Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 40 of 70

Thread: they found my friend

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    corvette chick at heart kilpatty43's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    never never land
    Age
    42
    Posts
    3,517
    Rep Power
    24

    Default they found my friend

    as some of yall know my friend paul has been missing since feb 28...about 3 weeks ago it was discovered that he was not only missing but believed to be a prisoner atfer 2 other soldiers he went missing with turned up executed...they ofund paul this past saturday...beaten and executed just outside baghdad...he had several broken bones along with some cracked ribs...many lacerations and bruises and was serverly malnourished...i met with paul's mom this morning...she came into town to tell me the news and to give me a letter paul wrote to me beofre he left in case something happened to him...he told me he loved me and that he was sorry he wasnt coming back...the letter was a little over a page long...he also left me a ring...it was his grandmothers 50th anniversary ring that she left to him when she died last year...he said that he planned on proposing to me once he got back and since he wasnt coming back that he still wanted me to have it...that it was meant for my finger...he had it cleaned and sized before he left and its a perfect fit...dont know how he knew my size but he did...ever since he went missing ive been prepared for the worst but it still hit me hard...just thought id let yall know...

    "Yeah, I'm cocky and I am arrogant. But that doesn't mean I'm not a nice person." ~Jeremy Roenick

  2. #2
    A.K.A. GA Teg
    Join Date
    Jun 2001
    Location
    Behind the lens
    Posts
    14,656
    Rep Power
    43

    Default

    Sorry to hear Heather
    "A good photograph is knowing where to stand."
    www.ATLphoto.net Myspace

  3. #3
    RIP John + Leisa :( civic95's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    a track near you..
    Age
    46
    Posts
    3,582
    Rep Power
    27

    Default

    Damn! sorry to hear that, I was hoping he would be rescued or something eventually.

  4. #4
    Formerly Spyder Man
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Buford, Ga
    Age
    47
    Posts
    14,149
    Rep Power
    39

    Default

    Damn. Im sorry
    :boobies:

  5. #5
    Fighter11 alpinestar4life7's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    ATL from my head to my toes .. and the world
    Age
    41
    Posts
    176
    Rep Power
    21

    Default

    wow.. i am so sorry... that made me cry. Hit too close to home.
    [B]
    A strong desire to win doesn't make you a jerk.
    http://mysapce.com/sweetkas

  6. #6
    RIP Leisa Lowenthal Shawna's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Canton Ga
    Posts
    6,048
    Rep Power
    28

    Default

    Heather stop making me cry damnit!! You know I love you girl and if you need anything Ill be at your apt in no time..car or not...Im here for you whenever you need me. The ring is a perfect fit for a reason...he loved you and still does. Don't forget that....

    VAL FOR PRESIDENT

  7. #7
    ‹^›‹(ňżó)›‹^›
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Age
    42
    Posts
    6,618
    Rep Power
    30

    Default

    I'm sorry to hear that = /
    Chris
    91' Mustang GT
    512rwhp/468ft-lb

  8. #8
    Senior Member drupason's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2002
    Location
    Woodstock, GA
    Age
    41
    Posts
    3,300
    Rep Power
    26

    Default

    sorry to hear, life goes on tho

  9. #9
    The one and only Buddha buddha@TeamFX's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2003
    Location
    Gainesville, Ga. USA
    Age
    41
    Posts
    2,519
    Rep Power
    25

    Default

    Heather sorry to hear of this...
    Year One R&D/New Product
    Budget Boy's Performance EST. 2005
    "We're bustin ours, to kick yours"

  10. #10
    Volun-told. HEATON's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2003
    Location
    Anchorage, AK - Kuwait
    Age
    39
    Posts
    2,718
    Rep Power
    25

    Default

    Sorry to hear, but atleast now you can have a lil closure.


  11. #11
    Devin 5thgcelica's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    snellville
    Age
    40
    Posts
    17,611
    Rep Power
    39

    Default

    woo...
    damn. im really sorry to hear this....

  12. #12
    The coolest chick SM The Ren's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    In Lostsolvtec's bed!
    Age
    41
    Posts
    18,265
    Rep Power
    44

    Default

    aww hunny im so sorry.. Atleast you still have part of the most important part of him with that ring... his heart. He obviously loved you so much and he still does.. He knew that if he didnt come back the only thing he could give you was that ring to signafy his heart.. Im here if you need me!
    Val For President
    R.I.P. Our Dear Leisa..


    ASAP N.E. Chapter VP

    No more supra
    __________________________________________________ ________________________________________

    NIKON Squad member| NikonD40

  13. #13
    Certified Gearhead
    Join Date
    Nov 2003
    Posts
    205
    Rep Power
    22

    Default

    I don't know you heather but very sorry to hear that. At least he died for a good cause.

  14. #14
    good is dumb boosted1jz's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    alpharetta ga
    Age
    45
    Posts
    2,905
    Rep Power
    24

    Default

    sorry 2 hear that, my condolences(sp?) to the family and friends

    chris
    If You Aint Blowin You Aint Goin!!!

    "So, Lone Star. Now you see that evil will always triumph...because good is dumb."

  15. #15
    Rotary Man redlinenprelude's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2003
    Location
    lilburn/snellville
    Age
    39
    Posts
    1,042
    Rep Power
    24

    Default

    wow iam sorry to hert that

  16. #16
    IA LEGEND #truth Brett's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2001
    Location
    Charlotte, NC
    Age
    53
    Posts
    67,792
    Rep Power
    121

    Default

    Heather, I am sooooo sorry about this. If you need anyone to talk to, Hit me up ANYTIME
    Brett (One of the true OG's, No really... ask anyone)
    '15 Chevy SS
    '16 K7 SXL SWP

    www.facebook.com/brett.lowenthal1

    R.I.P Leisa, You are never forgotten - 10/7/08

  17. #17
    WTF? Leisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Up here in Cumming, Georgia
    Age
    58
    Posts
    29,253
    Rep Power
    53

    Default

    Heather boo., I am also sooooo sorry to hear about this... I hope that you can now have closure, keep what he gave you close to your heart, and remember him forever especially all the good times you shared... be sweet !

  18. #18
    I AM A SOCA WARRIOR TRINI4LIFE's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    C'vton
    Age
    45
    Posts
    1,482
    Rep Power
    22

    Default

    That is soo messed up . My prayers goes out to you and his Family. Keep your head up Ma.

  19. #19
    DO WHAT YOU DO! Mike's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Clowds
    Age
    39
    Posts
    416
    Rep Power
    21

    Default

    i am very sorry for your loss. he is in a better place now
    1996 eclipse: on lock
    http://www.myspace.com/31114256


  20. #20
    Senior Member Brandon C's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Lawrenceville,GA
    Age
    50
    Posts
    3,824
    Rep Power
    24

    Default

    I am very sorry for your lost as I am in prayer today I will pray for you..

  21. #21
    RIP Leisa! The Yousef's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Woodstock
    Age
    41
    Posts
    23,188
    Rep Power
    48

    Default

    i'm sorry heather...he'll be in my prayers....
    Val RIP
    Quote Originally Posted by Halfwit
    my only rule in life
    1: NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, DATE A GIRL OFF IA, OR TELL A GIRLFRIEND ABOUT IA.

  22. #22
    corvette chick at heart kilpatty43's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    never never land
    Age
    42
    Posts
    3,517
    Rep Power
    24

    Default

    thank you all for your kind words...and your support throughout this whole ordeal...i really appreciate it more than youll ever know

    "Yeah, I'm cocky and I am arrogant. But that doesn't mean I'm not a nice person." ~Jeremy Roenick

  23. #23
    Shine on! Nittanys1's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Raleigh, NC
    Age
    43
    Posts
    14,580
    Rep Power
    39

    Default

    that is so sad! Im sure he was thinkin of you and his family till his last............brought a tear to my eye too. I'm really sorry. We are all here for you to help pull u through when u need it!

  24. #24
    livin again collins's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    chillin in the sloooo gtoooo
    Age
    41
    Posts
    16,604
    Rep Power
    43

    Default

    nobody looks forward to this kind of news. this is the epitomy (sp?) of things you really lothe hearing. heather, i'm so sorry about all of this. you know your sister and i are here for you for whatever. i didnt know the guy, but i know he was a brave soul fighting for our country, doing his part to keep us safe on the homeland. again, while this can be some heart breaking news to recieve, at least you know he's not suffering anymore. you know that whatever pain he was enduring has now ceased. and the void that was once known as "where's paul" can now be filled with his care for you. i'm sorry things didnt work out they way everyone was hoping, but at least he's no longer in the hands of those criminalistic maniacs. send his family our condolences.

  25. #25
    Share the road SLOWR/T's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    G-net
    Posts
    4,344
    Rep Power
    26

    Default

    WOW. thats hard to read and know that your typing this about someone you loved. im real sorry that it happen like this. i was praying for a better out come.
    One Big Ass Mistake America

  26. #26
    Proud to be Retrosexual Jaimecbr900's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2003
    Posts
    9,189
    Rep Power
    38

    Default

    My deepest sympathy and condolences for you today. It's heart breaking to hear that story. You and he will be in our family's prayers. Truly heart breaking.

  27. #27
    Sofa King Cool BOOSTEDeg's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Augusta, Ga
    Age
    49
    Posts
    461
    Rep Power
    21

    Default

    Sorry to hear it. Very sorry actually. I was hoping that this wasn't going to be the ending. He died doing what he thought was right. He is a hero who died for the blanket of freedom the United States sleeps under. At least you have closure now, may he rest in peace. Another fallen comrade, a hero. Try to remember all the good he did and the good times you had together, for he is in a better place now, Hooah.
    My other car is a UP-ARMOR HMMWV(Humvee)
    w/ a MK-19 mounted on top

  28. #28
    IA Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Location
    Marietta
    Posts
    46
    Rep Power
    0

    Default

    Heather I dont know you but Im sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you and Pauls family.

  29. #29
    Something Else Kevykev's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2003
    Location
    'Round These Parts
    Age
    43
    Posts
    15,713
    Rep Power
    45

    Default

    so sorry to here, the news was inevitable i guess.

    Leisa and S. 4 Life NM?

  30. #30
    ... ŁG2♣'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2005
    Location
    2o9
    Age
    37
    Posts
    5,465
    Rep Power
    0

    Default

    im sorry to hear that

  31. #31
    Rwd ftw bigb996's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Athens
    Age
    39
    Posts
    1,241
    Rep Power
    22

    Default

    sorry to hear this...hes in a great place now though and knowing what he did for our country is a great accomplishment. Everything happens for a reason and he will always be a part of your heart and thats where he will stay. Good luck with everything and we all have you in a prayers.
    13 FRS
    89 Wrangler Sahara
    91 MR2-T

  32. #32
    Kabul, Afghanistan.. Xrated O.G.'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Troubleville, USA
    Age
    51
    Posts
    1,946
    Rep Power
    24

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by kilpatty43
    as some of yall know my friend paul has been missing since feb 28...about 3 weeks ago it was discovered that he was not only missing but believed to be a prisoner atfer 2 other soldiers he went missing with turned up executed...they ofund paul this past saturday...beaten and executed just outside baghdad...he had several broken bones along with some cracked ribs...many lacerations and bruises and was serverly malnourished...i met with paul's mom this morning...she came into town to tell me the news and to give me a letter paul wrote to me beofre he left in case something happened to him...he told me he loved me and that he was sorry he wasnt coming back...the letter was a little over a page long...he also left me a ring...it was his grandmothers 50th anniversary ring that she left to him when she died last year...he said that he planned on proposing to me once he got back and since he wasnt coming back that he still wanted me to have it...that it was meant for my finger...he had it cleaned and sized before he left and its a perfect fit...dont know how he knew my size but he did...ever since he went missing ive been prepared for the worst but it still hit me hard...just thought id let yall know...




    My deepest condolences go out to you as well as his family. Being a veteran of Desert Storm I would just like for you to know that there are people out there who have had to deal with this type of loss. From everything I have read in all of your posts about this soldier, I can only come to the realization that he was in fact a very strong and admirable man. I have had to go through this so many times before and it never gets any easier. Please tell his family that we (the soldiers of this free counrty) salute him and are thankfull of his dedication and service to this great country.
    The XUV !!!

  33. #33
    Cav-E-R's Lesbian Seagull Kristi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Lawrenceville, GA
    Age
    42
    Posts
    5,263
    Rep Power
    26

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by One Tuning Tuner
    My deepest condolences go out to you as well as his family. Being a veteran of Desert Storm I would just like for you to know that there are people out there who have had to deal with this type of loss. From everything I have read in all of your posts about this soldier, I can only come to the realization that he was in fact a very strong and admirable man. I have had to go through this so many times before and it never gets any easier. Please tell his family that we (the soldiers of this free counrty) salute him and are thankfull of his dedication and service to this great country.
    that is a great post and very honorable for you to say. thank god for all our soldiers over their fighting for us - my thoughts are with them every day. and like you said, what he did shows was an admirable man he was - and you are too for fighting in Desert Storm. Our country has people like you and Paul to thank for our everyday freedoms
    Seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it!

    Myspace
    Facebook


  34. #34
    Cav-E-R's Lesbian Seagull Kristi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Lawrenceville, GA
    Age
    42
    Posts
    5,263
    Rep Power
    26

    Default

    I'm so sorry Hefy Bugs! That made me cry reading all that - mom called me a little while ago and told me, I tried to call you, but you didn't answer. I understand that though. I'm so sorry and if there is anything I can do, just let me know. Mom said you were thinking about having a memorial service next week for him, let me know and I will try to come down.

    If there is anything I can do Heather, let me know. I'm sorry, but I guess the silver lining in all of this is that you have closure now. I know how hard that is, but its better than not knowing.
    Seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it!

    Myspace
    Facebook


  35. #35
    ⎝⏠⏝⏠⎠ RandomGuy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2004
    Location
    GA
    Posts
    18,981
    Rep Power
    150

    Default

    sorry to hear that.... just stay positive for the future. Good luck, my condolences

  36. #36
    corvette chick at heart kilpatty43's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    never never land
    Age
    42
    Posts
    3,517
    Rep Power
    24

    Default

    thanks again everyone...yalls words mean a great deal to me and i will pass them along to his family as well

    "Yeah, I'm cocky and I am arrogant. But that doesn't mean I'm not a nice person." ~Jeremy Roenick

  37. #37
    HBIC of IA Tiff-O-Bitties's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Gainesville
    Age
    41
    Posts
    13,185
    Rep Power
    39

    Default

    Gosh, Heather I am so sorry to hear that.. I'm here for you if you need anything.
    :boobies: & = :idb:

  38. #38
    Can you Keep up?? topsecret2JZ's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    Monroe, Ga
    Age
    41
    Posts
    2,406
    Rep Power
    23

    Default

    very very sorry.... my buddy just shipped out of iraq........ your in my prayers

  39. #39
    Senior Member TKellarB's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2004
    Location
    Atlanta
    Posts
    1,184
    Rep Power
    23

    Default

    Heather -- my heart aches for you and from reading the above posts, I am not alone. Hopefully you do have some closure although it will take a while to heal. Much love!

  40. #40
    Gods Chariot Vteckidd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Location
    Atlanta Centennial Park
    Age
    44
    Posts
    33,102
    Rep Power
    71

    Default

    I cant even type, that is so sad, this is really depressing. Well i thank him for his courage and his patriotism. If it wasnt for people like him, we would not have a free nation. He is the very definition of Hero and Patriot, unfortunetly he had to give the ultimate sacrifice to secure our freedom. My most heart felt condolences to his family, you, and anyone else affected by this. let them know it was not in vain, he has earned my deepest respect. I will see if i can get my father (ret col USAF) to see if he can have the flag flown at half mast at his old squadron in memorial to your friend.
    Enterprise Data Resources- Ecommerce Project Manager
    -www.usedbarcode.net

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
About us
ImportAtlanta is a community of gearheads and car enthusiasts. It does not matter what kind of car or bike you drive, IA is an open community for any gearhead. Whether you're looking for advice on a performance build or posting your wheels for sale, you're welcome here!
Announcement
Welcome back to ImportAtlanta. We are currently undergoing many changes, so please report any issues you encounter with the site using the 'Contact Us' button below. Thank you!