and im very upset about it...jeff, pauls brother just called me and asked if he could keep pauls dog tags...he wanted to wear them in memory of his brother...i told him he could keep them...he also informed me that they are no longer having the memorial here in mville for paul bc most of his friends are gone for the summer...and his funeral is tomorrow in louisiana...i dont have time to drive there and i dont have the money to fly...so i cant go...but apparently pauls grandfather is planning everything since his mom is very distraught...he feels it isnt necessary to invite anyone but family to the funeral anyways...he is also refusing to let the military be a part of the funeral service...theyre going to still present a flag to pauls mother but thats it