View Full Version : TODAY WOULD HAVE BEEN LEISA'S BIRTHDAY
Brett
05-28-2009, 02:44 PM
To all of those of you who knew my beloved wife Leisa, or knew of her, PLEASE think about her today... She would have been 42 today.. This is the first birthday without her.....
We all miss you boo!!! I love you!!
Sammich
05-28-2009, 02:45 PM
lickety leisa:(
*spreads sad sos on thread*
Brett
05-28-2009, 02:46 PM
I didnt even realize today was the 28th, God I feel guilty.
Sammich
05-28-2009, 02:46 PM
i miss her educated convo's on relationships
Brett
05-28-2009, 02:50 PM
true that man, everyone came to her on here for advice.... I miss her everyday. Sucks that till the day I die I will live this.
dabuilding
05-28-2009, 02:52 PM
damn man im sorry to hear that but chin up man shes in a better place
today is my older brothers birthday as well he is 32 and im about to leave to go pick him up
Sammich
05-28-2009, 02:52 PM
she was freakin genius with it..i know i look at all aspects, but she added aspects to things i never realized too...she was one of a kind
The Ren
05-28-2009, 02:54 PM
I miss her too babe..
Brett
05-28-2009, 03:00 PM
god I cant believe I forgot what today is.... I know she wouldnt be mad, I know she would understand with all the things on my mind these days, But still... I should know... I was so consumed with looking at June 7th being 8 months since she has passed, I never looked at what today is.
I am hoping no one ever forgets her and will always in some way think about her, she deserves that.
aguynamedpat
05-28-2009, 03:02 PM
Stay strong Brett, from the way you come across on here you have been dealing with it well. Keep your head up, she forgives you because she knows exactly why it slipped your mind.
Stay positive man, you will see her again one day, and she still sees you everyday.
Sammich
05-28-2009, 03:04 PM
YEA MAN DONT STRESS IT
NVEOUS
05-28-2009, 03:11 PM
I wish i could have known her. Brett stay strong man. Your doing so well
cactusEG
05-28-2009, 03:21 PM
RIP
But Happy B-day
Brett
05-28-2009, 03:22 PM
^^ Good Point, Today IS Leisa's birthday
To those of you who dont know her, and say you wish you could have met her.. I promise you one thing, she would have left a life long impression on you :)
NVEOUS
05-28-2009, 03:24 PM
I can tell she would have from all the people that say the things that they do on here.
cactusEG
05-28-2009, 03:24 PM
^^ Good Point, Today IS Leisa's birthday
To those of you who dont know her, and say you wish you could have met her.. I promise you one thing, she would have left a life long impression on you :)
Never met her, But I saw u guys some years back at import fest...
FAM0U5
05-28-2009, 03:34 PM
RIP Leisa but Happy Birthday
Echonova
05-28-2009, 03:39 PM
^^ Good Point, Today IS Leisa's birthday
To those of you who dont know her, and say you wish you could have met her.. I promise you one thing, she would have left a life long impression on you :)She wudda smacked you upside your pizzi-ass head for telling IA her age.;)
RIP :(
Brett
05-28-2009, 03:40 PM
Yeah...lol, she would have... But hey!! Thats what I get to do now, if she doesnt like it, I MORE THAN WELCOME her to come have a little chat with me tonight ;)
NVEOUS
05-28-2009, 03:41 PM
She wudda smacked you upside your pizzi-ass head for telling IA her age.;)
RIP :(
:lmfao:
The Ren
05-28-2009, 04:01 PM
She gave me permission to do it for her...
Brett
05-28-2009, 04:04 PM
I remember when she was in her coma Jaime and others would tell her if she would wake up, we would throw her the biggest birthday party ever =(
The Ren
05-28-2009, 04:07 PM
I remember when she was in her coma Jaime and others would tell her if she would wake up, we would throw her the biggest birthday party ever =(
On one hand im glad I didnt see her hooked up to all the machines even though I was at the hospital... but im sure she is smiling down on you right now.. She has a beautiful smile..
Brett
05-28-2009, 04:19 PM
Yeah some days the only way I can picture her is on all the machines, other days I picture the fear in her eyes and the sound of her voice when she yelled for me to call 9-1-1 just as she slipped into her coma as she had the stroke. I will never forget that look of fear she had or the fear in her voice that over came her. Breaks my heart.
AtifSajid
05-28-2009, 04:21 PM
I didnt even realize today was the 28th, God I feel guilty.
Dont feel guilty, I completely forgot my wifes birthday, you kknow what happens next.
BABY J
05-28-2009, 04:30 PM
Don't think of those moments --- think of the things that you have done on her bday and celebrate that you were given the time that you had.
I've never met ANY1 in my whole life that I couldn't walk away from w/out ever thinking about them again. You don't wanna know how much that sucks Brett. I think I have the looks, the career, and personality that people would love to have but I will probably die single b/c I don't know how to let people in. To have love from her and to have had love for her that long I envy you. I get the admiration from "car guys" that think I have kool projects but no1 to go for a ride w/ the top down and hold hands with and laugh with. TRUST ME... you: 1,000,000,000 me: 0. REJOICE that you were given such a blessing bro.
J'son
The Ren
05-28-2009, 04:31 PM
Don't think of those moments --- think of the things that you have done on her bday and celebrate that you were given the time that you had.
I've never met ANY1 in my whole life that I couldn't walk away from w/out ever thinking about them again. You don't wanna know how much that sucks Brett. I think I have the looks, the career, and personality that people would love to have but I will probably die single b/c I don't know how to let people in. To have love from her and to have had love for her that long I envy you. REJOICE that you were giving such a blessing bro.
J'son
A'men
Brett
05-28-2009, 04:41 PM
Don't think of those moments --- think of the things that you have done on her bday and celebrate that you were given the time that you had.
I've never met ANY1 in my whole life that I couldn't walk away from w/out ever thinking about them again. You don't wanna know how much that sucks Brett. I think I have the looks, the career, and personality that people would love to have but I will probably die single b/c I don't know how to let people in. To have love from her and to have had love for her that long I envy you. I get the admiration from "car guys" that think I have kool projects but no1 to go for a ride w/ the top down and hold hands with and laugh with. TRUST ME... you: 1,000,000,000 me: 0. REJOICE that you were given such a blessing bro.
J'son
You know, I have that same fear now though... That I will die single and never share moments with anyone again, to be honest, that scares me to death. They say to love and loose is better than to never love at all... But to that I say "try loosing the one you love" ya know? But you are right, I was blessed to have had Leisa in my life for the 10 years we were together, But I still feel and always will feel I was cheated and so was she. We had so many plans for our 10 year wedding anniversary (Would be April of next year) we had plans of what to do when her kids were out on thier own, plans to grow old together.... She was cheated a full life, and me, her kids, and friends were cheated out of life with her. :( Not a day goes by that I look over at the passenger seat as I drive the S2K and remember how much she loved riding with the top down, and how her seat is now empty.....
NVEOUS
05-28-2009, 04:41 PM
Yeah some days the only way I can picture her is on all the machines, other days I picture the fear in her eyes and the sound of her voice when she yelled for me to call 9-1-1 just as she slipped into her coma as she had the stroke. I will never forget that look of fear she had or the fear in her voice that over came her. Breaks my heart.
I can only imagine what that does to you. Hopefully in time you wont remember that. Just try to remember all the good things about her though.
Elbow
05-28-2009, 04:42 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LEISA!
I bet she still views IA from above. :)
Brett
05-28-2009, 04:44 PM
You know IA and MYSPACE were her life!! LOL
The Ren
05-28-2009, 04:53 PM
she is the only reason I wish I hadnt deleted my myspace... because of her
Brett
05-28-2009, 04:54 PM
Funny, cause she is the only reason I havent deleted mine ya know?
The Ren
05-28-2009, 04:55 PM
Funny, cause she is the only reason I havent deleted mine ya know?
exactly... I still talk to her from time to time.. we go to millers every tuesday for trivia.. and I went back one time to the funeral home and sat in the parking lot and talked to her...
Brett
05-28-2009, 04:59 PM
yeah today I went outside and stood out there looking up at the sky saying happy birthday to her, and how much we miss her.
You have gone to the funeral home parking lot to talk to her? I really appreciate you keeping her in your heart like that
The Ren
05-28-2009, 05:02 PM
yeah today I went outside and stood out there looking up at the sky saying happy birthday to her, and how much we miss her.
You have gone to the funeral home parking lot to talk to her? I really appreciate you keeping her in your heart like that
B.. come on you know me.. After the dream I had with her, she holds a special place with me.
Brett
05-28-2009, 05:04 PM
I keep wishing I would have another visit like I did the morning she passed when she said good bye, I really need her to visit me again.
The Ren
05-28-2009, 05:05 PM
I keep wishing I would have another visit like I did the morning she passed when she said good bye, I really need her to visit me again.
She will come back on her own time.. and im sure if you need advice shes there for you...
§treet_§peed
05-28-2009, 06:14 PM
I only got to hang out with her three times but every time was a trip. Happy b-day our beloved Leisa..... :(
D3UC3S
05-28-2009, 09:02 PM
Happy birthday Leisa!!!!! I miss you.............
Bert, i will see you soon!
Brett
05-29-2009, 09:13 AM
Look foward to it Nate
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