I'M....this is...i'm sorry i didnt mean to (continues giving handjob) can we work it out?"~

~dude eyes full of tears, nose full of snot:" you kunt!! i love you !! ~snifles, look of defeat and stupidity follows~ "it's :sniff: alright, we all make mistakes :sniff: i just want us to be together, and happy again"

~girl sensing he's a total lame: "yes baby!! i love you and we will be happy!!! would you mind waiting in the living room till i clean this foul mess up?! ~resumes(sp) sucking random dudes jimmy....giving the boyfriend the 'big brown blinky eyed look of innocense'

~dude: teary eyed and snotting still "i love you baby :sniff:!!

~as the door closes, dude hears a loud "argh!!ahhhh! oh yes you nasty taint! yes swallow it! ahh.....!"

hondachik. your touched in the noggin.

and the only thing to be worked out in that situation(if it ever occurs) would be the labiaplasty/rectalplasty/financial advising the cheating chick would have to endure when it's all over with.....

[magneto198]

Double homicide. It's the only option.

you plan your revenge and come up with the ultimate ploy to make them kill each other, while you just sit back eatin your popcorn