so Guys.

[JDMbabe]

advice:

so guys... do you believe the "once a cheater, always a cheater" line?

[Z0_o6]

ALLLL depends on the person and situation. However I believe that most of the time it's gonna hold true.

[quickdodge®]

I believe it's true. Later, QD.

[EL-CANGRI]

ALLLL depends on the person and situation. However I believe that most of the time it's gonna hold true.










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[Echonova]

Yes

[JDMbabe]

atleast you guys are being honest. most guys i know that have cheated on me deny thats true. haa

[JEY$JDM]

I dont deny it! But I dnt think Id cheat again.... LOL wtf?

[DynamicSound]

I believe that for most it is true, but not all. I cheated a lot when I was in my teens and early 20's. The last time I cheated was when I was 22...so 7 years I have never cheated on anyone.

[tinkolby_25]

i think it has alot to do with maturity level

once you reach it you wont cheat, but some people never reach it

[JDMbabe]

well some people have different opinions on what cheating is...
and thats why they do what they do. its just stupidity

[On_Her_Face]

No but I do believe that every pair of tits comes with a gaping hole of need.

[JDMbabe]

i think it has alot to do with maturity level

once you reach it you wont cheat, but some people never reach it


amen. i believe a real man should not cheat and if he is unhappy then leave her and go about your life... dont cheat AND THEN break up with your woman.

[black_e92]

ALLLL depends on the person and situation. However I believe that most of the time it's gonna hold true.

I agree with this STI asshole.

[JEY$JDM]

I got teh nudz a JDMbabe! Had to cheat ta get em...

[JDMbabe]

excuse meh?

[JEY$JDM]

hahahaha Just Kidding...





























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[Julio]

Yes.

But I call it Sharing not Cheating.

Cheating sounds so Dirty.

[JEY$JDM]

lol

[tinkolby_25]

amen. i believe a real man should not cheat and if he is unhappy then leave her and go about your life... dont cheat AND THEN break up with your woman.

nahh dawg thats girls and guys

and we all know most girls never really ever mature

[JEY$JDM]

nahh dawg thats girls and guys

and we all know most girls never really ever mature

Yeah... chicks n dudes cheat. Its not just a guy thing...

I wonder what sex cheats more? Male or Female?

[On_Her_Face]

Female, cause they are weak.

[JDMbabe]

male.. duh!

[JEY$JDM]

Female, cause they are weak.
:cheers:

[JDMbabe]

i guess im strong, cause i aint never cheated on any guys... never felt the need to get attention from someone else.

[Crazy Asian]

girls.

[JEY$JDM]

i guess im strong, cause i aint never cheated on any guys... never felt the need to get attention from someone else.

ORLY?

[JDMbabe]

um yes...

[silversol]

yes

[4dmin]

Its depends on your situation. Sometimes a man has a good woman and doesnt realize how good his woman is. He ends up cheating on her, and then the girl really lets him see and know what he cheated on. Sometimes a real man will realize this and really come back and not cheat again on his significant other. A man sometimes will realize what kind of hardship it is not to have that woman that he loved, the woman that cared for him, and that woman that was there for him. He will do everything he can to let you know that you are the one. If you feel what he is doing is true, then he probably wont cheat again, but thats all about the man himself. I cant speak for all men. If you can see the dedication he is trying to come back to you with, then you may have something.

[tinkolby_25]

Its depends on your situation. Sometimes a man has a good woman and doesnt realize how good his woman is. He ends up cheating on her, and then the girl really lets him see and know what he cheated on. Sometimes a real man will realize this and really come back and not cheat again on his significant other. A man sometimes will realize what kind of hardship it is not to have that woman that he loved, the woman that cared for him, and that woman that was there for him. He will do everything he can to let you know that you are the one. If you feel what he is doing is true, then he probably wont cheat again, but thats all about the man himself. I cant speak for all men. If you can see the dedication he is trying to come back to you with, then you may have something.

troof reps

[Z0_o6]

Its depends on your situation. Sometimes a man has a good woman and doesnt realize how good his woman is. He ends up cheating on her, and then the girl really lets him see and know what he cheated on. Sometimes a real man will realize this and really come back and not cheat again on his significant other. A man sometimes will realize what kind of hardship it is not to have that woman that he loved, the woman that cared for him, and that woman that was there for him. He will do everything he can to let you know that you are the one. If you feel what he is doing is true, then he probably wont cheat again, but thats all about the man himself. I cant speak for all men. If you can see the dedication he is trying to come back to you with, then you may have something.

You put that a little better than I did, but yeah that's exactly right. :goodjob:

[JDMbabe]

hm.. makes a lot of sense... thanks for the advice ! +reps

[JEY$JDM]

Yeah.. makes sense fa'sho! REP! That is exactly right..

[JDMbabe]

now i know what im working with.

[JuStCrUzIn]

amen. i believe a real man should not cheat and if he is unhappy then leave her and go about your life... dont cheat AND THEN break up with your woman.

like you just said. "a real man" not a little boy. dont know whats going on with you but it sounds like you got....... a little boy.:2cents:

[On_Her_Face]

i guess im strong, cause i aint never cheated on any guys... never felt the need to get attention from someone else.

Or nobody would give you the chance to cheat?

[JDMbabe]

hahah theres no need to. bereak up with them atleast... AND if i offend anybody... im sorry?

[WTF?]

its true

[Dracc]

well.. I havent cheated on anyone.. well.. I was told I cheated on her.. but we were broken up and I got with someone else.. and she considered that cheating.. if I feel the need to cheat i'll let the other person (mygirl) go.. no need in hurting someone because i can't control my urges..

[JDMbabe]

im done with little boys... i havent seem to have found the right person that wont hurt me... so im planning on having tonza funz lulz

[Dracc]

dont catch nothing while having tons of fun.. I tend to date women older with my.. my unborn son's mother is like years older then me.. women my age and younger dont have there heads on straight.. Like they look at me and what I drive and all they see is money and a good fucc.. true when I was in atlanta thats all I was about but I'm a man of simple things.. we all go through the stage where all we want is sex but we out grow it.. I love my wife to be .. and I fight for her everyday.... it just take that one person to change your out look..

[collins]

Yeah... chicks n dudes cheat. Its not just a guy thing...

I wonder what sex cheats more? Male or Female?
thats a damn good question... i may spin off a poll based on this question.

[JDMbabe]

it is a good question, BUT there are like 95% of guys on this forum and i think we may already know what the outcome will be.

[JDMbabe]

dont catch nothing while having tons of fun.. I tend to date women older with my.. my unborn son's mother is like years older then me.. women my age and younger dont have there heads on straight.. Like they look at me and what I drive and all they see is money and a good fucc.. true when I was in atlanta thats all I was about but I'm a man of simple things.. we all go through the stage where all we want is sex but we out grow it.. I love my wife to be .. and I fight for her everyday.... it just take that one person to change your out look..

well im not looking to fuck around... just to go out to parties, do whatI wanna do.. i didnt deserve the shit i went/go thru so i have to separate myself from the bad and go have some me time and not give a fuck. ;)

[collins]

it is a good question, BUT there are like 95% of guys on this forum and i think we may already know what the outcome will be.
check out the poll... it has several options. its not opinionated ;)

[Dracc]

well im not looking to fuck around... just to go out to parties, do whatI wanna do.. i didnt deserve the shit i went/go thru so i have to separate myself from the bad and go have some me time and not give a fuck. ;)





your young.. you will learn every relationship is a learning experience trust me.. I dated a chicc thats on here and she was like 24 or 25 at the time.. and I was 18 yeah i'm that good looking lol.. but anyway.. I thought I was in love and the fact is.. i was just in love with the situation.. even though she was ashamed of me ( because of my age and didnt want anyone to know who i was and who she was dating) and the fact that everytime we were in public other chiccs would hit on me and ask me for my number.. because she was puerto rican and older and I looked like I was out of place.. I let that and other factors dictate my situation.. do i regret it.. NO because I learned from it.. and another thing.. just because YOU want to hang out.. from a mans point of view.. you see how many guys lust after you on the internet.. IA alone... you might have the intention of hanging out and chilling.. but you know what ever guy you chill with.. in the bacc of his mind his goal is to break you and get in them pants.. trust me your will is not that strong.. I've broken all of them.. from the church girl who chose to be celebate for 5 years before she meet me.. to the virgin who wore a promise ring for her dead mother that she would not loose her virginity until she was married..with the right smile :D.. words.. and a few touches. i'll have the panties on my wall :idb:

[JDMbabe]

hahahahahahh. thats too funny, dude i guess that makes sense... i dont see how a guy has a girl best friend... some i can see how... but all i see is an easy opportunity to get in their pants...lol

[Dracc]

hahahahahahh. thats too funny, dude i guess that makes sense... i dont see how a guy has a girl best friend... some i can see how... but all i see is an easy opportunity to get in their pants...lol

not all.. i have girls that are my best friend.. never looked at them in any other way.. and my girl knows about them.. though none of them live anywhere near me its good to put everything on the table.. EVERYTHING.. i fucced up not telling the entire truth at the begining.. and she already knew.. my girl tells me constantly to tell her the truth and I do.. but its hard when You lie about something then come months years.. decades later to try and clean it up.. ya know.. i try to tell her everything.. even if she doesnt believe me or not

[JDMbabe]

i agree. idc what it is as long as its the truth, ive lied about things but if you fucked me over broke up with me and i went and kissed some guys then oh well wtf do you have to know when we get back together... esp when they tell meh to fuck off... and as long as you gf and your bestfriend can get along, no drama, and no disrespect then fine idc... just dont take it to the next step.

[Dracc]

i agree. idc what it is as long as its the truth, ive lied about things but if you fucked me over broke up with me and i went and kissed some guys then oh well wtf do you have to know when we get back together... esp when they tell meh to fuck off... and as long as you gf and your bestfriend can get along, no drama, and no disrespect then fine idc... just dont take it to the next step.


oh no next step.. all i do is talk about my girl.. she has a 1 year old little girl that I've helped raise.. thats my daughter ( not biologically) and now she's 7 months with my little boy... all i talk about is my family and its not like me and my friends that are girls talk everyday.. they call to checc up on us.. now dont have your man on locc to where he can't have any female friends.. that will just make him want to stray even more.. :screwy:

[JDMbabe]

i always let my EX have girlfirends in the beginning b4 he cheated on meh i was scared because the girl he cheated on me with was his "best friend" so i didnt know how to react BUT all i wanted was for him to give me the attetion i needed and id be fine.... i have been cheated on before him by another guy but he always gave meh that attention i needed and never talked to them again...

[Dracc]

i always let my EX have girlfirends in the beginning b4 he cheated on meh i was scared because the girl he cheated on me with was his "best friend" so i didnt know how to react BUT all i wanted was for him to give me the attetion i needed and id be fine.... i have been cheated on before him by another guy but he always gave meh that attention i needed and never talked to them again...


you just choose young minded boys..

[JDMbabe]

im stupid. the end... i will and have learned from my mistakes for taking back a cheater... i am way too nice and forgiving.. its time to get tough and break out the whip lmao jk

[StreetHazard]

i always let my EX have girlfirends in the beginning b4 he cheated on meh i was scared because the girl he cheated on me with was his "best friend" so i didnt know how to react BUT all i wanted was for him to give me the attetion i needed and id be fine.... i have been cheated on before him by another guy but he always gave meh that attention i needed and never talked to them again...


go find you a guy that will treat you right...like the kind of cat that will get one of jacuzzi suites at the Hyatt regency downtown or something...a night and a couple of local lounges and a walk down peachtree st., good music...alot of drinks

youll forget all about that fucking dipshit from before...even if its just for one night ;)

[Dracc]

whip... hmmmm... i need pics of you and whip NOW!!!!!!!!!!

[Dracc]

go find you a guy that will treat you right...like the kind of cat that will get one of jacuzzi suites at the Hyatt regency downtown or something...a night and a couple of local lounges and a walk down peachtree st., good music...alot of drinks

youll forget all about that fucking dipshit from before...even if its just for one night ;)



sorry I'm taken:(

[JDMbabe]

true that SON! lol

[StreetHazard]

sorry I'm taken:(

I wont tell if you wont tell

[Dracc]

I wont tell if you wont tell

deal

[JDMbabe]

hahaha

[JDMbabe]

thanks to everyone for advice!