Dating Online

[BluesClues]

So, I'm curious to know who has, who hasn't, and who has tried to do online dating. I will admit about maybe 3 years or so ago, I tried an online dating website. It didn't last long because 1. they are so lame, 2. I ended up finding someone anyway, and 3. I'm not paying for that shit!
Do you think it's ok to find someone online?
Is the individual desperate for dating online?
If you have dated online, was it successful?

Discuss

[Vteckidd]

Are you asking me out?

[BluesClues]

Are you asking me out?
:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:

[Vteckidd]

cause i say yes

[BluesClues]

Wow so forward!

[BluesClues]

Ok, so no one wants to answer this question?
Maybe I should move it to the WL

[FAM0U5]

Well my thought is how is the "ONE" gonna be the same place you are? ie:city, state, or country maybe that is why some people date online to extended there range to finding someone. I dont think its lame to date online cause your still getting a real life aspect even tho its threw a screen your still talking to a real person. But depending were the person is and the situation determins how the relationship will work out it will vary to person to person as for me I havent gone to those "paying" sites. I have used playstaion HOME and I didnt use it to pick up chicks only as a social thing till I talked to this one girl; everything is going great now we dont use the playstaion HOME to talk now we use the phone to text or call and everything is going great, and we have plan to meet each other in the near future. sorry if I didnt answer your question I do believe I went off to a different tangent than what is it suppose to be.

[BluesClues]

Moved to whoreslounge

[BluesClues]

Ok, so not moved to WL lol

But Famous I totally understand where you are coming from. Put a good perspective on the topic :goodjob:

[FAM0U5]

Ok, so not moved to WL lol

But Famous I totally understand where you are coming from. Put a good perspective on the topic :goodjob:

Ill do what I can, cause I am awesome :idb::yes:

[BluesClues]

^^^ Lol.

But seriously I've only dated 2 guys from online and they were from IA. I was too successful at the sites. But I wouldn't mind dating someone else from online if it were more like this site. At least I know I can see them

[FAM0U5]

^^^ Lol.

But seriously I've only dated 2 guys from online and they were from IA. I was too successful at the sites. But I wouldn't mind dating someone else from online if it were more like this site. At least I know I can see them

plus if things go bad you can :camera: of the :idb::boobies: for all of IA to see and make fun of, that's what all the cool kids are doing.

On a real note Ive been in a 5 year relationship that finally ended almost 3 weeks ago. Im not wanting to get into a serious relationship at this point but if it happens it happens. Right now Im looking for more of a physical than emotional one. But we'll see what happens plus im not excusive to anyone just yet..

[BluesClues]

plus if things go bad you can :camera: of the :idb::boobies: for all of IA to see and make fun of, that's what all the cool kids are doing.

On a real note Ive been in a 5 year relationship that finally ended almost 3 weeks ago. Im not wanting to get into a serious relationship at this point but if it happens it happens. Right now Im looking for more of a physical than emotional one. But we'll see what happens plus im not excusive to anyone just yet..

Man I can so totally relate!!!!! I don't want anything serious right now, but if it happens it just happens. I have dated since my last relationship, but they were short and sweet lol. I really just want someone to pay me some attention, Come over cuddle, go out with every once and a while, and if I feel like kissing or whatever else, then it's fine. I actually have someone like this, but after last night, I'm afraid of his dick for a couple of reasons lol (don't ask why). But I get a little lonely sometimes and just want companionship. It doesn't necessarily have to be in relationship form though, but it doesn't hurt either

[HypnoToad]

i met my GF off of facebook...we been together over a year and i couldnt be happier with someone.

i dont see problem with it,it gives u a better chance to find that person for you.

[Vteckidd]

Ahem

[Total_Blender]

I think online dating is acceptable... most of the couples I know met through some kind of website... facebook, myspace, forums, or whatever.

I'm on a dating website... I'm just about over it though because most people you connect with are just too far away to make dating easy. But the one I use is free, so its not like I'm losing money by participating in it.

[BluesClues]

Yes Mike.

So should IA offer a dating section?

[FAM0U5]

Man I can so totally relate!!!!! I don't want anything serious right now, but if it happens it just happens. I have dated since my last relationship, but they were short and sweet lol. I really just want someone to pay me some attention, Come over cuddle, go out with every once and a while, and if I feel like kissing or whatever else, then it's fine. I actually have someone like this, but after last night, I'm afraid of his dick for a couple of reasons lol (don't ask why). But I get a little lonely sometimes and just want companionship. It doesn't necessarily have to be in relationship form though, but it doesn't hurt either

was he pumping the vtec a lil to hard? anyways it seems thst only you and me are actually having this convo in this thread.. lol

[BluesClues]

was he pumping the vtec a lil to hard? anyways it seems thst only you and me are actually having this convo in this thread.. lol
Actually YES! Damn don't some people know how to be gentle? Made me fucking bleed! I don't want anymore :no::tongue1:

[FAM0U5]

Yes Mike.

So should IA offer a dating section?

uhm no; reason? 158 dicks to one pussy I believe thats the ratio.

[BluesClues]

browningboy7+, FAM0U5, ironchef, JDMJorgie, THEONE
What are you views?

[BluesClues]

uhm no; reason? 158 dicks to one pussy I believe thats the ratio.


There are a lot of females on here I think :thinking:
Maybe if it were offered more females would show up :dunno:

[THEONE]

i used a free one actually i still get emails from it from time to time. and its local people within a certian distance you choose.

i went out with one girl i met on there like 3 years ago,she was nice but she would not shut up during the movie and she kept burping and she wasted her food and then she asked me for a hug as i was leaving and i did not want to hug her i just met her lol ,then she kept calling me all the time until i just stopped answering.

i have also talked on the phone a few times with few different girls from the same site. im pretty sure they are all f**ked in the head and they scare me. pretty girls but wacked out. but im sure they say the same thing about me.

[BluesClues]

Oooooooo, ok so the DSW commercial sparked this idea: Who has done speed dating? I've always wanted to try it, but I don't know where they are

[03RCode]

I just use the intrawebs to spread my syphilis.

[BluesClues]

i used a free one actually i still get emails from it from time to time. and its local people within a certian distance you choose.

i went out with one girl i met on there like 3 years ago,she was nice but she would not shut up during the movie and she kept burping and she wasted her food and then she asked me for a hug as i was leaving and i did not want to hug her i just met her lol ,then she kept calling me all the time until i just stopped answering.

i have also talked on the phone a few times with few different girls from the same site. im pretty sure they are all f**ked in the head and they scare me. pretty girls but wacked out. but im sure they say the same thing about me.
LOL!!!! Yeah, I've heard there are some wackos on those sites. I've come across a few myself (don't tell them you have a webcam :no:). Another reason it's hard to get into those things. What if the person is crazy or don't look anything like their pics?

[FAM0U5]

Actually YES! Damn don't some people know how to be gentle? Made me fucking bleed! I don't want anymore :no::tongue1:

Couldnt you push him off of you? :thinking:

[BluesClues]

Couldnt you push him off of you? :thinking:
Well, I didn't want to seem like a punk that couldn't handle the dick when in fact I couldn't lol. I swear he must of thought he was in a damn porno! WTF?! Dude I'm sensitive. I've never been pounded on before until then. I don't like it :no:

[PSINXS]

So, I'm curious to know who has, who hasn't, and who has tried to do online dating. I will admit about maybe 3 years or so ago, I tried an online dating website. It didn't last long because 1. they are so lame, 2. I ended up finding someone anyway, and 3. I'm not paying for that shit!
Do you think it's ok to find someone online?
Is the individual desperate for dating online?
If you have dated online, was it successful?

Discuss

i never understood why fine asa girls date online. u r too pretty for a dude not to approach u on a daily basis.


95% of girls dating online are either crazy and have issues, or have low self esteem, or fat. the othr 5% are good catches that r really too busy to play thedating game.

but dont take that gamble.

[THEONE]

LOL!!!! Yeah, I've heard there are some wackos on those sites. I've come across a few myself (don't tell them you have a webcam :no:). Another reason it's hard to get into those things. What if the person is crazy or don't look anything like their pics?

the girl i went out with looked nothing like her pics,i was like what the hell?? but i didnt not want to be rude so i wore a fake smile and went through with it.

if i talk with anyone else i normally take it slow and simple i would meet someone but only in a public place and never at thier home or ride with them .lol there are some crazy chicks out there.

there have been some i really like talking to and we seemed to have alot in common but then they just disappeared like poof haha people tell me its cause i drag things out and never ask them out...oh well thats just me

[Deke]

I haven't but I'm not against it. I've known people who have and had great relationships. If I was going to though, it would probably be through a pay site. Otherwise I'd feel like I was just surfing craigslist :) Talking to randoms on facebook, myspace, etc. just makes me feel like I'm in middle school again. But again, no hate to people that do use them.

[FAM0U5]

I just use the intrawebs to spread my syphilis.

and I want to spread my seed like the peanut butter on your bread.

[BluesClues]

i never understood why fine asa girls date online. u r too pretty for a dude not to approach u on a daily basis.


95% of girls dating online are either crazy and have issues, or have low self esteem, or fat. the othr 5% are good catches that r really too busy to play thedating game.

but dont take that gamble.

I mean not bragging and all, I do get hit on constantly, but I'm a little picky (if having standards is considered picky). When a lot of guys look at me, they see big tits and pretty face. Of course they automatically want to fuck. I want a good guy because I am a good girl. It's hard finding those type of men these days

[BluesClues]

and I want to spread my seed like the peanut butter on your bread.
Hey no gayness in my thread!!!!!

[nreggie454]

Shits weak. Online dating is for people that can't get someone in real life so they make a profile that makes them look better, richer, and smarter.

This mainly applies to actual dating websites. Meeting via facebook and myspace can be pretty creepy/stalkerish.

[BluesClues]

Shits weak. Online dating is for people that can't get someone in real life so they make a profile that makes them look better, richer, and smarter.

This mainly applies to actual dating websites. Meeting via facebook and myspace can be pretty creepy/stalkerish.

That is somewhat true. Of course I was honest, but I can't say the same for everyone else

[FAM0U5]

Hey no gayness in my thread!!!!!

dont be hating ill still have some left for you :goodjob: and ill take it easy, Im in no hurry. Ill take it 25mph under a school zone I dont need to be driving like Im on I-85.

[bigdare23]

Internet dating seems cool, but not for me.

Pros - You know everyone on the site is fair game since they are looking for someone. It makes "da game" easier. You can weed out the ones you like without wasting your time.

Cons- It makes you look lame (as a guy) since you can't pull a female in person. You can't really "figure out" a person by a picture or profile. Can also be dangerous.

[BluesClues]

dont be hating ill still have some left for you :goodjob: and ill take it easy, Im in no hurry Ill take it 25mph under a school zone I dont need to be driving like Im on I-85.:love:
Awww thanks for the consideration, but I think my pussy is broken right now :(

[THEONE]

Shits weak. Online dating is for people that can't get someone in real life so they make a profile that makes them look better, richer, and smarter.

This mainly applies to actual dating websites. Meeting via facebook and myspace can be pretty creepy/stalkerish.

not true, i work around 60 hours per week then i have my son friday-monday so i have no time to go out and meet anyone and a sure as hell dont wanna meet someone in a bar, also i am 100% honest on my profile too. i used a dating site cause im to busy.

oh and myspace and facebook i dont want any part of it.

[BluesClues]

Internet dating seems cool, but not for me.

Pros - You know everyone on the site is fair game since they are looking for someone. It makes "da game" easier. You can weed out the ones you like without wasting your time.

Cons- It makes you look lame (as a guy) since you can't pull a female in person. You can't really "figure out" a person by a picture or profile. Can also be dangerous.

Yep that seems to be the problem for sure

[FAM0U5]

Awww thanks for the consideration, but I think my pussy is broken right now :(

It's alright Im an artist I can still paint a pretty picture on a broken canves. Ill make everything better.:2cents:

[bigdare23]

Awww thanks for the consideration, but I think my pussy is broken right now :(


Ice that shit and ride out :lmfao:

[BluesClues]

It's alright Im an artist I can still paint a pretty picture on a broken canves. Ill make everything better.:2cents:
Oh wow! So am I now one of the internet chicks you are trying to bang? lol

[HypnoToad]

idk bout the whole no good looking people online dating thing,my gf is very pretty to me.

but agreed,from what ive seen in places on these sites...sometimes hard to gauge people in them.


but the online thing does give u chance to get to know people by just talking without worrying bout making a assout of urself in person,lol

[BluesClues]

Well, someone just sent me a site to try mingle2.com if you all are interested. I might actually try this one. Just to be nosey :dunno: Doesn't hurt I guess. Getting tired of it just being me and my dog lol

[BluesClues]

Wow! There has been 141 views but not as many posts :???:
What's the deal people? And I see you all lurkin at the bottom

[FAM0U5]

Oh wow! So am I now one of the internet chicks you are trying to bang? lol

just trying to make you feel better on this lonely night, I think your above the whole "fuck buddy system" or "one night stand" it is what it is; and flirting doesnt hurt now does it?

[bigdare23]

just trying to make you feel better on this lonely night, I think your above the whole "fuck buddy system" or "one night stand" it is what it is; and flirting doesnt hurt now does it?

Trying hard aren't ya? :lmfao:

[BluesClues]

just trying to make you feel better on this lonely night, I think your above the whole "fuck buddy system" or "one night stand" it is what it is; and flirting doesnt hurt now does it?
No actually flirting is healthy

[BluesClues]

So I'm about to go and try this mingle2.com site and see what it do

[FAM0U5]

Trying hard aren't ya? :lmfao:

Not really... just stating fact you can tell what girl is D.T.F or one that is looking for something more, plus Im just here talking giving a little game and apperently its too much. dam tough crowd....

[FAM0U5]

So I'm about to go and try this mingle2.com site and see what it do

Have fun; later.

[BluesClues]

Not really... just stating fact you can tell what girl is D.T.F or one that is looking for something more, plus Im just here talking giving a little game and apperently its too much. dam tough crowd....


TDF?

[ItsBlack]

I met one girl from myspace. I then truely understood the meaning of the "myspace angles" cause I was very disappointed.

[ItsBlack]

TDF?

you mean, DTF? it's Down to Fuck.

[BluesClues]

^^^ LOL @ myspace angles

[WTF?]

TDF?
he said DTF and its Down To Fuck

[WTF?]

wow we all posted at the same time. lol

[BluesClues]

Gotcha!

[FAM0U5]

wow we all posted at the same time. lol

cause we all are D.T.F:yes:

[BluesClues]

I so suck at this online dating thing, I don't have the patience to go through people's profiles lol

[BluesClues]

Ok, so I don't like the site. Guess I'm stuck with dealing with the real world lol.

So why so quiet?

[FAM0U5]

Ok, so I don't like the site. Guess I'm stuck with dealing with the real world lol.

So why so quiet?

I thought you left lol..

[BluesClues]

I didn't leave. Just checked out for a moment. I got bored quick lol

[THEONE]

I so suck at this online dating thing, I don't have the patience to go through people's profiles lol

dont go though thier profile. put up a picture and a little about yourself and thats it. thats all i do i never contact anyone they always message me. its like fishing haha

[BluesClues]

dont go though thier profile. put up a picture and a little about yourself and thats it. thats all i do i never contact anyone they always message me. its like fishing haha
Gotcha! lol

[ScrapMetalDSM]

Been there and done that. Nothing successful came out of it but I'm not going to say that it wasnt a waste of time. I learned some things along the way. I used JDate back about 2 years ago, but was very limited on my choices because atlanta isnt known very well for Jews. I dont know why but I just refused to use match.com. I cant even remember what other sites I may have used. But all in all, I met a few girls from the sites, but nothing ever panned out. some were cute but not into me, and vise versa. There is someone I am chasing now, from online. We'll see how that goes. Gotta dump the current bitch of a girlfriend first.

[BluesClues]

Been there and done that. Nothing successful came out of it but I'm not going to say that it wasnt a waste of time. I learned some things along the way. I used JDate back about 2 years ago, but was very limited on my choices because atlanta isnt known very well for Jews. I dont know why but I just refused to use match.com. I cant even remember what other sites I may have used. But all in all, I met a few girls from the sites, but nothing ever panned out. some were cute but not into me, and vise versa. There is someone I am chasing now, from online. We'll see how that goes. Gotta dump the current bitch of a girlfriend first.

That might help lol :yes:
Well, good luck to ya. I'm glad to hear I am not the only person in this. Helps to make me not feel so bad for trying it lol
Maybe I will just stumble across him one day, til then it's me and my bitch Diamond (my dog) lol

[FAM0U5]

Been there and done that. Nothing successful came out of it but I'm not going to say that it wasnt a waste of time. I learned some things along the way. I used JDate back about 2 years ago, but was very limited on my choices because atlanta isnt known very well for Jews. I dont know why but I just refused to use match.com. I cant even remember what other sites I may have used. But all in all, I met a few girls from the sites, but nothing ever panned out. some were cute but not into me, and vise versa. There is someone I am chasing now, from online. We'll see how that goes. Gotta dump the current bitch of a girlfriend first.

I was on the same boat man not to long ago lol:cheers:

[Vteckidd]

in all seriousness, i never set out to date people online and ive never belonged to like match.com or any of that stuff.

My last few girls have been people i met or knew on IA. So technically IA is a dating service already lol. I never hit on them online, we usually ended up meeting at some other function and hit it off or something.

Currently im single so..................i have a few prospects

[BluesClues]

I dig!

[YoTa_BoX]

Well for me, i seriously am a pussy when it comes to talking to girls. Its Not hard for me to admit, because its true. I'm the typical nerd guy that trys to say something but alls that comes out its Irlualraval <-- Thats suppose to be ( how are you today )

Dating sites makes it much easier to send them a msg and go from there. If they dont like you, most of the time they just don't msg back, and no feelings hurt, and no awkward feeling as if you were face to face with the girl and she is looking at you like you're a dumb ass for even getting close to her.

I know a lot of guys who * Got Game * and can talk to any girl, and most the time get with said girl..but im not one of them lol. I'm shy, So dating sites help me get past that fear.

Iv met plenty of girls off the 2 sites that im on. Most of them were just a few dates long and fuck a few times but thats about it. Its true there are a ton of girls on the net that are fucking crazy, had a bad experience where a girl wouldn't let me out of her house, and she jumped on my back and i ended up having to throw the bitch off and run, True story.

Right now i'm just looking for a physical relationship that could lead into something more, And i get that from dating websites. I think they are great.

http://www.plentyoffish.com

http://www.okcupid.com

these are the 2 i use, best part is, they are free :)

[BluesClues]

I've tried plentyoffish before. I didn't like it either because I would only meet perverts lol. I think I may be too picky for this online dating thing. I don't mind IA so much because at least I can meet this people in person and I don't have to search through profiles trying to figure out if I am interested in that person or not. I am probably better off with IA (not saying I am trying to pick anyone up) and real life lol :dunno:

[THEONE]

[QUOTE=YoTa_BoX;38329069] Its true there are a ton of girls on the net that are fucking crazy, had a bad experience where a girl wouldn't let me out of her house, and she jumped on my back and i ended up having to throw the bitch off and run, True story.
QUOTE]


wow what happend i wanna here the whole story..haha thats crazy she must have been lonely or really horny haha

[BluesClues]

[quote=YoTa_BoX;38329069] Its true there are a ton of girls on the net that are fucking crazy, had a bad experience where a girl wouldn't let me out of her house, and she jumped on my back and i ended up having to throw the bitch off and run, True story.
QUOTE]


wow what happend i wanna here the whole story..haha thats crazy she must have been lonely or really horny haha
Maybe both!!!! "She's a man eater!"

[leobond001]

online dating can be fun. some ppl are shy, and you can usually smell be with in the first couple of emails rather than finding out a month down the road. and any forum site can pretty much be a dating site

[BluesClues]

^^^ I'm lovin the sig :goodjob:

[Austin?]

That shit is lame and gay and so are you for trying!

[leobond001]

^^^ I'm lovin the sig :goodjob:

ThankYou:D

[YoTa_BoX]

[QUOTE=YoTa_BoX;38329069] Its true there are a ton of girls on the net that are fucking crazy, had a bad experience where a girl wouldn't let me out of her house, and she jumped on my back and i ended up having to throw the bitch off and run, True story.
QUOTE]


wow what happend i wanna here the whole story..haha thats crazy she must have been lonely or really horny haha


lol, well me and that girl had talked online for a while and decided to finally meet. She had me come over to her apartment, and she was going to cook me dinner. Well it was going pretty good, we ate, and then went in the bed room and fooled around for a while. It got to like 2am and i had to work the next morning. I told her i had to leave, and it first it started all innocent, like aww i dont want you to leave kinda shit. That went on for like 5 mins. I started putting my shoes on, and thats when it started getting weird. she jumped down on the floor and took my shoes away from me.

At this point it was still a little funny, but i was getting pissed at the same time. I kept asking her to give me my shoes until finally i just took them. That snapped the bitch into a rage or something. She jumped on my back and was telling me i wasn't going any where, and she wasn't saying it in that cute little voice any more. This was full on fucking bitch was going to kill me type yelling.

I was flipping out by this time. I walked by into her room, with the bitch still on my back and i threw her onto her bed. She literally skipped across her bed and landed on the other side and i just booked it. I left one of my good shirts there, but i didn't give a shit any more at that point.

There was one good thing about her, the pussy was fucking AWESOME she was a freak, and would do ANYTHING.

[leobond001]

[quote=THEONE;38329138]


lol, well me and that girl had talked online for a while and decided to finally meet. She had me come over to her apartment, and she was going to cook me dinner. Well it was going pretty good, we ate, and then went in the bed room and fooled around for a while. It got to like 2am and i had to work the next morning. I told her i had to leave, and it first it started all innocent, like aww i dont want you to leave kinda shit. That went on for like 5 mins. I started putting my shoes on, and thats when it started getting weird. she jumped down on the floor and took my shoes away from me.

At this point it was still a little funny, but i was getting pissed at the same time. I kept asking her to give me my shoes until finally i just took them. That snapped the bitch into a rage or something. She jumped on my back and was telling me i wasn't going any where, and she wasn't saying it in that cute little voice any more. This was full on fucking bitch was going to kill me type yelling.

I was flipping out by this time. I walked by into her room, with the bitch still on my back and i threw her onto her bed. She literally skipped across her bed and landed on the other side and i just booked it. I left one of my good shirts there, but i didn't give a shit any more at that point.

There was one good thing about her, the pussy was fucking AWESOME she was a freak, and would do ANYTHING.

you should fooled around some more and put her to sleep and then left:goodjob:

[Barefoot]

me and my girl/wife hooked up on myspace back in the day.

[BluesClues]

[quote=THEONE;38329138]


lol, well me and that girl had talked online for a while and decided to finally meet. She had me come over to her apartment, and she was going to cook me dinner. Well it was going pretty good, we ate, and then went in the bed room and fooled around for a while. It got to like 2am and i had to work the next morning. I told her i had to leave, and it first it started all innocent, like aww i dont want you to leave kinda shit. That went on for like 5 mins. I started putting my shoes on, and thats when it started getting weird. she jumped down on the floor and took my shoes away from me.

At this point it was still a little funny, but i was getting pissed at the same time. I kept asking her to give me my shoes until finally i just took them. That snapped the bitch into a rage or something. She jumped on my back and was telling me i wasn't going any where, and she wasn't saying it in that cute little voice any more. This was full on fucking bitch was going to kill me type yelling.

I was flipping out by this time. I walked by into her room, with the bitch still on my back and i threw her onto her bed. She literally skipped across her bed and landed on the other side and i just booked it. I left one of my good shirts there, but i didn't give a shit any more at that point.

There was one good thing about her, the pussy was fucking AWESOME she was a freak, and would do ANYTHING.
OMG!!!! :eek:
I really don't think I want to do online dating now anymore :no: That story scares me lol

[THEONE]

[QUOTE=THEONE;38329138]


lol, well me and that girl had talked online for a while and decided to finally meet. She had me come over to her apartment, and she was going to cook me dinner. Well it was going pretty good, we ate, and then went in the bed room and fooled around for a while. It got to like 2am and i had to work the next morning. I told her i had to leave, and it first it started all innocent, like aww i dont want you to leave kinda shit. That went on for like 5 mins. I started putting my shoes on, and thats when it started getting weird. she jumped down on the floor and took my shoes away from me.

At this point it was still a little funny, but i was getting pissed at the same time. I kept asking her to give me my shoes until finally i just took them. That snapped the bitch into a rage or something. She jumped on my back and was telling me i wasn't going any where, and she wasn't saying it in that cute little voice any more. This was full on fucking bitch was going to kill me type yelling.

I was flipping out by this time. I walked by into her room, with the bitch still on my back and i threw her onto her bed. She literally skipped across her bed and landed on the other side and i just booked it. I left one of my good shirts there, but i didn't give a shit any more at that point.

There was one good thing about her, the pussy was fucking AWESOME she was a freak, and would do ANYTHING.


damn thats crazy haha, damn i bet you would have been killed in your sleep if you had stayed there...and why does it look like i posted this story in other replies to this post haha

[BluesClues]

^^^ Or broke his ankles like that movie (can't remember the name of it right now) lol

[THEONE]

^^^ Or broke his ankles like that movie (can't remember the name of it right now) lol

dolores claiborne :D

[bdydrpdmazda]

Ive met with females to get the booty that Ive met online but there was never any dating involved, strictly meet hump and split. Does that count?

[leobond001]

Ive met with females to get the booty that Ive met online but there was never any dating involved, strictly meet hump and split. Does that count?

craigslist:goodjob:

[YoTa_BoX]

Funny thing was, that was the first black girl i was with. Now im all like @_@ ok that black girl is pretty, but is she crazy O.o

[BluesClues]

Wow, you can make booty calls with random people online? What has this world come to :???:

[BluesClues]

Funny thing was, that was the first black girl i was with. Now im all like @_@ ok that black girl is pretty, but is she crazy O.o
Not all of us black chicks are crazy :screwy::no:

[YoTa_BoX]

Not all of us black chicks are crazy :screwy::no:


ha ha i know, But its one of those first time bad impression that leaves a bad taste in your mouth * no pun intended *


She did taste good though >.>

[BluesClues]

ha ha i know, But its one of those first time bad impression that leaves a bad taste in your mouth * no pun intended *


She did taste good though >.>

Me 2 :yes:

[YoTa_BoX]

Me 2 :yes:


Well, any time you need a lickinn, my tongue is there for the stickin :goodjob:




Not sure what it is, but i LOVE to eat a girl out :D

[BluesClues]

Well, any time you need a lickinn, my tongue is there for the stickin :goodjob:




Not sure what it is, but i LOVE to eat a girl out :D

:goodjob:

[THEONE]

Well, any time you need a lickinn, my tongue is there for the stickin :goodjob:




Not sure what it is, but i LOVE to eat a girl out :D

hahahahahahahahaaha

[YoTa_BoX]

:goodjob:


Just let me know :D

[BluesClues]

Just let me know :D
So I'm gonna need your availability please!




Damnit where is my pussy eating application?! I need 1 STAT!

[AirMax95]

It is hard enough meeting quality people in person. The dating websites really give the crazy people a chance to hide their issues. DO NOT WANT!

Next time a chick tells you that you can't leave....well, you did good, lol!

Eating out random chicks from the internet is scary.....use Plastic Wrap for oral protection. It may taste good, but your tongue is decaying, lol.

Craigslist contains AIDS.

BluesClues: That is awesome, keep it up!

MySpace hookups are safer, becuase usually the persons page tells a lot about them.

/useless waste of time between data pulls......

[BluesClues]

So I keep reading a lot about dating on myspace. I might actually try that. I have my page set to private because of my pics, but I can just keep my pics private and set my page to public.

[YoTa_BoX]

So I'm gonna need your availability please!




Damnit where is my pussy eating application?! I need 1 STAT!


Mon-thur 5pm-1am

Friday-5pm till when ever

Sat- When ever

Sunday- till 1am

[AirMax95]

I forgot all about Myspace up until Monday when someone sent a random friend request. Most of the time, people end up telling their life stories and you can guage their level of sanity.

Be careful.

[BluesClues]

Mon-thur 5pm-1am

Friday-5pm till when ever

Sat- When ever

Sunday- till 1am
I'll have my people call your people. But right now I'm gonna go nap!

[Maverick]

www.myspace.com
www.facebook.com

[LizBiz]

Not all of us black chicks are crazy :screwy::no::cheers::cheers::cheers::cheers::cheer s: Damn right!!!! The crazy ones fuk up the good dudes.

Now let me read this thread.....cuz that's all I saw :lmfao::lmfao::lmfao: REPS!!

[LizBiz]

1. I'm not paying to find someone, it's not that important
2. I don't do long distance relationships
and 3. I don't have that kind of patience.

Hell IA might as well be a damn dating site!!! People are too crazy these days for me to be meeting you online. You never know who you talking too, and that's too much work!! But I guess whatever floats your boat!!

Edit: Dayum.....WTF happened in here?!?! All ya'll needed was some webcams!!!

[Firefightin_tC]

Wait...

...there is a pussy-eating application?

Where's my PEN! I GOT PAPERWORK TO DO!

[LizBiz]

Wait...

...there is a pussy-eating application?

Where's my PEN! I GOT PAPERWORK TO DO!
I hope you packin!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Edit: for your trip back to the states in 6 days

[Firefightin_tC]

^^^ Riiiiiiiiiight....




....I know whatca mean...

:ninja:

[WTF?]

I've tried plentyoffish before. I didn't like it either because I would only meet perverts lol. I think I may be too picky for this online dating thing. I don't mind IA so much because at least I can meet this people in person and I don't have to search through profiles trying to figure out if I am interested in that person or not. I am probably better off with IA (not saying I am trying to pick anyone up) and real life lol :dunno:
:look:

[WTF?]

I heard once you go black, you never go back

[Firefightin_tC]

Actually once you go black, you can't get credit.


Just sayin'.

[ls-r teg]

lmao reps

Actually once you go black, you can't get credit.


Just sayin'.

[WTF?]

Actually once you go black, you can't get credit.


Just sayin'.
:lmao::lmao::lmao:

[FAM0U5]

Actually once you go black, you can't get credit.


Just sayin'.
I know what you mean!!
I was told I had some flavor for a brown dude, and I wish I got that black dick tho but hell nah Im stuck with bad credit. I have the magic stick I can hit it once but cant hit it twice...

[a lil spin off of ralphie may skit, tho modded]

[BluesClues]

1. I'm not paying to find someone, it's not that important
2. I don't do long distance relationships
and 3. I don't have that kind of patience.

Hell IA might as well be a damn dating site!!! People are too crazy these days for me to be meeting you online. You never know who you talking too, and that's too much work!! But I guess whatever floats your boat!!

Edit: Dayum.....WTF happened in here?!?! All ya'll needed was some webcams!!!

I've got one ;)
lol

[BluesClues]

Hey what does my credit have to do with anything? Don't be trying to change the subject

[Firefightin_tC]

I've got one ;)
lol

x2!

[leobond001]

IA speed dating event

[AirMax95]

IA speed dating event

100 lame ass leg humpers, 2 cute girls, and 5 gila monsters.

DO NOT WANT!

[BluesClues]

IA speed dating event

I would love to try that :goodjob: lol

[Firefightin_tC]

And IA sexiest black man of 2009 in the house!

WOOO!

[BluesClues]

^^^ pics? :ninja:

[leobond001]

100 lame ass leg humpers, 2 cute girls, and 5 gila monsters.

DO NOT WANT!

:D:D probally.

[Firefightin_tC]

http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/justin.basnight?ref=profile

[BluesClues]

What's 5 gilas monsters? :???:

[leobond001]

What's 5 gilas monsters? :???:

ugly women with std's
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gila_monster

[BluesClues]

^^^^^ ewwwwwww

[00CelicaGT]

So, I'm curious to know who has, who hasn't, and who has tried to do online dating. I will admit about maybe 3 years or so ago, I tried an online dating website. It didn't last long because 1. they are so lame, 2. I ended up finding someone anyway, and 3. I'm not paying for that shit!
Do you think it's ok to find someone online?
Is the individual desperate for dating online?
If you have dated online, was it successful?

Discuss


i personally have never tryed online dating but i think dating online is a sign of desperation. if ur a good looking girl/guy that isnt a nut case, has a good head on ur shoulders, and u have selfrespect then u shouldnt have a problem meeting guys/girls. i also feel that if u go searching for someone u most likely are going to find someone u DONT want i.e (crazy, abusive, or just dont care about u). i have dated a lot of girls but most were already friends of mine, i have also dated girls that i have met at the mall, parties, etc.... it never worked out cuz they werent who they portrayed themselves to be at the time u first met them.

id rather stick to wat has worked for me in the past, but im not knocking the people who do participate in online dating.

[BluesClues]

^^^ That's a good thought. But I was curious to know and I tried it. Half the damn people on that shit are crazy or just plain weird :yes:

[03RCode]

Dead serious reply:



Internet dating is just weird to me. If you can't find someone IRL, then you're most definitely doing something wrong.

[BABY J]

Online dating is okay - I don't see a problem with it. In fact, it's a convenience. I get to disqualify you from the comfort of my own house w/out spending money on dinner. ;) Also - if you are very busy then it definitely makes things easier as well.

[BluesClues]

Dead serious reply:



Internet dating is just weird to me. If you can't find someone IRL, then you're most definitely doing something wrong.
Not necessarily always the case. I meet tons of men daily, and am asked out almost damn daily. I am just picky! So online dating really doesn't work for me although I have tried it before (didn't last long).
But that's me

[BluesClues]

Online dating is okay - I don't see a problem with it. In fact, it's a convenience. I get to disqualify you from the comfort of my own house w/out spending money on dinner. ;)
Weren't you supposed to do something like that? :thinking:

[03RCode]

Not necessarily always the case. I meet tons of men daily, and am asked out almost damn daily. I am just picky! So online dating really doesn't work for me although I have tried it before (didn't last long).
But that's me



I didn't necessarily mean dating the first thing that came along, finding someone IRL means finding someone you actual like, not just someone in general.

[BluesClues]

^^^ Gotcha!

[BABY J]

Weren't you supposed to do something like that? :thinking:

That's what women think - and that is fucked up. It's not the 1920s anymore and those days are basically done. LOL.

Personally, when I meet a woman in person or online I like setting up the coffee date. 1) coffe is cheap - I don't blow $40 on a stupid bitch. 2) coffee is quick - if there is no connection I can "man up" long enuff to get a coffee down before I split. 3) if there IS a connect, coffee is a great "start" - u can always say "hey, let's jut go grab a bite so we can finish talking". Coffee allows a lot of "escape routes" if needed.

[BluesClues]

That's what women think - and that is fucked up. It's not the 1920s anymore and those days are basically done. LOL.

Personally, when I meet a woman in person or online I like setting up the coffee date. 1) coffe is cheap - I don't blow $40 on a stupid bitch. 2) coffee is quick - if there is no connection I can "man up" long enuff to get a coffee down before I split. 3) if there IS a connect, coffee is a great "start" - u can always say "hey, let's jut go grab a bite so we can finish talking". Coffee allows a lot of "escape routes" if needed.

I had a feeling you were going to interpret that wrong. I mean weren't you supposed to do that for a certain someone you told *nudges* wink wink

[BABY J]

OH!!!!!!!!!! LOL


Yeah - she fell off the radar. What has she been up to anyway?

[BluesClues]

OH!!!!!!!!!! LOL


Yeah - she fell off the radar. What has she been up to anyway?
Oh she's fine! You know, just chillin

[FAM0U5]

this thread is still kicking?

[Slow Motion]

Online dating is cool. I like what J said about coffee too. I have had good experiences with online dating. I met a girl on accident that I was talking to online we were both pleased with what we saw and did that day.

[PSINXS]

Dead serious reply:



Internet dating is just weird to me. If you can't find someone IRL, then you're most definitely doing something wrong.

x10

[BABY J]

It has nothing to do w/ not being able to meet people when you're out. Online I can sort through hundreds of potential people in minutes. You can't do that when you're out. Online I can take 10 mins outta my night to look at and talk to people on MY time... where in person people can interrupt OTHER shit I am doing (like getting gas or shopping) just b/c they want the cock. It's a kool scene - not to mention, comedy to laugh at a lot of the online profiles.

[AirMax95]

i personally have never tryed online dating but i think dating online is a sign of desperation. if ur a good looking girl/guy that isnt a nut case, has a good head on ur shoulders, and u have selfrespect then u shouldnt have a problem meeting guys/girls. i also feel that if u go searching for someone u most likely are going to find someone u DONT want i.e (crazy, abusive, or just dont care about u). i have dated a lot of girls but most were already friends of mine, i have also dated girls that i have met at the mall, parties, etc.... it never worked out cuz they werent who they portrayed themselves to be at the time u first met them.

id rather stick to wat has worked for me in the past, but im not knocking the people who do participate in online dating.

QFT!!!! I thought I was the only one who experienced that shit. You go months having a good time kicking it, then her ass morphs into her true self.

I'm going to start giving polygraphs for chicks these days. Simple questions that SHOULD allow me to see their true form.

Damn psycho women:2up:

[BluesClues]

this thread is still kicking?
Yep!!!! Like the View, it's a hot topic lol :goodjob:

[BluesClues]

QFT!!!! I thought I was the only one who experienced that shit. You go months having a good time kicking it, then her ass morphs into her true self.

I'm going to start giving polygraphs for chicks these days. Simple questions that SHOULD allow me to see their true form.

Damn psycho women:2up:

Not only women! :no:
This is a common problem amongst everyone! I've somewhat (at least I think so) figured out one of the reasons this phenomenon may occur.
Some guys when they first start dating a female, they do things like open the door, pull out the chair, bring flowers just because, send random sweet text messages to let the girl know that they are on their mind, call just to say hi, or rub your back after a long day. After a while of dating, that shit just stops! So then we are left here like WTF?! Why don't you do those sweet things for me anymore?
My point is, not only do women show their true selves eventually, but so do men!
The message of this post is: when you first meet someone, you are not actually meeting that person, you are meeting their representative!

[AirMax95]

Not only women! :no:
This is a common problem amongst everyone! I've somewhat (at least I think so) figured out one of the reasons this phenomenon may occur.
Some guys when they first start dating a female, they do things like open the door, pull out the chair, bring flowers just because, send random sweet text messages to let the girl know that they are on their mind, call just to say hi, or rub your back after a long day. After a while of dating, that shit just stops! So then we are left here like WTF?! Why don't you do those sweet things for me anymore?
My point is, not only do women show their true selves eventually, but so do men!
The message of this post is: when you first meet someone, you are not actually meeting that person, you are meeting their representative!

I heard that shit....

Me, I open doors, pull out chairs, and all the other chivalries 24/7. With me, if I stop, it means you are on the way out:lmfao:

One girl told me she acted this way becuase she thought I was marriage material, so she wanted to "act" like wife material. I almost lost my natural born mind!

[BluesClues]

I heard that shit....

Me, I open doors, pull out chairs, and all the other chivalries 24/7. With me, if I stop, it means you are on the way out:lmfao:

One girl told me she acted this way becuase she thought I was marriage material, so she wanted to "act" like wife material. I almost lost my natural born mind!
Acting doesn't last long!!! That's why I am myself (at least I try to be) from the jump and if someone doesn't like it, OH WELL!!!
I tell people often "get it how it comes." Meaning either you can accept the fact that I burp, that I'm really goofy and have lame moments, that I talk a lot and sometimes a little too loud, that I complain, that I'm spoiled (spoiled but not a princess :no:), and that I am affectionate, or you can get the hell on. Either way, I'm gon be good! lol :goodjob:

[leobond001]

Not only women! :no:
This is a common problem amongst everyone! I've somewhat (at least I think so) figured out one of the reasons this phenomenon may occur.
Some guys when they first start dating a female, they do things like open the door, pull out the chair, bring flowers just because, send random sweet text messages to let the girl know that they are on their mind, call just to say hi, or rub your back after a long day. After a while of dating, that shit just stops! So then we are left here like WTF?! Why don't you do those sweet things for me anymore?
My point is, not only do women show their true selves eventually, but so do men!
The message of this post is: when you first meet someone, you are not actually meeting that person, you are meeting their representative!

because you get comfortable with that person. it happens in marriges to and thata why ppl complain about the spark not being there. it becomes mundane and routine basically

just curious, if you are picky, what do you like in a guy?

[BluesClues]

because you get comfortable with that person. it happens in marriges to and thata why ppl complain about the spark not being there. it becomes mundane and routine basically

just curious, if you are picky, what do you like in a guy?
I feel that if people just be themselves from the beginning (don't get extreme with it though), then there won't be any surprises.

What do I like? That is actually really hard for me to answer. I basically just like for a guy to be himself. I like certain things with certain guys, but everyone is different. Every guy I've ever dated have all been so very different from the other. But I do have certain criteria that I look for like: can hold good and intellectual conversations, well spoken, has a job, a car, motivated, good hearted, good listener, good sense of humor, family oriented, GOD fearing, and good looking. These must be present (not all at once, but most) in order for me to really consider a relationship with them. I don't think that is asking for too much since these have been common traits I've found amongst many guys :yes:

[AirMax95]

I feel that if people just be themselves from the beginning (don't get extreme with it though), then there won't be any surprises.

What do I like? That is actually really hard for me to answer. I basically just like for a guy to be himself. I like certain things with certain guys, but everyone is different. Every guy I've ever dated have all been so very different from the other. But I do have certain criteria that I look for like: can hold good and intellectual conversations, well spoken, has a job, a car, motivated, good hearted, good listener, good sense of humor, family oriented, GOD fearing, and good looking. These must be present (not all at once, but most) in order for me to really consider a relationship with them. I don't think that is asking for too much since these have been common traits I've found amongst many guys :yes:

...add "can pass a polygraph".

I am going to start a dating service that offers psych exams and polygraphs, as well as check ups and STD testing, lol!

[BluesClues]

^^^ Multi-billion dollar company lol

[BluesClues]

I feel that if people just be themselves from the beginning (don't get extreme with it though), then there won't be any surprises.

What do I like? That is actually really hard for me to answer. I basically just like for a guy to be himself. I like certain things with certain guys, but everyone is different. Every guy I've ever dated have all been so very different from the other. But I do have certain criteria that I look for like: can hold good and intellectual conversations, well spoken, has a job, a car, motivated, good hearted, good listener, good sense of humor, family oriented, GOD fearing, and good looking. These must be present (not all at once, but most) in order for me to really consider a relationship with them. I don't think that is asking for too much since these have been common traits I've found amongst many guys :yes:

Oh and I also like a guy that is honest! I hate dishonesty. That is literally one of my pet peeves. If you can't be honest about something. Then just don't say anything at all :no: Don't lie to me! Easiest way to get on my 86 (I'm done with you) list :yes:

[jhadleyh]

blues clues it appears to me that you are horny 24/7....am i correct or no because the only posts i see you replying to are the ones related to sex lol

[BluesClues]

blues clues it appears to me that you are horny 24/7....am i correct or no because the only posts i see you replying to are the ones related to sex lol
You are wrong. Feel free to look at my posts and threads under my profile. You will see that I am all over IA :yes:

[jhadleyh]

^^^your prolly right


i kid i kid

[BluesClues]

It's cool!

[FreeMyndz]

I mean not bragging and all, I do get hit on constantly, but I'm a little picky (if having standards is considered picky). When a lot of guys look at me, they see big tits and pretty face. Of course they automatically want to fuck. I want a good guy because I am a good girl. It's hard finding those type of men these days


ALL guys wanna smash love...just gotta sift through the ones that ONLY wanna smash and ignore them...wanting sex is a natural thing that you shouldn't immediately dis a dude for...see what his motives are.

cliffs: you'll NEVER find a man that don't want your milkshake...check for motives and shifty behavior

[BluesClues]

ALL guys wanna smash love...just gotta sift through the ones that ONLY wanna smash and ignore them...wanting sex is a natural thing that you shouldn't immediately dis a dude for...see what his motives are.

cliffs: you'll NEVER find a man that don't want your milkshake...check for motives and shifty behavior
You have a very good point! :goodjob:
Thanks for you insight!
Reps

[FreeMyndz]

After reading the entire thread I wanna add another thing

Just like you're picky, the dude MAY not like what HE sees. Even if you're "pretty and have big boobs"(that aint even CLOSE to enough for a REAL dude) he MAY not be that into you and dunno how to tell you...so he gets the draws and plays the "game" until shit gets rocky...some men don't get much action, so as long as you're giving up the panties, he's gonna stick around...

ever heard the expression...

"women fake orgams, men fake whole relationships"

unfortunately this is true on a few occasions...

[BluesClues]

After reading the entire thread I wanna add another thing

Just like you're picky, the dude MAY not like what HE sees. Even if you're "pretty and have big boobs"(that aint even CLOSE to enough for a REAL dude) he MAY not be that into you and dunno how to tell you...so he gets the draws and plays the "game" until shit gets rocky...some men don't get much action, so as long as you're giving up the panties, he's gonna stick around...

ever heard the expression...

"women fake orgams, men fake whole relationships"

unfortunately this is true on a few occasions...
Not sure what this applies to :no:
I don't have the problem finding guys, I have a problem finding a "good man." I'm sure it takes more than good looks and big boobs! Never said ANYTHING about that working in my favor :no: Don't know what in the hell you read

[FreeMyndz]

Sorry, I didn't mean for it to be offensive to you personally...just sayin thats not all that guys who actually WANT a long-term GF look for...I'm sure they're nice tho...lol

I realize I may also be speaking for myself...

just more tr00f luv...no beef

I wrote about this in a blog...click on "FreeMyndz" in my sig and it'll take you to my myspace page...read thru that *and add me*

[BluesClues]

Sorry, I didn't mean for it to be offensive to you personally...just sayin thats not all that guys who actually WANT a long-term GF look for...I'm sure they're nice tho...lol

I realize I may also be speaking for myself...

just more tr00f luv...no beef

I wrote about this in a blog...click on "FreeMyndz" in my sig and it'll take you to my myspace page...read thru that *and add me*
lol. It's cool. I understand what you are trying to say. Just thought you were aiming it at me. Kinda got a little p'd for a moment, but it's all good!

[LizBiz]

ALL guys wanna smash love...just gotta sift through the ones that ONLY wanna smash and ignore them...wanting sex is a natural thing that you shouldn't immediately dis a dude for...see what his motives are.

cliffs: you'll NEVER find a man that don't want your milkshake...check for motives and shifty behavior

REPS!!!! Now that's the damn truth. If the first thing someone wants to talk about is sex, an alarm should go off in ur head LOL. *run*

I had a thought. Online dating allows you to learn a person's personality first. When irl it takes a lot more time. Even though its easier, I still don't think I could do it.

People say a lot of stuff online that they wouldn't say irl. IA is a prime example. Hell this thread is a prime example of that lol. Some of ya'll talking the talk in here, but don't walk the walk irl. Just sayin.

Either way, you don't REALLY know what ur getting yourself into until you meet them irl. So its really not a big time frame difference. IMO.

[BluesClues]

REPS!!!! Now that's the damn truth. If the first thing someone wants to talk about is sex, an alarm should go off in ur head LOL. *run*

I had a thought. Online dating allows you to learn a person's personality first. When irl it takes a lot more time. Even though its easier, I still don't think I could do it.

People say a lot of stuff online that they wouldn't say irl. IA is a prime example. Hell this thread is a prime example of that lol. Some of ya'll talking the talk in here, but don't walk the walk irl. Just sayin.

Either way, you don't REALLY know what ur getting yourself into until you meet them irl. So its really not a big time frame difference. IMO.
This is so very true!
Repped!

[FAM0U5]

this thread had come a long way hasn't it?

but the fact that has been made most social sites or fourms are only what 10% to 30% made up lies? can't really base anything off the internet, or even real life... all there is left to do is be open and putting yourself out there. The best thing I thought of is and that's if you could; but date your best friend who better than anyone to know you best? but that's a whole new subject... and of course them being of the oppisite sex or whatever floats your boat :goodjob:

[BluesClues]

this thread had come a long way hasn't it?

but the fact that has been made most social sites or fourms are only what 10% to 30% made up lies? can't really base anything off the internet, or even real life... all there is left to do is be open and putting yourself out there. The best thing I thought of is and that's if you could; but date your best friend who better than anyone to know you best? but that's a whole new subject... and of course them being of the oppisite sex or whatever floats your boat :goodjob:

:no: Bad idea in my opionion. That's how I lost 2 of my best friends because the relationship did not work. Things just aren't quite the same anymore :cry:

[Firefightin_tC]

^^^ Hence why I keep my 'girl' friends at arms length.

Once you the true "Friend-Zone" (And it does exist!)....you never leave.

[BluesClues]

^^^ Hence why I keep my 'girl' friends at arms length.

Once you the true "Friend-Zone" (And it does exist!)....you never leave.
That is so true :yes:

[Elbow]

I met my girlfriend off www.okcupid.com on accident, I was on there dicking around and sent her some random message, been together happily every since. I made fun of everyone who was on dating websites and such too but hey..haha

[BluesClues]

^^^^ Oh how sweet, I think :thinking:

[Elbow]

^^^^ Oh how sweet, I think :thinking:

Lol why do you think? Is this meeting people online or like dating online? We live together now, we texted for a few days, talked, then met up, so it's not a INTERNET only relationship lol, THAT to me is stupid.

[BluesClues]

I was talking about your comment about dicking around on the internet and running into her on accident and making fun of others that online date lol

[BluesClues]

So I wanna talk about how these ****** in my complex being pushing up on me HARD! Even when I am in my night clothes lol. There is this one dude I just run from now because he seems so desperate at times and he will not take no as an answer! I mean I do have certain things I look for in a person (can't remember the name of it right now lol) and he def doesn't have it! :no: It's to the point he is making me feel uncomfortable. Him and his homeboy be trying to holla at me on the regular. Like every damn time they see me lol. I keep lying and saying I have a boyfriend, but the other lives in my complex and watches my door like a hawk because he calls me out on it. He told me "how come I don't ever see any dudes come over here? You say you have a man, but I don't ever see him." I be lying my ass off like "oh, well I go see him a lot and I work often so he doesn't really come over here." I've started having guy friends come by every once and a while hoping he will think they are my boyfriend lmao! He is watching me man! WTH?! He's gon make sure I'm his girl if he has anything to say about it. I hope he doesn't result to just beating me down until I give up. The fact he watches me that much scares me :cry:

[BluesClues]

Oh, and he is always chillin around the apartment so I am always having to pass by him! I can't escape him lol

[FAM0U5]

Oh, and he is always chillin around the apartment so I am always having to pass by him! I can't escape him lol

Well if you can cook me dinner everynight Ill be over lol..:goodjob:
But if you think things are getting out of hand call the cops or something, better yet get mace just in case.

[BluesClues]

Well if you can cook me dinner everynight Ill be over lol..:goodjob:
But if you think things are getting out of hand call the cops or something, better yet get mace just in case.
Cook every night a bit much, what about at least twice a week?
Mace might be in the plan :goodjob: lol

[FAM0U5]

Cook every night a bit much, what about at least twice a week?
Mace might be in the plan :goodjob: lol

twice a week... hmm ok Im sold, were do I sign up? lol
and the mace; do that for sure, but cant you complain about the guys to your complex? such as sexual harassment or whatever?

[BluesClues]

twice a week... hmm ok Im sold, were do I sign up? lol
and the mace; do that for sure, but cant you complain about the guys to your complex? such as sexual harassment or whatever?
Well, I hope it's not that serious. They just seem really horny lol. Unless I can make a complaint about horny guys pushing up on me :dunno: Plus this complex is starting to go down hill. The people that are renting here recently are how do you say....... a little ghetto. The place is nice, but the people :eek:

[FAM0U5]

Well, I hope it's not that serious. They just seem really horny lol. Unless I can make a complaint about horny guys pushing up on me :dunno: Plus this complex is starting to go down hill. The people that are renting here recently are how do you say....... a little ghetto. The place is nice, but the people :eek:

you didnt my question... :thinking:

[BluesClues]

^^^ Check your pm

[EL42]

that online dating just isn't for me. i'd much rather make a friend online. if she's cool and we make it to the next level,great,if not that's cool too. sometimes i feel like danny glover in lethal weapon"I'M GETTIN' TOO OLD FOR THIS SHIT" lol

[BluesClues]

lol

[FreeMyndz]

yeah, I'm down for meeting (going thru personalities, pretty pics,etc) online (setting it up), but after that, its gotta be personal...

never thought about it that way...good shit...

[BluesClues]

yeah, I'm down for meeting (going thru personalities, pretty pics,etc) online (setting it up), but after that, its gotta be personal...

never thought about it that way...good shit...
Huh? :???:

[BABY J]

^^ You want me to say it in French? LOL

[FreeMyndz]

huh what? I don't mind meeting someone online,but after that all correspondence must be made on the phone, in person, and the occasional IM...

we clear?...lol

[BluesClues]

huh what? I don't mind meeting someone online,but after that all correspondence must be made on the phone, in person, and the occasional IM...

we clear?...lol
I understand that. I don't understand what you never thought about before

[FAM0U5]

I understand that. I don't understand what you never thought about before

I wonder what factors in people's minds... people say I want her for her mind over her body and such but is it true? I understand Im on IA and I wont get the 100% truth out but atleast Ill get something... just a thought.

[BluesClues]

I wonder what factors in people's minds... people say I want her for her mind over her body and such but is it true? I understand Im on IA and I wont get the 100% truth out but atleast Ill get something... just a thought.
That comment can be very true and the reason I say can is because it depends on the situation. In order for there to be a first attraction, there has to be something physical that initially draws that person (assuming they meet in person) into the other. Maybe the same for online as well, because I looked at their pics and then looked at their profile to see if I like them. I'm sure I'm not the only one who does that. But then if you meet someone online without seeing what they look like and you like them based on convo then yes it is possible.

[FreeMyndz]

I voted yes, but I guess I really never dated someone online...

not to sound likea net n3wb, but people really DATE online? I guess I never considered the definition. I thought online dating was MEETING people online then being around that person AFTER you meet for the first time..

lol...so again? how hoes one DATE online?

I'm pretty silly and I have a WICKED imagination so I imagine people too scared to come out from behind a screen so he/she send someone an e-coffee and e-donuts...then they graduate to going out to eat at e-Ruths Chris...call me crazy, but that IS pretty gh3y...can I change my vote?

wow, thats insensitive...

p.s.- is that the purpose of things like 2nd life?!?!?
p.p.s- NOT clowning, just curious...

[BluesClues]

I voted yes, but I guess I really never dated someone online...

not to sound likea net n3wb, but people really DATE online? I guess I never considered the definition. I thought online dating was MEETING people online then being around that person AFTER you meet for the first time..

lol...so again? how hoes one DATE online?

I'm pretty silly and I have a WICKED imagination so I imagine people too scared to come out from behind a screen so he/she send someone an e-coffee and e-donuts...then they graduate to going out to eat at e-Ruths Chris...call me crazy, but that IS pretty gh3y...can I change my vote?

wow, thats insensitive...

p.s.- is that the purpose of things like 2nd life?!?!?
p.p.s- NOT clowning, just curious...
:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:: lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:

You had the interpretation right the first time. Meeting someone online and then getting to know them in person. I didn't know I had to break it down in real detail, but there it is lol

[AirMax95]

:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:: lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:

You had the interpretation right the first time. Meeting someone online and then getting to know them in person. I didn't know I had to break it down in real detail, but there it is lol

Shawty, what yo name is?

[BluesClues]

Who wants to know?

[AirMax95]

Uh, me....lol?

Soooo, shawty what yo name is? What it is shawty, what it is!!!!?

[BluesClues]

Uh, me....lol?

Soooo, shawty what yo name is? What it is shawty, what it is!!!!?
Talking like that = fail!!!
I don't entertain ignorance lol

[AirMax95]

Geez, take all the fun out of it.

"Now baby girl had dumped me. She no longer wants me. I'm no longer hired, she said that I've been fired "








In recent news facebook dating proves to be better than Myspace, E-Harmony, and all others. Live chat is where its at, lol. I'm going to find my diamond in the rough one way or another.

/scarcasm

[BluesClues]

Geez, take all the fun out of it.

"Now baby girl had dumped me. She no longer wants me. I'm no longer hired, she said that I've been fired "








In recent news facebook dating proves to be better than Myspace, E-Harmony, and all others. Live chat is where its at, lol. I'm going to find my diamond in the rough one way or another.

/scarcasm
LOL! Awwwwwww baby!

[AirMax95]

Would this day end already!!!



One minute I held the key
Next the walls were closed on me
And I discovered that my castles stand
Upon pillars of salt and pillars of sand



LOL! Awwwwwww baby!

Now that sounds sexy, LMAO!

[BluesClues]

LMAO!!!!
My day is not over by far :no: Ive got to go to work at 5:45. So my second half of the day is about to start for me

[AirMax95]

I'm about to leave my office now and go to Vino Libro for a meeting.

My day is officially OVER! The rest is business/pleasure.

What does th second half hold for ya? Dating chat rooms open, lol?

[BluesClues]

I'm about to leave my office now and go to Vino Libro for a meeting.

My day is officially OVER! The rest is business/pleasure.

What does th second half hold for ya? Dating chat rooms open, lol?
If you read my post you would have noticed I said I have to be to work at 5:45 :rolleyes:

[AirMax95]

If you read my post you would have noticed I said I have to be to work at 5:45 :rolleyes:


:eek:

I choose to miss that:cry:

[BluesClues]

I see that :yes:

[leobond001]

^^^^^^^^^^ ohh fysty:crazy::crazy:

[FAM0U5]

whats going up in here?

[BluesClues]

That's what I want to know :yes:

[streethondar]

i have a hard time finding a single girl that is in to import tuners. So i think IA should offer a date section. Would be very kick a**!

[leobond001]

Excitement, thats what it is. lol

[BluesClues]

i have a hard time finding a single girl that is in to import tuners. So i think IA should offer a date section. Would be very kick a**!
I agree :yes: :goodjob:

[FreeMyndz]

i have a hard time finding a single girl that is in to import tuners. So i think IA should offer a date section. Would be very kick a**!

...or cars period...

just seems to be difficult to find a chick thats into cars...

I third that motion...IA dating...

[Ms Dollar]

I met my husband on here, so I would say that I am pro meeting people online. Doesn't work out for everyone, but happened to work out for us =)

[BABY J]

I met my husband on here, so I would say that I am pro meeting people online. Doesn't work out for everyone, but happened to work out for us =)

You tell 'em baby! Love ya. See ya at the house.

J'son:idb:

[Ms Dollar]

You tell 'em baby! Love ya. See ya at the house.

J'son:idb:

:lmfao:

[BluesClues]

I fourth that notion lol

[LizBiz]

i have a hard time finding a single girl that is in to import tuners. So i think IA should offer a date section. Would be very kick a**! That's a bit of a FAIL plan, seeing how the first thing a IA guy wants tell a girl is "tits or ban". It would be hard to get SERIOUS people involved.

[EL42]

That's a bit of a FAIL plan, seeing how the first thing a IA guy wants tell a girl is "tits or ban". It would be hard to get SERIOUS people involved.

damn thats so true. and it is still to be determined what the first thing an IA woman wants.:2cents:

[LizBiz]

damn thats so true. and it is still to be determined what the first thing an IA woman wants.:2cents: I can only speak for myself, and THIS IA woman does not want to be limited to anything that starts with a F or a S and ends with an k or a x :goodjob:. It seems to me the younger IA women start the most negative drama. Just an observation, and there are some exceptions of course lol. I think the negative female impact has not helped the situation in any way, just makes it worse.

[BluesClues]

^^^ I totally agree! But, even with the immature females on here, there are 3 times more immature males on here. It's hard to weed out the good guys

[FreeMyndz]

I think it could work...

1. Start something that shows a serious side...complete with "profiles", etc...make it like Myspace where you can ignore the blatant idiots if you so choose...

2. call it "speed" dating where the main stem of your "customer base" are into...(at the risk of sounding lame) speed, cars, trux, motors, car culture, "things that motivate @ the speed of life", car shows,TV shows about automobile culture, etc...(you see where I'm going here I hope)

3. Guerilla/viral marketing...on car-related forums

4. Gain membership

5. Sell ad space

6. Profit...lol

more ideas? I think we should get something started...(be willing to help out for free)

[BluesClues]

Doesn't sound like a bad idea to me, but that's my opinion. Others may feel that that would be lame or what have you :dunno:

[BABY J]

You mean like...

http://www.importatlanta.com/forums/showthread.php?t=160314

[CasadeWaffle]

car forum dating....whoaaaaaaaa

I think it takes the fun/excitement/sponteneity/risk out of asking a girl out in real life and getting to know her...just seems like the easy way out...imo

And I might add I have dated a couple girls I met on sites like facebook and whatnot and those profile pics can trick your ass!!!

[FreeMyndz]

You mean like...

http://www.importatlanta.com/forums/showthread.php?t=160314

lol...basically...


car forum dating....whoaaaaaaaa

I think it takes the fun/excitement/sponteneity/risk out of asking a girl out in real life and getting to know her...just seems like the easy way out...imo

And I might add I have dated a couple girls I met on sites like facebook and whatnot and those profile pics can trick your ass!!!



Yeah, part of me says its cheating, but what will it really hurt?

a. you continue to be a loser...OR

b. you meet a cool person who you dont mind being around...

I vote for B...

[BluesClues]

You mean like...

http://www.importatlanta.com/forums/showthread.php?t=160314
I just bumped that old ass thread too, but not a thread that is started in the whoreslounge and real section

[BluesClues]

I've dated two guys from this site. Neither of them were successful obviously, but it is nice dating someone who has the same interest as you and can teach you and show you things on the side. It's like dating a friend (which I've done too and don't recommend)

[BluesClues]

So, I am finding out how hard dating is in general. I think I have maybe given up hope in finding a good guy.

[THEONE]

So, I am finding out how hard dating is in general. I think I have maybe given up hope in finding a good guy.

affffff,dont give up.... just stop lookin.sounds dumb i know but when the time is right it will happen. sounds corny i know just give it time and dont be so quick to judge the guys your goin out with,just enjoy being single and dating and give it time... have fun!!

[BluesClues]

affffff,dont give up.... just stop lookin.sounds dumb i know but when the time is right it will happen. sounds corny i know just give it time and dont be so quick to judge the guys your goin out with,just enjoy being single and dating and give it time... have fun!!
My problem now is finding guys who don't have EX GIRLFRIEND DRAMA! I swear the last two guys I have dated (including one guy I was semi interested in) either decided to get back with their ex's or is close to getting back with them. I mean WTF?! I guess when guys meet me something about me makes them want their ex back :???:. I know I am sick of it :cry: So another Saturday night alone

[FAM0U5]

My problem now is finding guys who don't have EX GIRLFRIEND DRAMA! I swear the last two guys I have dated (including one guy I was semi interested in) either decided to get back with their ex's or is close to getting back with them. I mean WTF?! I guess when guys meet me something about me makes them want their ex back :???:. I know I am sick of it :cry: So another Saturday night alone

Well clues that is one way to look at it...


But I see that your making assumptions based on old situations [not saying it's bad] however, every situation is different so is every guy. For example in my case: Me and my ex had to what I thought was a "mutral" break-up. We of course remaind friends everything was fine for the fact either of us was "seeing" or "hanging" out with anyone new. But once A new person was introduce and was "into me". She gave chased just because she knew that someone else wanted what she had.. therefore causing complications

and with that being said it's not you clues that is the problem you were just viewing it from one angle but of course there are factors that gives you your reasons.

[LizBiz]

My problem now is finding guys who don't have EX GIRLFRIEND DRAMA! I swear the last two guys I have dated (including one guy I was semi interested in) either decided to get back with their ex's or is close to getting back with them. I mean WTF?! I guess when guys meet me something about me makes them want their ex back :???:. I know I am sick of it :cry: So another Saturday night alone The good guys are always butt hurt about an ex. They are good guys what do you expect? They give more than they recieve, and a not so good girl will take advantage of that. Just look at it this way.....the more you look for something you've lost....the less likely you will be able to find it. You always see shit when you're not even looking for it, then when you go looking for it it's gone. Those BOYS that want to go back to their ex's and STILL talk to you....are assholes. BOYS like that waste your damn time, them and the ones that talk to you when they KNOW they doing something else on the side, but wasting your time by keeping you available. Don't even worry about guys, there is nothing a BOY can do for you that you can't do for yourself. To the assholes....their loss. :cheers:

[LizBiz]

Well clues that is one way to look at it...


But I see that your making assumptions based on old situations [not saying it's bad] however, every situation is different so is every guy. For example in my case: Me and my ex had to what I thought was a "mutral" break-up. We of course remaind friends everything was fine for the fact either of us was "seeing" or "hanging" out with anyone new. But once A new person was introduce and was "into me". She gave chased just because she knew that someone else wanted what she had.. therefore causing complications

and with that being said it's not you clues that is the problem you were just viewing it from one angle but of course there are factors that gives you your reasons.I don't understand that. Why are you going to break up but still get mad when you want to date someone else.....like what's the point of even breaking up? And when you do start dating someone else, you are wasting their time cuz you still trying to get with ur ex. :no:

[FAM0U5]

The good guys are always butt hurt about an ex. They are good guys what do you expect? They give more than they recieve, and a not so good girl will take advantage of that. Just look at it this way.....the more you look for something you've lost....the less likely you will be able to find it. You always see shit when you're not even looking for it, then when you go looking for it it's gone. Those BOYS that want to go back to their ex's and STILL talk to you....are assholes. BOYS like that waste your damn time, them and the ones that talk to you when they KNOW they doing something else on the side, but wasting your time by keeping you available. Don't even worry about guys, there is nothing a BOY can do for you that you can't do for yourself. To the assholes....their loss. :cheers:

So much anger in that post..

[LizBiz]

So much anger in that post.. Yeah...........that feels better lmao!!! I just been in that situation before, so I know how she feels :lmfao: got a little carried away. But I did make a point didn't I?

[BluesClues]

The good guys are always butt hurt about an ex. They are good guys what do you expect? They give more than they recieve, and a not so good girl will take advantage of that. Just look at it this way.....the more you look for something you've lost....the less likely you will be able to find it. You always see shit when you're not even looking for it, then when you go looking for it it's gone. Those BOYS that want to go back to their ex's and STILL talk to you....are assholes. BOYS like that waste your damn time, them and the ones that talk to you when they KNOW they doing something else on the side, but wasting your time by keeping you available. Don't even worry about guys, there is nothing a BOY can do for you that you can't do for yourself. To the assholes....their loss. :cheers:
Girl believe me I feel ya to the tenth power! Yeah it is their loss, but damn how many losses will I have to witness? lol

[BluesClues]

Yeah...........that feels better lmao!!! I just been in that situation before, so I know how she feels :lmfao: got a little carried away. But I did make a point didn't I?
:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:
Girl I wasn't going to say anything, but yeah I did sense a little frustration :yes:

[LizBiz]

http://bartergreen.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/32q__dsc7190_waescheleine.jpg

woops.... that's never good hehehe:rolleyes:

[BluesClues]

^^^ LOL

[95alty]

Airing out that laundry huh... well blue.... IM SINGLE!!!!

[BluesClues]

^^^ Awesome :goodjob:

Me 2 :cry: lol

[95alty]

I know im kind of late but i have done speed dating also. Its fun but you meet psychos and crazy women. One chick actually just wanted to fuck right there... me being who I am i turned it down :)

[95alty]

Lets go out and have single drinks :) i enjoy long walks on the beach if that helps

[BluesClues]

Lets go out and have single drinks :) i enjoy long walks on the beach if that helps
:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:
I think this has become like an automatic response for every guy on earth!
What beach do you live by that you take long walks on? lol

[BluesClues]

I know im kind of late but i have done speed dating also. Its fun but you meet psychos and crazy women. One chick actually just wanted to fuck right there... me being who I am i turned it down :)
I've wanted to try speed dating too, but I know I probably wouldn't like anyone there. lol

[95alty]

I used to live by the beach lol :( i miss it sooooo much. Nothing like the sands of Okinawa, Japan and the clear blue water of the Sea of Japan. Now thats real living right there. But hey blue, your an attractive female im sure you can find at least ONE guy to meet every search criteria. If not... maybe try females. I hear they are more emotionally attached than males

[BluesClues]

I used to live by the beach lol :( i miss it sooooo much. Nothing like the sands of Okinawa, Japan and the clear blue water of the Sea of Japan. Now thats real living right there. But hey blue, your an attractive female im sure you can find at least ONE guy to meet every search criteria. If not... maybe try females. I hear they are more emotionally attached than males

That they are! :lmfao:
Not looking to be in a relationship with a female though. Don't get me wrong, I still like girls, but I'm not interested in a relationship with one. I will continue to take my chances with guys but thanks!

[95alty]

LOL it was just an idea

[FreeMyndz]

:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:
I think this has become like an automatic response for every guy on earth!
What beach do you live by that you take long walks on? lol

well he DOES live in Atlanta, Blue...and you KNOW whats "right" next door...

http://www.discoversouthcarolina.com/scnextdoor/

so take a chance on the chap he MIGHT be telling the truth...lol


http://bartergreen.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/32q__dsc7190_waescheleine.jpg

woops.... that's never good hehehe:rolleyes:

LMAO...classic

I'm also getting bored with the whole "wait for love...it'll come to you" spiel...but I firmly believe in it too...I'm WAY picky about women on my own, so I'll let the universe pick one out for me...lol

so :cheers: to being single...(for now):ninja: