Id also look up the cost of wheels like yours, suspension like yours, if it has a swap or not, the JDM headlights, etc. You can never have too much information. When he writes you an estimate for $100 headlights, you say "NAH BRO, THESE ARE JDM, $400". hell say "we dont pay for aftermarket parts", thats when you have 2 responses

1) Then i want OEM factory Honda Headlights, not DEPO remans (which is what his estimate will be for). Lucky for you OEM Honda Headlights even for that car are $270 PLUS SHIPPING PER HEADLIGHT. $357 LIST price (MSRP)
http://www.acuraoemparts.com/delray/...GHT&pp=0&np=25
2) If you didnt want to replace JDM headlights, you shouldnt insure a driver that ruined my car cause he has bad driving habits.

They have to replace what they damaged, the fact they are aftermarket and cost more is not your problem, its theirs.