Girls of IA, I want opinions

[JennB]

Hmm... I thought this whole "going to Japan" thing was a hoax but oh well.. I'm bored and will give my opinion.

I would never, ever move, disrupt my life, give up everything for someone unless I was sure. Long term relationship with a definite future and no doubts. If the other person in a good realtionship got a great job offer, school, something like that... it would be worth the risk... or if it was a move for the hell of it that both people wanted. I've known plenty of people who moved and then the relationship ended... after that they were miserable. The only way it worked out for them afterwards is if they liked where they moved and had built a life other than just what they did with their partner.

From the other side though, I love my bf to death and would never even think to go somewhere without him. If I felt an overwhelming need to go somewhere other than here, he would be part of the whole decision and even if I got tired of Atlanta, I'd rather be here with him than away and without.

[gbrookie71]

Hmm... I thought this whole "going to Japan" thing was a hoax but oh well.. I'm bored and will give my opinion.

I would never, ever move, disrupt my life, give up everything for someone unless I was sure. Long term relationship with a definite future and no doubts. If the other person in a good relationship got a great job offer, school, something like that... it would be worth the risk... or if it was a move for the hell of it that both people wanted. I've known plenty of people who moved and then the relationship ended... after that they were miserable. The only way it worked out for them afterwards is if they liked where they moved and had built a life other than just what they did with their partner.

From the other side though, I love my bf to death and would never even think to go somewhere without him. If I felt an overwhelming need to go somewhere other than here, he would be part of the whole decision and even if I got tired of Atlanta, I'd rather be here with him than away and without.

I second this thought, if you have to ask yourself or think about it. Then you shouldn't do it, If you where in love and he was committed then this wouldn't be a topic today. Trust me if you go your making a mistake. Life changes like this shouldn't be a ? if they are don't do it.

[Hiro]

I second this thought, if you have to ask yourself or think about it. Then you shouldn't do it, If you where in love and he was committed then this wouldn't be a topic today. Trust me if you go your making a mistake. Life changes like this shouldn't be a ? if they are don't do it.

Well, I would agree, but it's not JUST hm I'm going for. Like I said, I wanted to end up there anyway. So this just gives me an opportunity. In fact, a while back when we were just kindof shooting it we were saying we were just putting our goals together in the end.

[gbrookie71]

Well, I would agree, but it's not JUST hm I'm going for. Like I said, I wanted to end up there anyway. So this just gives me an opportunity. In fact, a while back when we were just kindof shooting it we were saying we were just putting our goals together in the end.

Ok then in that case ask yourself this. Take him out of the picture, are you ready and financially able to up and move to japan. Do you have a job there do you have a place to live. etc. If any of this is not in order you aren't ready to go. You need to look at it like what if next month we are thru with each other. Cause trust me you dont want to be stuck in a place where you have to have someone to survive. Then you will be miserable in your relationship and stuck.