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B00STedSvT
05-26-2009, 01:21 PM
Ok so Im at one of my Best friends Birthday Party last night and Everybody is Drinkin and Having fun...I notice a Few new faces Including a Strange looking Guy standing Just about as close as he can get to my friend All night...Well Basically his Brother gets Really wasted and Slips up and says Thats his Brothers Boyfriend.....Boyfriend? Ive Known this guy since I was 10...He is Gay?..Wtf...So after kinda wandering around in my Inebriated State for a while, Me and my girl went home...I dont think Him being gay Bothers me More than Him not feeling comfortable enough to Tell me..But everybody else seems to Know about it already...Should I Confront him and Tell him It will not affect my opinion towards him? Or Should I let it go And wait to see if he ever Comes out to me...This is kind of Weird to me..But obviously It happens and People have to learn to adapt..Thas my homeboy no matter what..Im just confused right now.

B00STedSvT
05-26-2009, 02:37 PM
I Guess nobody has been in Any kind of situation like this..Oh well

amandDA
05-26-2009, 02:40 PM
i would just talk to him about it, let him know its not going to change your opinion of him or change your relationship with him. IMO

blackboi50
05-26-2009, 02:41 PM
damnnn!!! i dunno what to say bro!!.....1

AnthonyF
05-26-2009, 02:44 PM
Pinch his butt, then go from there.

-Ant.

Nikola
05-26-2009, 02:45 PM
I think that nomatter what, if he turns out to be gay then the relationship you guys had will never be the same.

nreggie454
05-26-2009, 02:45 PM
Then don't mention it. If it comes up, it comes up. Bringing it up will only make things awkward.

B00STedSvT
05-26-2009, 02:46 PM
^Tru..Ill never be able to Jokingly pinch his nipples again...Its Ruined now...Naw but on a serious note...I kind of Had a feeling for a While...Im just kinda Hurt that he has told almost Everyone except me...

AnthonyF
05-26-2009, 02:49 PM
^maybe he felt threatened by you or afraid you would laugh in his face or never speak to him again.

-Ant.

B00STedSvT
05-26-2009, 02:51 PM
Yea maybe...I just thought we were Alot closer than that...We have kinda grown distant in the past 6 months or so But i didnt really know why...I Been friends with this guy for Over Half my life

AnthonyF
05-26-2009, 02:53 PM
And in those many years, did you ever happen to say a few gay jokes in front of him? Call some1 a fag? Etc... Prob why he didn't tell yeah.

No worries though, just approach him like an adult and ask why he was afraid to tell ya.

-Ant.

TheGodfather
05-26-2009, 03:01 PM
WTF with strange capitilization?!?

B00STedSvT
05-26-2009, 03:03 PM
And in those many years, did you ever happen to say a few gay jokes in front of him? Call some1 a fag? Etc... Prob why he didn't tell yeah.

No worries though, just approach him like an adult and ask why he was afraid to tell ya.

-Ant. Well of course..We all did growing up...Shit HE was the main one Cracking Jokes..Thats why i'm so confused..It could Possibly ruin my relationship with the whole family if I try to talk to him about it.. A few people have told me Just let it go unless it Directly affects me...I don't know if this is Selfish But one of my Best friends being gay Does kinda affect me IMO...

Me86Rob
05-26-2009, 07:09 PM
give him CG evans number. i hear the lil guy is still upset over a recent break-up :ninja:

Scotsman
05-26-2009, 07:12 PM
give him CG evans number. i hear the lil guy is still upset over a recent break-up :ninja:quote of the day! epic win ,lol

BKgen®
05-26-2009, 07:15 PM
Or Should I let it go And wait to see if he ever Comes on me...


NO! GOD NO don't wait that long...

JDMJAYDC2
05-26-2009, 07:15 PM
just let it go and wait for him to tell you. If you value the friendship its his choice to tell you or not tell you

Scotsman
05-26-2009, 07:18 PM
just let it go and wait for him to tell you. If you value the friendship its his choice to tell you or not tell youQFT

Turbd4DE
05-26-2009, 07:34 PM
Pinch his butt, then go from there.

-Ant.

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Naw bro I wouldnt say anything until he brings it up 2 u.

NVEOUS
05-26-2009, 08:41 PM
I would just wait it out and see if he brings it up. He may be afraid of ruining you guys relationship and that is why he hasn't told you. But thats just my opinion.

ShaSweet
05-26-2009, 08:51 PM
Put a finger in his butt. If he gives you a reach around he is gay and has just come out of the closet. If he doesn't, you are gay and just came out of the closet.

Tech5
05-26-2009, 08:53 PM
lol at pinching his butt...ANT your making me very happy lol

RandomGuy
05-27-2009, 04:51 PM
have you ever played leapfrog with him growing up?