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    Default a girl i like what should i do?

    ok im new to this all over again,i was married for 6 years and have been split up for about a year now. anyways i keep seeing this girl over and over.
    i think she looks nice and like my type. i gather up the nerve to talk to her sometimes but someone always gets in the way. i have no idea if she is single or what,i dont care. i just want to sit down and have a conversation with her,or just be blunt and say lets go out.
    i know it sounds easy but i really suck at this. my mom introduced me to my x wife,yup im that bad. what do you think i should say or do to ignite something or see if there is something more to this,ive noticed little looks and smirks from her but its always when im on my out of the gym or on my way back is she laughing? i really dig this girl for some reason,but im weak. i need some pointers.so i am turning to the ladies men on IA for help.help a fellow member out!!!
    yes i am....

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    stop being a puss
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    i knew that was coming,ok maybe i am. what would you do for real.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hulud
    stop being a puss
    word, being shy to an extent is a mysterious turnon to some girls, but being a straight out pansy is definately a turnoff to all woman. No chick wants a pussy. Hold yourself like you got something to offer and talk to her. Don't look down, but don't stare at her either. Talk slowly so you don't stumble over your words, but not so slowly you sound like a tard. Show confidence man, woman eat that shit up.


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    hahaha

    seriously be a man and talk to her and if you like her ask her if she wants to grab a bite to eat or something
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    Look at her for about 3 seconds..make sure she notices, and smile. Go with what ever reaction she gives you, if she smiles, go talk to her. If she puts her head down and looks embarassed, go talk to her. If she giggles, talk to her. If she walks away scream "FUCK YOU, YOU SILLY HOE BAG!!"

    If she laughs at you, ask her what that was about...
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    good stuff, but what would be a good opening line??im afraid to say something dumb,kind of like im doing now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ltdnismorace
    but not so slowly you sound like a tard.
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    Dont be shy, be very relaxed when you approach her. Say a few nice things and smile towards her. Like wow you look pretty today dadadada, or you smell really good just say something like a compliment that she would like to hear. Then go something like oh btw i was wondering if you would like to go out on a date sometime, i like you alot and think we would have alot of fun dadada. Dont sound desperate, just ask and dont be shy lol. Shyness alot of times is a downer, so be happy and relaxed it helps alot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    good stuff, but what would be a good opening line??im afraid to say something dumb,kind of like im doing now.
    just be like, hi im (insert name here), ive noticed you here............
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    hey man dont feel bad i use to be the same way then i got a job where u had to learn ppl skills in order to survive and frm there on out i jus kinda grew out of it

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    Just ask questions, girls like talkin

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    so where do you usually see this girl at?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hulud
    just be like, hi im (insert name here), ive noticed you here............
    I prefer this.... "nice shoes........wanna fuck?"

    or how about... "word of the day is legs sweetheart... wanna go back to my place and spread the word?"


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    Quote Originally Posted by B16a2 Civic
    Just ask questions, girls like talkin
    like "so do you like to do it yourself?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ltdnismorace
    I prefer this.... "nice shoes........wanna fuck?"

    or how about... "word of the day is legs sweetheart... wanna go back to my place and spread the word?"
    lol

    i was gonna use the first one, but i figured i offer a serious one
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    I would grab her hair and then runaway, that shit always work for me. Number 1 pussy getter
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    Quote Originally Posted by TIGERJC
    I would grab her hair and then runaway, that shit always work for me. Number 1 pussy getter
    wtf?

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    i dont have a problem when i have a little liquid courage in me, but for some reason im drawing a blank. fuck im a virgin all over again.
    yes i am....

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    You're too old to be shy

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    Quote Originally Posted by blank cd
    wtf?
    leave this thread you stupid twat.



    Its simple, if you like a girl just walk up to her and start a conversation with her. Thats a good way to find out if you two have anything in common. After I had a few conversation with her over the next few days, then I would her out. But you got to man up and go after her if you really like this girl
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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    i dont have a problem when i have a little liquid courage in me, but for some reason im drawing a blank. fuck im a virgin all over again.

    i hope not lol:boobies:

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    i dont have a problem when i have a little liquid courage in me, but for some reason im drawing a blank. fuck im a virgin all over again.
    dude, get a puppy, or maybe a cute little baby and call it a day. Seriously though, just introduce yourself and make small talk, yah know, bullshit a little bit. Be yourself, not fake though, they don't like that.


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    Trust me, im defintily a smooth operator. What you say all depends on if your lookin for the next Mrs. Bodydropped or if ur lookin for a one hitter quitter

    Lets say you see her in the gym all the time, say somethin like ive noticed you around here, your lookin pretty good, can i give you a few pointers on this excersize or how to work this?

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    Don't start off telling her that she looks good/etc., save that for special occasions. If its in a bar, start off talking about what she is doing, drinking, dancing to, etc. Just walk up and say something like I saw you dancing to **** band/artist out there, do you like them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by blank cd
    Trust me, im defintily a smooth operator. What you say all depends on if your lookin for the next Mrs. Bodydropped or if ur lookin for a one hitter quitter

    Lets say you see her in the gym all the time, say somethin like ive noticed you around here, your lookin pretty good, can i give you a few pointers on this excersize or how to work this?
    this sounds like something John Travolta would say in some cheesy mafia movie in an Italian accent. DO NOT SAY THIS.


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    Quote Originally Posted by blank cd
    Trust me, im defintily a smooth operator. What you say all depends on if your lookin for the next Mrs. Bodydropped or if ur lookin for a one hitter quitter

    Lets say you see her in the gym all the time, say somethin like ive noticed you around here, your lookin pretty good, can i give you a few pointers on this excersize or how to work this?
    for some reason i dont think that would work. maybe back in like 92 it would have

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    the shit works trust me. Ive picked up girls just about everywhere. this is what i do

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    maybe instead of "your looking good" somethin more along the lines of her going to the gym is showing improvement

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    Quote Originally Posted by blank cd
    Trust me, im defintily a smooth operator. What you say all depends on if your lookin for the next Mrs. Bodydropped or if ur lookin for a one hitter quitter

    Lets say you see her in the gym all the time, say somethin like ive noticed you around here, your lookin pretty good, can i give you a few pointers on this excersize or how to work this?
    im lookin for someone i can have fun with,trust me marriage or a serious relationship are the lasts thing on my mind.
    yes i am....

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    Quote Originally Posted by B16a2 Civic
    Just ask questions, girls like talkin
    yes sir they do and that leads to :idb:

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    im lookin for someone i can have fun with,trust me marriage or a serious relationship are the lasts thing on my mind.
    then stick with the tried and true line:
    "Thats a nice dress, it would look better on my bedroom floor tonight at around 10:30"

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    funny guys,i dont wanna just screw,hahaha.im not easy she has to earn that. im serious. thats the way i am im not a man whore.
    yes i am....

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    if ur looking for fun go to a party where everyone is fucked up

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    funny guys,i dont wanna just screw,hahaha.im not easy she has to earn that. im serious. thats the way i am im not a man whore.
    give em about a month of:jerkit: he will change his mind

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    Quote Originally Posted by DA6
    if ur looking for fun go to a party where everyone is fucked up
    im always lookin for that, thats sounds cool. pm me hahahha
    yes i am....

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    Quote Originally Posted by DA6
    give em about a month of:jerkit: he will change his mind
    a month, dude ive been single for 11 months.im immune im a born again virgin.
    yes i am....

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    bitches aint shit but hoes and trick.. lick on these nuts and suck the dick.. seriously, just went through a year and a half relationship.. fuck bitches..

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    you have to make her interested in you and then back away, leave them wanting more

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    Haven't you seen forty year old virgin. Just ask questions.


    Try it, maybe it will work

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