Originally Posted by
David88vert
You are dense. That was racial. Race is immutable. I have explained this to you many times, and you can't seem to comprehend it.
Let's look at this another way. How about bigamy and polygamy? Those are entered into by consenting adults, yet both are illegal in the US. Bigamy is a misdemeanor, and polygamy is a felony (Model Penal Code section 230.1). Do you believe that bigamy and polygamy are civil rights that are being denied?
Should these laws be overturned, so that multiple gay and straight people can legally marry each other? 2 gay guys can marry each other, while each is already married to 10+ other guys? Everyone can just marry anyone else, and as many as they like. You and your wife could have had 30+ people all walk down the aisle together, and you could have all just gotten married to each other. After all, it wouldn't have hurt anyone else, right?
Marriage has always had the definition of one man and one woman. These "gay rights" advocates are not seeking to get spousal benefits - that could have been accomplished by them asking for civil unions. They are specifically looking to change the definition or marriage to their "new normal". Here's the thing though - it's not new or normal. Homosexuality has been around as long as civilization, and modern society has not defined it as normal. If anything, they have clarified that it is not, through multiple amendments passed all over the country in the last decade.
48 states have taken definitive action concerning this subject or marriage - and the vast majority of them have addressed it within the last decade. I see posts in threads where people say, "America is a democracy, let the people vote on it." - well, the people have voted. Now, I see the same people saying, "That's not the result I wanted. I have a right to be gay and change the definition of marriage, because I didn't get what I wanted."
My earlier stated solution is the obvious solution. Get the federal government out of marriage, give all married couples federal tax benefits and spousal benefits. Leave the definition of marriage to the states, and let them compete to attract these couples to their states.