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I'm a white guy. Personally I like blondes or light brunette's (hot Italians FTW!), so I obviously have a strong preference for white girls.
BUT - there's beautiful women of every race. A good friend of mine (who is black) was over today and we were watching "I think I love my wife." I kept commenting oh how hot the black girl named Nikki (Kerry Washington) was in the movie and he didn't really have any thoughts. Asian women, can most def be hot!
I think a woman of any race can be attractive. To me how she behaves, dresses, and carries herself really makes a huge difference.
....but I still love blondes and brunettes. My GF is blonde and I wouldn't change a thing!!!
This is stupid...everyone always brings up something like, "I'd date a *insert ethnicity* girl if she was really hot. There are few *said ethnicity* girls that look good."
Aside from that...what sways you away?
I disagree there. I've felt that there was more racial tension the farther north I go. I think here in the South you can say that we have gotten use to each other. While up north were you have less minorities they still collide.Quote:
Originally Posted by bafbrian
For example one of my good friends is black. He goes to Georgia Southern and is friends with 2 of the most redneck tobacco chewing country boys that are from the middle of nowhere South Georgia. And in that gruop of friends consists a rich preppy frat boy and a white boy who wishes he was black and talks more gangster than Tupac. We all get along too.
Now we do make racial jokes at each other but it's like your friends laying a "Mamma" joke on you. You know they mean nothing by it but are wanting to yank your chain.
And by the way. Usually the ones who see a white girl with a black guy and make comments about them are usually the ones with the John Deere stickers on the back of their 2008 fully loaded Chevy pick up truck with $10k in lift mods and 10k in stereo equipment and try to be Redneck(Despite they live in Sandy Springs, Grayson, Alpharetta, Duluth, and drive a $50k truck) and talk about how they hate "The Nword". While they listen to Gangster rap and would jump Ciara if they had half a chance.
But I am completely opposed to any "Hate Crime" laws and feel they are wrong. I don't care how many times the white guy beating you yells the Nword at you. They should be in trouble for beating you down and not what they were thinking at the time.
i never looked at color thats how i was raised. If the girls attractive, then we should get to know each other, whatever race she is
white power!
jk jk <3
:lmao: The hell?Quote:
Originally Posted by itsjustdee
Have to disagree with you there. I've lived down here for 12 years and never seen anything like this. I've heard people even talk about the "culture shock" when they moved here. I"m sure there is tension up north, but its not a great.Quote:
originally posted bySmittie61984
I disagree there. I've felt that there was more racial tension the farther north I go. While up north were you have less minorities they still collide.
yea and the jena 6 story is proof we gotten used to each other in the south :rolleyes:Quote:
I think here in the South you can say that we have gotten use to each other
i have an interracial relationship...................................... ......
with myself!
2 of my best friends that just got married are an interracial couple, obviously their families were more than cool w/it.
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Originally Posted by Tracy
yea i agree with Tracy. my pop just started to get used to the fact that my sister and i date whomever we want. lol no matter if its the same sex or not. (Im sure he'll freak out if i turned lezi)
we were raised not to date outside our race lol and we do anyway. we never cared about race. Love has no boundaries, why limit them to one type of person.
i think what gets me the most about this topic is how one race will talk bad about another race (not knowing anything) and wont date a specific race at all either because of "he say she say", society, or one or 2 bad experiences. or all 3 together.
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Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
aaaw :( sometimes i wish i could be that feminine. Im too strong minded and stubborn to put forth feelings like that. at least he knows you care about him and its not just a fad like most people do these days. like its a trophy to do the toontoont with another race. "My first......."
Unless it's a known fact, the bold part cannot be held as necessarily true. When my grandparents first met my first daughter, they weren't happy at all(they turned around in time). When they met the woman who became my wife, they were still not very happy with my decision. When we got married, they weren't around. It took a few years of silence and returned Xmas gifts(to just me) before they finally realized I hadn't made bad decisions. Nothing's "obvious" when it comes to interracial relations and next of kin. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by shagwAg3n
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Originally Posted by shagwAg3n
not everyones family is cool with it. i know mine (on my dads side) would flip if i married a white guy.
see they have this thing at first i couldnt date white guys now i can date one but cant take him seriously. now they feel the same way but they say " you can date whomever you want"
cause they know i dont listen. lol and im the baby of the fam so i gets what i want.
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originally posted by Tasuki_Civic
cause they know i dont listen. lol and im the baby of the fam so i gets what i want.
Troof, except i get an ass whoopin first, then get what i want :screwy:
Over time they have to get used to it. Its not like they can hide forever from your spouse every time a family event is going on.
Exactly. It took a few years and then everything was straight. I returned Xmas presents sent to just me and B-day presents. Only thing I didn't give back was if they sent money for presents. I would then spend the money on my family. Some people talk about having an interracial relationship problems with their families? Try having multiple inter-race relations at the same time. Lolol. That's a sight. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlkCD5
Who honestly gives a ****. If YOU like other races, YOU date them. What the **** do you care about what other people think about what kind of race you date? If you do, you don't deserve anyone you may end up dating.
This poll is ****, simply because if I date a black girl, i'm not gonna give a **** what anyone else in this thread, on this forum, in this city or in the world thinks. My family will get over it because my family is only interested in my happiness. Their love doesn't depend on what the race is of the woman i'm dating.
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Originally Posted by Glides
I **** bitches of all colors
red, black, white, yellow, brown, orange, purple
I dont give a damn!!! I would **** a rainbow *****!
they gotta be STD free
that makes you sound :gay:Quote:
Originally Posted by C_R_X
i'm asian and my girlfriend is white....i don't see a problem with it. her dad took a while to get use to it but he's cool now. and her mom doesn't give a damn as long as i treat her good. i get treated like i'm part of their family and jessica(my girl) gets treated like she's part of mine.
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Originally Posted by VooDooXII
awww thats sweet :goodjob: so did you beat? :D
J/P
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Originally Posted by 3.5altman
im a white guy dating an asian girl and i dont see any problem with it. id date any girl i thought was worth the time, regardless of color.
The Jena 6 story is a joke. It was no big deal until the race pimps decided they didn't have enough news time and needed to ***** about something.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlkCD5
If it was 6 white guys beating the hell out of a black guy for raising a "Black Power" symbol then they'd be in more trouble than the Jena 6 because they'd get an additional "Hate Crime".
Now I love to shoot pool and I feel safe if I walk into a black, white, asian, mexican, etc pool hall. Other than people looking at me and thinking "Damn there is a white person here". I don't think any race pays more attention to the fact I'm a white guy in a black pool hall.
I'm not saying that all racial tension is gone. Nor do I think we'll ever get to the day that we sit together and hold our interacial hands and sing kumbaya with a bunch of dirty smelly hippies. But I think we tolerate each other well or better than what the south is believed to be.
Personally I think every yankee reads "To Kill a Mockingbird" and thinks the south is still like that.
color nvr came to me as a holding point. Who ever i clicked with i went with. 1 thing i always kept as a high priority was...attraction (both physically and mentally). I don't care if she is white, black, chinese, indian or w/e if i don't feel attracted toward a girl i don't give em any attention or try to get to know em better...no point. Attraction is 1 point that should be held hight not color. :2cents:
P.S All y'all missin indian action don't know what y'all missing.....lady on streets and major freak in a bed.
Indian w/ a dot or Indian w/ a feather?? :thinking:Quote:
Originally Posted by UpSideDownDesi
LOL
what do u think?Quote:
Originally Posted by BABY J
DOT Indian
P.S some of the feather one's ain't bad looking either...just a rare find. And it's good to have rare things. :yes:
^^ Oh. I thought you liked gettin down in a tepee.:D
:lmao: @ Indian confusion.
**** room is a room...but i am pretty sure after i am done...there won't be no tepee standing.Quote:
Originally Posted by BABY J
oops my bad it means did you take care of her sexual needs...lolQuote:
Originally Posted by VooDooXII
Haha, now it makes sense.Quote:
Originally Posted by 3.5altman
One of my professors is a 40 year old black dude who's cool as hell...first day of class he goes, "I use a lot of my own slang that half of you guys may not get, and all of you international students will not get."
So in our lectures, he'll end up saying, "And this is how it comes together, ya dig? Ya dig...it means, do you understand? Did you comprehend?"
Anyway, that reminded me of that.
To answer your question, no...but I mean, I like this one.
yea fa sho, i feel ya
My girlfriend is white, and Im mixed white and korean. Her parents dont like me because of it. They always tell her to basically stick with your own kind because the bible says so.
Im italian and my boyfriend is brazilian, people might see that as different, but we are really both latin based cultures.
I love his heritage. I'm in the process of learning portuguese fluently for his family in brazil.
Idiots. Too bad the bible doesn't say that at all. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Nemesis
are you dating 8911SC's sister or something?Quote:
Originally Posted by Nemesis
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Originally Posted by Stormhammer
You're a sellout!!
Some of yall in here aren't even that good at being racist....