Hey ladies...

[Brian*]

I have a QUESTION!

My fiancee saw a picture of a naked girl on my computer history, it was a pic out of the "red light district" on here lOl...

Anyway, she handed me my ring back, told me to fuck off and not to come to her house last night. Well, she comes back in about an hour and we kinda talk things out and I end up at her house last night, I felt like I was in fucking middle school again!:screwy:
Anyway, my question is... Was I in the wrong for looking at a topless picture?
Did she have a right to give me my ring back like that after all I do for her?


And now she has been texting "someone" and deleting the text right after she sends it. I'm pretty sure its this little A&F faggot that is in "love" with her*

[teh bri]

In my personal opinion.. And Don't take it offensively I don't think guys who are married, engaged, taken and etc should be looking at another girl naked. No matter where it is, and no matter who it is. But, for her to give you the ring back was taking it a little too far, it happens. But I guess that's just her. I wouldn't go wild out and crazy like that to hand back a ring. But that's just me.

[NVEOUS]

Damn bro that shit sucks. I hope it all goes well for you.






But if they dont, you can always find a bi chick that will look with you :goodjob:

[BobbyFresco]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...

[mocha latte cupcake]

here we go: advice from JM

1st) how old is she?

2nd) no you're not wrong, granted its not like you have GIGs and GIGs of porn on your computer, there was a single picture blah blah blah.

3rd) she is obviously rather insecure if she thinks that you're either A comparing that girl to her or B wanting something else when your CLEARLY with her.

4th) Giving the ring back shows that she doesn't truly take this whole thing seriously, because (assuming is an engagement ring) thats a BIG commitment to just "give back". However, not knowing this girls past she could have a HUGE thing against porn, which some girls do. My girl gets mad when she finds a whole file devoted to asian girls :lmfao: but still we talk it out and she knows that guys are attracted to girls (or SHOULD be) but that she is the one for me and that there is nothing she has to fear. girls are like puppies. they follow you and are looking for constant reassurance that you love them, need them, and just all around care about then and are NOT looking to replace them.

FIF) girls are spiteful little bitches, they do the same thing guys do only they make sure to "hide it in plain sight" and you don't know if its really that guy or just a friend (guy or girl) that she is doing certain actions (deleting in front of you) to make it look like someone is interested in them so you better be nice. Girls assume this makes them more attractive and desired when they simply don't realize it pisses us off more. anyways, don't jump to conclusions cause it will cloud your clarity and just all around complicate things.

best of luck buddy. if you sit down and talk to her and just listen to what she has to say and set some rules or something, she should be a big enough girl to explain clearly what the problem was and how that made her feel.

hope i helped. :goodjob: -jm

[teh bri]

eh, i kinda agree with jm.. but I'd still be the one that gets mad if i see a picture of naked girl.. Now having a girl sent to your phone.. oh that's another story! woo! But good luck.. :D

[punkr6]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...

x2, things are gonna get a lot worse with this one...

[Brian*]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...


Seriously, I scroll through the RLD like once or twice a week to see whats new.. It not like I sit there and :jerkit: I'm just a fucking dude, who saw a picture on a fucking screen lol
I do everything for her... And I get treated like shit, talked to like a damn dog. Its bull shit, and the texting this is starting to piss me off

[Zodiac]

taking her ring off is a bit much. but we need more details about her

[Brian*]

here we go: advice from JM

1st) how old is she?

2nd) no you're not wrong, granted its not like you have GIGs and GIGs of porn on your computer, there was a single picture blah blah blah.

3rd) she is obviously rather insecure if she thinks that you're either A comparing that girl to her or B wanting something else when your CLEARLY with her.

4th) Giving the ring back shows that she doesn't truly take this whole thing seriously, because (assuming is an engagement ring) thats a BIG commitment to just "give back". However, not knowing this girls past she could have a HUGE thing against porn, which some girls do. My girl gets mad when she finds a whole file devoted to asian girls :lmfao: but still we talk it out and she knows that guys are attracted to girls (or SHOULD be) but that she is the one for me and that there is nothing she has to fear. girls are like puppies. they follow you and are looking for constant reassurance that you love them, need them, and just all around care about then and are NOT looking to replace them.

FIF) girls are spiteful little bitches, they do the same thing guys do only they make sure to "hide it in plain sight" and you don't know if its really that guy or just a friend (guy or girl) that she is doing certain actions (deleting in front of you) to make it look like someone is interested in them so you better be nice. Girls assume this makes them more attractive and desired when they simply don't realize it pisses us off more. anyways, don't jump to conclusions cause it will cloud your clarity and just all around complicate things.

best of luck buddy. if you sit down and talk to her and just listen to what she has to say and set some rules or something, she should be a big enough girl to explain clearly what the problem was and how that made her feel.

hope i helped. :goodjob: -jm

That was full of truth... I think her being 18 has something to do with it too... We have been together for over a year and things are just now starting to feel FUCKED UP...

[Brian*]

taking her ring off is a bit much. but we need more details about her

She tries to wear the pants in a relationship...
Her mom and sister are both a little on the bitch side... I guess she is to lol
Now she is telling me if she wants to hang out with that faggot she damn sure will... Yeah, lets see that happen lol

This is bullshit. I'm about 5min from giving up...

[mocha latte cupcake]

That was full of truth... I think her being 18 has something to do with it too... We have been together for over a year and things are just now starting to feel FUCKED UP...

yeah heres my rule for this #1 my girl is 19. we've been together for 4 months and things are great, ALLLLLL girls can keep up that sweet fun front blah blah blah then they get comfortable and drop it. AFTER a year maybe year and some change, they let it ALL out, b/c they think they got you, basically all girls have the ability to be nice and sweet 24/7 however about 10% or less actually WANT to be that way. after a year or so you'll know weather you wanna tough it through or get out. i always try to give the benefit of the doubt but when the bad days out number the good then its time to let it go.

not saying you should just be aware and don't fall for girl tricks, be a good guy and be yourself, don't assume she'll change cause only 1 out of 100 girls ACTUALLY change. :no:

i'm sure you'll make the right decision buddy :goodjob: girls that age don't know what they want and tend to be emotionally unstable (damn lolis) but yeah bro. best of luck :goodjob:

[BobbyFresco]

That was full of truth... I think her being 18 has something to do with it too... We have been together for over a year and things are just now starting to feel FUCKED UP...


That being said, you may want to seriously rethink your situation....Her mental maturity will not happen overnight....and the way things are going now, based on what you have described, it doesn't seem right....Like I said, bro...call it a day and cut your losses now before you end up making mistakes that'll cost you time and a shit ton of money....

[BobbyFresco]

She tries to wear the pants in a relationship...
Her mom and sister are both a little on the bitch side... I guess she is to lol
Now she is telling me if she wants to hang out with that faggot she damn sure will... Yeah, lets see that happen lol

This is bullshit. I'm about 5min from giving up...

These would all be deal breakers for me but that last part...Fuck that!

[Princess12]

Well, I am married and to be quite honest, I don't really care that my husband looks at porn or has images of some random naked chicks stashed on the hard drive somewhere.

My level of caring changes dramatically if the girl he is looking at is someone I/he/We know, He begins randomly talking to the individual, develops a "relationship" whether it be just a "friendship" or not, etc.

I am very much aware that he loves me and only me, and I am comfortable with that. He knows where I draw the line and where he should draw the line. It has been openly discussed.

In my opinion, her texting some random guy and having some type of "relationship" with him is far worse that staring at boobies!

[Brian*]

yeah heres my rule for this #1 my girl is 19. we've been together for 4 months and things are great, ALLLLLL girls can keep up that sweet fun front blah blah blah then they get comfortable and drop it. AFTER a year maybe year and some change, they let it ALL out, b/c they think they got you, basically all girls have the ability to be nice and sweet 24/7 however about 10% or less actually WANT to be that way. after a year or so you'll know weather you wanna tough it through or get out. i always try to give the benefit of the doubt but when the bad days out number the good then its time to let it go.

not saying you should just be aware and don't fall for girl tricks, be a good guy and be yourself, don't assume she'll change cause only 1 out of 100 girls ACTUALLY change. :no:

i'm sure you'll make the right decision buddy :goodjob: girls that age don't know what they want and tend to be emotionally unstable (damn lolis) but yeah bro. best of luck :goodjob:

That is the damn truth, the "shit" always starts around a year... Every damn girl I have ever dated has been that way. I would love to make it last with her, she is beautiful and I do (almost) everything for her, but damn the shit gets old after a while :mad:

[BanginJimmy]

time to cut your losses as things will only get worse when you are married. I wouldnt even consider marrying a girl til I was past 25. Neither you or her are mature enough to get married before then.

The possessive shit will get worse.
The offended game will get worse.
She will get far more think skinned in a fight.

None of the good things will get better, they will stay the same or fall off. Every bad aspect will get worse though.

[ALVIN]

Brian - Who's ass we gotta jump man...Im down dude

[Brian*]

Well, I am married and to be quite honest, I don't really care that my husband looks at porn or has images of some random naked chicks stashed on the hard drive somewhere.

My level of caring changes dramatically if the girl he is looking at is someone I/he/We know, He begins randomly talking to the individual, develops a "relationship" whether it be just a "friendship" or not, etc.

I am very much aware that he loves me and only me, and I am comfortable with that. He knows where I draw the line and where he should draw the line. It has been openly discussed.

In my opinion, her texting some random guy and having some type of "relationship" with him is far worse that staring at boobies!

See, thats how I though she would be! I have 0 porn pics saved on my computer, just my car builds and places her and I go...
And I would never look at another girls boobs that her or I knew. Just random ones lol

[Tasuki_Civic]

In my opinion...i wouldnt trust her ass at all. (at least from what you say)i mean really...all you saw was tits and she freaks out. wtf? and then gave the ring back over some tits? wtf?

i'd be very upset with my man if he asked for my ring back, because i looked at another mans penis out of a lil enjoyment.

i think you might need to acknowledge who you are about to be married to.

if its not marriage .........ha

[Brian*]

time to cut your losses as things will only get worse when you are married. I wouldnt even consider marrying a girl til I was past 25. Neither you or her are mature enough to get married before then.

The possessive shit will get worse.
The offended game will get worse.
She will get far more think skinned in a fight.

None of the good things will get better, they will stay the same or fall off. Every bad aspect will get worse though.

I'm 24. Big age difference but I don't think it really matters to much if the situation is right*

[BobbyFresco]

time to cut your losses as things will only get worse when you are married.

The possessive shit will get worse.
The offended game will get worse.
She will get far more think skinned in a fight.

None of the good things will get better, they will stay the same or fall off. Every bad aspect will get worse though.

Wtf mate?
You mean we finally agree on something...?:cheers:

[Brian*]

Brian - Who's ass we gotta jump man...Im down dude

He would probably piss himself lol I have already told him to take one step forward, he took ten back hahaha

[ALVIN]

He would probably piss himself lol I have already told him to take one step forward, he took ten back hahaha

I need t ocome up one tuesday and just hang out...maybe give you a tattoo. GOt anything to trade for tattoo? lol

thinkin a MM shirt or two :D

[NVEOUS]

I almost came up your way last night alvin.

[toxxxic]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

[Brian*]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

Can I clone you? :rolleyes: lol

[Princess12]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

I AGREE! 110%

[toxxxic]

& another thing, with her being so young & acting soo immature, its hard to expect anything remotely serious.

She doesn't realize how hard it is to find a good guy (you sound like you're not half bad and actually want to be serious, unlike the other 99% of men) yet, and she's just taking you for granted. If I found a guy who bought me a ring & honestly wanted to be with me, shit! He can look at whatever the hell he wants lol

[NVEOUS]

Can I clone you? :rolleyes: lol

x2

[NVEOUS]

& another thing, with her being so young & acting soo immature, its hard to expect anything remotely serious.

She doesn't realize how hard it is to find a good guy (you sound like you're not half bad and actually want to be serious, unlike the other 99% of men) yet, and she's just taking you for granted. If I found a guy who bought me a ring & honestly wanted to be with me, shit! He can look at whatever the hell he wants lol

Now im in love with you






























I keed i keed or do i?:ninja:

[PURP]

This is why I love my wife. She'll look at porn with me. Point hot chicks out to me while walking down the street. everything. Honestly, Brian. DO NOT get your head jacked up over a female. As many have stated, it's all a head game. Just tell her to fuck off. I would, and have in the past. Remember, it's never wrong to let them know, you're stronger, faster, and smarter.lol... I'm gonna have to drive back up there and bring some beer. There's no better cure for anything, then some good ol' fashion, Bud.

[Brian*]

& another thing, with her being so young & acting soo immature, its hard to expect anything remotely serious.

She doesn't realize how hard it is to find a good guy (you sound like you're not half bad and actually want to be serious, unlike the other 99% of men) yet, and she's just taking you for granted. If I found a guy who bought me a ring & honestly wanted to be with me, shit! He can look at whatever the hell he wants lol

Well thank you ;) I wish I could just find a mature damn girl and settle down... But O well, we will see what happens. Till then, I will continue to look at Internet boobies :D

[NVEOUS]

This is why I love my wife. She'll look at porn with me. Point hot chicks out to me while walking down the street. everything. Honestly, Brian. DO NOT get your head jacked up over a female. As many have stated, it's all a head game. Just tell her to fuck off. I would, and have in the past. Remember, it's never wrong to let them know, you're stronger, faster, and smarter.lol... I'm gonna have to drive back up there and bring some beer. There's no better cure for anything, then some good ol' fashion, Bud.

LOL agreed. My girl does the same thing!! I love it!

[PURP]

I will continue to look at Internet boobies :D

lol...check reps

[Brian*]

This is why I love my wife. She'll look at porn with me. Point hot chicks out to me while walking down the street. everything. Honestly, Brian. DO NOT get your head jacked up over a female. As many have stated, it's all a head game. Just tell her to fuck off. I would, and have in the past. Remember, it's never wrong to let them know, you're stronger, faster, and smarter.lol... I'm gonna have to drive back up there and bring some beer. There's no better cure for anything, then some good ol' fashion, Bud.

This is true, I was with a girl a few years ago that wanted to watch porn while we had sex.. That was pretty damn sweet lol* Your wife did seem like a cool girl congrats on that catch bro :goodjob: And beer is AWESOME... I'm going to find out today about that show spot too* Ill hit you up. PM me your number if you don't mind~






















Bud :D

[Brian*]

lol...check reps

My reps = full of win :lmfao:

[PURP]

My reps = full of win :lmfao:

lol... tell her to sit on that and rotate

[toxxxic]

I think someone just got some boobies in their user cp :ninja:

[Brian*]

I think someone just got some boobies in their user cp :ninja:

:D lol :D So.. Dinner tonight? hahahahaha JK*

[mocha latte cupcake]

~checks reps~ ahem, rachel you sent them to the wrong person.... :cry:

[Mike Lowrey]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

I'm in love....

[mocha latte cupcake]

bwahahah oh god, here come the leg humps in this thread. QUICK put on your sweat pants and frumpy shirt :lmfao: REPEL REPEL

[toxxxic]

I didn't send them!! Purp did! I think :ninja: .....

And I can't reply to your pm because I'm on my phone, but I don't enjoy being played & figure others don't either! So I offer my wisdom & knowlege :)

[Mike Lowrey]

bwahahah oh god, here come the leg humps in this thread. QUICK put on your sweat pants and frumpy shirt :lmfao: REPEL REPEL

Wait...wut? :ninja:

[Brian*]

lOlOl

[mocha latte cupcake]

guys don't look else where til 1 of 3 things happen

1) you keep using, but i've got a headache tonight, or you just got a BJ LAST WEEK geez, i'm not in highschool anymore

2) you go off the deep end and start fights for no reason

3) you decide that you're just too busy for us, and can't be bothered when we wanna hang, so for all intensive purposes we consider ourselves abandon'd and free.

[Brian*]

Freedom? What...








hahaha

[Miranda]

Ok... here is my brand new 26 year old two cents:


First and foremost, y'all are too young to be getting married. 18?? Reery? I was engaged once when I was in my early 20s, and even that was a giant heaping disaster of badness. A lot of it had to do with age. She is not going to mature enough to enter into a meaningful union until she's mellowed through some life experience... and like JM said, being with her for a year is NOT enough time to really know her. ;)

As for the pr0n... a naked picture is not what's wrong here... it's the lack of communication that is really the issue here. You need to be upfront with her regarding the things that you do/are into. There's absolutely nothing wrong with indulging in some pr0n... I love it... but until you can be open with her and let her know that it's not a reflection of any problems with her, you two will not be able to function properly as a couple.

As for the ring fiasco: what she did was incredibly childish and is simply a reflection of that age/maturity issue. Before you guys say your I do's, you will need to address these emotional outbursts. Marriages are HARD work. Those kinds of provocative actions are dangerous for any couple, let alone a married one.


The texting... either nip that shit in the ass now or STFU about it. Seriously... you better lay the law down... she's being a caddy bitch.

[teh bri]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

I heart j00! :boobies:

[mocha latte cupcake]

:ninja: freedom... a word that disappears from your vocab when the titties become present in your life..

[Brian*]

:ninja: freedom... a word that disappears from your vocab when the titties become present in your life..

:lmfao:

[ALVIN]

I need t ocome up one tuesday and just hang out...maybe give you a tattoo. GOt anything to trade for tattoo? lol

thinkin a MM shirt or two :D


That soounds like an awesome deal

[Z0_o6]

just walk away. any chick that wants to play head games isn't worth the trouble. i've been with my g/f for 4 1/2 years now, she looks at porn with me, we openly talk about all that stuff. its no big deal to her because she is secure in the fact that we are together.

[toxxxic]

Freedom doesn't always dissapear when the titties appear.

[mocha latte cupcake]

not always, most of the time. unless you happen to be that lucky guy who gets a easy and happy girl. but we all know those girls only exist in a far away land.... known only as. heaven :lmfao: unless you're claiming to be one of them. :ninja:



did you fall from heaven :lmfao: OH MY GOD THAT WAS TERRIBLE :lmfao: but seriously....




sigh that was bad. and not even meant to be seen, except that i don't think when i type i just free wheel and sadly that came to mind :lmfao: minus points for me :lmfao:

[Mike Lowrey]

:ninja: freedom... a word that disappears from your vocab when the titties become present in your life..

:lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao:
Troof

[FAM0U5]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

This thread makes a lot of sense, and now I have to rethink my position in the relationship Im am in..

EDIT: I've have been with my girl for 5 years or so and we are engaged.

[Ed]

Fuck that shit. Take the ring, pawn it, buy car parts = great success.

I have a ton of naked girls on my phone and my gf's seen it she didn't say anything. She knew better if she said anything I'd pop that bitch on her mouth so hard she'd have trouble speaking for a week. Lolol

Seriously though if she said anything about it I'd tell her to deal with it or leave.

I hate shady bitches like that walk away man. From PERSONAL experience.

[BobbyFresco]

Ha...I think the general consensus is that you either
A. Have to set her straight now and take the lead in this relationship OR
B. Call it a day and go about your way....

Small issues now can be huge indicators as to what you have to look forward to in the future....Just the fact in itself that she made such a big broohah over some pics of some random chick online while she's telling you that she can and will hang out with some guy would be reason enough for me to be about my business....

[ksniperfox]

do what bobbyfresh says. dump her. too immature.

[stillaneon]

She tries to wear the pants in a relationship...
Her mom and sister are both a little on the bitch side... I guess she is to lol
Now she is telling me if she wants to hang out with that faggot she damn sure will... Yeah, lets see that happen lol

This is bullshit. I'm about 5min from giving up...


Walk away. Bobby hit the nail on the head.

Looking at a girl that you will never meet nor have a chance with, is completely different than her doing something that she knows makes you uncomfortable.

Fuck, tell her to keep the ring and call it a day. You do not want to go any further.

I have been here. It's only leading to heartache, resentment and drama

[amandDA]

In my personal opinion.. And Don't take it offensively I don't think guys who are married, engaged, taken and etc should be looking at another girl naked. No matter where it is, and no matter who it is. But, for her to give you the ring back was taking it a little too far, it happens. But I guess that's just her. I wouldn't go wild out and crazy like that to hand back a ring. But that's just me.

agreed

[The Ren]

im a bit late on this one.. but Brian I would rethink this.. this to me honestly.. sounds like a relationship doomed for failure..

[Crazy Asian]

ditch her. She overreacted but on your take you shouldnt be really looking porn when you're really committed to a girl. That's why I say. Some girl are very insecure about guys looking at other girl naked. To them it feels like your saying "Oh you're not beautiful enough so I'm just going to whack off to this hot one." But on her part throwing the ring at you and texting another guy...I'd putt her out the door.

[civic95]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...

I agree 100%. Men are created with the desire to look at women (lots of women) naked. It's only instinct. I look at porn sometimes, my wife is secure enough that she doesn't care. I don't do it everyday, or have a porn addiction though. When we are in public I checkout hot girls that walk by. I don't stare, but why does it hurt to look? She does the same with hot guys. I think it's healthier to look at other women and satisfy that desire than to keep it bottled up, or only look at your significant other naked. Cause eventually you will want to see something different. I don't give a shit if your girlfriend is Megan Fox. You were given eyes for a reason. Just because you look doesn't mean you're going to fuck them. You both sound too young to be getting married if you ask me.

If your girlfriend/fiance won't watch a porno with you. You need to find one that will.

[Mike Lowrey]

ditch her. She overreacted but on your take you shouldnt be really looking porn when you're really committed to a girl. That's why I say. Some girl are very insecure about guys looking at other girl naked. To them it feels like your saying "Oh you're not beautiful enough so I'm just going to whack off to this hot one." But on her part throwing the ring at you and texting another guy...I'd putt her out the door.

You say that like it is a bad thing..... :lmfao:

[Buttons]

that's weird. if it is some girl you know, then i would understand her being a little mad, but to get mad over some random girl.. that's just stupid.

[toxxxic]

Lol. If your gf is insecure, I can see that. But I personally don't care because I am very secure with myself & toot my own horn all day long hahaha.

[NVEOUS]

Lol. If your gf is insecure, I can see that. But I personally don't care because I am very secure with myself & toot my own horn all day long hahaha.
Thats because your f'n HOT!!

[DieselNuts]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...
agreed 100%.

[toxxxic]

So! You don't have to be hot to be secure with yourself!

[xcodegt]

Dude, my wife just did the whole text -and-delete thing right in front of me to another guy a few months ago. Now she's pregnant with his kid.

As for the topless pic, no touch, no foul I say. If she goes off the handle over that, she won't stick with you through real rough spots in a relationship/marriage. But just my $.02

[NVEOUS]

So! You don't have to be hot to be secure with yourself!

I know this but it does help if you know you are.

[Crazy Asian]

Dude, my wife just did the whole text -and-delete thing right in front of me to another guy a few months ago. Now she's pregnant with his kid.

As for the topless pic, no touch, no foul I say. If she goes off the handle over that, she won't stick with you through real rough spots in a relationship/marriage. But just my $.02

why didnt you divorce her? Why bother putting up with her?

[BobbyFresco]

Dude, my wife just did the whole text -and-delete thing right in front of me to another guy a few months ago. Now she's pregnant with his kid.


And you still call her your wife? Wtf mate?
and I'm not trying to make light of your situation by any means but dude, that is the kind of shit you don't share on a web forum.

Fuck. Shit. Damn. I know that has to suck, brah.

[The Creeper]

I say dump the little 18 year old.

She seriously got mad over some boobies on the computer? That is some stupid shit right there. The only way that would make any sense at all is if she is an extreme bible hugger, otherwise, dump her asap.

I hope you didn't spend much on the ring, and don't you think being with someone for just a year is a little too soon to be popping the question?

[T.C.]

BobbyFresh said it first, call the whole thing off. I will tell you what happened with me. I got engaged to a girl that was 18 that had self conscious issues. She didnt like porn, didnt want me hanging out with friends that were girls, tried to control me, would manipulate any situation to her advantage, would play all the stupid little games that young girls do. She was a bitch. I ignored all the signs and still got married. We didnt last two years, hell we were in marriage counseling before 1 year. Save yourself the time, money, drama and call it off. She wont change.

[The Ren]

I say dump the little 18 year old.

She seriously got mad over some boobies on the computer? That is some stupid shit right there. The only way that would make any sense at all is if she is an extreme bible hugger, otherwise, dump her asap.

I hope you didn't spend much on the ring, and don't you think being with someone for just a year is a little too soon to be popping the question?

I dont at all

[NVEOUS]

I say dump the little 18 year old.

She seriously got mad over some boobies on the computer? That is some stupid shit right there. The only way that would make any sense at all is if she is an extreme bible hugger, otherwise, dump her asap.

I hope you didn't spend much on the ring, and don't you think being with someone for just a year is a little too soon to be popping the question?

When YOU know you know. The other person might not.

[The Creeper]

When YOU know you know. The other person might not.

I suppose, but I mean Jesus the girl is fucking 18. Most 18 year old girls are immature, annoying, psychotic, and have a lot of growing up to do, and don't even know who they are.

Now if two 30 year olds dated for a year, then got engaged, this would make more sense to me.


Carry on:2cents:

[The Ren]

I suppose, but I mean Jesus the girl is fucking 18. Most 18 year old girls are immature, annoying, psychotic, and have a lot of growing up to do, and don't even know who they are.

Now if two 30 year olds dated for a year, then got engaged, this would make more sense to me.


Carry on:2cents:

Well im 24... about to be 25.. and I can honestly say I would date a dude for long than a year and 1/2 without atleast knowing we are going to get married.. I wasted four years on the wrong man.. I wont do it again.

[Julio]

Do this...

Piss her off again, by having her see you looking at porn again. Like that she will hand you the ring back..

At that point, once you have the ring in your hand, try to hit it ...
If she lets you ( which I doubt, cause she has your balls in her pocket )

Bust a nut all over her mouth..

Wash up.. put the ring in your pocket and tell her " See you cunt "

Walk out and move on... Cut your loses.. before she finish cutting your balls off .

[Julio]

I wasted four years on the wrong man.. I wont do it again.


Why do chicks always say this?
:lmfao: :gay:

[The Creeper]

Do this...

Piss her off again, by having her see you looking at porn again. Like that she will hand you the ring back..

At that point, once you have the ring in your hand, try to hit it ...
If she lets you ( which I doubt, cause she has your balls in her pocket )

Bust a nut all over her mouth..

Wash up.. put the ring in your pocket and tell her " See you cunt "

Walk out and move on... Cut your loses.. before she finish cutting your balls off .

Holy mother of ownage.

[The Ren]

Why do chicks always say this?
:lmfao: :gay:

In my situation it was the truth.. dont get me wrong.. I dont regret it, it was a great learning experience for me.. but seriously.. after how much money my stupid ass spent.. it was wasted time.

[Ran]

My girlfriend knows that I have porn on my comp, but says she doesn't care. However, if she asks if I've looked at porn and I confirm, she gets all p*ssed. Ain't that some sh*t? lol

[99hatch]

Yeah I have to agree with most everyone in this thread. At least bring it up and talk it out with her. If she continues to throw these little tantrums end it. Step up and be the Man, and take control of the situation. Dont let some little 18 year old girl boss you around and confuse you playing stupid childish games.

[Evil Goat]

first off....you're an idiot for being engaged at this point in life....get your life figured out first then take that step

second...fuck bitches who whine about porn....

third...you shouldn't be engaged if you can't trust her


this coming from a guy who was married at 20....

[nreggie454]

Thats because your f'n HOT!!

You are fucking lame.



BOT, ditch the bitch.

[Sledlude]

um.... bitch sounds psycho. RUN. while you still can.

[LizBiz]

To the OP....If she gives you the ring back over something that petty I hate to see what's to come in the future. You are not in the wrong at all, she over reacted x10. She had no right to start texting whoever she is texting, that's just her trying to make you jealous. It's childish and dumb, but if that's what you want to spend the rest of your life with, good luck to you. I'm sure she has better things about herself which leads you to love her, just tell her how you feel about the situation.

[SlowsterCivy]

Ok, handed back the ring? That's a little bit too far. She could just be scared if she sees a naked porn star on your computer that over time you will seek other women. Personally I see that as just porn and depending on the guy if they are that type or not, which she should have done her research on the type of guy, person that you are, and your interest in porn before becoming engaged to you. That's just my two cents.