hoo all is pregnant on IA??

[carrascopa]

hoo?

[Ms Dollar]

me

[Wurm]

brett looks pregnant

[Nemesis]

Cav-ER and Scrappy




oh and Ricky got me preggo too

[The Golden Child]

Cav-ER and Scrappy




oh and Ricky got me preggo too

gross !!! wheres my picture G ..

[The Yousef]

me

am i the father? :eek:

[Ms Dollar]

am i the father? :eek:
yep...shhh don't tell chuck

[The Yousef]

yep...shhh don't tell chuck
...gotcha;)

[B16a2 Civic]

yousef tryna get lil paki knocked up

[Ms Dollar]

yousef is cheating on me?!? just wait til i see you at np tonight...

[The Yousef]

yousef is cheating on me?!?
...sorry :(

i had a moment of weakness....:bump:

i still love you long time :idb: :boobies: :crazy:

[Nemesis]

gross !!! wheres my picture G ..


I have it man, just havent sent it out. But I didnt cash your check yet either and I wont until it gets sent out.

[Ms Dollar]

...sorry :(

i had a moment of weakness....:bump:

i still love you long time :idb: :boobies: :crazy:
it's too late yousef...it's over. :cry:

[B16a2 Civic]

what kind of picture.....

[Nemesis]

what kind of picture.....

Yousef making love to a goat

[babygurl]

yousef is cheating on me?!? just wait til i see you at np tonight...


uh-oh...dont mess with this girl..last guy that did .....he was never seen again!!!!

[B16a2 Civic]

!!!

~leaves~

[The Yousef]

it's too late yousef...it's over. :cry:

NOOOOOooooooo.......:( :( :( :( :( :(

i'll buy you alcohol....lots of alcohol!!!!

[Ms Dollar]

i wanna see a picture!:ttiwwp::yay::camera:

[carrascopa]

miss dollar?? r U Really pregnant??

and also.. can anyone tell me how one with herpes delivers a baby? I always thought that if u had herpes your baby would get them too if you kept it.. therefore u shouldnt have one..

ne 1 ever think about how tiffanis baby dady had to hit that raw in order to pop her seeD?
eew... i dont get people..

[LiL PaKi]

it's too late yousef...it's over. :cry:

YES! he's ALL mine... hahaha

[B16a2 Civic]

miss dollar?? r U Really pregnant??

and also.. can anyone tell me how one with herpes delivers a baby? I always thought that if u had herpes your baby would get them too if you kept it.. therefore u shouldnt have one..

ne 1 ever think about how tiffanis baby dady had to hit that raw in order to pop her seeD?
eew... i dont get people..
you shined some light on a new subject.
maybe teh rubber bust

[The Yousef]

YES! he's ALL mine... hahaha

OOOOoooo....FIGHT!!!

[itsjustdee]

brett looks pregnant

so does ricky. LOL :D

[Ms Dollar]

miss dollar?? r U Really pregnant??
:no:


and also.. can anyone tell me how one with herpes delivers a baby? I always thought that if u had herpes your baby would get them too if you kept it.. therefore u shouldnt have one..

The best way is by C-Section...that way there is minimal risk to the baby. As long as the baby does not enter the birth canal then chances are good that the baby will not be infected.

[horsepower]

hahahaha i gotta see that :lmfao:

[Wurm]

YES! he's ALL mine... hahaha
so yousef's plan for marriage worked eh

[horsepower]

Yousef making love to a goat
:lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao:

[Ms Dollar]

ne 1 ever think about how tiffanis baby dady had to hit that raw in order to pop her seeD?
eew... i dont get people..

From what I heard he is the one that gave it to her in the first place...

[TRINI4LIFE]

miss dollar?? r U Really pregnant??

and also.. can anyone tell me how one with herpes delivers a baby? I always thought that if u had herpes your baby would get them too if you kept it.. therefore u shouldnt have one..

ne 1 ever think about how tiffanis baby dady had to hit that raw in order to pop her seeD?
eew... i dont get people..


:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

[carrascopa]

The best way is by C-Section...that way there is minimal risk to the baby. As long as the baby does not enter the birth canal then chances are good that the baby will not be infected.

still IMO thats a risk i would not be willing to take. How terrible would it be to give your new born baby herpes.. they would have it for their entire lives.. I mean, could any of you imagine what your life would have been like growing up with herpes..

[B16a2 Civic]

From what I heard he is the one that gave it to her in the first place...


DAT NIGGA NASTAY, I KIND OF THOUGHT IT WAS PROBABLY HIM, DID HE TELL HER BEFORE THEY DID ANYTHING?

[TRINI4LIFE]

X2

[Ms Dollar]

You know how shit like this always comes in threes...First Krissy, then Tiff...someone else is gonna get pregnant on here.

[carrascopa]

From what I heard he is the one that gave it to her in the first place...

:upchuck:

[Wurm]

You know how shit like this always comes in threes...First Krissy, then Tiff...someone else is gonna get pregnant on here.
lil paki

[Ms Dollar]

still IMO thats a risk i would not be willing to take. How terrible would it be to give your new born baby herpes.. they would have it for their entire lives.. I mean, could any of you imagine what your life would have been like growing up with herpes..

Well if you go through natural delivery and you have an outbreak then it can cause blindness in a newborn baby...

[carrascopa]

my boy justin ishaving a baby.. i just found out last night.. n my boy allen is also having a child.. fuccin A must be that time of yr where everyone is fuccin up a storm.. I know i am, but i shoot blanks :-(

[The Yousef]

Well if you go through natural delivery and you have an outbreak then it can cause blindness in a newborn baby...
that's right you don't have herpes...you got AIDS!!!!!

:eek:

[Ms Dollar]

That's what summer does to people...Too hot outside so you stay inside and have sex.

[carrascopa]

Well if you go through natural delivery and you have an outbreak then it can cause blindness in a newborn baby...

intersting.. so you dont have herpes?

[Ms Dollar]

that's right you don't have herpes...you got AIDS!!!!!

:eek:

Damn Yousef why you have to tell everyone all my secrets today...I mean first you say that I am having your baby, now you tell everyone I have AIDS...DIAF ASSHOLE! :2up:

[carrascopa]

that's right you don't have herpes...you got AIDS!!!!!

:eek:

u do realize that AIDS is a huge huge problem claiming the lives of hundreds of thousands of people.... it really isnt something to joke about at all..

[Ms Dollar]

intersting.. so you dont have herpes?
No sir :goodjob:

[carrascopa]

No sir :goodjob:

thats good.. musta sucked to have a doc sit there and tell u u have it when u dont! damn that musta ben a mind job,...

If anything ever starts growing on my penis.. imma chop it off

[Ms Dollar]

DAT NIGGA NASTAY, I KIND OF THOUGHT IT WAS PROBABLY HIM, DID HE TELL HER BEFORE THEY DID ANYTHING?
I think she found out afterwards...

[LiL PaKi]

You know how shit like this always comes in threes...First Krissy, then Tiff...someone else is gonna get pregnant on here.

lil paki

haha .... DIAF!!

[Ms Dollar]

thats good.. musta sucked to have a doc sit there and tell u u have it when u dont! damn that musta ben a mind job,...

If anything ever starts growing on my penis.. imma chop it off
Yeah I mean I'm sitting there gettin a pap and he's like do you realize...and I'm like :no: and he's like :yes: and I'm like :no: :2up::rant::fire: and he's like :no:
That's right bitch no one's gonna tell me I have something when I don't

[carrascopa]

I want a kid damnit.. Wish my sperm swam good

[Ms Dollar]

I want a kid damnit.. Wish my sperm swam good
Hey I'm right there with ya I want a kid but Chuck's like :no: and I'm like :cry: and he's like :no: ...so no kids for us yet...

[thinkfast®]

I read this thrad, and at first I was like :yes: then I saw theres gay talk and I was like :upchuck: and I said to myself should I keep goin :no:

[LiL PaKi]

Hey I'm right there with ya I want a kid but Chuck's like :no: and I'm like :cry: and he's like :no: ...so no kids for us yet...

awww

[carrascopa]

brett always acts :gay: when girls show their :boobies: so im always like haha :taun: your a fag brett.. n all he does is :bump: celebrating his gayness... what else can i do besides :no: in disgust... but this nigga busts out his :police: village peole costume and then i cant help but :lmfao: at the :gay: bastard

[thinkfast®]

:fruit: :fruit: :fruit: <---- Brett & friends at a car show

[Leisa]

brett looks pregnant

BE NICE DAMNIT!

[Leisa]

my boy justin ishaving a baby.. i just found out last night.. n my boy allen is also having a child.. fuccin A must be that time of yr where everyone is fuccin up a storm.. I know i am, but i shoot blanks :-(



BAD APPLE JUSTIN?

[carrascopa]

nooo.. a nudder justin

[Leisa]

brett always acts :gay: when girls show their :boobies: so im always like haha :taun: your a fag brett.. n all he does is :bump: celebrating his gayness... what else can i do besides :no: in disgust... but this nigga busts out his :police: village peole costume and then i cant help but :lmfao: at the :gay: bastard


OMG... THATS SO FUNNY!

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

miss dollar?? r U Really pregnant??

and also.. can anyone tell me how one with herpes delivers a baby? I always thought that if u had herpes your baby would get them too if you kept it.. therefore u shouldnt have one..

ne 1 ever think about how tiffanis baby dady had to hit that raw in order to pop her seeD?
eew... i dont get people..

Alex, I'm really not trying to be a bitch when I say this, but do some research before talking about a subject in which you have no clue about. You can have a healthy, uninfected baby even if the mother is infected. It's very difficult for the baby to contract the disease neonatal... The only way is if I were to have it vaginally during the time of an outbreak. I will more than likely have to have a C-Section. Clay (my ex) is the baby's daddy, he is also the one who initially gave me herpes, therefore, he had it prior to getting me pregnant.:goodjob:

[Dragonfly5338]

Not me! That's for DAMN sure. I got stuff to do before worrying about having a baby.


still IMO thats a risk i would not be willing to take. How terrible would it be to give your new born baby herpes.. they would have it for their entire lives.. I mean, could any of you imagine what your life would have been like growing up with herpes..

Alex, most of the time the doctor will schedule a c-section before your due date so the woman never goes into labor. The risk is really quite low with a c-section, because herpes doesn't transfer through the umbilical cord. The other risk is blindness, because a herpes outbreak can damage the baby's eyes if it passes through the birth canal. That's why all newborn pictures have squinty, puffy red eyes because doctors put silver nitrate drops in their eyes to prevent this, in case the mother had herpes while giving birth and she didn't know about it.

[Dragonfly5338]

Alex, I'm really not trying to be a bitch when I say this, but do some research before talking about a subject in which you have no clue about. You can have a healthy, uninfected baby even if the mother is infected. It's very difficult for the baby to contract the disease neonatal... The only way is if I were to have it vaginally during the time of an outbreak. I will more than likely have to have a C-Section. Clay (my ex) is the baby's daddy, he is also the one who initially gave me herpes, therefore, he had it prior to getting me pregnant.:goodjob:

Just curious Tiff, and I'm not trying to bash you in any way... but why would you have a baby with a guy that cheated on you and gave you herpes? Once a dog, always a dog.

[carrascopa]

makes sense... so u basically have to get gutted like a fish than sewd bak together in order to have a healthy baby

c section scar nasty

[carrascopa]

Just curious Tiff, and I'm not trying to bash you in any way... but why would you have a baby with a guy that cheated on you and gave you herpes? Once a dog, always a dog.

good point.. i too would wonder this.. however.. the fact that she is white and lives in Gainesville is al the explanation u need!

[Dragonfly5338]

makes sense... so u basically have to get gutted like a fish than sewd bak together in order to have a healthy baby

c section scar nasty

Hahaha, c-section scars aren't bad at all nowdays, man. The incision is relatively small and 9 times out of 10 they do a "bikini line" cut, where it's right at the top of your pubic area, and it won't show in a bikini (if you can pull one off after the baby, LOL!)

[Dragonfly5338]

good point.. i too would wonder this.. however.. the fact that she is white and lives in Gainesville is al the explanation u need!

Aw, now don't be mean! I was just wondering, cause she always refers to him as her ex, but just found out she was pregnant, so they must have shacked up recently? :???: But then again, a lot of stuff that people do on IA confuses me, LOL.

[carrascopa]

Hahaha, c-section scars aren't bad at all nowdays, man. The incision is relatively small and 9 times out of 10 they do a "bikini line" cut, where it's right at the top of your pubic area, and it won't show in a bikini (if you can pull one off after the baby, LOL!)

all the celebs nowadays are going c section.. all the way..

they get enduced before stretchmarks happen.. birthing all their babies pre-maturely than while c - sectioning get a full tummy tuck.. this is why celebs are psoing for playboy n shit shortly after giving birth.. thats the way imma make my girl do it

[carrascopa]

Aw, now don't be mean! I was just wondering, cause she always refers to him as her ex, but just found out she was pregnant, so they must have shacked up recently? :???: But then again, a lot of stuff that people do on IA confuses me, LOL.


WHITE + GAINESVILLE = WHITETRASH 99% OF THE TIME

[The Golden Child]

lil paki gunna have yousifinas baby ..

[Ms Dollar]

WHITE + GAINESVILLE = WHITETRASH 99% OF THE TIME
You can't just group people together like that Alex. Just because a white girl lives in Gainesville doesn't mean that she is white trash. That's not fair to Tiff. She's a nice girl...don't be mean. :no:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Val, no offense taken... Honestly, it was a one night, drunken event, etc. No excuses on my part... I did it, it's done, oh well.

Alex, I'm not aborting this because I don't believe in it!

[carrascopa]

You can't just group people together like that Alex. Just because a white girl lives in Gainesville doesn't mean that she is white trash. That's not fair to Tiff. She's a nice girl...don't be mean. :no:

I SAID 99% OF THE TIME... I DIDNT CALL HER WHITE TRASH.. I LEFT ROOM FOR ERRORS IN MY EQUATION

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

WHITE + GAINESVILLE = WHITETRASH 99% OF THE TIME

this is very true, but there is still that lucky 1% (the category that I fall under)

[Dragonfly5338]

Val, no offense taken... Honestly, it was a one night, drunken event, etc. No excuses on my part... I did it, it's done, oh well.

Alex, I'm not aborting this because I don't believe in it!

Oh okay. Are yall getting back together? I hope not, honestly.. he doesn't sound like that great of a guy.

[carrascopa]

Val, no offense taken... Honestly, it was a one night, drunken event, etc. No excuses on my part... I did it, it's done, oh well.

Alex, I'm not aborting this because I don't believe in it!

GOOD FOR YOU.. I DONT BELIEVE IN ABORTION EITHER....

GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR PREGNANCY..

I WASNT TRYIN TO CALL U OUT..IT JUST CAME UP..

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

No we aren't.. By the time I have this baby, he'll be long gone anyway.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

thank you alex, that's much appreciated.

[Dragonfly5338]

I SAID 99% OF THE TIME... I DIDNT CALL HER WHITE TRASH.. I LEFT ROOM FOR ERRORS IN MY EQUATION

You can use 95%, btw. Statistically, any % error that is under 5% is considered unusual, and not a random occurance due to chance. :D

I just feel bad for yall, honestly. It's hard hard work to have a baby, especially on your own, trying to deal with child support payments, working and having a newborn, etc. I'm waiting until after I'm out of grad school to have a baby, even though by then I'll be 30. But for me it's the right thing to do, because I want to be able to support my family even after I'm married, and not just have to rely on my hubby to pay for everything. Plus I think I'd go absolutely bonking mad if I was a housewife, LOL.

The moral is: Anal sex, IA. :yes: It hurts less than giving birth.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

hahaa!

[carrascopa]

AWESOME QUOTE

[thinkfast®]

haha this nigga said he left room

[.....]

congrats to those who are pregnant IF they can support themselves,and their child and have the means for a proper, and healthy upbringing. IF they can't they should either be pro choice or put them up for adoption.

[Vteckidd]

Cav-ER is pregnant?

[Vteckidd]

nevermind reread, congrats Tiffany!

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

thanks!

[horsepower]

i wish all of you the best of luck

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

thank you!

[thinkfast®]

i wish all of you the best of luck

when you say all of you, you mean the chicks thats knocked up? or everyone? whats up? you wishin me luck, cause Im minority? ooooohohoho really

[itsjustdee]

look at ricky, starting up shit already.

[CSquared]

slowrolla is pregnant.

[horsepower]

the pregnant people unless your knocked up to????then congrats to you too :)

[LiL PaKi]

slowrolla is pregnant.

hold onnnn u got him pregnant before or after u cheated on him with Never_finished?!?

[thinkfast®]

the pregnant people unless your knocked up to????then congrats to you too :)

nigga I will kick you in the stomach and DDT your ass to sleep, hows that for knocked up.. more like knocked out

go ahead, gimme a nother congrats. I dare you

lol

[Kathryn]

AWESOME QUOTE

+1

[itsjustdee]

LOL

[horsepower]

nigga I will kick you in the stomach and DDT your ass to sleep, hows that for knocked up.. more like knocked out

go ahead, gimme a nother congrats. I dare you

lol

damn chill it will be ok my bad didnt mean to you all wwe on my ass :lmfao:

[thinkfast®]

what? are you thankin me? yea, you should thank me.. lucky I aint get on the top rope nigga

PLEASE REFRAIN

[horsepower]

what? are you thankin me? yea, you should thank me.. lucky I aint get on the top rope nigga

PLEASE REFRAIN

i never said i was thanking you bro watch out that top rope will hurt cha

[B16a2 Civic]

ricky, do we need to double team super plex someone from the top of the steel cage?

[MrWang]

I got a girl pregnant last month. Then left the state.

[The Golden Child]

I got a girl pregnant last month. Then left the state.

you scrub man up ..

[MrWang]

you scrub man up ..

Nah I'm good. She turned into a coke head and shit. I'm like fuck that I'm outta here. I'm gonna fight for custody cuz shes a druggie.

[The Golden Child]

well den i hope that turns out for you ..

[GsrTurbo320]

I got a girl pregnant last month. Then left the state.



:slap: .

[CSquared]

hold onnnn u got him pregnant before or after u cheated on him with Never_finished?!?

during... that's how we roll.

[MrWang]

well den i hope that turns out for you ..
thanks mang

[Romeyo07]

wifey is 7 months pregnant

[collins]

Alex, I'm not aborting this because I don't believe in it!

much respect for that!

[kittychick]

wifey is 7 months pregnant

^congrats!

Remind me not to drink the punch, gosh. Best wishes to all the new moms!!

But no babies for me either- maybe after I finish grad school and get married. Maybe, maybe- birth and scars are no fun!

[Scrappy]

Alex, I'm not aborting this because I don't believe in it!

there is only one reason i would ever get one and that is if i was raped and it was that persons and it was known WAY early into it! :( I am keeping mine and not caring about anything else but him :goodjob:

[Sibious]

Cav-ER and Scrappy




oh and Ricky got me preggo too
i thought u and ricky tryign to keep it a secret

[Julio]

For some reason I want to laugh at some comments made on this thread.

lol.

[Julio]

For example..

" I'm in the 1 % "

That shit was classic. :lmfao:

[babygurl]

nigga I will kick you in the stomach and DDT your ass to sleep, hows that for knocked up.. more like knocked out

go ahead, gimme a nother congrats. I dare you

lol

congrats!!! It will be a beautiful kid!!! CONGRATS ese!

[Kevykev]

choices

[B18c-rex]

You can use 95%, btw. Statistically, any % error that is under 5% is considered unusual, and not a random occurance due to chance. :D

I just feel bad for yall, honestly. It's hard hard work to have a baby, especially on your own, trying to deal with child support payments, working and having a newborn, etc. I'm waiting until after I'm out of grad school to have a baby, even though by then I'll be 30. But for me it's the right thing to do, because I want to be able to support my family even after I'm married, and not just have to rely on my hubby to pay for everything. Plus I think I'd go absolutely bonking mad if I was a housewife, LOL.

The moral is: Anal sex, IA. :yes: It hurts less than giving birth.
The line about anal sex ..... priceless :yes:

[DnBmama05]

^congrats!

Remind me not to drink the punch, gosh. Best wishes to all the new moms!!

But no babies for me either- maybe after I finish grad school and get married. Maybe, maybe- birth and scars are no fun!



:goodjob: i wish i had been a little more careful... wouldn't change anything for the world, but i would have liked to have gone off to college and just been solo for a while to kinda do my own thing... pregnancy really isn't all that fun let alone the birthing part of it, but maybe you'll be one of the lucky ones that doesn't get scars :yes: the only scar i have is a little line right above my belly button, but it looks like a place where a belly button ring may have been so i'm def not complaining... no other complications either (you ladies probably know what i'm talkin about) don't wanna gross the guys out :rolleyes:

[Kevykev]

? I always thought that if u had herpes your baby would get them too ..

"THEM" as if herpes consisted of little lemmings or trolls or some shit like that :lmfao:



Disclaimer*** herpes or any other std is not a laughing matter.....

[Scrappy]

i wouldnt change what i have for the world at this point either :D after knowing i was yeah there were a few nights i was like " WTF did i do?!" but i am already looking forward and for the best :D

[Julio]

400 to 500 bucks wouldve save you some headaches that you are about to endure.

Sorry. I dont believe in having something when you are not ready.

[Scrappy]

400 to 500 bucks wouldve save you some headaches that you are about to endure.

Sorry. I dont believe in having something when you are not ready.

how am i not ready? yeah wasnt trying, but definately ready and have been... talking about tiff or something? :???:

i am and have been excited about it since i found out :yes:

[~The_Duke~]

babies are a bundles of joy, and enjoy every second of them not knowing how to walking and crawl...

[DnBmama05]

you're right scrappy... i mean sometimes i wonder 'what would i be doing now' or 'what was life like before when i could sleep all day and do whatever i wanted'... but it's really weird because i can't imagine what life would be like without having my son... for a looong time i wasn't ENJOYING motherhood the way i felt like i should, but i think i expected to feel differently than i did - i'm sure post partum had a pretty big effect as far as that goes. my friends that had kids were always talking about how much they LOVE being mothers and i just didn't know if i felt that way - but a few of them weren't being mothers... their moms were taking care of their kids and they came around when they felt like being a parent... so then i understood. i just wanted to stick that in there because i know a lot of women that have babies go through the same thing i went through.

[DnBmama05]

babies are a bundles of joy, and enjoy every second of them not knowing how to walking and crawl...


you speak the truth!! i would love to be able to lay my kid down and get ready for work in the morning and not worry about what he's trying to get into

[~The_Duke~]

you speak the truth!! i would love to be able to lay my kid down and get ready for work in the morning and not worry about what he's trying to get into

mine is usually pretty good about getting into cabnets and what not...but you have worry about what she is climbing or beating the dog with...

[DnBmama05]

400 to 500 bucks wouldve save you some headaches that you are about to endure.

Sorry. I dont believe in having something when you are not ready.




the emotional scars this leaves on a lot of women is sometimes worse than actually taking care of a human being for 18 years... ready or not - giving it up for adoption is a MUCH better way to go if you're not ready...

[~The_Duke~]

the emotional scars this leaves on a lot of women is sometimes worse than actually taking care of a human being for 18 years... ready or not - giving it up for adoption is a MUCH better way to go if you're not ready...

this is true specailly if you have that after birth depression stuff...I dont remember the correct verbage...

[DnBmama05]

how old is she duke?

[Julio]

the emotional scars this leaves on a lot of women is sometimes worse than actually taking care of a human being for 18 years... ready or not - giving it up for adoption is a MUCH better way to go if you're not ready...


I just think if you are out there fucking dudes and get pregnant, you cant tell me " I WAS READY " fuck that shit.
Your fucking your life up and then a new one.

[Scrappy]

you're right scrappy... i mean sometimes i wonder 'what would i be doing now' or 'what was life like before when i could sleep all day and do whatever i wanted'... but it's really weird because i can't imagine what life would be like without having my son... for a looong time i wasn't ENJOYING motherhood the way i felt like i should, but i think i expected to feel differently than i did - i'm sure post partum had a pretty big effect as far as that goes. my friends that had kids were always talking about how much they LOVE being mothers and i just didn't know if i felt that way - but a few of them weren't being mothers... their moms were taking care of their kids and they came around when they felt like being a parent... so then i understood. i just wanted to stick that in there because i know a lot of women that have babies go through the same thing i went through.

there could be alot i would say along with this but keeping it off the "internet" and hiding it inside of my mind. but yes this baby will be with me and not my mom considering i have been on my own for so long anyways. I have already started changing what i do so that its not a huge instant challenge and change when the baby is born. but the ones that rely on others to take the "mother" initiative... :no: want to smack them sometimes.

[~The_Duke~]

how old is she duke?

My daughter is 2 1/2 and her mother is 19

[B18c-rex]

I must say that not having the father or father figure around in the childrens life would make it even harder. I would think just my :2cents:

[~The_Duke~]

I must say that not having the father or father figure around in the childrens life would make it even harder. I would think just my :2cents:

it is very diffcult with just one parent no matter which one is missing...cas I have a hard to getting anything done when I am watching my daughter and that is the same way with her mother...

[Scrappy]

I just think if you are out there fucking dudes and get pregnant, you cant tell me " I WAS READY " fuck that shit.
Your fucking your life up and then a new one.

i wasnt just "fucking dudes" nor did i say i was ready when i was doing it. but i have learned to take responsibility and learn from it that minute and for life. never was it a mistake nor will my baby ever be a mistake julio. dont see why ou are being so negative about it ... i am not fucking My life nor my babies life up! if its not directed to me then please let me know cuase last i checked, mine has almost everything he already needs and is not even here yet :goodjob: and will have my life as support and a leason to learn :yes:

[Scrappy]

I must say that not having the father or father figure around in the childrens life would make it even harder. I would think just my :2cents:

I know mine will so that wasnt directed towards me...

[Scrappy]

btw, i am 21 and settled my life down A LOT compared to my past and you julio can vouch for that! so this talk like i am a 16 year old who made a "mistake being a slut" isnt too nice but whatever. going to get my stuff done for the day and go check on my roomie.

[Julio]

i wasnt just "fucking dudes" nor did i say i was ready when i was doing it. but i have learned to take responsibility and learn from it that minute and for life. never was it a mistake nor will my baby ever be a mistake julio. dont see why ou are being so negative about it ... i am not fucking My life nor my babies life up! if its not directed to me then please let me know cuase last i checked, mine has almost everything he already needs and is not even here yet :goodjob: and will have my life as support and a leason to learn :yes:

Generally speaking.


But something you said just stuck out.

So were you trying to get pregnant ? If not, then it was a mistake ;)

[Scrappy]

Generally speaking.


But something you said just stuck out.

So were you trying to get pregnant ? If not, then it was a mistake ;)

well we were obviously "trying" considering he is on his way already ;) and no it is never going to be a mistake, you can say it was in your own opinion but this is the first time i ever had a "scare" and risked it so i knew mentally i was READY... unlike you might think :goodjob:

[Julio]

Me, i fix shit real quick.

[Julio]

well we were obviously "trying" considering he is on his way already ;) and no it is never going to be a mistake, you can say it was in your own opinion but this is the first time i ever had a "scare" and risked it so i knew mentally i was READY... unlike you might think :goodjob:


Thats cool shawty. I was just asking. :D

[Scrappy]

Me, i fix shit real quick.

and thats why you are the man with a penis... so you wont ever have to try that on me :goodjob: :tongue1:

[DnBmama05]

btw, i am 21 and settled my life down A LOT compared to my past and you julio can vouch for that! so this talk like i am a 16 year old who made a "mistake being a slut" isnt too nice but whatever. going to get my stuff done for the day and go check on my roomie.



i can relate to how you feel about that... i was 17 at the time so not too far from 16 :) but i had a few people that i used to work with say all kinds of negative things. one girl said that i need to think about the baby and whether or not i wanted to walk down the halls of my high school pregnant - thanks for the prep talk :) but i knew what i wanted to do from the day i found out... and i could care less about what people at my school thought :rolleyes: most of them were out doin the same thing it just hasn't caught up with them yet. the thing about abortion is - you may not be ready now... but you may be one day and not be able to have any children because it can mess your body up :(

[Scrappy]

i can relate to how you feel about that... i was 17 at the time so not too far from 16 :) but i had a few people that i used to work with say all kinds of negative things. one girl said that i need to think about the baby and whether or not i wanted to walk down the halls of my high school pregnant - thanks for the prep talk :) but i knew what i wanted to do from the day i found out... and i could care less about what people at my school thought :rolleyes: most of them were out doin the same thing it just hasn't caught up with them yet. the thing about abortion is - you may not be ready now... but you may be one day and not be able to have any children because it can mess your body up :(

I agree 100%!!!! I am to the point i do not care about the negativity and do not let it get inside me like i did at first, and take only the positive to heart and move on :yes: but i am glad you and i both think ALOT alike, kinda scary though in a way lol

[DnBmama05]

the people being negative were the ones that had had abortions or would consider it... hate to say it, but it's true... they HATE to see someone happy

[Scrappy]

the people being negative were the ones that had had abortions or would consider it... hate to say it, but it's true... they HATE to see someone happy

yup this girl at my work is like... """dude babies are the worst thing anyone can think of being happy about... :blah: :blah: :blah: ... i wanted one and then once it was here i didnt and got a abortion, well i had 3 in my life but no man will ever be there except for that baby so it isnt worth a minute of your mind """

people just dont know how to say congrats and move on if they do not approve... not my mom so the opinion does not matter :taun:

[babygurl]

the people being negative were the ones that had had abortions or would consider it... hate to say it, but it's true... they HATE to see someone happy


not everyone is like that dear...I knwo a few people who have had abortions, and suggested it to someone....its not that they dont want to see them happy...I for one believe in choices, I have suggested it to friends, and that was only as supprt, rather you see that as good or bad, that is my choice. But please dont mistake everyone with not wanting to see others happy!

I do think having a baby is a wonderful thing, but sometimes people are just not ready, and yes adoption is another choice...again its all about choices!

I will say this there are ways to protect yourself, but sometimes not even condoms or birth control work...


Edit: not trying to attack you either :)

[babygurl]

yup this girl at my work is like... """dude babies are the worst thing anyone can think of being happy about... :blah: :blah: :blah: ... i wanted one and then once it was here i didnt and got a abortion, well i had 3 in my life but no man will ever be there except for that baby so it isnt worth a minute of your mind """

people just dont know how to say congrats and move on if they do not approve... not my mom so the opinion does not matter :taun:



and you are correct there...

[DnBmama05]

not everyone is like that dear...I knwo a few people who have had abortions, and suggested it to someone....its not that they dont want to see them happy...I for one believe in choices, I have suggested it to friends, and that was only as supprt, rather you see that as good or bad, that is my choice. But please dont mistake everyone with not wanting to see others happy!

I do think having a baby is a wonderful thing, but sometimes people are just not ready, and yes adoption is another choice...again its all about choices!

I will say this there are ways to protect yourself, but sometimes not even condoms or birth control work...


Edit: not trying to attack you either :)





no, i don't take it as an attack at all ;) i definitely didn't mean for it to sound like ALL people who do that or think that... which i'm sure it probably did... but just from experiences i had... they were the only people who would have any feeling toward that... if you haven't been in the situation then i think you would probably be indifferent to someone else's situation. on a side note, i have never liked other people's kids around me before i had a child... they were just snotty nosed and annoying... i never babysat kids or anything, let alone having a snotty nosed one of my own... but after i had my son i have sooo much more patience for other people's children :yes: kind of irrelevant, but actually having a child can change someone's outlook on them so much.

[RandomGuy]

very true, but back then they didnt know me,

but see now that i'm hot, theyre all on me.

[MongolPup]

Damn.... this is surreal.

It seems like normally IA is full of stupid bullshit, like "I could steal your girl" "Why you talking behind my back?". But this is an entirely different caliber of "drama"; one that has peoples lives and livelihoods riding on it. In the last month how many lives have changed forever for the good or the bad?

As far as being exciting or serene about what is about to happen in your life.... are you sure? It's easy to put a game face on, or even feel good some of the time, but that’s dangerous. Happy for the future one-second, cold and alone the next. It would rip me to SHREDS if I (was a girl first off) and I was pregnant by an un-loving father, as a result of a one night stand, affair, drunken love or the like. Maybe I'm not far enough in my life to have the inner peace you ladies can, but it defies everything I have ever known to have something good come out of such a horrible situation.

I'll admit, when I first read about what exactly had happened I was disgusted. "What a fucking waste of 2 lives" I said. However, I failed to think about that what my idea of a good life is different from anyone else’s; and I have yet to feel the biological urges programmed into every human to promote reproduction. I also realized that this could just have easily been me; what really makes us different?

I remember at some point a couple of months ago I saw Cav pulling out of a McDonalds. What gets me is did she have any idea what was going to happen not that far in the future? It's the same kind of deal as when "Negrodamus" was killed in a traffic accident. I didn't really think anything of it until I was reading a thread and saw a post he made and I thought about it.....that little green light next to his name would NEVER light up again. It's almost a ghostly trail.

Last week scrappy went ahead and told me that I hadn't done something that I had. I replied and I was expecting something of an acknowledgement of my answer; the nature of what she said was something that I almost expected an apology or something. However, apparently that wasn't the case, and I was asked if I was retarded. I was confused, and then angry. I almost replied to the effect of "me retarded? Listen here bitch at least I'm not.......". Looking back though, now I feel a kind of respect for her. To be blunt, if I was in her shoes, I quite possibly could have committed suicide by now. That shouldn't be taken lightly in any way shape or form, as I have never typed, said, or thought anything to that effect until this very moment.

To be able to make order out of chaos is something that will stick with me for a long time. What the fuck is wrong with me to be angry about how this or that isn't going my way.....most of those things are trivial and naive. I don't think I have ever learned something from IA or it's members, but this could change all that. Suddenly, I am very human indeed.

It's about 12 in the morning, and I'm sure no one will read this until tomorrow, when the thread will be 13 pages long, my monologue replaced by "bake me some cookies puto" and "coat hanger time yo!". However, if there is anything I ask, take this for what it is and leave it alone. I doubt I have ever written anything so serious for a message board, but it is what it is and I hope everyone can take a grain of salt when they think about replying to it in any way that is less mature then I would feel like it should be.

In conclusion, I have nothing but respect for the parties involved. It was too easy for me to point and laugh and be glad it wasn't me, but we all bleed the same red blood. Thanks for reading, and good luck with everything.

[lexi2003]

i am pregnant with a baby boy but i am on my last few days

[Scrappy]

Last week scrappy went ahead and told me that I hadn't done something that I had. I replied and I was expecting something of an acknowledgement of my answer; the nature of what she said was something that I almost expected an apology or something. However, apparently that wasn't the case, and I was asked if I was retarded. I was confused, and then angry. I almost replied to the effect of "me retarded? Listen here bitch at least I'm not.......". Looking back though, now I feel a kind of respect for her. To be blunt, if I was in her shoes, I quite possibly could have committed suicide by now. That shouldn't be taken lightly in any way shape or form, as I have never typed, said, or thought anything to that effect until this very moment.



aww buddy i was far from serious... i just had NO clue what you were talking about or asking... theres nothign wrong with being in my shoes :goodjob: keeps me alive and alert of reality daily even before this news that i have known about for a while now, just for some reason IA was behind on finding out about :my life: lol

[MongolPup]

lol....there were much more importent things in that post then that but I'm glad you read the whole thing.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

I've been excited too, and sorry Julio, I understand your point, but I don't give up that easily.

[Deaf Pimp]

eew... i dont get people..

Probably the most ironic statement you could've made on IA....

[£G2♣]

i feel sorry for all u ladys thats pregnant

[collins]

Probably the most ironic statement you could've made on IA.... :lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao:



............... (short version)

dude, that was a VERY well written post.

also i'd like to ad, that i'm proud of these ladies for accepting responsibility for the situation and keeping the babies. i, for one, do NOT believe in abortion when it was 2 willing human beings engaging in sexual activities. in some cases (ie: rape) i can understand it. but for these young ladies to "man up" and do what it takes, i respect that. krissy, i'm glad we were able to sit down and chat last night (it'd been too long girl!). i'm proud of ya!

[The Golden Child]

yousef is pregnant ..