So This Morning....

[Brett]

I was supposed to meet my now separated for 3 weeks wife to give her a few things she left when she moved out 3 weeks ago, so we were supposed to meet tonight after work, but she text me this morning telling me I could do it this morning at her work if that was easier, so I took that option so I could get it over with. I will admit seeing her for the first time in 3 weeks was really hard, and she made sure she was looking hot, But I didnt tell her she looked good, I didnt tell her I miss her, etc which I am sure she expected me to do, It was really hard to put on a strong face, but I am proud of myself for doing it. She looked so happy, I think that is what hurt the most though and watching her walk off to go back in her office was hard, but I drove off and left and I would think that is the last time I will ever see her again since even when we file for divorce in a year (The law here) we wont both have to be there at the same time.

[RsonGt3's]

Dam man keep your head up there's more out there for ya she's not the only one I know its hard to deal with that but you there's only much you can do I wish you the best of luck man.

[ludeguy420]

i had the same thing happin to me.. Me an a ex broke up an she came to get her shit an she looked the best i have ever seen her but she pushed it further an brought her new manan like 2 other dude with her.. An she had the nerve to get him to ask me for her shit.. It mad me laugh when i saw him knocking on my door.. i told him to fuck off an to tell her to come get her shit.. so she came in the house an long story short we fucked one more time while dude buddie was waiting outside haha.. But after that i havent seen the bitch since then

[ludeguy420]

like everybody has been telling you man there are plenty more out there.. keep your head up an be strong an live on homie

[Brett]

Yeah I will be okay I am sure, Today was just hard to see her again and to see her looking so happy and like I said she made sure she looked hot as hell today.

[sang]

Its all good man. If she's like that................fuck her. Ive been in this situation of sorts for some tome, and as we all know. It isint worth it. Go have a cig and a beer. Calm down, and just say fuck her. Have fun, live your life and leave that p.o.s behind

[Brett]

word!!

[uho]

she might not actually be happy she could be puttin on a front just to get to you she prob looked hot to make you want her back. women love the play there games

[Brett]

Yeah I am sure she did it to hurt me today, she walked out on our marriage though so I doubt she is hoping I want her back

[Evil Goat]

stop being a bitch....women are expendable, move onto the next and stop making bad decisions

[Brett]

HAHAHA okay!!

[RL...]

atleast you man-ed up and are not try to "win her back" and are trying to move on.

[Brett]

Yeah I made it a point to stay strong in front of her, I am not giving her the satisfaction of knowing how much Im hurting on the inside. I am sure she expected me to tell her I miss her, or ask her back, or tell her how great she looked, etc... and I made it a point to NOT do any of that as much as I wanted to, I didnt.

[Sammich]

whose marcus burnett?

[Brett]

Shut up Bryan!! LOL

[Sammich]

LOL

[Brett]

You need to update your signature to show Vanna with her new color shoes

[Sammich]

lol i do..but im too lazy

[Vteckidd]

Yeah I will be okay I am sure, Today was just hard to see her again and to see her looking so happy and like I said she made sure she looked hot as hell today.

Sanity > Hot chick

youll always be physically attracted to her but thats not something you can base a relationship on. So , look, admire, but realize there are other things more important to focus on. IMO

Of course shes happy, she got a free ride for X years, now she gets to cut ties and go leech off something "better" in her mind.

In the end youll survive, she sounds like shes a user, happiness is more than just NOW and in the moment. True happiness is much harder to achieve and obtain. Shes shallow, and sounds liek shes part of this "instant gratification" syndrome going around. It effects mostly young people.

You did the right thing, give her stuff back, and dont let on you care.

"He who cares less controls the relationship"

[Brett]

Exactly, It was really hard to "Act" like I am not destroyed inside and missing her, etc... But I feel better about myself for not letting on to it. I still think she expected me to be weak today

[Slow Motion]

You did good. Think of it this way:

1. She had to get up that morning and make sure she was looking exceptionally good trying to see if you noticed. But, you didn't and that crushed a females ego, especially when they want you to notice.
2. She only had you to come to her job, to see if someone at her job, would notice if you noticed. (read it a couple of times you'll get it) Which is even more crushing because you didn't and she knows it, so it is even more embarrassing.
3. She probably went back inside and balled her eyes out because you didn't notice and realized she really fuked up..but, guess what it is too late for all of that. You can now take the time out to work harder, make more money, and get yourself together so when the time comes for you to sign the divorce papers it will take you a couple of months cause you are in Fiji and she is still wondering if you even care.

SN: Brett, I'm sure you remember what true happiness and love feels like.

[Julio]

Dude, I cannot believe you even to took her shit.
Pick up your balls, insert back in your sack..... fuck a few strippers and find some new steak...

werd !

[Brett]

You did good. Think of it this way:

1. She had to get up that morning and make sure she was looking exceptionally good trying to see if you noticed. But, you didn't and that crushed a females ego, especially when they want you to notice.
2. She only had you to come to her job, to see if someone at her job, would notice if you noticed. (read it a couple of times you'll get it) Which is even more crushing because you didn't and she knows it, so it is even more embarrassing.
3. She probably went back inside and balled her eyes out because you didn't notice and realized she really fuked up..but, guess what it is too late for all of that. You can now take the time out to work harder, make more money, and get yourself together so when the time comes for you to sign the divorce papers it will take you a couple of months cause you are in Fiji and she is still wondering if you even care.

SN: Brett, I'm sure you remember what true happiness and love feels like.

I do, I had that with Leisa.

I hope all of what you said is what she did and felt like, Id feel even better!! LOL

[Brett]

Dude, I cannot believe you even to took her shit.
Pick up your balls, insert back in your sack..... fuck a few strippers and find some new steak...

werd !

This is true sir, I am having a very good day and night so far, I feel I really did well today and I am going to build off this.

[JDM_p00ky]

my dude.... look ahead without lookin back to ur past!!! just remember this helps u to become a better man for ur next relationship!!!

[Brett]

Yup, thats what I am hoping for!!!

[98blackcivic]

i usuallly leave the bishes feeling sad and lonely! :)