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ARH1192
01-13-2010, 11:55 AM
I come back from lunch and I have a friend request on facebook from my ex, the only girl I've ever been in love with. We broke up 3 years ago. Nasty break up. Haven't talked much since. Probably haven't heard from her in over a year. Shes got a kid now and engaged to the baby's father.

So I automatically think she either
A) Trying to be nosy and get in my business. or
B) Trying to flaunt her "new life"

Do I accept her friend request and let the past be the past. Or deny it and avoid the chance of any future drama that could possible arise.

On_Her_Face
01-13-2010, 11:56 AM
Just leave it undecided till you decide.

gtrmonkey
01-13-2010, 11:58 AM
Dude do you really want importatlanta to make that decision.

Nemesis
01-13-2010, 11:58 AM
Kill her

bdydrpdmazda
01-13-2010, 11:59 AM
DENIED

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 12:00 PM
Kill her

best reply yet. :cheers: lol

S2KJD
01-13-2010, 12:00 PM
deny it.

PRO®
01-13-2010, 12:00 PM
DENIED

x2

AirMax95
01-13-2010, 12:00 PM
Ignore that shit...its faceebook. DENY HER ASS!

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 12:01 PM
Dude do you really want importatlanta to make that decision.

Majority of IA are retards, this I know. But there are some older and wiser folks. I know in the end its my decision. But I just wanted to see what some of you others would do in my position.

roxie911
01-13-2010, 12:05 PM
Uhh...if it'll bother you then don't add her. If it won't bother you, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal.

AirMax95
01-13-2010, 12:07 PM
Seriously, whats the point?

Were you friends on FB before? If yes... Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Do you still communicate with her? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Do you really give 2 shits about her, or her new life? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Is the kid secretly yours? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Is the baby's father your brother? If...yes or no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!

quickdodge®
01-13-2010, 12:08 PM
I come back from lunch and I have a friend request on facebook from my ex, the only girl I've ever been in love with. We broke up 3 years ago. Nasty break up. Haven't talked much since. Probably haven't heard from her in over a year. Shes got a kid now and engaged to the baby's father.

So I automatically think she either
A) Trying to be nosy and get in my business. or
B) Trying to flaunt her "new life"

Do I accept her friend request and let the past be the past. Or deny it and avoid the chance of any future drama that could possible arise.

Why is this even a choice? Later, QD.

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 12:17 PM
Seriously, whats the point?

Were you friends on FB before? If yes... Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Do you still communicate with her? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Do you really give 2 shits about her, or her new life? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Is the kid secretly yours? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
Is the baby's father your brother? If...yes or no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!

Should have mentioned in the 1st post, she did sleep with my brother after we broke up. I forgot about that for a minute. Think I know my answer now :goodjob:

xxbckiexx
01-13-2010, 12:18 PM
clearly you deny this "benevolent" hooker.

quickdodge®
01-13-2010, 12:19 PM
Should have mentioned in the 1st post, she did sleep with my brother after we broke up. I forgot about that for a minute. Think I know my answer now :goodjob:

It took that to get your answer? Damn. I still can't believe there was an ounce of hesitancy in this. Later, QD.

xxbckiexx
01-13-2010, 12:20 PM
It took that to get your answer? Damn. I still can't believe there was an ounce of hesitancy in this. Later, QD.

http://img691.imageshack.us/img691/7126/tigerapproves.gif

Mr Egg Rollllll
01-13-2010, 12:21 PM
Add her, fuck her, then delete her.

AirMax95
01-13-2010, 12:21 PM
LMAO @ Tiger, lol.

xxbckiexx
01-13-2010, 12:22 PM
LMAO @ Tiger, lol.

lol that shits in my sig. you must have them turned off ;o

AirMax95
01-13-2010, 12:25 PM
lol that shits in my sig. you must have them turned off ;o

No, it takes a second for him to move, so I probably just miss it.


That shit is great, lol.

xxbckiexx
01-13-2010, 12:43 PM
No, it takes a second for him to move, so I probably just miss it.


That shit is great, lol.


god damn right it is.

PURP
01-13-2010, 12:54 PM
If it was me, I would accept that shit and try to hit it, again. Afterwards, delete her.

lol

Njobe
01-13-2010, 01:03 PM
If it was me, I would accept that shit and try to hit it, again. Afterwards, delete her.

lol
lol true

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:05 PM
If it was me, I would accept that shit and try to hit it, again. Afterwards, delete her.

lol

Man, our break up was so dirty. There is not a chance in hell I end up inside of here again.

I remember having a party after we broke up and I had naked pictures of her on my tv in the living room. If that wasn't bad enough I called her, hammered drunk, and told her she was naked on my big screen hahaha

damn, i'm such an asshole :lmfao:

Njobe
01-13-2010, 01:08 PM
Man, our break up was so dirty. There is not a chance in hell I end up inside of here again.

I remember having a party after we broke up and I had naked pictures of her on my tv in the living room. If that wasn't bad enough I called her, hammered drunk, and told her she was naked on my big screen hahaha

damn, i'm such an asshole :lmfao:
still have the pics? :ninja:

aguynamedpat
01-13-2010, 01:14 PM
still have the pics? :ninja:

Bahahaha only you.

Njobe
01-13-2010, 01:14 PM
Yup lol

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:24 PM
Yup lol

haha, I have a few. But she is a member, although I don't think she is active anymore and there are people on here who know her. Not only that, at one point in time she was actively pursuing a modeling career and idk if shes still trying to do that but I don't need to be spreading around pictures.

Last time I did I got a call from the sheriff :lmfao:

Greddypacked
01-13-2010, 01:26 PM
Should have mentioned in the 1st post, she did sleep with my brother after we broke up. I forgot about that for a minute. Think I know my answer now :goodjob:

Well there is your answer lol. That's f>cked up she did that, but really this isnt something to express on IA it's your own decision. You were the one intimate w/ her and should know what to do. IA isnt the place to really ask this unless it's to your close friends.

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 01:27 PM
If she's an IA slut, then the answer is most definitely NO.

collins
01-13-2010, 01:28 PM
I come back from lunch and I have a friend request on facebook from my ex, the only girl I've ever been in love with. We broke up 3 years ago. Nasty break up. Haven't talked much since. Probably haven't heard from her in over a year. Shes got a kid now and engaged to the baby's father.

So I automatically think she either
A) Trying to be nosy and get in my business. or
B) Trying to flaunt her "new life"

Do I accept her friend request and let the past be the past. Or deny it and avoid the chance of any future drama that could possible arise.

MOTHER FUCKING DENYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its a bad idea to add. please for teh love of god dont ask me how i know. i just do. DONT DO IT!!!!

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:30 PM
Well there is your answer lol. That's f>cked up she did that.

Yea, tell me about it. I was furious. But at the same time it helped me get over her.


If she's an IA slut, then the answer is most definitely NO.

Shes not really an IA slut. I doubt her post count is over 100, plus she doesn't live in the Atlanta area. She was just on here to promote her modeling. She was a Nopi chic for a year or 2 and did some other import modeling.

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 01:32 PM
OH my fuck... what's her name IRL??

collins
01-13-2010, 01:34 PM
brandoooooooooooooon..... did you do a nopi chic?

aguynamedpat
01-13-2010, 01:39 PM
She fucked your brother.

You fuck her mom.

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:40 PM
OH my fuck... what's her name IRL??

Kristen

aguynamedpat
01-13-2010, 01:40 PM
Kristine? Lulz

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 01:41 PM
brandoooooooooooooon..... did you do a nopi chic?
Not personally.


Kristen
Oh, ok.. nvm.

lol

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 01:41 PM
Kristine? Lulz

He said Nopi chick -- Not Pampers chick.

JITB
01-13-2010, 01:41 PM
Kristen

mistake

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:42 PM
She fucked your brother.

You fuck her mom.

haha :goodjob:

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:43 PM
mistake

Are you implying her name is "Mistake" or it was a mistake for me to post her name?

JITB
01-13-2010, 01:43 PM
Are you implying her name is "Mistake" or it was a mistake for me to post her name?

#2

amandDA
01-13-2010, 01:47 PM
accept it. be mature about it. even if u are not planning on talking to her.... imo

aguynamedpat
01-13-2010, 01:48 PM
accept it. be mature about it. even if u are not planning on talking to her.... imo

So your ex bf of three years ago, TERRIBLE break up, goes and fucks your sister. Keep in mind this is your first love. Then three years down the road, you get a random friend request from said person, who has a kid and is engaged. You would accept?

All maturity gets thrown out the window when you FUCK YOUR EX'S BROTHER OR SISTER.

Id go fuck her mom.

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 01:50 PM
Pat.

Page 2.

Now.

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:50 PM
accept it. be mature about it. even if u are not planning on talking to her.... imo

That's why I asked. I thought maybe denying it would be immature. But I'm thinking it makes more sense to deny it.

AirMax95
01-13-2010, 01:51 PM
LMAO....found her ass quick. Never post names on a site.

AirMax95
01-13-2010, 01:52 PM
Kristen Guidi

http://importatlanta.com/forums/member.php?u=11791

http://www.modelmayhem.com/kristenguidi

I'm not sure what's on the last link, its blocked from my computer. Have fun!

JITB
01-13-2010, 01:52 PM
LMAO....found her ass quick. Never post names on a site.

tried to tell'em!

i expect nudes in about 4 pages..

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:53 PM
Kristen Guidi

That is her.

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 01:53 PM
That's why I asked. I thought maybe denying it would be immature. But I'm thinking it makes more sense to deny it.

DENY IT. I'm speaking from experience -- I've received a few similar friend requests recently (ex got knocked up, had kid(s), wanted to be my friend). Denied every single one of them, and it hasn't made a bit of difference to me.

Deny that shit like hurricane Katrina.

bodhi
01-13-2010, 01:55 PM
I would accept her request, then start making shit up about your life that would make her look at hers with utter embarrassment.

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:56 PM
I don't care if you guys know who she is. I dated her over 3 years ago.

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 01:57 PM
DENY IT. I'm speaking from experience -- I've received a few similar friend requests recently (ex got knocked up, had kid(s), wanted to be my friend). Denied every single one of them, and it hasn't made a bit of difference to me.

Deny that shit like hurricane Katrina.


This.

bodhi
01-13-2010, 01:57 PM
Orr you could play your cards right and fuck her

JITB
01-13-2010, 01:57 PM
I don't care if you guys know who she is. I dated her over 3 years ago.

where are the nudes than?

bodhi
01-13-2010, 01:58 PM
btw those 6 inch heels are an indicator that she has good natural balance or she's stripping

aguynamedpat
01-13-2010, 01:58 PM
Pat.

Page 2.

Now.

HAHAHAHA I missed that post. Thats funny.

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 01:58 PM
I would accept her request, then start making shit up about your life that would make her look at hers with utter embarrassment.

We live in a small town. We have many mutual friends. I'm pretty sure she would know if it's bullshit.

quickdodge®
01-13-2010, 01:59 PM
That's why I asked. I thought maybe denying it would be immature. But I'm thinking it makes more sense to deny it.

You don't have a lot of common sense, do you? Later, QD.

Bajjani
01-13-2010, 02:00 PM
I come back from lunch and I have a friend request on facebook from my ex, the only girl I've ever been in love with. We broke up 3 years ago. Nasty break up. Haven't talked much since. Probably haven't heard from her in over a year. Shes got a kid now and engaged to the baby's father.

So I automatically think she either
A) Trying to be nosy and get in my business. or
B) Trying to flaunt her "new life"

Do I accept her friend request and let the past be the past. Or deny it and avoid the chance of any future drama that could possible arise.


I don't know her or you but if you loved her then you'd be happy shes happy. Also, I dated a girl for 3 years and I've been broken up with her for 2 years almost now. I still try to keep her as a friend in my life and I still love her. Maybe she thinks that what you had is worth staying friends instead of throwing away all the time you two had?

BKgen®
01-13-2010, 02:02 PM
Dude do you really want importatlanta to make that decision.


You don't have a lot of common sense, do you? Later, QD.


Pretty much.


http://premium1.uploadit.org/brandonp47//Bear_cat_dog.jpg

JITB
01-13-2010, 02:07 PM
I don't know her or you but if you loved her then you'd be happy shes happy. Also, I dated a girl for 3 years and I've been broken up with her for 2 years almost now. I still try to keep her as a friend in my life and I still love her. Maybe she thinks that what you had is worth staying friends instead of throwing away all the time you two had?


dont listen to this dude...

aguynamedpat
01-13-2010, 02:08 PM
Alright, so it goes as follows. Im the one on the right, BKgen is the one on the left, and the OP is the pussy in the middle.

This meeting has been adjourned.

Njobe
01-13-2010, 02:09 PM
you can help her modeling career by posting the nudes. nothing beats a nude model.

just sayin'

aguynamedpat
01-13-2010, 02:10 PM
you can help her modeling career by posting the nudes. nothing beats a nude model.

just sayin'

You beat to a nude model.

Njobe
01-13-2010, 02:12 PM
I'm an experienced event model (since 2006) available for car shows, tradeshows, and other promotional events. Compensation varies upon hours worked, tasks and responsibilities, attire, travel expenses, etc... and are always negotiable!


~ I'm not interested in ANY nude or impied nude shoots! Thanks http://www.modelmayhem.com/images/smilies/smile.png

lololol

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 02:17 PM
I'm an experienced event model (since 2006) available for car shows, tradeshows, and other promotional events. Compensation varies upon hours worked, tasks and responsibilities, attire, travel expenses, etc... and are always negotiable!


~ I'm not interested in ANY nude or impied nude shoots! Thanks http://www.modelmayhem.com/images/smilies/smile.png

lololol

I lol'ed when I saw that too.

collins
01-13-2010, 02:29 PM
accept it. be mature about it. even if u are not planning on talking to her.... imo WRONG


That's why I asked. I thought maybe denying it would be immature. But I'm thinking it makes more sense to deny it.
dude... srsly?

I don't know her or you but if you loved her then you'd be happy shes happy. Also, I dated a girl for 3 years and I've been broken up with her for 2 years almost now. I still try to keep her as a friend in my life and I still love her. Maybe she thinks that what you had is worth staying friends instead of throwing away all the time you two had?
i made that same mistake last year... the only mistake i've ever made thats bigger than that was actually getting involved with her in the first place.


OP... DO NOT WANT!

Bajjani
01-13-2010, 03:58 PM
WRONG


dude... srsly?

i made that same mistake last year... the only mistake i've ever made thats bigger than that was actually getting involved with her in the first place.


OP... DO NOT WANT!

WEINER!

Kevykev
01-13-2010, 04:04 PM
keep it moving...

B18c1Turboed
01-13-2010, 05:05 PM
Wow im kinda speachless. Reason being i know someone that fucked her about 4 years ago. Its actually been a litte over 4 years now, sorry to breack the news too you!!

ARH1192
01-13-2010, 05:26 PM
Wow im kinda speachless. Reason being i know someone that fucked her about 4 years ago. Its actually been a litte over 4 years now, sorry to breack the news too you!!

haha man, she boned my brother.. can't get any worse. but yea I don't really care anymore.. that was several years ago.. I've moved on.

yomomspimp06
01-14-2010, 12:05 AM
LMAO @ Tiger, lol.

+1

aguynamedpat
01-14-2010, 12:09 AM
If you accepted it, not only was I going to push you over the fence, I was likely going to knock your ass over it with a baseball bat.

AFSil80
01-14-2010, 12:13 AM
haha, I have a few. But she is a member, although I don't think she is active anymore and there are people on here who know her. Not only that, at one point in time she was actively pursuing a modeling career and idk if shes still trying to do that but I don't need to be spreading around pictures.

Last time I did I got a call from the sheriff :lmfao:

I distinctly remember when you did that, and don't think for a second that I haven't deleted that picture, hahahahahahaha.

ON TOPIC: You kicked the bitch to the curb once before. Don't let her come crawling back, regardless of if she's being friendly or not.

j0nbunklah0m
01-14-2010, 12:24 AM
make her suck ur dick. then throw ya hands in the air. kuz u's a true playaaaa

Humphrizzle
01-14-2010, 12:31 AM
ignore it..

ARH1192
01-14-2010, 06:41 AM
Its a done deal, I denied it.

quickdodge®
01-14-2010, 07:35 AM
Its a done deal, I denied it.

It took you 80 posts in an off-topic section for you to realize what should have been common sense in the first place? Well at least you got your post count up. Later, QD.

blown_ss
01-14-2010, 08:34 AM
It took you 80 posts in an off-topic section for you to realize what should have been common sense in the first place? Well at least you got your post count up. Later, QD.

got to love QD! :goodjob:

ARH1192
01-14-2010, 08:59 AM
It took you 80 posts in an off-topic section for you to realize what should have been common sense in the first place? Well at least you got your post count up. Later, QD.

Whats the deal? Are you really trying to belittle me over the internet?

quickdodge®
01-14-2010, 09:27 AM
Whats the deal? Are you really trying to belittle me over the internet?

I think you took care of that yourself, man. Later, QD.

G.C
01-14-2010, 09:31 AM
Sounds to me like you still like her. If you didn't, you wouldn't sweat over FB friend request. Get over her.

j0nbunklah0m
01-14-2010, 09:36 AM
Sounds to me like you still like her. If you didn't, you wouldn't sweat over FB friend request. Get over her.

qft :idb:

AdriSciontC
01-14-2010, 10:21 AM
I am thinking you're probably right as to the reasons why she wants to be your friend on FB, OR in her mind, it was 3 years ago, so she's ready to be friends... women are weird like that...

If you don't want to be her friend, then don't... you'll figure it out...

BKgen®
01-14-2010, 10:25 AM
women are weird like that...


QFT



*runs*

AdriSciontC
01-14-2010, 10:27 AM
QFT



*runs*

You don't have to run... I still lub j00... :kiss:

But seriously we can be very complicated...

aguynamedpat
01-14-2010, 11:15 AM
You don't have to run... I still lub j00... :kiss:

But seriously we can be very complicated...

DING MOTHER FUCKING DING

AdriSciontC
01-14-2010, 11:17 AM
DING MOTHER FUCKING DING

You guys aren't much better lol you guys are clueless most of the time... no offense

BKgen®
01-14-2010, 11:48 AM
http://i49.tinypic.com/nbabkp.png


..........

AdriSciontC
01-14-2010, 12:01 PM
..........


A) You know the cartoon Blood Elf ?Mage? is pretty hawt....
B) You know you still lub me!!!! :kiss: