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    Default Guys and Ladies...

    Please no need for BS talk in here... I am depressed... please just help a guy out here...

    Did I do the right thing?
    Please hook me up with some feedback guys... And Yes I am trying to get back with her...

    TINE x KM: Its not that i dont want to talk to you..
    TINE x KM: but I cant be with you
    ThuggishMofo07: didnt you get my message?
    TINE x KM: yes
    ThuggishMofo07: o ok then..
    TINE x KM: Henry.
    ThuggishMofo07: im not trying to get back with you...T
    huggishMofo07: if tats what your thinking...
    ThuggishMofo07: Justine.
    TINE x KM: Then what are you trying to do
    ThuggishMofo07: Honestly no matter how I feel or what I do, I cant change how you feel.
    ThuggishMofo07: I rather be your friend and stil lbe able to talk to you and possibly(maybe) get back with you later...
    ThuggishMofo07: then have all these feeling for you and try and try and try to rush you into making a decision and pushing you into getting back with me
    ThuggishMofo07: I dont want to do that... I rather be your friend
    ThuggishMofo07: and mayb if your ready we will get back together
    ThuggishMofo07: other than that i rather be there then not be there at all...
    TINE x KM: I honestly don't think we are ever going to get back together..
    TINE x KM: I feel like we
    TINE x KM: Can't be together
    TINE x KM: =/
    ThuggishMofo07: I know how you feel..T
    huggishMofo07: and I undersatnd.. but Im not asking GET BACK TOGETHER NOW!!..
    ThuggishMofo07: im asking to be friends and maybe youll see differently later..
    ThuggishMofo07: who knows..
    TINE x KM: What happends if we date other people
    ThuggishMofo07: The last time we talked I was ebing immture.. ThuggishMofo07: then date other people... talk to other people...
    ThuggishMofo07: get to know someone else..
    ThuggishMofo07: honestly if were ment to be together then WE WILL get back together
    ThuggishMofo07: I know plenty of older couples... who broke up when dating and then got back together and got married.
    ThuggishMofo07: I have FAITH in us.... I believe...
    TINE x KM: well maybe in the future..
    ThuggishMofo07: yeh in the future...
    ThuggishMofo07: when your ready ... your ready...
    ThuggishMofo07: well im bout to hit the sheets..
    TINE x KM: But I don't want you too wait
    ThuggishMofo07: good night to you...
    TINE x KM: If you meet someone..
    TINE x KM: then go for it.
    ThuggishMofo07: back at you J..
    TINE x KM: Dont hold back because of me
    ThuggishMofo07: i wont dont worrie...
    ThuggishMofo07: but to tell you the truth..
    TINE x KM: ok.
    ThuggishMofo07: i already found my Wifey
    ThuggishMofo07: good night.. I Love you much J..
    TINE x KM: goodnight
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    I don't know if it's just me...but it seems like you shouldn't just spill your feelings out towards her. Seems like that would push her away further.

    There's a lot I don't know though, so I doubt my words carry much weight.

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    If you don't feel it, then you don't feel it. It's pretty much that simple. Sounds like you did the right thing.

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    I already responded to this.

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    OK, putting my shit talker on hold...

    I've been there before, bro. Trust me, you're just beating a dead horse at this point. It's better just to try and put those feelings away, because from what you posted up, it seems like she already has... holding onto something that's long gone only prolongs unneccessary pain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KPowerEP3
    OK, putting my shit talker on hold...

    I've been there before, bro. Trust me, you're just beating a dead horse at this point. It's better just to try and put those feelings away, because from what you posted up, it seems like she already has... holding onto something that's long gone only prolongs unneccessary pain.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Z28
    ThuggishMofo?

    Ehhh its a username from middle school...

    Thanks guys and ladies for the comments..and not being assholes...

    UPDATE-----
    From last night


    TINE x KM: im sorrie
    ThuggishMofo07: Stop saying your sorry!
    TINE x KM: I am..
    ThuggishMofo07: Its ok
    TINE x KM: Can I call you..
    ThuggishMofo07: Yes
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    Quote Originally Posted by KPowerEP3
    OK, putting my shit talker on hold...

    I've been there before, bro. Trust me, you're just beating a dead horse at this point. It's better just to try and put those feelings away, because from what you posted up, it seems like she already has... holding onto something that's long gone only prolongs unneccessary pain.
    x3

    I know your trying to get back with her but its just not there. And don't hold on because you could miss the one you really need, the one that will make you forget and ease your pain cuz. Its just time to move on, take a deep breath and walk.


    Shits real out here. You betta keep a strap and learn somethin'
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    Even though you guys are telling me the truth... its so fuckig hard to just walk away from someone who means the world to you..

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteAccord
    Even though you guys are telling me the truth... its so fuckig hard to just walk away from someone who means the world to you..
    It is, but its usually for the best. If you DO walk away, find friends to be with so you don't mope at home. Been there, done that. Good friends make a world of difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Z28
    It is, but its usually for the best. If you DO walk away, find friends to be with so you don't mope at home. Been there, done that. Good friends make a world of difference.
    I guess that means I need to get out then...

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    Yup. Go for a drive or call up someone and go do something. Go work out or pick up a sport like boxing. Something physical.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteAccord
    I guess that means I need to get out then...
    Yes...get out and forget about it. Don't let it consume your life.

    Live a happy healthy 100% life and have that girl compliment that life, rather than having her "complete" you.

    Yes...it's going to hurt for a while, but it'll only last that much longer if you dwell on it. Go out and have some fun...it'll take your mind off of it sooner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Z28
    Yup. Go for a drive or call up someone and go do something. Go work out or pick up a sport like boxing. Something physical.
    That was one of things I needed to do after all this happended... Hit something... Thanks for the advice dude...

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    first mistake, no bs here, you should talk in person not over the internet

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    True/\/\ But this was our onlty way of communicating.. cause of no phones...

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    what about in person, and if not man honestly just get ur balls back and find another, it'll happen trust me

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    Same thing no phone to even get in touch... /\/\ That is always a possibility.. Thanks/..

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    Henry, is this that white girl i met awhile back?

    and to answer your question bro... move on and be cool.. thats the best thing you can do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniac
    Henry, is this that white girl i met awhile back?

    and to answer your question bro... move on and be cool.. thats the best thing you can do.

    Yeah same girl...

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteAccord

    Yeah same girl...
    She seemed cool, if you really like her.. try to work things out.. don't try to sound like you can't live without her though... act like everythings cool you know.. good luck man..
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    ya what alex said, sorta like getting ur balls back dont seem like u cant function without her

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS2_KID
    ya what alex said, sorta like getting ur balls back dont seem like u cant function without her
    Exactly...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniac
    She seemed cool, if you really like her.. try to work things out.. don't try to sound like you can't live without her though... act like everythings cool you know.. good luck man..
    Im trying to... Thanks.. good advice from the biggest shit talked on IA... rep if I can.

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    haha ^ maniac and whiteaccord just lost some cool points



    never get so emotional on the net



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    Sometimes a girl can make you feel like that you know...
    We act like we dont care in front of our friends, but when we are with them we treat them as our angel, well at least I try too. Cause I know and some of you guys may know that when we lose them, we just made the biggest mistake.

    Thanks all for the help, and comments.

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    Oh shit not again I thought we already covered this...And it is not easy to let someone that is world go. It actually one of the more harder things ive done. Sorry you had to go through it because it sucks. I am still going through it and it sucks. do something like swiming with friends, or going to six flags or something that is sure to take your mind off of her. Just don go to the movies cause you will end up seeing the main characters get it on or something and then lose it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NSCredondo
    Oh shit not again I thought we already covered this...And it is not easy to let someone that is world go. It actually one of the more harder things ive done. Sorry you had to go through it because it sucks. I am still going through it and it sucks. do something like swiming with friends, or going to six flags or something that is sure to take your mind off of her. Just don go to the movies cause you will end up seeing the main characters get it on or something and then lose it.
    I dont even go to the movies anymore cause me and her were movie buddies.

    but yeah.. I was pretty desperate into finding answers and/or advices. I really had no were to turn. So I turned to the forums(3)

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteAccord
    I dont even go to the movies anymore cause me and her were movie buddies.

    but yeah.. I was pretty desperate into finding answers and/or advices. I really had no were to turn. So I turned to the forums(3)
    LOL been there done that.

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    hey bro i know exactly how ya feel man just ad to deal wit that kinda situation tonight myself, it gonna hurt no matter what you do but from how it sounds she more over this than you are. i dunno what to tell ya other than get out the house take a breather with some bros and try to get your mind off things, easier said than done but seriously dont put yourself in the situation in which u drive her away give each other some space if she truly does want to get back she will if not then its time to go wedding crashing. i feel for ya man gl on this

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    what the hell happened? Cant really give someone advice if i dont know what happened

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    Quote Originally Posted by WickedIXMR
    what the hell happened? Cant really give someone advice if i dont know what happened
    His girl walked in on white accord in bed with someone else....



















    it was a 9 year old boy



















    and then she did this




















    theres room for forgiveness IMO. White Accord FTW.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteAccord
    Please no need for BS talk in here... I am depressed... please just help a guy out here...

    Did I do the right thing?
    Please hook me up with some feedback guys... And Yes I am trying to get back with her...

    TINE x KM: Its not that i dont want to talk to you..\
    TINE x KM: but I cant be with you
    ThuggishMofo07: didnt you get my message?
    TINE x KM: yes
    ThuggishMofo07: o ok then..
    TINE x KM: Henry.
    ThuggishMofo07: im not trying to get back with you...T
    huggishMofo07: if tats what your thinking...
    ThuggishMofo07: Justine.
    TINE x KM: Then what are you trying to do
    ThuggishMofo07: Honestly no matter how I feel or what I do, I cant change how you feel.
    ThuggishMofo07: I rather be your friend and stil lbe able to talk to you and possibly(maybe) get back with you later...
    ThuggishMofo07: then have all these feeling for you and try and try and try to rush you into making a decision and pushing you into getting back with me
    ThuggishMofo07: I dont want to do that... I rather be your friend
    ThuggishMofo07: and mayb if your ready we will get back together
    ThuggishMofo07: other than that i rather be there then not be there at all...
    TINE x KM: I honestly don't think we are ever going to get back together..
    TINE x KM: I feel like we
    TINE x KM: Can't be together
    TINE x KM: =/
    ThuggishMofo07: I know how you feel..T
    huggishMofo07: and I undersatnd.. but Im not asking GET BACK TOGETHER NOW!!..
    ThuggishMofo07: im asking to be friends and maybe youll see differently later..
    ThuggishMofo07: who knows..
    TINE x KM: what happends if we date other people
    ThuggishMofo07: The last time we talked I was ebing immture.. ThuggishMofo07: then date other people... talk to other people...
    ThuggishMofo07: get to know someone else..
    ThuggishMofo07: honestly if were ment to be together then WE WILL get back together
    ThuggishMofo07: I know plenty of older couples... who broke up when dating and then got back together and got married.
    ThuggishMofo07: I have FAITH in us.... I believe...
    TINE x KM: well maybe in the future..
    ThuggishMofo07: yeh in the future...
    ThuggishMofo07: when your ready ... your ready...
    ThuggishMofo07: well im bout to hit the sheets..
    TINE x KM: But I don't want you too wait
    ThuggishMofo07: good night to you...
    TINE x KM: if you meet someone..
    TINE x KM: then go for it.
    ThuggishMofo07: back at you J..
    TINE x KM: dont hold back because of me
    ThuggishMofo07: i wont dont worrie...
    ThuggishMofo07: but to tell you the truth..
    TINE x KM: ok.ThuggishMofo07: i already found my Wifey
    ThuggishMofo07: good night.. I Love you much J..
    TINE x KM: goodnight
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    The finger meat is the best.
    Its like having an evil twin... In your head.



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    Quote Originally Posted by SatansRectum
    The finger meat is the best.
    hell yeah, specially the lower thumb meat. I like mines medium rare w00t at ghetto drumsticks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KPowerEP3
    OK, putting my shit talker on hold...

    I've been there before, bro. Trust me, you're just beating a dead horse at this point. It's better just to try and put those feelings away, because from what you posted up, it seems like she already has... holding onto something that's long gone only prolongs unneccessary pain.
    x4


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    personally, since i know the situation and everything, I say stop messing with the girl henry. You're leading her on in a way. You and I both know how you feel about "her" and its just unfair to this girl that she has to go through this.

    It happened twice and you and I both know its going to happen again.

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    I say boiled monkey dinner, and a bubble bath... You'll be in like sin.
    Its like having an evil twin... In your head.



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    Quote Originally Posted by SatansRectum
    I say boiled monkey dinner, and a bubble bath... You'll be in like sin.
    lol at you for always switching names and posting in the same threads

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