Should I....

[ToyoChick05]

tear another hole in his ass or no?

gimme a minute to put up a poll but here is the story.

There is this girl named Sara, around the same time I met my boyfriend he met her. Originally he was trying to hook her up with his roommate. But it had appear that Ms. Sara had other agendas. From the things she would do it would seem like she is trying to get with my boyfriend. I let him "take care" of it and really didnt say anything.

Well needless to say she made a few passes at him (e.g. invited him in the hot tub where she was at there place when she was hanging out with his roommate) but he didnt tell me untill months down the road.

To me it seems like he was hiding that fact. Yanno good or bad he is suppose to tell me... isnt the relationship suppose to be based on trust and honesty?

Well I signed onto his myspace and looks like she requested to be his friend, which he didnt allow or deny or delete. Then I went through his trash box and saw that she sent him a message but he didnt reply.

It said "i guess i'll just leave u alone since i can clearly see that u never want to talk to me again."

See this makes me think he has been talking to her. Even after he knew what she wanted from him. So to speak he is setting himself in a position he does not want to be or does he?

:rolleyes:

[hemi]

It appears that she likes him, but he isn't interested....

Nothing to worry about..

[con]

oh shiat, the exact same thing happened to me several months back. my ex went through all my shiat and seen some evidence that someone was trying to get at me, but I didn't respond to any of it. since I didn't make her aware of it she accused me of sorta lying.

me personally I still don't see it as lying. do you come home and tell your BF about every single incident where a guy hits on you? if you do, IMHO it's highly unnecessary because most guys in the ATL will hit on anything with a pair of tits, and a ass.

[Sammich]

nothing to worry about...girls take things way out of proportion..just calm down

[ToyoChick05]

oh shiat, the exact same thing happened to me several months back. my ex went through all my shiat and seen some evidence that someone was trying to get at me, but I didn't respond to any of it. since I didn't make her aware of it she accused me of sorta lying.

me personally I still don't see it as lying. do you come home and tell your BF about every single incident where a guy hits on you? if you do, IMHO it's highly unnecessary because most guys in the ATL will hit on anything with a pair of tits, and a ass.

no but this is different.. we both know the girl personally. We both know she wants him..and from the word "AGAIN" it seems as though he has been talking to her before.

I think something fishy is going on

[ShooterMcGavin]

well they obviously have talked before but u already knew that, but seeing as how he has ignored every attempt she's made to get at him, i think ur just overreacting.

[Sammich]

thank u...stop worryin about it, he's stayin faithful obviously

[hemi]

You are thinking too much about it. Making it difficult like most women do. You are giving men too much credit. You can't fault him for some other chick liking him, you should be excited that you have a man that is attractive to other women...
He is doing the right thing, and you should reward him for it...

[Bruce Leroy]

just leave it alone, don't bust his balls for no reason.

[Sammich]

You are thinking too much about it. Making it difficult like most women do. You are giving men too much credit. You can't fault him for some other chick liking him, you should be excited that you have a man that is attractive to other women...
He is doing the right thing, and you should reward him for it...

rewards FTW

[ToyoChick05]

ahh I see.. I do seem to analyze things a bit much.

yeah his reward is being with me :D that is good enough hahaha :)

[Sammich]

bout time...now reward us w/ pics...reveal urself

[ToyoChick05]

bout time...now reward us w/ pics...reveal urself

let me put my finger in your ass first ;)

[hemi]

~~leaving now, yall have fun!

[Tasuki_Civic]

fuck that!! imma sassy bitch imma tell you this right now...i know the game and how it works. if a man doesnt want the attention he will let it know some way some how and it wouldnt consist of so many contacts as she has. i know me and if i found that shit.....i wouldnt tear another hole in his ass but he will feel alil rip from me. theres no sense in letting shit ride for no reason. he needs to tell her stank ass she needs to move on with all that cause hes not interested. theres nothing wrong with letting someone know you dont like them like that. especialy if she knows he has a girl.
DISRESPECT is how i see it....to him and you.

but like said i wouldnt make a big deal out or it or argue but i damn sure will make it known. depending on how everything is. thats just me. im Leo and im not the jelouse type but if i give you the chance to handle that and you didnt " thats yo ass with me" i know the game .

[Tasuki_Civic]

women see what women do all the time if you know "the games" pple play. it aint gone fly wit me.

[The Golden Child]

have an orgy with me toyo and youll feel better ..