About Child Support? Should it be worked out without court orders and no guarantee the person will pay? Should it be settled in court? Should it be garnished from a paycheck?
Give me your input.
What do you think?
About Child Support? Should it be worked out without court orders and no guarantee the person will pay? Should it be settled in court? Should it be garnished from a paycheck?
Give me your input.
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Taken from paycheck.
That way they never see the money anyway.
That's kinda what I thought too.
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Paycheck tiff.
He'll pay a few times, then fall behind...then stop
Get yo money to take care of that baby, its only right
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For you?? Court order all the way.
You have to make sure that if he stops paying you have something that will MAKE him pay. If he pays on time everytime, then a court order means nothing really. Court ordered child support is great when he doesn't. You can then garnish his wages if need be. If he doesn't pay then, he goes to jail. If he files tax returns, you can get his refund.
BTW, you need to call me.....like ASAP....please.
Auto-deducted from check is the best way, by far, to do this. No "I forgot" or "I don't have it" excuses will be heard. The only way you won't get money is if he isn't working. I've been doing mine that way for years and it is the way to do it. Later, QD.Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
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straight from the pay check...
no doubt about it.
Okay dokay!
Jaime, PM me...
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taken from paycheck. that's your only guarantee your child will see the money. you know damn well some guys aren't good for it!
Even paycheck deduction isn't guaranteed. Later, QD.
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taken from the paycheck..
Yeah taken from their paycheck
Guys, yall have to remember that paycheck deduction is not an automatic. I'm not 100% sure, but I think you have to have that court ordered. That means there has to be a court case first.
Tiff needs to just serve him and take him to court. Once she has the court ordered amount, he has two choices: pay or don't pay. If he doesn't pay, she has to go back to court and he'll be found in contempt and I believe that is when they'll order it taken out of his check.
I've never dealt with it first hand, so someone correct me if I'm wrong please.
Ok. Lolol.
Here is a PM that I sent to Tiff:
"For this, you do not have to have a court order. You and the Father will both have to go here(appointment) and decide on a child support amount. If you both agree on an amount, this state office will create an order of child support which will be upheld as a court order. So you won't have to go to court. If you both can not agree on an amount, the office will then send it to actual court where it will be determined for you. Most of the time, in your favor. Then that court order will be used in the office."
Later, QD.
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I see. So if it's amicable, it can just be made into a court order and then recovered? Word. That actually makes sense. Why waste court time if they agree.
Too bad that in TIFF'S case I'm willing to put money on the fact that it WON'T be amicable, so poor Tiff is going to have to take the long route and take his butt to court. Wanna bet????
You are so right! He wouldn't agree to 22% of Max's monthly expenses which totals about $250/month.I see. So if it's amicable, it can just be made into a court order and then recovered? Word. That actually makes sense. Why waste court time if they agree.
Too bad that in TIFF'S case I'm willing to put money on the fact that it WON'T be amicable, so poor Tiff is going to have to take the long route and take his butt to court. Wanna bet????
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Court ordered....
For wages to be garnished, a court order is usually the determining factor.
I think Yousef should adopt the baby and provide you the care and nourishment it needs...
On a serious note, you need to get a court order at least. There are no gaurantees these days with Dad's saying they "will pay".
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Thanks guys... I'm going to do everything possible to make him pay. *I don't need his money, but Max does. Every penny we get will go in an account for Max that he will have access to when he graduates high school.*
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From the pay check!! Never trust anyone to pay you. The world just doesn't roll that way...
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Ok from personal exp. Let the court do it. I think they take what that person makes in one day or a avg and thats what you get paid a week. NOW IF that person loses their job and lets say goes like 4 months or so without paying, child support enforcement will put a warrant out for their arrest. I was out of a job for awhile and then I got a job but the warrant was still there for the BACK child support, even though I was paying again it didnt matter becasue I got behind. So I had to pay 2k to get it caught up, which I did and was out within 24hrs. Im still a little behind so I pay $100 a week instead of $76. Now if he gets a better paying job you have to goto court to get the amount higher. Hoped this helped. Are you thinking of splitting with Clay?
Let me break that down for a second:
If she takes it to Child Support Recovery, they will create a "court order" without going to court. It will be the same thing.
It is now and always has been 19-23% of weekly income. But it looks at both parents income and not just the Father(non-custodial).
It's not a time limit thing. It's over $3,000 you get the warrant.
That's not necessarily true. You can only go to court to get more money every 3 years. Later, QD.
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I didnt know it was 3k, so thanks. Also yea I heard it was 3 years, which for me it has but I make $5 more an hr now so Im not going,lol. Also you said it looks at both parents, so that means if when I did it back in 04 it would've been cheaper or more if it was like that back then?
Yea, my ex wife filed for an increase in support 3 months before I got a $400/week raise. She should have waited. But the "looking at both parents" thing just started this year in January. It isn't retro-active or anything. Later, QD.
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We split 3 weeks ago and he's hooked up with someone new.. You might know her, she works with him at G'ville motorsports, her name is Elizabeth.
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Daycare is $640/month and that's with 1 day free per week and no weekends...
He's an idiot all around.
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good lord! I guess I am glad I am in columbus! my sister gets a great deal and the daycare you actually have to put in an application months prior for them accepting the kids only charges like $106 a week, and it's actually really nice with great staff!
on a side note....you hook up with me, you can get next to nothing daycare on ft benning
lol.:boobies:good lord! I guess I am glad I am in columbus! my sister gets a great deal and the daycare you actually have to put in an application months prior for them accepting the kids only charges like $106 a week, and it's actually really nice with great staff!
on a side note....you hook up with me, you can get next to nothing daycare on ft benning
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just think...while I'm deployed my income would be tax free, they'd pay for housing costs, seperation pay, and if I die, you'd get 400k! haha
I get so mad when my buddies get married to females in the military and get all this money and they just split it down the line! granted it's totally illegal....this shit has been going on for as long as the army has been around!
When I was in it was 500k. I had to pay $16 every 2 weeks for that.
We'll get married and then fake your death, ya down?
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TALK TO A LAWYER. My girlfriend talked to the child support services office for advise and they fucked her. Is your child currently enrolled in daycare??
In their case, a lawyer would probably not be a wise decision. More money than necessary to spend. Lawyers are better in higher profile cases(as in money and shit, not celebs). Believe me. In the case involving a newborn, it's gonna look good in her favor. Later, QD.
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okay, so then how about you skip the middle man? Goto his parents? Surely they would not help out their grandson? I'm sure they are more responsible than he is, and as you said, they always bail him out of trouble.
Tiff, here's what you need to do. Sit down, and figure out the cost of diapers, formula, bottles, clothes, baby wipes, toys, baby einstein videos, etc...
and break it all down, and email or show it to his parents....at $250 a month, that's a hell of a deal...
so does he not even want to pay child support and does he even want to see his son anymore? or is he just on to the new gf and forgetting his past?
She needs guaranteed payment, lolol. But good idea.
It's really hard to figure out what she will need. There are a few other expenses in there plus some that you don't even know may come about.
If that's the case, go to court and have his parental rights terminated. Then, by law, he would not allowed to see or talk to the child again. Later, QD.
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I must have missed something, child enforcement that is right behind the wachovia in gainesville, off of ee butler is where she needs to go.I think she still lives in gainesville. Actually wait, I have there number.770-535-5735
He's moved on and could care less about his son. He says he does, but he's full of shit. He came to see him the other day for 15 minutes and had to leave because he wanted to see his new girl. Whatever though.
I should have left while I was pregnant, but I wanted to try to work things out for my son. I wanted him to grow up in a healthy home. Obviously, that didn't work, so now I know that if Max ever asks where his daddy is, and why he's not around, I can say I tried everything.
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Whatever you do, do NOT, seriously, bad talk the Father. That WILL come back to haunt you. If the child asks, tell him that you two couldn't get along and don't go into details about it. If you walk around talking shit about Father and he hears you or you tell him shit about Father, that child will remember and that child will say something. Especially if the Father remains in the child's life. He'll ask if you're saying anything and the child won't know and will tell. He can use that against you in court. Later, QD.
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NO NO NO NO!!!
DO NOT put that $250/mo back up on the table AT ALL.
If he was a fool not to take that 1 time offer, he's a fool period.
Whatever the grandparents want to contribute should be gravy on top. If his parents have to pay HIS child support, that says a lot about HIM. HE can be easily forced to pay. If he doesn't pay, he will go to jail. If his parents want to help him stay out of jail, that's one thing, but they have no legal right nor can be forced to pay. Tiff should not go at raising this child alone. She wasn't alone when he was made, right? If he won't step up and act like a father, well then she should MAKE him step up and support her financially while she covers both roles.
I just don't see how a man can walk away from his own son and not be a father to him. If that cost me $250 or $25K/mo, it would be worth every penny to me. There's not enough money in the world worth my son. I just don't get it.
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