****WHAT WOULD YOU DO?****

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Say you're talking to this person, not really dating, but maybe considering it... and they seem really great...They have a great job (an engineer, for example, making $85K+ a year), a nice house (only from description, you've never been there), served in the military, etc.

What if you found out that everything they've ever told you was a lie... From their name to what they really do to the felonies on their record, etc.?

This happend to my best friend just 2 days ago... She was kinda talkin to this guy and we just found out that he's had 2 DUI's (not really that big of a deal), 2 felonies (1 for assault by a deadly weapon towards a female *he beat the shit out of her with a hand gun* and 1 is for fraud to a corporate account *stealing money*) 10 misdemeanors, etc. Not only that, he was dishonorably discharged from the military. He's also had warrants out because he doesn't pay court ordered child support.

She wants to confront him because she's like me, she hates a liar... But she's afraid he'll try to hurt her... What would you do? How would you go about that? She wants to brush it off, but he bounces at the bar we go to on the weekends...

[Ran]

Drop the punk and find a new bar to hit up or just keep distance between them.

[B16a2 Civic]

confrontign this loser may escalate, if she does, make sure there are ppl there for support, also, does this guy know where she lives?

[babygurl]

HOnestly....I would not even bother!

How did you find this information out?

If she is going to confront him she needs to do it at a public place.....

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Yes, he's been to our apartment several times... If she confronts him, she will have several people (including my ex-boyfriend who isn't small by any means there) and 2 cops in the parking lot (both friends as well)... She wants him to leave her alone, but he calls at least 5 times a day. She hasn't answered since she found all this out, but he won't take the hint...

Oh yea, and he has 4 alias names (all different last names) and he told people he looks at her as a challenge.

[4dmin]

she needs to find a new man and work on her BS detector ;)

[Nitro]

~pack her bags~ :eek:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

HOnestly....I would not even bother!

How did you find this information out?

If she is going to confront him she needs to do it at a public place.....

Laura, you should know we have connections.

She will do it at a public place if she does it at all...

[Big Baller]

walk away

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

she needs to find a new man and work on her BS detector ;)

I agree, and she's been right on (she got an uneasy feeling from day one, but thought it was just her imagination).. This guy is good... I really think he might even be a sociopath... He fools everyone...

[Rican219]

Confront him call him out Then tell your friend to call me for CUMFORT !! LMAO :lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao::idb: :idb:

[babygurl]

Laura, you should know we have connections.

She will do it at a public place if she does it at all...



hmmm well if he does something stupid :) holla at a chica :)

And I can see what I can do to keep him in jail :)

I am guessing he is either on parole, or strick probation :) have him go back for another visit!

[Jaimecbr900]

Tell your friend not to bother confronting him at all. What is it going to accomplish? She's not married to the guy. He doesn't owe her money, does he? Then confronting him with this info is only going to piss him off and create a stalker or worse.

Tell her to find a new man....QUICK.....and he will get the hint when she doesn't return his calls and is hanging on someone else's arm (even if she has to fake it for sec for him to get the hint and go away).

The guy is a loser and HE knows it, otherwise he wouldn't have the problems he has. Her telling him he's a loser is not going to do HER any good.

:2cents:

[B16a2 Civic]

yeah, if he got the addr, it could get stalkerish

[speedminded]

I agree, and she's been right on (she got an uneasy feeling from day one, but thought it was just her imagination).. This guy is good... I really think he might even be a sociopath... He fools everyone...ok, let's see if i got this straight, claims $85k a year as an engineer (plus military $) and bounces at a bar....hrmmm? Is standing at a door checking ID's a way to pick up chicks or just a hobby of his?

[The Ren]

Tell your friend not to bother confronting him at all. What is it going to accomplish? She's not married to the guy. He doesn't owe her money, does he? Then confronting him with this info is only going to piss him off and create a stalker or worse.

Tell her to find a new man....QUICK.....and he will get the hint when she doesn't return his calls and is hanging on someone else's arm (even if she has to fake it for sec for him to get the hint and go away).

The guy is a loser and HE knows it, otherwise he wouldn't have the problems he has. Her telling him he's a loser is not going to do HER any good.

:2cents:

I couldnt agree more.. and It wouldnt hurt either if the "new guys" (even if they have to pretend for awhile) is one of your cop friends (if they are single)

[A.P. Photography]

Tell your friend not to bother confronting him at all. What is it going to accomplish? She's not married to the guy. He doesn't owe her money, does he? Then confronting him with this info is only going to piss him off and create a stalker or worse.

Tell her to find a new man....QUICK.....and he will get the hint when she doesn't return his calls and is hanging on someone else's arm (even if she has to fake it for sec for him to get the hint and go away).

The guy is a loser and HE knows it, otherwise he wouldn't have the problems he has. Her telling him he's a loser is not going to do HER any good.

:2cents:
Best advice in this thread. :goodjob:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

ok, let's see if i got this straight, claims $85k a year as an engineer (plus military $) and bounces at a bar....hrmmm? Is standing at a door checking ID's a way to pick up chicks or just a hobby of his?

I called him out on that a while back... I said, why would you need to bounce at a bar when you're making 85 g's? He said, he loves dealing with people. Not really a good excuse, but whatever!

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Tell your friend not to bother confronting him at all. What is it going to accomplish? She's not married to the guy. He doesn't owe her money, does he? Then confronting him with this info is only going to piss him off and create a stalker or worse.

Tell her to find a new man....QUICK.....and he will get the hint when she doesn't return his calls and is hanging on someone else's arm (even if she has to fake it for sec for him to get the hint and go away).

The guy is a loser and HE knows it, otherwise he wouldn't have the problems he has. Her telling him he's a loser is not going to do HER any good.

:2cents:

I agree Jaime... that's what I said too. (Well the part about the other guy and telling him she's not interested)

[Nopaintsls]

Tell your friend not to bother confronting him at all. What is it going to accomplish? She's not married to the guy. He doesn't owe her money, does he? Then confronting him with this info is only going to piss him off and create a stalker or worse.

Tell her to find a new man....QUICK.....and he will get the hint when she doesn't return his calls and is hanging on someone else's arm (even if she has to fake it for sec for him to get the hint and go away).

The guy is a loser and HE knows it, otherwise he wouldn't have the problems he has. Her telling him he's a loser is not going to do HER any good.

:2cents:

Exactly. You don't want anything to happend to your friend... I wouldn't bother confronting him either...

[speedminded]

I called him out on that a while back... I said, why would you need to bounce at a bar when you're making 85 g's? He said, he loves dealing with people. Not really a good excuse, but whatever!Shit, i know i'm not making anywhere near that but know what can be done with it and I'm looking forward to it :) That with the military benefits would be more than enough to get a loan or be a partner in OWNING a small bar or club.

Good looking out but all that info and didn't get a current address, especially if he claimed to be a homeowner?

[ShooterMcGavin]

i'd get him to do something stupid w/ur cop friends around...

[B16a2 Civic]

shoot him in the face

[JennB]

Move on and let it go.

Don't bother with confronting and maybe just cut that bar out of your normal places to go. She hsould just give him the "it's just not working out" or something if he asks her.

[ShooterMcGavin]

^^^:werd: girls are good at making up excuses anyway why they don't like guys right? :D

[speedminded]

Move on and let it go.

Don't bother with confronting and maybe just cut that bar out of your normal places to go. She hsould just give him the "it's just not working out" or something if he asks her.Jenn, it's Gainesville! There is no other place to go...lololol! :lmfao:

[Nopaintsls]

^^ lol ain't that the truth... :D

[BABY J]

I called him out on that a while back... I said, why would you need to bounce at a bar when you're making 85 g's? He said, he loves dealing with people. Not really a good excuse, but whatever!

How much he makes has nothing to do w/ this thread. I drive a 91 Si hatch daily and I make his salary look like lunch money. This is SIMPLE. The fact that she has had to go behind him to investigate him ALREADY means that they lack the 1 thing that EVERY relationship needs... trust. The fact of WHAT she found out means nothing... HEAR ME OUT BEFORE YOU FLAME.

Let's say she called BS and got a BG check done on him and found out that he saved 10 kids from a burning building and is a volunteer librarian in his spare time. THAT would mean nothing either, b/c SOMETHING prompted the search for more information... that "something" = LACK OF TRUST. You got no trust, you got NOTHING!

The DAY I gotta sneak behind some1 I am dating is the day that I am calling it off. If I want some1 I need to sleep w/ 1 eye open around, I can use my ENEMIES for that, not my gf.

ALSO, like every1 on the planet who is 2 seconds old or older, he has a past. So do you, so do I, so does God. People grow, people change. Now his history is DEFINITELY indicative of his character b/c of the multiple occurences, but every1 can change. Some people change for the good, and some for the worst.

FINALLY, women who think men like this "will get the hint" by ignoring him is wrong. TELL him EXACTLY what you want from him, and tell him that is your final answer. Do not expect him to just "get it". For 1, that's tacky, and for 2 he shouldn't HAVE to b/c she DID date him... you do not date some1 w/out knowing how to talk to them and tell them what's on your mind. Say what you mean, mean what you say, and walk away. If he is really not worth it in the end, then that's what you need to do. Then move on... he is 1 guy out of EVERY OTHER GUY ON THE PLANET, pick one of those and move on.

Then drink beer.

[The Golden Child]

this is something you should already know ..
but id drop his ass with a cement block attached to his feet ..
dump him in the water and let him get eaten by the little fishys ..

[JennB]

Jenn, it's Gainesville! There is no other place to go...lololol! :lmfao:


Oh dear. That's no good.



MOVE! :lmfao:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Nice Baby J, but you must have read wrong... I said she didn't date him... She was just talking and considering dating... She had a background check run on me.... She trusts NO ONE! That's a good thing IMO b/c she'll never get let down. But I do agree, she should definately drink beer.

[ShooterMcGavin]

i love it when DH gets fired up about something, bravo :yay: :lmao:

[ShooterMcGavin]

this is something you should already know ..
but id drop his ass with a cement block attached to his feet ..
dump him in the water and let him get eaten by the little fishys ..
take him on a date to the aquarium...then push his ass into the piranha tank :D

[BABY J]

Nice Baby J, but you must have read wrong... I said she didn't date him... She was just talking and considering dating... She had a background check run on me.... She trusts NO ONE! That's a good thing IMO b/c she'll never get let down. But I do agree, she should definately drink beer.

Aaaah. I see. Outside of that, most of my post still applies. But here is a lil advice for your friend. Maybe SHE will end up w/ more issues than him if she feels the need to run BG checks on people she knows. No offense, but it sounds like SHE make the psycho one.:goodjob:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Aaaah. I see. Outside of that, most of my post still applies. But here is a lil advice for your friend. Maybe SHE will end up w/ more issues than him if she feels the need to run BG checks on people she knows. No offense, but it sounds like SHE make the psycho one.:goodjob:

it is a little crazy... i do agree.... But you'd be sooo surprised who has a criminal record... (I run credit and background checks on a daily basis)

[ShooterMcGavin]

troo troo, yet at the same time everyone has their quirks about them, she just has trust issues, better than being schizo/depressed and running over a bunch of ppl in a car while smiling? :D

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

troo troo, yet at the same time everyone has their quirks about them, she just has trust issues, better than being schizo/depressed and running over a bunch of ppl in a car while smiling? :D

very true and very sad...

[The Golden Child]

take him on a date to the aquarium...then push his ass into the piranha tank :D

thats boring you have to tie em down in a chair ..
hang them over the tank ..
throw knives at them and start lowering him slowly ..
once the blood is in the piranhas system theyll go crazy ..
theyll start jumping to eat him alive ..
let them chew there way up to his face ..
from his feet to his face ..
all that will be left is his bone within an hour depending on how many piranhas are in the tank ..

[ShooterMcGavin]

dude, i was helping her come up with an easy and discrete method of taking him out, what u suggested, as wonderful a plan as it is, cannot be accomplished with the 5 million ppl around u.

btw, there are plenty of piranhas in that tank ;)

[The Golden Child]

it is a little crazy... i do agree.... But you'd be sooo surprised who has a criminal record... (I run credit and background checks on a daily basis)

wanna run my background ??
i wanna see what it says about me ..

[The Golden Child]

dude, i was helping her come up with an easy way out, what u suggested, as wonderful a plan as it is, cannot be accomplished with the 5 million ppl around u.

btw, there are plenty of piranhas in that tank ;)

im a NINJA BITCH !!!

[ShooterMcGavin]

yeah for real, can u run mine toooooo? :D

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

I could..

[The Golden Child]

what would you need to run my background ??

[ShooterMcGavin]

im a NINJA BITCH !!!
:werd: as am i, but not everyone out there are ninjas like us

*throws smoke bomb*
*boom!*
*disappears*

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

full name, dob, ss#, address, and county

[ShooterMcGavin]

I could..
actually i take that back, i don't want my credit run (i already know it's damn good), just my background though to see if they know of my ninja ways :devil:

[The Golden Child]

* throws smoke bomb *
* slash everyones throat *
* escape *

[Sibious]

she should telll em that she is a man, and run like hell

P.S make sure to wear a bullet proof vest like 50 cent. can work up to 9 times.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

damn homie... did you see that? *friend: hell no, that ninja's fast!*

[ShooterMcGavin]

* throws smoke bomb *
* slash everyones throat *
* escape *

u are well trained in the ninja ways :goodjob: +1 :lmfao:

[The Golden Child]

she should telll em that she is a man, and run like hell

P.S make sure to wear a bullet proof vest like 50 cent. can work up to 9 times.

why would she run hell probably run ..

i would ..

[Sibious]

no jk on real note just tell em not working out. but how old is she and dios she have a good personality and a cute?

[The Golden Child]

damn homie... did you see that? *friend: hell no, that ninja's fast!*

will running a background check ruin my credit ??
i dont even think i have credit .. lolz

[The Golden Child]

u are well trained in the ninja ways :goodjob: +1 :lmfao:

* jumps down from tree *
wassup !!!

* smoke bomb *
* escape *

LOLZ !!!

[The Golden Child]

no jk on real note just tell em not working out. but how old is she and dios she have a good personality and a cute?

u wanna hook up with a girl who runs background checks on yo ass ..

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

will running a background check ruin my credit ??
i dont even think i have credit .. lolz

no i can run just criminal backgrounds... without checking your credit.

[The Golden Child]

no i can run just criminal backgrounds... without checking your credit.

PM me ..
i wanna see what mine says ..

[ShooterMcGavin]

what a cute first date, goin somewhere to get BG checks on each other :lmfao:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

PM me ..
i wanna see what mine says ..

pm me with that info if you're serious.

[The Golden Child]

example

him : hi
her : hi
him : how are you ?
her : wait i need to run a background check
him : wth

[ShooterMcGavin]

PM me ..
i wanna see what mine says ..
i wonder how that would work for me since my DL still has my parents address but i live at my own place and file taxes w/that address and all :thinking:

[The Golden Child]

pm me with that info if you're serious.

will you be charging me anything ??

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

no it costs my company $7, they wont even check it...

[The Golden Child]

i wonder how that would work for me since my DL still has my parents address but i live at my own place and file taxes w/that address and all :thinking:

hmmm ..

[ShooterMcGavin]

will you be charging me anything ??
yes, with 1 count of nosiness into one's own business and 1 count of crazy ninja shit :D

[ShooterMcGavin]

hmmm ..
on 2nd thought i don't need to really run a criminal BG check, no arrests so how could there be anything anyways? :thinking:

[The Golden Child]

no it costs my company $7, they wont even check it...

sent ..

[The Golden Child]

on 2nd thought i don't need to really run a criminal BG check, no arrests so how could there be anything anyways? :thinking:

true i wanna see mine cause well yea ..

[ShooterMcGavin]

well let us know how it turns out :goodjob:

[The Golden Child]

yea when i get my PM back ill let yahll know wassup ..

[thinkfast®]

yo I can ask him about it, well not really ask just tell him "yo nigga Tiff aint feelin you, I aint feelin you, it aint happenin bruh" then see what he says from there.. anything other then "thank you for not pistol whipping me" and he's gettin choked out

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

haha.. ricky I might you for reinforcement!

[thinkfast®]

you might what? use me? you wanna use me? ooohoho tiff you have no idea what you gettin into

wait

[knee_grow]

You mention to a bitch you make 85k a year she'll want you to pay her Metro PCS bill. Your friend probably doesn't want him b/c he's on foodstamps. Nuttin wrong with government cheese.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

you might what? use me? you wanna use me? ooohoho tiff you have no idea what you gettin into

wait


hahaha.. you crack me up!:lmfao::idb:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

You mention to a bitch you make 85k a year she'll want you to pay her Metro PCS bill. Your friend probably doesn't want him b/c he's on foodstamps. Nuttin wrong with government cheese.

my roomie makes more than him a year.. why would she need his foodstamps?

[knee_grow]

You're the one that mentioned salary.. like he was list of benefits. All you had to say was he is a alright kat.

[The Golden Child]

just ignore his calls and dont go the bar anymore ..

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

You're the one that mentioned salary.. like he was list of benefits. All you had to say was he is a alright kat.

I was giving examples of the bullshit he dishes out... :goodjob:

[babygurl]

You're the one that mentioned salary.. like he was list of benefits. All you had to say was he is a alright kat.


Are you stupid or something! Regardless of his salary...the fucker lied, about everything!

I know plenty of people with felonies on their records, and they dont lie to impress people!

And this fucker beat the fuck out of a women, with a fucking gun, and the only thing you pick out of that is "when a guy mentions how much he makes, the bitch wants him to pay her metropcs bill" there is something seriously wrong with you!

Go back to the fucking Government funded house you came from!

F

[The Golden Child]

yell him babygurl ..
he needs to actually grow from his knee to step up to the plate ..

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

damn laura.. bad day?! hahaha

[babygurl]

yell him babygurl ..
he needs to actually grow from his knee to step up to the plate ..


you are a dork!

[knee_grow]

All guys lie. That's not new. We'll do anything and say anything to get your pantys off, unless your really fat and haven't seen your feet since 1995. He'll we'll even say we love you once in awhile.

[The Golden Child]

you are a dork!

:D

[babygurl]

damn laura.. bad day?! hahaha


No I just hate stupid people!

Him trying to attach my girl, for giving examples annoys the fuck out of me :)

I got your butt (back) ;)

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

All guys lie. That's not new. We'll do anything and say anything to get your pantys off, unless your really fat and haven't seen your feet since 1995. He'll we'll even say we love you once in awhile.

I know that's the fuckin' truth.

[knee_grow]

Laura, no matter how bitchy you get, you're still butt ugly.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

No I just hate stupid people!

Him trying to attach my girl, for giving examples annoys the fuck out of me :)

I got your butt (back) ;)

no shit! lol... dude i hung out with your crazy ass sister last night.. I could be wrong but I think she might have been drunk! lol

[babygurl]

Laura, no matter how bitchy you get, you're still butt ugly.


hmmm do you even know me?

Yes we are in elementary school again!!! YAY!!!

Get it right...Im a fat bitch who hasnt seen her feet since 1995!

LORD....

[babygurl]

no shit! lol... dude i hung out with your crazy ass sister last night.. I could be wrong but I think she might have been drunk! lol


HHAHA I dont want to know ;)

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Laura, no matter how bitchy you get, you're still butt ugly.

damn homie.. get the fuck outta my thread before i get mad.

[babygurl]

damn homie.. get the fuck outta my thread before i get mad.


hmmm my feelings are not hurt, him calling me fat....


LOL

Oh and get mad...sexiness ;)

[knee_grow]

Oh...mad eh? lol. She is ugly though.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

and you sir can't spell correctly. It's Negro.

[babygurl]

Oh...mad eh? lol. She is ugly though.


TAKEN BACK HAHA

Owned by Caver :)

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

RE-READ DUMB ASS!!!!!


I SAID I WASNT MAD!

hunny.. retract this statement.. he was referring to me..

[babygurl]

hunny.. retract this statement.. he was referring to me..


oopsy!

[The Golden Child]

* peeks in - leave *

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

haha

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

nolimitsteveo


NO CRIMINAL CONVICTIONS FOUND
NO SEXUAL OFFENDER RECORDS FOUND

[babygurl]

nolimitsteveo


NO CRIMINAL CONVICTIONS FOUND
NO SEXUAL OFFENDER RECORDS FOUND


You know you should have changed that around and put SEXUAL OFFENDER lol

made up some shit!

[B16a2 Civic]

nolimitsteveo


NO CRIMINAL CONVICTIONS FOUND
NO SEXUAL OFFENDER RECORDS FOUND

thats in america, did you try Canada?

[The Golden Child]

You know you should have changed that around and put SEXUAL OFFENDER lol

made up some shit!

no that would of made me sad .. =*(

[The Golden Child]

thats in america, did you try Canada?

LIRL !!! i stay my ass planted in the U-S-A .. xP

[The Golden Child]

nolimitsteveo


NO CRIMINAL CONVICTIONS FOUND
NO SEXUAL OFFENDER RECORDS FOUND

weee !!

im free bitch !!!

[dereksi]

Damn dont run that on me. lol

[qwik 1]

get away from the guy

[The Golden Child]

Damn dont run that on me. lol

LIRL !!! :lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao:

[Vteckidd]

end it , but not abruptly, slowly ween him off, she says shes busy, etc etc. hell get the hint

[carrascopa]

which one of your friends did this happen too

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Alex, my roomie, Britney

[carrascopa]

thats fucked up man!!! she is such a good girl.. i love her to death... tell me hoo i have to kill

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

haha.. he works at 311, i don't think he was working the night you came up there, but i could be wrong.

[thinkfast®]

aw shit

[carrascopa]

ooh shit... Is chris still Djing up there??


if that guy has warrants, i could set him up and make his life a living hell in Hall county, I got mad hook ups in the sherrifs dept up there.. it might be fun.. lol

[The Golden Child]

do it ..

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

ooh shit... Is chris still Djing up there??


if that guy has warrants, i could set him up and make his life a living hell in Hall county, I got mad hook ups in the sherrifs dept up there.. it might be fun.. lol

oh shit.. i forgot about your friend that works for hall county! hmmm.. we might have to coordinate something! yes, chris works up there on wednesdays and thursdays! i love that guy! chris knows him!

[carrascopa]

well.. even though i despise u.. britt did nothing to me.. so let me know if yall want some help gettin even with that mofo.... seriously that guy would have a hard time in jail if i give my boys a green light on abuse! haha...

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

well.. even though i despise u.. britt did nothing to me.. so let me know if yall want some help gettin even with that mofo.... seriously that guy would have a hard time in jail if i give my boys a green light on abuse! haha...

well, even though i despise you as well, i'll let you know

[thinkfast®]

I spy something..... round.

aw tiff it IS your sweater puppies!! you win again dammit